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Curious Family's Angry Little Boy
Tycho design heavily inspired by this art by mimir97477906
#the sims 2#ts2#sims premades#tycho curious#pascal curious#nervous subject#curious family scratches that itch of raised as a freak punk as a birthright not a lifestyle choice outer fringes of society#like nothing ive had for decades. is that just a trope for children or was it a 2000's thing. i need it back.
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Machete has parents?? I'm not familiar with their actual lore, so I've been imagining Machete as a desolate victorian orphan boy
Everyone has parents, he didn't materialize out of thin air (or evolve from a crumpled napkin).
But he lost contact with them early on and doesn't remember much of anything about them. Machete was a sickly kid and his family was going through a rough patch at the time, they were constantly struggling to find the time and funds to care for him. Child mortality was high and it was starting to look increasingly likely that he wouldn't make it. He was around three or four when they left him at the closest monastery that accepted foundlings and he hasn't heard of them since.
#it was child abandonment but I don't think they did it out of malice or anything#monasteries often functioned as hospitals and/or orphanages and his parents hoped it would give him a better fighting chance#sending children to monasteries to be raised as oblates wasn't uniquely uncommon#and it worked he was well looked after there and probably wouldn't have survived otherwise#but of course being separated from your family isn't great for a child's psyche in any situation#answered#anonymous#Vaschete lore#in modern au he has a better but still complicated relationship with his parents#he's not super close to his brothers but they get along fine#so not victorian (different era) and not an orphan (his parents aren't dead they just chose to sever ties with him)
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arcos and marbella should've been even more embarrassing parents than they already are in canon. like. they should've been the kind of parents to be constantly talking about how amazing their son is to other people. they're not even bragging they just love lloyd so much they can't help but gush about it to everyone in the vicinity.
someone at a party or something asks them what their oldest son is like and they just go "glad you asked" before pulling out the time period equivalent of a 101 slides long powerpoint presentation about why their son is so wonderful and smart and kind and talented and just about everything good in the world.
lloyd is dying in the corner of the room not really sure what's gonna kill him first, being so embarrassed or so overwhelmed by how genuine they are being about their love for him. it's so fucking nice and sweet and he kind of loves it but also stop please he's gonna dig a hole on the ground and never come out he's serious-
julian is teasing the hell out of him right up until they finish their presentation about lloyd only to smoothly transition over to another one all about their younger son and oh hey that hole looks so nice scoot over hyung-
scheherazade thinks it's really sweet and about to join in to gush about julian just to get bowled over when they also start to talk about their wonderful daughter-in-law who they've come to love so much. she isn't embarrassed by the words themselves but she does want to craw into the hole too when she starts tearing up because of them.
just. arcos and marbella being really earnest about how much they love their kids and not being able to stop talking about it much to the eternal mortification of their children <333
#i talk a lot <3#tged#the greatest estate developer#lloyd frontera#arcos frontera#marbella frontera#julian frontera#scheherazade#they also gush about javier but he's more normal about it#or. well. i do think he has some issues about being raised by a family without quite being part of it.#and hearing the closest thing he has to parents talk about him just like they do with their own children#does make some strong emotions stir in his chest but like. it's fine. he's fine :) really he's made his peace with it :))#(<- has not in fact made peace with it and is repressing the hell out of his feelings about it)#i should make a post about this actually ajkshdkas
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Everyone’s asleep time to post goth children
#one piece#roronoa zoro#perona#goth family au#sikyu art#that au where Mihawk raises two feral children is galaxy brain level yall and I want MOAR
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chinese noble house of black is so so important to me because of the tradition of the eldest son being expected to always live with and provide for his parents/elders, even once he has his own family. and then thinking about just how much more heartbreaking and difficult it would have been for sirius to leave after growing up with that expectation upon him, as the eldest son.
