#no offense the person who made them

[bramsnumberonefanboy]

Why give Gaara/Lee the ship name of Gaalees, when you could call them Glee?

Why call Kakashi/Iruka Irukashi or Kakairuk wehnyou can call it Kaka?

Why call Kakuzu/Hidan Kakahida, Kakahidan, or Hidakaka... When u can call the ship Hizu or Kazudan????

Instead of the ship name Sasusaku for Sakura/Sasuke, how about Sasukra or something really funky like Pinkeye?

Why go with the lame-ass ship name of Kakaobi or Obikashi for Kakashi/Obito when u can use the very creative ship name Kakato, or Spiky Haired Idiots (it can also be used for many other ships like Shikamaru/Temari or Madara/Tobimara and then you can confuse the fandom)

And of course you can't forget the boring ship name Sakuino, eww so lame. Sakura and Ino deserve a great ship name, like Ikura or Inora or Rivals To Lovers™️?? It can also be used for Kakashi/Gai if you want to

[poisonousquinzel]

sorry but if you actually think Cancel Culture ™ is a thing then you're kinda a dumb fuck. Cancel culture isn't real, holding people accountable for their actions is a thing, but this whole narrative around Canceling that's evolved over the past few years isn't real. It's never been an actual thing. Its just a fear mongering tactic to further vilify the groups who were being harmed in the first place and victimize the person who did something wrong.

Your fav being called out for playing an antisemitic video game that directly gives profits to a hugely influential TERF, who's said openly she sees getting profits / royalty cheques from her franchise as endorsements for her bigotry, is not "cancel culture". It's called the consequences for your actions.

You have every right to do and play whatever the fuck you want, but that goes both ways. If you go out of your way to build up and financially support these people who're openly advocating to take away trans people's rights, then you get to deal with people not trusting you because of it. You get to deal with trans and Jewish folks not feeling safe around you, not wanting to be around you or not wanting to talk to you. Because you have shown that you care more about nostalgia and temporary personal emotional gratification over the wellbeing and safety of those communities in the real world.

People have explained why supporting HL is wrong, people have explained why it's harmful, people have explained in detail the issues with this situation. You. Just. Don't. Care. You don't listen, or read, because in the end, you can't be bothered enough to put in the effort of having 1 moment of critical thinking.

It's not that folks don't have arguments or evidence, it's that it clearly does not matter to you. It's that the value of an antisemitic game full of one horrific thing after another is worth more to you than the real, living breathing people who are going to be, and have been, affected by this.

You come across as a bad person. Not because some person on Twitter determined you must be, but because your actions speak far louder. And they're screaming red flags.

I'm not going to argue with you over your own bad decisions and life choices. You've made your bed and are mad that people are telling you to lie in it.

[galedekkarios]

is gale actually the worst guy alive or do people just have personal issues that give them a complex whenever someone else is a master of their craft and confident about it 🤔 hmmmmmmm

[what-shitfuckery-is-this-ew]

I want people to read their scientific articles before sending them to me. Like actually read the entire thing or at least read the conclusion. Reading the first line and thinking that that means you understand the entire topic is very inaccurate, and it makes you look like a joke when i actually read it and find that it contradicts your point.

[gooberschmoober]

There’s one more secret I feel like I have to share with you.

I did not care for the glitchy red AIs.

[iturmom]

wishing i could lay my weary bones next to someone and hold each other. i've been so lonely lately and i can't reach out to anyone because frankly my life is a disaster and i don't want to burden anyone with my problems. it makes me feel so sick and irredeemable when the people i love worry about me. maybe that's why i've never really been one to reach out to people because i guess i know i have nothing to offer but disappointment and i don't want to hurt or disappoint anyone i love. and i don't really have any control over my life i'm literally almost homeless my life was stolen from me it's not my own anymore and i'm terrified of disappointing people in ways that i have no control over. yeah. i'm too unstable to let anyone in maybe i'm too unstable to be vulnerable. i mean in a lot of cases it's unsafe for me to be vulnerable but also like maybe emotional vulnerability is unsafe too bc i'm so unstable even intense negative emotions feel like they could potentially be unsafe.

and then to add insult to injury thinking and feeling these things make me feel irredeemable like what a cold unfeeling asshole to selfishly refuse to be vulnerable and then get upset when no one wants me lol the fact that i am too unstable for any kind of healthy social relationship makes me feel irredeemable. well if it isn't the consequences of lifelong conditioning to make me think nothing i can possibly do is right or good biting me in the ass.

