#objectum positivity

[technology-devotee]

Every time one of my irls who knows i’m objectum asks “can i be objectum for a-“ im like YES!

YOU CAN BE OBJ FOR ANYTHING! That computer? Yes! That building? Yes! That song? YES !!!

And being obj is so fun too!! Like yes this computer is my boyfriend! Yes i have a rivalry with that building! Yes i kiss my disc drive every time i burn a DVD!

Being objectum is so freeing and so fun. Like i find so much joy and intimacy in everyday activities when it’s with the objects i love. <3

[crispycreambacon]

Hi y'all, I think having a strong attachment or being in love with plushies, computers, or really having any form of objectum is not harmful and in fact very cool, and if y'all have a problem with that uhm. Leave <3

Seriously leave if you have a problem with that. Block me or unfollow me I Don't Care. You don't have to understand it, but please keep an open mind and an open heart. It takes no curreency to be respectful to people.

Anyways OBJECTUM HAVERS RISE UP this blog is a safe space for y'all ⸜(｡˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡

[objectum-crush-gush]

Objectum ask game!

Despite my status as a vestigial mod who can’t see any of the asks we get (sorry y’all, we don’t know why either), I still want to give something to the community! With that in mind, I made an objectum ask game!

Here at objectum-crush-gush, we want to encourage maximum objectum crush gushing. Feel free to reblog if you want folks to send you asks about your objectum experience :D

How long have you known you were objectum?

How many object partners/crushes do you have?

Are you POSIC? If so, how does it affect your attraction to objects, if at all?

Would you marry any of your objects of affection?

Do you refer to the objects you’re attracted to as partners, crushes, spouses, or something else?

Is there anything you don’t know about your partner(s) or crush(es) that you’d like to know?

What was your first object crush?

What is your most recent object crush?

What is/has been your most significant object crush? (“significant” can mean whatever you’d like it to mean)

Do you use any sub-labels under the objectum umbrella? If so, what are they?

 Is there one specific type of object you’ve found yourself most consistently attracted to?

If you’re in a relationship with an object, how did it start?

If you aren’t in a relationship with an object, would you like to be?

What is your favorite piece of objectum media?

Have you ever taken an object on a date? If so, how did it go?

How would your ideal date with your object crush/partner go?

What would your ideal relationship with your object crush/partner be? Perpetual dating, marriage, a queerplatonic relationship, or something else? Does this differ from your current relationship status?

Is there any object you feel has gone underappreciated by the objectum community? If so, what is it?

If you’re neurodivergent, do you believe this has had any bearing on your objectum identity?

How do you express affection for your object partner/crush(es)?

If objectum relationships were completely normalized by society, would anything about your relationship(s) change? If you’re not in such a relationship, how do you think this normalization would affect the way you engage with your crush(es)?

I tried to make the questions applicable to both POSIC and non-POSIC people, so anyone with an object crush can participate! If you want to throw some asks at me through @tritonposting (can't read asks on this blog ;-;), I’d be more than happy to send you an ask back 👀 - Mod Wintergreen

[belinhagamer999]

Can u make a objectum flag for people attracted to computer viruses ? :3

Compvirojectum

[PT: Compvirojectum /END PT]

Colors chosen from the windows blue screen, gray and red McAfee antivírus vírus, black and white colors common found in computer GUIs.

I’m not making requests anymore, but here’s it!

[ipodkisser]

very grateful for lava lamps they feel like cool best friends that get to be with you all day and make the vibes better

[machinezlove]

i love my community so so much. objectums remember your love is BEAUTIFUL no matter how you express it. all your relationships are valid and gorgeous and perfect. i love you!! i love you!!!!

[entropy-sea-system]

Shoutout to objectums who do experience attraction to people (or fictional characters etc.) in addition to objects!! Shoutout to objectums who only experience attraction to objects!! Shoutout to objectums with and without object partners!! Shoutout to objectums who only have partners who are people or have both person and object partners!! Shoutout to objectums who are nonpartnering!!

[shijuruiburning]

meeee and my boyfriend 🎃🎃🎃

[objectumluv]

Fictobjectum, FictOCJectum

Fictobjectum -> when one is both fictoromatic/sexual and objecum. this may include being attracted to fictional objects!

