#mysoginy cw

[ironicscavenger]

So, today I was diagnosed with polycystic ovary syndrome, which comes on the heals of the news I got last month that I also have a myoma in the endometrium that causes incredible pain. And, while it’s nice to finally have a name for what is happening to me, let me tell you, I am pissed.

Rant under the cut. If reproductive health issues are triggering for you, just skip it.

PS: If you’re struggling with these same issues, please let me know. I would love to hear how you’re managing the experience. Because after the anger, I am a little scared.

For starters, I have been complaining about all of these symptoms for years, and no one ever took me seriously. Now I finally was, only because I was insistant and wouldn’t let it go. It took like three visits to the doctor and multiple tests to finally get answers. But then, the treatment is nothing but a band-aid, and I was given the same old “do more exercise, eat more fruit and vegetables” bullshit solution. I feel like there isn’t something anyone can really do, and I am so tired of existing in this bullshit misogynistic world. If this disease happened to a man, you bet there’d be three different ways to fix it. But if you are looking for answers all you will get is “it is believed…” or “it is unknown…” or “some say…” or some other “unknown” explanation for why this happens, what it is, or how to fix it, because they just don’t know. And it isn’t like its just pain I have to put up with, but actual consequences, like diabetes or cancer. All terrible things that could happen to me, but their answer is “just work out more, I guess”. You are not fixing anything, you are barely managing it, and no guarantees it’ll actually work. Like fuck this! I am tired of worrying about my health because of my useless uterus and ovaries, like I don’t need this, yet it could kill me. And don’t get me started on “you need to lose weight and manage your weight, but here’s your medication: birth control with multiple side effect, one of which is, you guessed it, obesity.” Damned if I do, damned if I don’t. Like fuck it bro. Seriously, fuck this. I guess I’m just gonna live my life until one of these things kill me. I am just so tired.

[creamybunnybullet]

Today daddy had me ass up, face down drooling onto our comforter as he pounded my pussy from behind. He was up on his feet driving into me so hard while pinning me down by his fist in my hair. When he came in me I could feel it pouring into the back of my cunt. I’m throbbing just typing this.

[invisible-pink-toast]

“The woman dies.

She dies to provide a plot twist. She dies to develop the narrative. She dies for cathartic effect. She dies because no one could think of what else to do with her. Dies because there weren’t any better story ideas around. Dies because her death was the very best idea that anyone could come up with.

‘I’ve got it! Let’s kill her off!’

‘Yes! Her death will solve everything!’

‘Okay! Let’s hit the pub!’

And so, the woman dies. The woman dies so the man can be sad about it. The woman dies so the man can suffer. She dies to give him a destiny. Dies so he can fall to the dark side. Dies so he can lament her death. As he stands there, brimming with grief, brimming with life, the woman lies there in silence. The woman dies for him. We watch it happen. We read about it happening. We come to know it well.”

- The Woman Dies by Aoko Matsuda (translated by Polly Barton)

[toxicanonymity]

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[thecommunalfoolboy]

Sick of this “Men have biological physical advantages” bullshit what is this the 1950s your C- in sophomore biology ass doesn’t even know where the clit is you don’t know shit about women

[boyfeelxo]

Instagram reels account that posts "cringe" tik toks simulator:

[disabled person having fun]

[disabled person having fun]

[woman having fun]

[satire]

[ragebait]

[satire]

[disabled person having fun]

[satire]

[beau-rebloga-coisas]

Open Tumblr more news from Gaza being destroyed while I can't do nothing open Twitter more news pf USA that's going to elect a fascist open Instagram Brazil "Bible's politicians" trying to pass a bill that'll make people that perform abortion even in rape cases criminals with jail time bigger than the rapists Please Fucking Get Me Put Of Here close all social media and go watch a video they're advertising ChatGPT close my YouTube and go eat something I notice the Nestle logo and I didn't know this was a Nestle product and I didn't notice because that was the only product option of that kind don't feel hungry so I sit down silently in my bedroom with my cat and that's it

[dezertvideogames]

Playing online video games as a

black+native

Disabled

Ace lesbian

Woman

Is an experience none the least XD

However instead of spreading the known bad news of the terrible treatment of hated communities online, let me tell you the good news

I started online gaming in elementary school on Black Ops, Call of Duty 3, Mortal Kombat 9, and especially Black Ops II. (Yes, I'm young, I know)

That meant I was there, in the original cod lobbies and fighting game toxicity, on mic as a little girl. You don't want to know. I saw these communities change over time. I continued to play online games, and I continue to play to this day.

I can deliver you the good news that homophobia, racism, and especially sexism online has gone down tremendously. Yes, there's still bad apples.