[pwurrz]

some of y’all should. go outside. touch some grass maybe.

[dumbdomb]

y'all've gotta stop dming me and acting disappointed when i respond like i'm just some guy instead of a 💕Dream Daddy💕

[lesbiten]

holy shit i was scrolling through some of my old overwatch posts and i got reminded of when i made a post being like 'yay blizzard for confirming solider 76 (a very stereotypically cishet man, fits no stereotypes about gay people) as gay over characters that would have been more easily perceived as lgbt by fans and would have received less backlash by homophobic and transphobic overwatch players' and got a reblog from some person who didnt read my post being like 'gays ARENT a fetish nobody HAS to fit stereotypes' like gee i wonder if thats what my post said or something

[areyoudoingthis]

i opened the class to question about my gender identity and my personal experience with transitioning today and my kids asked such smart, important, interesting and kind questions. they're gonna save the world

[hydrachea]

With the frankly astonishing amount of people I see on here treating proshipping like a crime punishable by creative torture I sometimes wonder if I should add the word somewhere on my blog.

Then I remember that none of this matters in any way except to people who are too terminally online to realize it, and also that I want my blog to be a "fuck around and find out" interest dump where you can find crack on one post and me getting outrageously horny over my favorite characters getting into situations that'd need fifteen TWs on the next.

[catcatb0y]

Me: I am having a really bad brain day. Like all it takes is one little push and I'm gonna fall apart.

Tumblr: Do yoy want BPD memes??? Constantly tagged 'Actual BPD' and 'Borderline Personality Disorder' and 'BPD Mood'???

Me: Ah shit, why are those relatable wtf??

Tumblr: How about self harm posts that type like tw cvts and s3lf ha//rm and censor d3press10n

Me: Wow I magically don't feel like I'm spralling into insanity.

PSA don't censor your goddamned fucking tags. If you're gonna post about cutting and self harm and smoking and replasing and you fucking type it out like #cvts s3lf #ha//rm #d3press10n go back to fucking Twitter and TikTok or learn to properly tag your goddamned shit.

Stop censoring your fucking trigger tags, you assholes. No one is going to learn fifty different fucking ways that you want to spell legitamate fucking triggers because you are typing in The TikTokified Fucking L33T sp34k.

If you're fucking tagging a goddamned trigger, type out the whole fucking word. People blocking out #pro ed and #self harm (like me!! who has both of those tags blocked!!) STILL sees your fucking vent posts because y0y typ3 l!k3 th1s so no 0ne s//ees y0ur posts while you romanticize being a direct danger to yourself.

[hyunubear]

it’s always “I wish we could leave more than one kudos” this and “i wanna leave kudos every chapter” that.

Bitch i wanna take back my kudos. Make that happen first.

[powdermelonkeg]

Important rules/tips I've learned as an adult that helped with anxiety

If people are mad at you, it's their responsibility to tell you, not your responsibility to guess

If they're mad at you in secret anyways, they're the ones in the wrong, not you

If people don't like what you're doing, it's their responsibility to tell you

If they say it's fine when it's really not, they're the ones in the wrong, not you

People are allowed to be wrong about you

If they are wrong about you, wait for them to bring it up, because if you try to, you will inevitably overcorrect

Some people are committed to misunderstanding you. You will not win arguments against them. Yes, even if you explain your point of view. They do not care. Drop it

The worst thing that will happen from a first-time offense is being told not to do it again. Maybe with a replacement if you broke something

You can improve relationships and gauge willingness to talk to you by giving compliments. It's like a daily log-in bonus and nobody thinks twice about it

Most things are better after you sleep on them

Most things are better after you have a meal

Most things are better after you shower

Your brain makes up consequences that are irrational. If the worst DOES come to pass and someone acts like they do in your head, they are overreacting, and you are entitled to say "what the fuck"