FictOCJectum -> when one has a ficto attraction to one's OC(s) and is objectum, possibly an objectum attraction to one's fictional object oc(s). this does not have to be attraction towards your own oc's however, this can include attraction to other people's oc's!

if these was already coined please let me know!

dni... proship, endos/nontraumagenics, anti-mspec lesbian/gays, anti-objectum, pedo/map, anti-agere/petre, anti-witchcraft/paganism and your basic dni stuff.

[imactuallydelusional]

This is my GORGEOUS purple pen <3

She makes me so happy, just to hold her in my hand. She writes so smoothly and loves to let me chew on her to help with my oral fixation. Isn't she lovely?

(ignore my crappy nail polish, i just redid it..)

[doesyourshipmakeyouabadperson]

Even if I ship characters with inanimate objects in an unironic way? I think we need more Objectum content in fandom in general in my humble opinion.

No.

Objectum people are valid and it's okay to want more representation! "Ship whatever you want" includes shipping inanimate objects with people!!

[kittenzzluv]

I bought the pomni plush and I kinda have a crush on them-

[objectum-crush-gush]

robot4robot >>>>>

[sage-writes-n-coins-mogai]

Cuddling with all three of my plush gfs right now, Elizabeth and Angel wanted to lay between me and Lily, so they decided cuddle together so they could both lay with me! They’re just so cute! I love my plush girls 🥰

[egoepicure]

just gonna ramble about my personal experience with being objectum!

also making this a little "share your story" post!

feel free to add your own experience, regardless of how odd you may think it is or how few people you see with the same views.

are you posic? no? do you believe your objectum feelings are due to or partially due to past experiences or neurodivergency? do you only feel certain attraction for objects and do you feel attraction to people? do you experience stuff with your objectum identity that you dont often see other objectum people talk about? i'd love to hear different peoples pov of this!

my personal stuff under the cut!

I feel a tad bit odd about my personal experience with being os/or / objectum. i'm not posic really? i dont view objects as having souls or being alive in any capacity, though a lot of people ive seen on here do that. for me, having something fully able to react and such as a human does kind of puts me off as it brings back any stress of human interaction i experience. this isnt to say i think nothing of the objects around me.

im more of a lowkey spiritual person, i dont practice many things activily, but i hold beliefs. one of those beliefs is everything having energy inside of it. this isn't necessarily a soul or being alive, but regardless of that energies can be attractive. its why i consider myself masc-leaning os/or. things with more "masculine" energy or far more attractive to me.

i can come up with personalities, names, gender, etc for objects, and usually they come naturally based on that energy, but when it comes down to it i dont believe anything of that sort is necessarily real. that doesnt stop me from being attached to and attracted objects, concepts, places, etc.

people have never been very interesting to me, im not sure how much of that is influenced by my being ND (though, definitely the lack of even platonic or familial bonding is part of that), and for me alternative things have always been easier for me to bond and become attached to and i refer to myself as aroace because of this, since im really not attracted to people at all. objects have always been a safe space for me to seek comfort, be openly awkward or embarrassing, experiment, confide in, and honestly it has always been more satisfying and less negative for me that connecting with people, since that doesn't come naturally to me personally.

my object bonding doesnt stop at just positive bonds either lol, there are some objects i HATE (especially some of the machines at my work place... i swear they are difficult on purpose, only act up when they shouldnt... they have the energy of cranky old people doing everything out of spite...). but usually, my bonding is more confusing, i dont think in the simply terms of bonds (platonic, romantic, sexual, aesthetics, whatever) as ive never really understood them too much, and a lot of them overlap or are different depending on time and mood or object ofc. objects are also a space i dont have to be worried about that with though.

i know a lot of objectum people are very attached to their objects of course, and i am too, but due to past experiences with having things taken from me / thrown out on me / changed without my permission, and nd issues with apathy and such i dont think im as caring about "hurting" (again dont view my objects as alive so they cant really be hurt imo) or throwing away objects as even sentimental non-objectum people honestly.

[objectcrushsuggestions]

I dont have a suggestion i just wanna tell you objectium people that you all seem pretty cool

thanks!!