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I'm sorry if what I say is wrong in any way, I don't mean to offend you, it's just something I'm not completely sure about. Does Adam use he/they or they/them pronouns? I think I saw a post of yours where you said that Adam uses he/they, but it was a while ago and now I'm not completely sure (and I don't want to use the wrong pronouns)
I know you don't mean anything by it, but I am sad that so many of the asks I get start with people saying "I'm sorry, I don't want to offend you" or some variation thereof, followed by completely normal questions. I think I may have been responding too harshly to too many things and given the impression that I'll jump at people for being wrong...
But asking clarifying questions is always okay. I mean, it's also okay to be wrong and even offensive. What matters is if you learn from it when someone points out that it was wrong or offensive. I won't stop telling people they're saying something hurtful if they are, but I don't want that to lead people to be scared of me or something.
Correcting people is always just about correcting them, not hurting them. It's okay to need to be corrected, were all learning new things every day.
Anyways Adam uses he/they, you remembered correctly
#i dont like when people pry about personal things#especially not when it's accusatory. I'm admittedly sensitive to a lifetime of people denying my identity#people saying i dont count as bi. or nonbinary. or disabled.#and so i tend to take questions around these as people trying to 'sus me out' as a fake or something...#and I'm always going to try to explain. generally gently... how these things are hurtful to me personally#or in the case of my characters how certain things can (in my opinion) be harmful mindsets to have#but i dont carry them with me and im not mad#im just 26 and kinda tired of making myself small to make other people more comfortable.#so. if im uncomfortable ill just say jt!#and ill do my best to explain why so people can maybe learn from it#but as someone who. i talked about this recently elsewhere. as someone who has anger management issues#and unfortunately has had to deal with people i care deeply about being scared of me...#it just makes me sad to see anons being scared of me.#that's all#im not upset or anything. just trying to be a better person.#I'm learning everyday too#asks#anon
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After today’s entry, I am once again baffled by any adaptation that makes Renfield out to be some direct and obedient minion to Dracula’s whims. This guy literally breaks out the second he thinks his Lord and Master (read: Idealized Supernatural Benefactor He’s Decided Will Give Him Grisly Boons and Superpowers) is being ‘stolen’ from him and begins wailing on those he deems responsible...
...except those same guys are the ones hired specifically to carry out Dracula’s instructions of Transylvanian dirt box removal/delivery. The actual, if unwitting, minions getting paid to do his mysterious bidding. Considering Renfield’s mindset, it reads a lot less like ~protecting his Master~ and a lot more like--
Dracula, having a grand time: Well, that’s Miss Westenra taken care of, obstinate guardians notwithstanding. Oh, and here come my laborers for the earth moving! Lovely. What a productive few days this has been--
Renfield, Victorian era “Girlfriend” by Lady Avril Lavigne blasting in his head, attempting to murder the Count’s secondhand employees out of doing their job: DON’T YOU DARE TOUCH MY MAN OR HIS DIRT
Dracula, now t h i s close to having people turn up to snoop around Carfax to figure out what this guy’s problem is with the place/apologize to the homeowner and revealing his whole deal: 8)
All of which lends more weight to Renfield being less an outright Igor caricature being unduly influenced by the Count, and more like Dracula getting a taste of, How About That, Not So Fun Having a Fixated Aggro Stalker, Is It? medicine himself.