#t#thinking about walburga and orion growing old without either of their sons to continue these traditions…minor ouch.#↤ legacy and tradition and ancestry is so so important to chinese families especially the upper-class/‘noble’ ones#and with the emphasis on family that all chinese children are raised with…hurts more for regulus as well#sirius black#regulus black#the black brothers#chinese house of black
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Thinking about Elizabeth Woodville as a gothic heroine is making me go insane. She entered the story by overturning existing social structures, provoking both ire and fascination. She married into a dynasty doomed to eat itself alive. She was repeatedly associated with the supernatural, both in terms of love and death. Her life was shaped entirely by uncanny repetitions - two marriages, two widowhoods, two depositions, two flights to sanctuary, two ultimate reclamations, all paralleling and ricocheting off each other. Her plight after 1483 exposed the true rot at the heart of the monarchy - the trappings of royalty pulled away to reveal nothing, a never-ending cycle of betrayal and war, the price of power being the (literal) blood of children. She lived past the end of her family name, she lived past the end of her myth. She ended her life in a deeply anomalous position, half-in and half-out of royal society. She was both a haunting tragedy and the ultimate survivor who was finally free.
#elizabeth woodville#nobody was doing it like her#I wanted to add more things (eg: propaganda casting her as a transgressive figure and a threat to established orders; the way we'll never#truly Know her as she's been constantly rewritten across history) but ofc neither are unique to her or any other historical woman#my post#wars of the roses#don't reblog these tags but - the thing about Elizabeth is that she kept winning and losing at the same time#She rose higher and fell harder (in 1483-85) than anyone else in the late 15th century#From 1461 she was never ever at lasting peace - her widowhood and the crisis of 1469-71 and the actual terrible nightmare of 1483-85 and#Simnel's rebellion against her family and the fact that her birth family kept dying with her#and then she herself died right around the time yet another Pretender was stirring and threatening her children. That's...A Lot.#Imho Elizabeth was THE adaptor of the Wars of the Roses - she repeatedly found herself in highly anomalous and#unprecedented situations and just had to survive and adjust every single time#But that's just...never talked about when it comes to her#There are so many aspects of her life that are potentially fascinating yet completely unexplored in scholarship or media:#Her official appointment in royal councils; her position as the first Englishwoman post the Norman Conquest to be crowned queen#and what that actually MEANT for her; an actual examination of the propaganda against her; how she both foreshadowed and set a precedent#for Henry VIII's english queens; etc#There hasn't even been a proper reassessment of her role in 1483-85 TILL DATE despite it being one of the most wildly contested#periods in medieval England#lol I guess that's what drew me to Elizabeth in the first place - there's a fundamental lack of interest or acknowledgement in what was#actually happening with her and how it may have affected her. There's SO MUCH we can talk about but historians have repeatedly#stuck to the basics - and even then not well#I guess I have more things to write about on this blog then ((assuming I ever ever find the energy)#also to be clear while the Yorkists did 'eat themselves alive' they also Won - the crisis of 1483-85 was an internal conflict within#the dynasty that was not related to the events that ended in 1471 (which resulted in Edward IV's victory)#Henry Tudor was a figurehead for Edwardian Yorkists who specifically raised him as a claimant and were the ones who supported him#specifically as the husband of Elizabeth of York (swearing him as king only after he publicly swore to marry her)#Richard's defeat at Bosworth had *nothing* to do with 'York VS Lancaster' - it was the victory of one Yorkist faction against another#But yes the traditional line of succession was broken by Richard's betrayal and the male dynastic line was ultimately extinguished.
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Always thought it was funny that I was considered a “difficult” child because I *check notes* knew how I wanted to be treated and didn’t accept any less. Wild.
#not by my parents#but my grandparents and my aunts and uncles#truly a case of being raised by adults who treat children like their own people vs other family that think children can’t have boundaries#mind you that I was a straight a student and my hobbies were drawing and reading
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One good thing about converting is that I feel like I'll have a leg up on if I have children, because in so many ways, you feel like a child when you're starting to naturalize in the jewish community. You know how a child copies the things they see? That's how I've been learning how to Do Judaism - I have immersed myself in my community, and like a child, I've copied what they do, but I'm an adult. It's something I will always remember since I'm an adult.
I think that, just like being trans has made me a better man, converting will make me a better jew.