Don't let those bad experienced blind you from the change though. Most now I encounter don't react or react politely to hearing my voice for the first time. A lot of those who do have a classic "a woman?????" response mean it comedically, including towards me, and leave that there. I encounter certain slurs a lot less.

Not everything is kittens and rainbows though. Transphobia in online games from my perspective has gotten somewhat worse, but even it isn't at the levels of awfulness it was last decade.

Fellow womens and queers are more common to encounter too, since gaming is becoming a collectively safer space.

So, it's getting better. Don't let the bad convince you it's worse.

[glorioustidalwavedefendor]

Statistics indicate that about six people face violence every month on suspicion of being witches in Gusiiland.

An analysis of most of the witch burning cases shows a linkage between these horrendous acts and resource conflicts in the social, political, and economic arena. Most of the victims are widows whose accusers are relatives from the families of their deceased husbands. Witchcraft accusations against widows are traceable to land scarcity, greed, selfishness, and misogyny.

Even where there was no conflict in the lifetime of the husbands, the accusations arise immediately upon the death of their husbands, with families ganging up against the widows and accusing them of witchcraft, emboldened by the community attitude and social stigma associated with witchcraft.

Once these widows are labelled and isolated, they become easy prey. As soon as the witchcraft accusation is dangled at them, it is only a matter of time before a victim of their witchcraft is identified and they are lynched. Consequences of lynching include the stigmatization of the family of the witch and forcible removal of the witches families from the area only for the accusers to appropriate themselves of the land.

These killings which target widows are also a symptom of deeper patriarchal beliefs by some people within the Gusii community that girls and women should not inherent nor own land and other property.

The broader question of girls and women s right to inherit land and other property from their parents cannot be ignored within the context of widow killings.

While most women in Gusiiland gain access to land through marriage, some community members who believe that women do not deserve to own property resort to dispossessing them by killing them.

Older people are also susceptible to accusations of witchcraft in instances where they suffer from dementia, Alzheimer s, or Parkinson s diseases.

Moreover, it is worrying that those responsible for such illegal and heinous acts go unpunished.

This emboldens would be perpetrators and encourages them to abuse, violate and kill old people in the most inhumane ways imaginable with impunity.

[creamybunnybullet]

“Get on all fours,” I heard daddy demand, the sound of his zipper following soon after. My pussy dripped; I knew what was to come.

I obeyed, of course, pressing my cheek against the mattress and offering my holes to daddy. He groaned in appreciation, and I heard the wet sound of his big hand running over his thick cock as he admired me. Then I felt his length sink into me. I cried out, rutting back against him. He laughed and began pounding me, not allowing me to set the pace.

I fought against it, but I lost my balance. Daddy wasn’t slowing down. The angle was hurting my neck and my back, but the pleasure of being used like a fleshlight was too overpowering. All at once, the slut inside me silenced any thoughts of using my safe word. I fell onto my side, my head bouncing against the headboard. Daddy was still drilling into me and I fought to keep my arch, offering him as much of my pussy as possible. His cock throbbed and twitched inside my hole, and he slapped my asscheeks.

“Your pussy loved that,” He murmured, pulling my limp body against him. I nodded. Yes, my pussy did love that.

[angrelysimpping]

Leighton would put the female students in cooking class if he could ngl

Ah, he would, the old bastard. Says that homemaking is a dying art in this day and age. It's not mandatory, but it's highly encouraged. Some rumors around school say that Leighton is more likely to let you off the hook when it comes to detention if you're in the cooking class. Might even let you do health inspections in private.

Offers extra credit to anyone taking the cooking class. You just have to go over to his home and show him what you've learned about keeping house...

[hypo-critic-al]

🌱🧡💙☀️

[I began to write this as short ask but it turned into a loooong post about my life and self-discovery, so-

TWs ahead: homophobia and transphobia, religious trauma mentions]

Oof.

Well.

It would be very funny encounter from my perspective and horrifying encounter for my past self xD

I guess religious indoctrination and sheltering, and opposing everything catholic church doesn’t agree with would cause me to cry upon learning "what I’ve gotten myself to". Heck, even if I appeared to myself from year ago, the reaction would be rather hysterical (we would throw hands xjdkwjwj) I wish I could come visit my past self, and show her how dangerous place and mindset she is in… I cannot believe how much progress I’ve actually made since then.

Oh this one’s fun!