#to be clear this isn't meant as an insult to Renfield himself#he's obviously suffering his own issues with mental illness and little to nothing's being done about addressing it#beyond letting him eat bugs and birds and stuffing him in a straitjacket as a last resort#and just generally having him live out his life as-is under a magnifying glass#but at the same time we need to go back to Seward's admittedly theatrical read of Renfield's motives regarding the new Lord and Master bit#i.e.: He isn't after a savior as much as someone/something that will shower him with inhuman gifts and benefits#a feat he was already chasing with the mini turducken attempts and (after picking up some unknown hint from Dracula) human blood#he's not chasing salvation#he wants to be more/better than human and is experimenting with ways he thinks he can get there#and somehow he's mentally sensitive enough to pick up on Dracula's presence and potential#and is now literally throwing himself at the bastard trying to volunteer himself as a minion/acolyte/blood sugar baby#all while Dracula is likely weighing the options of letting him live in case of future usefulness#or just getting around to murdering him for making too much noise#and drawing the wrong kind of attention#r.m. renfield#dracula#dracula daily
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#your pretty face and electric soul#yeah listening to lana and thinking about him. won't apologize for it anymore#james spader#alan shore#boston legal#*#my mom likes the episodes where they go on trips I do too#and I like this one when alan is serious when he's really focused and bothered by injustice and invested in the case#[PSH in Patch Adams voice] this is serious! business!#it's nice to picture him thinking about real things. they show it on the show sometimes but not too much. not as much as the practice even#in this ep when he talks about his friend who survived katrina or another fave scene when he talks to his jewish friend abt ישראל#you can tell how bothered he is. about things that are wrong. about the horrible things that happen#he thinks and feels so deeply. he's so sensitive to the world and I think disturbed he can't do more. it eats at him he gets stressed#and this can be a silly show and a means for escape sometimes but idk. also nice to know he gets exasperated too#that he'd be someone safe to talk to when you get scared or angry or upset with the world#denny doesn't always listen to his serious thoughts...#I wanna sit with him on that balcony and let him talk. rub his back until his headache is gone. tell him to get enough sleep
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sweet sweet re:kinder community... I would like to ask y'all how you came upon the game and your experiences with it because i wanna know. im genuinely so curious to hear about other people's experiences and little opinions about this game because of how wild the game is (/pos) I'd love to hear it. do ramble to me about it
#re:kinder#not art#so in my case i once saw someone talk about it in a video and some scenes with the very vague context really struck with me#i was like wow...that is so sad... i wonder what goes on#but the thing is i watch videos talking about games like that ALLL THE TIME while im multi-tasking so i FORGOT FOR A YEAR?!?!?#until one day i was sick in pain on my bed could not move. and then it came to me. yes. “RE:KINDER. I SHOULD PLAY IT.” LIKE OUT OF NOWHERE#i will never understand how i dying of pain remembered a game i saw once BY NAME AT LEAST A YEAR LATER when jve heard of so many games#and you wanna know why it stuck with me. i saw in the video an image of the “as if id be reborn as a princess” line#i did not know the context but it was devastating#AND WHEN I PLAYED THE GAME when that scene game i was shocked to silence😭😭 BECAUSE I BASICALLY WENT COMPLETELY BLIND??#I DID NOT KNOW THE LITTLE KID WOULD BE THE ANTAGONIST???? AND THAT HE WOULD HAVE SUCH A SAD STORY??#like. i saw the sad coming i knew it was bound to happen yet i could have never been prepared for how hard it would hit me#I HAD TONS OF FUN but at first when i finished it i was so confused and so lost i was like welll.....what a game... TOO STUNNED FOR WORDS#then i thoughr of it for 20 minutes and bawled my eyes out and realized it was art#so when i got to my second playthrough i CRIED LIKE CRAZYYY😭😭 I WAS BLOWN AWAY IT REALLY HITS YOU#personally it admittedly hit close to home and while it made me bawl my eyes out it was also very comforting i felt very understood#AND IT WAS CRAZY FUN TOO i was not bored once the first time i played through it i was sleepy but i was so excited to keep playing😭😭#its funnt becayse i was initially apprehensive about playing cuz im sensitive to stories where sad things happen to kids#but i played it regardless because i was like “but what if its one of those scary media that hit close to home and i enjoy”#AND I WAS RIGHT. BUT NOT ENTIRELY BECAUSE I DID NOT THINK IT WOULD HIT AS INTENSELY AS IT DID😭😭 IT WAS MYCH MORE THAN EXPEVTED#many ways in which it impacted me but if i started listing them i would not shut up . so for now it is enough#IN SUMMARY WOW.. WHAY A GOOD GAME!! PLAY RE:KINDER!!!#i rambled more than i intended to i do apologize
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hey just a disclaimer, please do not send me NSFW art requests especially when my art requests are closed like they are now. I won’t answer/draw them, and recently I’ve had an unnatural flood of DM’s from blogs I don’t recognize and both anonymous and off anon ask requests framed as demands for me to draw NSFW smut. they make me wildly uncomfortable (especially since most of them are for MCYT cc!s, not even the characters) and are frankly just not something I will ever draw. I just wanted to reiterate that I am a SFW artist and will not take these requests, thank you 🙏
#rose talks#tw sensitive content#<- just in case someone doesn’t want to view this sort of topic for comfortability
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I’m gonna be honest here: Jackie is my fave female character but I would NEVER want to be friends with someone like her irl.
#that 70s show#anti jackie burkhart#not really but just in case#I love her but as someone who’s very sensitive I could not handle Jackie’s meanness#the way she treats Donna sometimes just…
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Do you feel Tess' suit is culturally insensitive?
im hesitant to say it is bc im def not the most informed but well... yeah. at the very least its very stereotypical and also really uncomfortable for a homewear/sleepwear theme.
