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#i have learnt it the hard way
myboredgeneration · 1 month
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I admit I was fool enough to be fed this
"When single women hit a certain age, they will be desperate to find a husband/boyfriend." BULLSHIT.
My fellow men, it's a big fucking LIE and it's made up by men with a patriarchal sight. It's an immature BOY's consolation.
The world is a different place now, and believe me it doesn't work like this👆🏻(anymore, at least) Even unemployed women in their late 30's and even 40's are not dying for marriage. They still have standards and money is not even one of them. (We LOVE to think the opposite but, sorry...) They want to see some character and more importantly, "maturity" in you. I was so immature and stupid. Now I am paying for it.
Listen to women and try to understand them. Learn women from women, not from losers in your neighborhoods.
The future is female!
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looking at the 13 era books and audios like do we have to do everything our fucking selves around here
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sammygender · 14 days
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someone just needs to tell dean winchester like. that is not how people behave. i genuinely don’t think he knows! to him that is how people behave!
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fated-normal-767 · 10 days
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love my irls to death but sometimes it’s like looking into a mystical pool to see me 2 years ago. and sometimes I think ‘if I could give me from 2 years ago some advice I’d know exactly what to say to him’ and then I give said advice to my irls and they go ‘no im not doing that lmao.’ I am trying to help you here. I am trying to help you skip 2 years of incredibly difficult realisations and recovery. and yet they all continue to refuse any help I offer. Well Fine. not my job I guess.
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paperclipninja · 8 months
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I generally don't become attached to ideas of how I would like to see characters develop or how I hope for relationships to play out, part of the thrill for me when I'm so invested in a show is letting the storytelling take me wherever it needs to without too many expectations (that's not to say that I don't still speculate and have wish lists or I'm not sometimes disappointed when the storytelling turns out to be rubbish, but I'm pretty confident we're not at risk of that with Good Omens, thankfully).
So as for the way any physical aspects of Aziraphale and Crowley's relationship unfold from here, whether there's handholding, a kiss, more, nothing else or everything else, whatever physicality there is, the one thing that will undo me more than anything overly overt would be tenderness (and a hug. I would sell a kidney for a melt-into-one-another hug so yes maybe I do have other things on my little list but that's not the point here, carry on)
It's there already, with the way Crowley softens or the way Aziraphale responds teasingly, they already relate to one another tenderly in a way neither Heaven or Hell allows and it is something angels and demons are starved of. We see the way tender interaction transforms Gabriel and Beelzebub, culminating in the moment they tenderly take one another's hands, the simple gesture exuding a love that surpasses any sense of duty or obligation.
For Aziraphale and Crowley to give themselves permission to be tender with one another, and to receive tenderness, would allow them to not just fully express their love, but to understand and believe they are each worthy of it.
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cabbi3 · 1 year
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My unfinished Diana/47 comics from last year that unfortunately I forgot their lines OTL
So i post them here and hope you guys can use your imagination to guess what are they saying
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This one is inspired by the fanfic Blueberry Muffins by @diana-fortyseven. Diana buying 47 a muffin each time they meet in person is the sweetest thing i can imagine, so why not make a comic based on that?
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And what if 47 met Diana in the Lust Assignation DLC? I have seen such headcanons of the DLC and thought it would be cool to draw them out. Btw Diana in the comic is a sinful/demonic depiction of Lust
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pro tip: If you have curly hair, do NOT cut it short, you will look like an angry cat
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hellhoundlair · 8 months
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venting sorry. i get emotional thinking of the media both me and my dad loved growing up and the father daughter bonds that were the highlights of those movies and tv shows to him and i feel like i failed
#my dad and i used to watch adventure time together and my dad LOVED simon and marcy and he learnt daddy why did you eat my fries on the#guitar and i used to sing it with him. and one time when i was 14 ish and severely depressed and anxious we had people over#and my dad was talking about adventure time lmao and was getting his guitar and wanted me to sing it with him and i just said NO.#because i was mad at him. and embarassed. and we never sung it together ever again. its been too long now. that window has closed.#but i wish we could#my relationships with my dad never really recovered after my teen years and its hard to talk to him.#i wish i could talk to him. we are really similar. in the bad ways too#vent#SORRY GUYS i need to find a therapist#my family just never talks abt their feelings. or when they do its when theyre angry. i dont feel like i can bring this up to them.#i just hate knowing i rejected my dad like that. he probably saw me not wanting to sing w him as very personal. not that hed ever say it#AND FUCKIN INTERSTELLAR me and my dad both loved interstellar at a time when i was -again- severely depressed and locking myself in my room#and the father and daughter go have scenes that feel very similar to things that were going on in my house at the time. where shes#baracading the door and not letting people in. it rly hit home is what im saying#and my dad loved the movie i loved it too but the family relationships in the movie were never discussed whenever we talked abt it#but for christmas one year my dad gave me a watch. like the one fuckin matthew mcconoughey give his daughter in the movie#and i wear it all the time. it makes me fuckin cry sometimes that stupid fucking watch. but it means so much.#i just wish hed talk abt his fucking feelings so i wouldnt need a watch to know my dad still loves me#also this post is about transitioning and my dad feeling like he lost that father daughter bond with me but we wont get into all that
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aroacettorney · 27 days