#jumblr#jew by choice#jewish conversion#personal thoughts tag#i have been heavily thinking about one day having children and i want to have a jewish family#and i think that for me converting will make me better at raising those kid/s#but if you ever feel the need to feel like a kid again just immerse in the community
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James Cromwell explaining how he contextualized Logan and Ewan's backstory in preparation for the funeral/eulogy. (x)
The reference to Ewan bringing home dead animals is (I think) from a deleted scene in Season 1, except below the cut.
Interview excerpt from an interview with James Cromwell with Vulture - May 25, 2023
Script excerpt from a deleted scene in "I Went to Market" in Succession - Season One: The Complete Scripts
#so I generally don't editorialize too much on here#but I'm so tempted to write about the above#the way you can see echoes of Logan's trauma in how he raised his own children#how he hated being sent away like Roman - the burden of being banished#how he had his aunt and uncles future expectations thrust upon him like Kendall - the burden of being chosen#how shiv is discounted from this narrative entirely because Logan has no idea how a girl could fit into any of this#because Rose never got to fit into any of it#and then there's Ewan's resentment#So many thoughts#roy family feelings I guess?#logan roy#ewan roy#hbo succession#succession#cast interviews#james cromwell
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When you went no contact, did your parents lose their shit?
Yep mine did. It was a heavy 6 months of threats, gaslighting and smear campaigns. It was horrible to go through as an 18 year old who just wanted to build a normal life out of the nothing I'd been handed.
I went no contact at 17 and a year later my entire family had fallen apart. My siblings went no contact, my parents had divorced and sold the houses and the vibe was absolutely rancid.
It's because the scapegoat is the most important person in the dynamic. When you go no contact they either need to find someone else to blame for their own actions or the whole thing goes to shit.
#abusive parents#child abuse tw#adult children of emotionally immature parents#adult survivor#narcissistic abuse#raised by narcissists#family scapegoating abuse#scapegoat#toxic parents#abusive family#toxic family#no contact#complex trauma#parental abuse#dysfunctional family#childhood trauma#dysfunctional household#narcissistic family structure
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I love how he keeps insisting on calling Haejun his son like that's right, everyone stop trying to take this mans children away
#leave my man and his children alone#he raised those kids and he loves them and they love him and I love him and we all love him#family by choice
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horikoshi you've moved me, I love pro-heroes with difficult family backgrounds taking on little interns and literally parenting them... i love this concept
i love a person who's never known a family - because of circumstances beyond them having someone to call their own
i love it that a child can escape from such a cruel, abusive circumstance gets a second chance at life and also lightens the life of her caretaker
hawks and tokoyami, birds of a feather, him initially not wanting him and intentionally distancing himself from tokoyami - not returning his calls or texts....
don't even get me started on them during the war... I haven't processed that yet
this is family what can I say, izuku is yagi's son, they make me so emotional man, like ik he wanted a family, I JUST KNOW
dadzawa!! the trump card, it's what eri deserves
#emotionally burdened pro-heros and their adopted children ill always love you#my hero academia#boku no hero academia#bnha#mha#mha hawks#all might#idk but i think they both long for a family#mentor-student relationships always make me so soft man 😭👎🏾#no but hori definitely has a soft spot for this cuz he got izuku raising a kid as well
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being attached to that moment qifrey held a baby one time and my ideas for the future :)
#witch hat tag#orufrey#brief small post before i return to Real and Emotional things again...but tbh...this makes me feel real emotions too#i think the manga will end up with a epilogue chapter showcasing little things in the girls' future and orufrey holding hands or kissing...#to like Indicate things. if it doesn't happen beforehand.#But. Who. Knows. also then i suddenly started thinking about them raising a baby for ages today because of how narratively poignant it'd be#for things to end that way after having raised almost-daughters all those years. and how healing it could be for qifrey and etc.#thing i said on twt: girls visit so often that the kid's first words are Professor Olly#“deja vu.. i'm not your professor kid - i'm your father!���#sorry but they are literally a gay couple where one truly is like The Mom and one truly is The Dad. to me#i think a housewifey homemaker type lifestyle would make qifrey happy. be harder now that he's disabled - well that's why he has his man.#i dont normally care about stuff like fankids or whatever..characters becoming parents for real..but like..Come on#This is the couple to think about this with.....they already ARE parents..i want them to be happy for eternity#once all the horrors are over we have to make it there.....children are so precious families are so precious....#i have bad relationship with parents personally and haven't interacted with children in years. And yet i still know that.#the fact that orufrey fight for children to be safe and educated and happy...qif wants to help coustas too..#aaaanyway today was a pretty weird and difficult day so i deserved to think about happy futures for a bit. i hear it's possible#btw i'm most sure about tetia becoming the princess of zozah. i think that will happen. and riche should have the ribbon tassel.