#sleepy.ask#would love to hear from someone more informed bc i just feel like a hater rn#tbh i tend to squint at whatever paper gives us for wasteland for... obvious reasons#hester i didnt like just for the bra top but it was well received by most fans (esp saw at least one egyptian fan rly happy for it) so im#def on the sensitive side. chronic haterism really#so i mayyyy be wrong and dont wanna speak too loud in case actual native folks (which i guess is where the inspo comes from w the dreamcatc#her theme?) disagree
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Fuck WFA and all but those panels with Lucius would’ve been a GREAT moment to mention Orpheus 💔
#in case y’all didn’t know he became a vigilante in order to inspire black children#like he literally says that it’s important for ppl to see others that look like them doing the work too#then he got killed by black mask to cause Steph and Bruce trauma 🙃#and was never mentioned again#I already said it would’ve been fun if Duke at least heard of him#but with this thing about Lucius being scared for Luke#I think mentioning Orpheus specifically not just because he died but because he was basically forgotten by the bats#i think that could be great#but too many of y’all would get so sensitive about what that implies for ur faves sooooo#anyways 🙃#would be nice if someone took up Orpheus as a mantle#that’s not genuine for story purposes I just wanna see it#what IS genuine for story purposes is at least a shoutout like damn#further proof WFA writers don’t read SHIT tho#especially after that steph reading list yuck#if WFA had black writers#well first of all every black character wouldn’t have the same hairstyle#yknow what let’s leave it there#bc if WFA had black writers Duke wouldn’t be like that anyways sad#so sick of stripping black characters of their personalities to further white characters#tbh actually WFA don’t touch Orpheus it’s fine y’all wouldn’t like him anyways
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Me, opening up a packet of the stuff the vet gave me: “I hope this probiotic powder doesn’t put my cat off his food. Can’t really help with his digestion issues if he doesn’t eat it”
I spill some because my hands can have problems with stability
My cat: *licks the stuff up like a kid who just discovered what powdered sugar was*
Me: “is this flavored?”
My cat: begs me for more powder and momentarily forgets his food
Me: “this has to be flavored”
#emma posts#sometimes him getting excited about new flavors for kitties is good#but other times his love of flavor exploration will lead him to eating a food he’s allergic to#and I can’t figure out what he’s reacting to right away because he just keeps eating the thing that makes his tummy hurt#at least I stop using things I realize cause allergic reactions#you’d think a little guy who doesn’t even know what allergies are would be even more off put by them#he’s so finicky about so many random things! but he loves new foods. especially more expensive ones. and that food was more expensive#this time he is getting a food for upset hairball tummies and has been enjoying it more than his old stuff too#I just hope that him traveling back and forth between his old food at my parents house and new food here causes problems#his old man tummy is getting more sensitive than it used to be and he’s getting a different food now… hopefully. and vitamins while he gets#these probiotics to hopefully make the change easier. I don’t want to jinx it but so far it seems to be really helpful#he hasn’t even gotten one hairball since starting the hairball food! and he loves his new vitamin treats#hopefully he’ll keep doing well with the old kitty vitamin treats#I want him to get his old man vitamins#even if he’s super healthy for his age. it’s good not to get worse!#i would know. as someone who dealt with not eating enough from medication side effects#I’m better now though! I switched meds and take more vitamins just in case#anyway. eating food is important for humans and kitties if you can get it it’s important!#and if your cat doesn’t get or absorb enough food they could get permanent damage to their bodies. never let your cat go more than three#days without food! try to make sure that they eat at least every 12 hours#they might not need as much food as you. but they can get a lot sicker a lot faster than humans usually do#I can ramble on and on about cat health though 😅 I just love my little guy so much#combo of better food formulated for hairballs and not giving him an allergic reaction with the probiotics too seems to be helping a lot#i knew cheap food wasn’t usually quite as good as the slightly more expensive stuff but holy shit. since moving out and now switching food#it’s been going so well for him! maybe I should ask my family to change the other cats food. I just hope that an extra 9$ a bag isn’t#off putting for them. i feel like fewer hairballs should be a great selling point
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#shutup sensitive#i know its the case#but i wonder in moments like this#do other people feel like me#i feel like a shell of a person like the body of a person but not the being#and the being i am is like vehemently unlikeable or says things that other beings can’t understand but its like i look like them i act like#them so why dont they understand me#i feel like i understand me very well and i understand others even better than i do myself but why doesnt anyone understand me#ive been in mania for a few days and i recognize it but it really is the worst i cant even reveal in it i dont like this#my desires are so strong right now but are they actually mine or just this other addition of my selves#and if i think long on my desires rn theyre not even real but theyre so strong lol theyre so stupid though why do i need to do