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perhaps the reason why aup ended like *that* is because it was not supposed to have a happy ending in the first place, but sayren didnt have the guts to deal with readers' backlash for when they finally kill off the main character so a half baked happy ending is what we get 😔
#for a happy ending of a story to be narratively satisfying the characters gotta actively work hard for it#this happy ending feels empty because quite frankly speaking ludger did nothing to deserve it#he has zero character developments from the beginning to the end and has always been the same#well except for his emotional state getting worse over time#bc instead of making any attempt at all to healthily address it like a mentally mature 40yo adult he let it swallow him whole#(not that im necessarily blaming him but its quite frustrating to see him remain unchanged if aup is meant to be a redemption story)#his OPness is inherent#his genius is inherent#(this is not to say he isnt hardworking / only relying on his inborn talents but the author repeatively failed the 'show dont tell' checks)#(bc it was only implied in the past and we've never truly seen it in the canon present timeline either)#his kindness is inherent#ngl dad!ludger content doesnt appeal to me as much as dad!edgeworth cuz the latter is the fruit of the character's growth and hard labor#while the former is well... its just who he is#usually i love found family content but in aup it bores my mind out bc his interactions w the students + owens are so static & predictable#it was heartwarming at the moment of adoption but later on i find it as tedious as reading generic established romantic relationships#was it because of the lack of tensions and conflicts i wonder#they all became his yes men and no one ever actively challenged his unhealthy mindset or behaviors#anyway id have been more interested if he recognized his biases/favoritism/prejudices towards some certain characters & worked to change it#but welp. that would require character growth which is too much to expect from him ig#he has learnt quite nothing from his journey and tbh aup would ironically feel more meaningful if it ended on a tragic note#ofco i got noblesse'd again 😔#would i kill for aup to have a happy ending? yes#would i rather have a sad ending over the half baked and empty good ending we get? also yes#if it must burn then let the whole world burn. cuz at least it would be more much memorable and impactful that way#and i wouldnt have to feel this disappointed and lose all of my interests in one of my only two beloved aroace MCs in aup </2#rant
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thetimelordbatgirl · 6 months
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Maybe its just me who thinks this, but if you see Diana's Death in The Crown Season 6 and your takeaway is, "William turned out well despite her death while Harry is a mess.", your fucking disgusting.
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thatnerdyqueer · 2 months
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hiding your money in a 'secure location' is a bad idea when you have object impermanence.
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As you grow older, you find that the more real you are, the smaller your circle will be. It’s better to have 1 or 2 real ones than be surrounded by fakes
- A
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evansbby · 1 year
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#I hate my dad so much#he just said the most calculatedly mean thing he could possibly say to me#it’s like he paused and thought about what would hurt me and then said it#is everyone’s dad an emotionally abusive piece of shit or is it just me#and I hate the way he treats my mom#and she’s just supposed to take it and if she even says anything to defend herself#he acts like the biggest man child and throws a tantrum#everyone in this house just walks on eggshells around him#do men just never grow up????#he’s just been so nasty towards me lately#like I just can’t wrap my head around it#like he’s been emotionally abusive for years but that’s nothing new#me and my siblings have long ago learnt to laugh and brush it off and make a joke out of it#but what he did today was so mean#I was more astonished#like imagine your own father saying something so nasty to you#I wonder if he knows that he’s alienated all of his children#and sometimes I feel so bad for him#does anyone else have this cycle of hating their dad then also feeling sorry for him???#bc I know he works so hard and I know he loves us and has done a lot for us#I know that!!!#but does that excuse his behaviour???#are we all meant to just firm it and shrug it off and just let him do and say whatever???#usually I always stand up to him and yell at him and tell him to his face whatever I have to say#but lately it’s like… what’s the point? it’s like talking to a brick wall#I will say that he does apologise to me sometimes#but what’s the point of an apology if you keep doing it again and again#and how can you say something so nasty to your own daughter#with the INTENT to make me feel bad and insecure???#I already have this thing that everyone hates me and he fed into that and said something he knew would hurt me
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ariadnesweb · 2 years
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The scene after defeating Spamton has been talked to death already, but a neat thing that occurs in it is:
You can choose how it ends. Even if you can’t choose anything else.
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-Yes, there’s different dialogue options depending on if you choose ‘Yes or No’: if you choose ‘yes’ Susie and Ralsei attempt to cheer Kris up despite our attempts to declare everything is fine. 
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And then the cutscene ends like normal, with Kris facing the 4th wall, and we regain our control over them.
(And Ralsei reveals an interesting amount of knowledge about Kris’s background...)
- And if you choose ‘no’ Ralsei shuts down an attempt to discuss what happened with Spamton. 
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(...While making suggestive comments that Kris should focus on him (the love interest) instead.)
But as the scene ends...
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Kris moves on their own to exit.
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Huh.  
Seems that choice did matter, after all.
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forestofmemories · 10 months
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i know the most uh. let’s say important matches are satoshi vs gladio and satoshi vs kukui but to be honest my fav matches aside from those are suiren vs mao and kaki vs maamane, they never fail to make me cry
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gaytomwambsgans · 1 year
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oh no i appear to have made the mistake of thinking about hermann gottlieb on zero sleep. surely this will not have repercussions on my emotional state
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