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Mohamed Emad AbuElzomar, Wife, & Small children Mamoud(5), Kinan(2) & Emad(1.5)
Vetting: Vetted Gaza Evacuation #100 & El-Shab Hussein & Personal IG video #1 Instagram: mohamed_elzomar & eslam.gaza96 Fund Currency: € Euro Teacher Mohamed's talented henna artist wife reached out to me, the love these two have for each other & their children is inspiring! I hope to share their love for life with you- They're hoping to evacuate so she can finish her studies & to rescue their "three moons", young boys Mahmoud, 5 yrs old, Kinan, 2 yrs old, Emad, 1.5 yrs old. Please consider sharing any small contribution to their cause, a heart or re-share to the post to help them feel seen & heard during this terrifying struggle. Thank you so much for your concern!
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#family#boy mom#parenting#children#henna#henna art#henna tattoo#henna design#tattoos#raising kids#childcare#childhood#shit kids say#teacher#teaching#education#educators#free gaza#gaza#save rafah#rafah#all eyes on rafah#free rafah#freepalestine#gaza city#boycott for palestine#palestine fundraisers
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My birthday was a couple days ago, and I got to see my bio dad for the first time in a while. He surprised me with the fact that I have a little half-sister, whom I've never met and who was adopted about two years back. So, I wondered if any situations in BB mimic this or have a theme of "secret siblings" or "secret family"? Sorry if this is a weird ask; this blog is honestly just such a cool little place and I love the way you approach the subject matter and take the flawed misogynistic foundation of the WC books and make them so much better (JUSTICE FOR BUMBLE!!!). I've also learned a lot about healthy and unhealthy relationships here and am really glad for your deep dives on Squilf and Bramble. Thanks, Bones!
Not weird at all! I really like exploring all the little nooks and crannies of complicated familial dynamics. I think one of the untapped strengths of WC (that the writers seem to be unaware of) is how their MASSIVE cast allows them to present all sorts of unique dynamics. So I like to pick up on it, since they don't.
For secret siblings...
I'm pretty heavily leaning towards Ambermoon being adopted by Wildfur, as a surrogacy. Something feels correct about it. Especially since Icecloud is getting retooled into a post-Battle of the True Eclipse birth, and a major supporting character in AVoS-era stories as a friend of Alderheart.
Thinking about it, I should zoom in and expand this. Maybe have Icecloud, somehow, acquire forbidden knowledge that would invalidate the Queen’s Rights and he (transman) struggles with if he's going to use it to expose his parents as an excuse to help Ambermoon.
(Especially since Ambermoon and Icecloud are basically nothing alike. Amber is independent, bold, and vain. Ice is jessie pinkman big-hearted, disorganized, and deceptively meek if you look past his "chill" demeanor)
But that's wip-- there's also Breezepelt and the Three, who are going to have an actual friendship. In particular I can't unsee Breeze and Lion having a deep one. I know I commit the Cardinal Sin of borderline himbo-ifying Lionblaze in BB, but I can't help it.
Hollyleaf ended up nabbing a bunch of his most violent roles to make her villainous descent smoother narratively, so BB!Lionblaze's story ends up being more focused on Ashfur's abuse, comic relief with cats in other Clans (something that the very serious Jay and Holly have a hard time providing), and the emotional fallout of the big reveal and Bramblestar's turn on them. Breezepelt slots neatly into that.