something#irrational why cant i just be satisfied per usual#how do i fix it how do i fix it#(time fixes it this ive learned but time is also not a friend of mine)#(i feel like time likes to toy with me and makes broken promises to me that take forever to arrive and im expecting them to not be broken so#i wait and i wait but the time just drags out and then when change arrives its like haha NOT what you wanted! i hate time)#i want to hold the hands of all the hysterical folk in my bloodline i want all the loonies to haunt me and keep me company bc i know what#they felt and i feel for them not having the knowledge and explanations for their feelings like i have and i mourn for them#thanks for passing down the brain worms to me my beloved ancestors im glad i function like you and like nobody else#anyways im pretty sure i need a phat hug#big phat arms wrapped around me and someone to pet my head#so when i get home this is what i will receive but its hours from now#and me and that old time demon :)
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Stepped onto my foot (as one does) to go shower and heard something snap in my ankle hahaha I can’t put any weight on it at all please pray for me that it’s just the shock that makes it throb and ache and not something serious 🙇🏻🤞🏼
Needless to say the shower is postponed and I’m happy I got a drink within reach cos I ain’t moving 🥲
#I cannot do this. I do not have time for an actual injury bro wtf#misha rants#it still huuuurtttssss#it’s been nearly an hour 😭#tw: injury#just in case someone’s a lil sensitive to this stuff
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it’s like. in my HEART i want to be a slutty sub bottom. however in my BODY we’ve got. ibs. emetophobia. AND vaginismus (either a fairly mild version or something else similar i don’t actually know. but there are certainly Difficulties and uncomfortable pain). plus an extremely low pain tolerance/threshold on top of it. <3
#as someone put it in a reddit thread i saw once (talking abt ibs vaginismus and in their case a sensitive gag reflex)#all holes closed for business 😔#who knows how sensitive my actual gag reflex is i’m literally too scared to even put my toothbrush too far back in my mouth#sorry for tmi posting i’m having a moment <3#personal#nsft text#idk ¯\_(ツ)_/¯#vaginismus is at least something i can work on in theory i have dilators but i never use them bc it’s a whole thing#and i never want to take them to the bathroom and clean them and stuff. and potentially have to do laundry also lmao#i thought i would more once i moved out but i still feel awkward about carrying stuff through the apartment lmao#ANYWAY#<3
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Day 13
bro did a new sekai drop??? why is there a white void sekai
whoever created it must feel even emptier than mafuyu holy cow!!!!!
i didnt want to go through mvs cuz im feeling really lazy so heres stuff from sekai.best
ALSO IM ADDING THE ONE I MADE WITH THE SPANISH CAPTIONS CUZ LOWKEY I THINK THAT ONE IS FUNNIER
oh yeah and this one
#haruka kiritani#kiritani haruka#pjsk haruka#pjsk#mmj haruka#dailyharuka#proseka#more more jump#translation in the alt btw#there was also another one but it kinda had a sensitive topic (but its pretty normalized on mainstreamed media)#but idk how comfortable people are with stuff like that#its enough for instagram to go YO!!! THATS NOT COOL!!!#so i will not post it here in case someone is triggered by it#for those who are curious its along the lines of i cant do this anymore#but just a bit more extreme#hope u got the idea#that one is also in spanish LMAO
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if toto really said something that he could only have known if he had insight from someone working for fom then it's logical that there's doubts on his wife who happens to work for fom. the only thing is that she's working for the f1 academy so she wouldn't be told anything she didn't need to know about
#in any kind of job where you work with sensitive informations you're told just what you need to know to do your job not more so#maybe not susie but someone else#but again it's normal that the suspicion fell on her first#it wouldn't be the first time something like this happen#so pulling the misogyny card straight away is a bit .... meh. imo. it's not fun to use something like this when she's herself been the#victim of misogyny. which imo isn't the case with this
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hottake of the month apparently - the discord name change thing really isn't a big deal and it's far more annoying how people keep complaining about it than, at worst, putting the numbers at the end of your name yourself good fucking lord
#mona rambles#'but mona the internet will complain about everything'#i know. that's what i'm currently doing <3#and i say this as someone who had 1312 (acab) at the end of mine. don't @ me#also the case sensitivity and special characters were annoying as FUCK when you wanted to find someone/share your own handle lbfr#bats hornet's nest etc etc but HONESTLY#you even get your display name?? like???? the solution is RIGHT THERE be so serious rn#it just. it makes SENSE yall just hm. yeah
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that finn fic i think abt all the time is dust in the wind. i can’t find it. it’s one where he basically learns the force on his own, he gets out of the first order not thru Poe but he still ends up at maz’s place and i believe the last time it updated yrs ago, he was working there?
#it’s one of the only decent finn centric fics please god let it still be out there 😭#force sensitive finn#bro im tagging this just in case someone can help me 😭#sw fic#finn sw#finn (star wars)#it’s not a ship fic but#finnpoe#sw fic rec#pls
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