…

To be honest, almost none, because my wardrobe didn’t gain any new clothes since when I became comfortable in my sexuality. Mainly because my parents say they don’t want to waste money on clothes and that i already have plenty (which appeal to them, not to me)

But I’m trying to come up with "queer-er" combos and more femme outfits :3

(And combined with a half heart necklace I got as a gift from my love, as well as subtle lesbian colours bracelet, again from her, I feel like I’m presenting comfortably queer to people I allow to read me as queer 🥺 )

(I’m sorry, but despite the seriousness of the matter I can’t help but laugh with joy rn how much this isn’t true anymore)

First time I got met with LGBTQ+ was in negative sense, through few words, as the hugest taboo from words of everyone around me. I saw my friends speaking in the most negative light about celebrities who came out as trans, I heard priests preaching against "gender ideology", my family shook their heads over "western bullcrap", my YouTube page was full of people explaining why being gay is against the Bible and God. It took me too much time to realise how wrong these opinions are and how deep my indoctrination was, it took a lot of long months, a lot of tears but now I feel the safest and best I’ve ever felt in my entire life, it is one of my best decisions I’ve ever done.

Of course! The greatest thanks goes to my love, @the-gay-sailor :3

She did the greatest work in helping me with my deconstruction, and I can’t truly imagine to this day how much patience and kindness, and will it must’ve took to help me so much to accept and love myself for who I truly am…

I love her so much, I’m forever grateful for everything she is… 🥺

And the fact I’m in this community on tumblr has helped me as well, the amount of us queers in the frankenfandom is truly beautiful :]

[missbrunettebarbie]

Questiong my secodary and the effects of mysoging during my childhood

Or how I figured out I am a Snake/Lion whose secondary is very, very burnt and has a Badger secondary model I really enjoy but can feel suffocating sometimes.

For the longest time I was sure I am a Snake/Lion. The Snake part is easy. Before discovering sortinghatchats, I thought everyone was some sort of Snake primary deep down. I was raised in a loyalist-heavy culture and my primary was always encouraged.

However, my Badger secondary is another story. I always suspected my secondary may be a wee bit burned so I never managed to figure it out before the sorting quiz came out. And on that quiz I got Badger secondary. It didn't feel right at first, but it didn't feel wrong either. Pottermore also sorted me as a Hufflepuff, so I figured it picked up on the Badger secondary. There are a lot of Badger secondary things I do: working hard, taking care of people and playing peacemaker is something I've always done. Something I am very good at. But I don't enjoy it. Not. At. All.

I like shortcuts! A lot. I like being frank with people. I hate being polite when well I want to do is rant and scream. I like rules, but I really enjoys breaking them when I can.

This does sound a lot like a Lion secondary, doesn't it? Except, I always thought I didn't fit the other aspects of the Lion secondary.

"I am not good at improvisions", I tell myself because my whole life someone told me I am slow-witted and narrow-minded and sometimes even stupid. And it's true. Or at least, it is now. Because I heard this so many times, I started to believe it. The few rimes when I am fast at thinking on my feet are mostly a result of my (weak) Snake secondary model (also developed as a response to abuse and trauma).

Yesterday, I had to sacrifice my true feelings in order to play nice with someone because I might need them later. And I hated it so much I had a breakdown for two hours. Which made me think that I might not be a Badger after all. I am 90% I am Lion, but my secondary was burned to a crisp because everyone (and I do mean every single family member who raised me) kept telling me it was wrong. It was bad. "You are a girl, you need to mind your manners. To be polite. To smile. You can't be overemotional. You'll get nowhere in life." Men can scream and threaten all they want, but the women need to be patient, to take care what they say and when they say. Don't upset your dad! Don't upset your grandpa! Be nice to ypur aunt and uncle! Never argue with a teacher, they are always right. Keep your mouth shut around your elders!

Basically my entire childhood, my secondary was slowly burned by the well-intentioned, but very wrong teachings of my family.

Ever since then I tried every model. A Snake model created for my dad and sometimes my teachers that I suck at using. A Bird model created after my mom's scary Bird secondary that I could never truly access to its full potenatial. And finally, a Badger model after my grandma's secondary that I could use easily, that was pretty effective for a decade and a half now.

But the best I felt was always when I could tell everyone exactly what was on my mind. When I stood by my decision even when my entire class hated me (it happened more than once xD). When I stood up for those I felt were wronged.

All of these make me think I am Lion secondary that burned very young and very badly because Lion secondaries aren't acceptable in the society I grew up nor in my family. Especially not if you are a girl.

P. S. One of the reasons I started to question my secondary is because I never really loooved/stanned a Badger secondary character yet. In fact, the characters I find most admirable and who I really envy are the Lions secondary. Unsurprising, my most beloved character ever is a Snake/Lion and so is my favourite OC who also happens to be my power fantasy.

[boatcats]

Star Wars could never live up to the promise of The Force Awakens because Disney, by its very nature, is incapable of telling a meaningful story about resistance movements led by women and POC in a way that does not cause harm to those communities and ultimately fall flat. In this essay I will ...

[theridgebeyond]

Please, do not be bullied into voting for Tr*mp this year because he’s “pro-life” he is not.

(Heads up, the following headlines aren’t pretty.)

This is n*zi shit. This is n*zi shit.