If your chest hurts after you feel like you've made a social error, that's called rejection-sensitive dysphoria. It means your anxiety is so bad that it's causing you physical pain, which is a good indicator that you're overreacting. Tense yourself, hold it for 20 seconds, let it go, then find a distraction

If you're suddenly angry at someone after you feel like you made a social error, that's also rejection-sensitive dysphoria. You are going to feel annoyed about it for awhile, but being genuinely pissed off is your anxiety trying to find something to blame to take the responsibility off your shoulders, and getting scared because it can't justify itself. Deep breaths, ask yourself how much you ACTUALLY want to be angry at that person, then find a distraction

"Sour grapes" is more healthy for you than stewing. Deciding you don't like someone who's perpetually annoyed with you, won't talk to you, etc. makes letting go of anxiety over them easier

If people don't like you, they will find reasons to be annoyed with you when they otherwise wouldn't. If people do like you, they will find reasons NOT to be annoyed with you when they otherwise would. People do not ping-pong between the two

You DO have to make a conscious choice not to think about something. If you're having trouble circling back to it, say out loud that you're done thinking about it and why. Then find a distraction

When you're upset, part of you is going to want to make false bids for attention (suddenly texting differently, heavy sighs, etc. but when someone asks you about it, you tell them it's nothing). Do not listen to it. You gain nothing from it except more misery

People like to help people they care about. It makes them feel good about themselves

If you think you're insufferable for needing help, see above. Yes, really. They get a serotonin kick from it

If you think you're insufferable for mannerisms you have, you either have to consciously choose not to do them, or accept that they're part of the package that comes with you. Being apologetic about existing does nothing except make you more miserable

If you do things you don't like when you feel meh about it, it makes it easier to do them when you hate it

If you avoid things you don't like when you feel meh about it, it reinforces and magnifies how bad it feels when you hate it

Seriously. Read those last two points again. If you can make yourself make a phone call when you've got nothing to lose, you will slowly lose that panic you get when you have to make a phone call you haven't prepared for. You do have to CONSCIOUSLY take that step

Hobbies that make you care for something get rid of that nagging feeling that you're not doing enough. Go grow some rosemary

If you don't engage with your hobbies regularly, you will feel miserable, and anxiety will spike

Hobbies are things that give you a bit of happiness. They do not have to be organized or named to do that. Go be creative in something. Play with coins. Make up lists. Start a new WIP

No one cares what you look like

If people point out things they don't like about how you look unprompted, they are being rude. You are entitled to say "what the fuck"

People who like you will find you pretty to some degree. Minor things about your appearance go completely unnoticed. Literally, scars and dots and blemishes do not register to someone who likes your company

You looking at yourself in the mirror is 10x more closely than anyone is going to look at you

If you're anxious about your body type, and you're creatively inclined, make/write an oc with that same shape. Give them nice things and make other characters love them. Put them on adventures. You'll start to see yourself in the mirror more kindly

You care about wording and perfect lines/colors way more than anyone who views your work ever will

Sometimes when you're upset, you're going to feel like not eating. Do not do that. Not eating makes you more miserable

Same with things you normally enjoy. Denying yourself helps no one. You are punishing yourself for being sad. Stop it

Both of these will take conscious decision to break the habit of. Make yourself do it anyways, and it will slowly get easier

And again, to reiterate: If someone is mad at you, it is THEIR responsibility to tell you, not your responsibility to guess

[yuttikkele]

I uhhhhh think the next art joke should be “making your OCs happy and fulfilled” instead of “my only job as a creator is to traumatize my OCs because they’re boring without it”

[tumblinglikeduckling]

I don’t think there’s anything I hate quite like spiders… they have too many legs and they unnerve me….

I just saw one crawling across the floor and it’s one of the big ones or well… it’s not that big but it’s bulky and has those gross legs that aren’t just pieces of thread

It’s literally trapped under a glass 2 meters away from me

And it’s like 3 am (close to 4) so everyone’s sleeping no one (my mom) is here to save me😭😭😭

I put books on top of the glass in case the spider got any ideas…