They were friends. Lionblaze's whole life came down around the reveal, everyone looking at him and his siblings differently, like they're suddenly something terrible. Why can't we find a silver lining, Breezepelt? Why can't we call ourselves brothers if the whole world is going to do it anyway? So much is changing, but THIS doesn't have to, we will take their weapon and turn it to armor, my ally, my friend, my brother.
(and when Breezepelt is lashing out at the three because of the Dark Forest's influence, Lionblaze is there, taking the blows and trying not to give in to the impulse to send him flying with a single paw)
There's also Harespring and Kestrelflight of WindClan and Owlclaw of ShadowClan. All of them are from a single litter between Whitewater and Mudclaw. She was going to raise the three of them alone as ShadowClan cats, but when the sire was smote, Whitewater felt they were cursed.
She was able to give the oldest two to their bio-uncle, Torear, but the weather was so bad that day and the runt was so sickly and small that it surely would have killed him. I don't think Owlclaw ever finds out why his mother always treated him with suspicion, but it did mess him up horribly.
Over in BB!DOTC, Thunder Storm is getting more half-siblings earlier. Clear Sky and Falling Feather had two daughters-- Pale Sky and Tiger Sky.
I want to explore the way that the various stages of Clear Sky's life acted on his kids. How any little curiosity Thunder Storm had about the life he might have had if he wasn't abandoned is crushed by seeing kittens who weren't. How Clear's favoritism of his oldest child set the trio against each other from the start. How this idea of "love" is toxic yet intoxicating.
It feels good to be the golden child. The power it gives you over his sycophants is satisfying. To know you, and you alone, have what someone else craves. Problem is, that's conditional, and it's cruel.
What Thunder Storm learns from his time with his biodad is that Clear Sky is not his father at all. He's taught him exactly what he DOESN'T want to be. There may be similarities-- in temperament, in physical prowess (though BB!Thunder is three-legged, he's still ripped), in taste and senses. But Thunder Storm's father is Shaded Flower.
(BB!Gray Wing died in the first book, rescuing Shaded Flower from being trampled by a horse. Xey're a patron of wisdom, Shaded Moss is taking the role of fatherhood to Thunder)
His sister is Rainswept Flower. His mom is Bright Storm. If there was a bond he could have had with Tiger Sky and Pale Sky, it dies simply and cruelly on the knife they used to cut each other out.
Pale might have wanted to mend it, she was the gentler one. But she dies in the First Battle along with her mother. Tiger Sky is too stubborn to accept any help, should Thunderstar offer it, and Thunderstar isn't in the business of begging for others to like him.
Naturally I'm lowkey obsessed with them lmao. I need to make a BB!DOTC overviewww
#I have a perspective on half siblings colored by a dynamic in my family#The generation above me has two siblings who had an awful biodad and an amazing stepdad (who did officially adopt them)#And there was nothing ''natural'' or good about how one of them was obsessed with their biodad.#It was influenced by his surroundings and did nothing but drag an incredibly toxic man back into his sister's life#Over and over#But anyway the son used to tell me ''theres no half in siblings''#The daughter adored her halfbrother through the mother who raised them-- but was adamant that her biodad's newer kids were nothing to her#I guess I agree with the son. But not in the way he believes it#There's no half in siblings because you either Are. Or you are Not.#You have a shared experience with having that person as a parent or you don't. And that's what's unchanging.#It's not the blood; it's the sweat and tears. But anyhoo#Personal details of my life aside#Tiger Sky and Pale Sky are Clear's Dead Angel Fetus Children in-canon. I think that was Weird.#So instead I made them. Not. Dead angel fetus children....#They're characters now lmaoo#Better bones au#I think Tiger Sky (i call her Tigs in my head a lot) is one of my favorite kit saves ever though#She's not going to be from the last litter either. I haven't picked who the mom is yet but he does have even more#At least one of those is going to make a grab at power but um. Sparrow Heart will not react Well.#BASICALLY lads I'm cooking. My revamps of the DOTC characters basically write themselves because I am very fond of them.#Clear's youngest: ''OH I JUST CANT WAIT TO BE KI-"#Sparrowstar: ''-lled.''
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okay
i'm back in the fucking building again
so, even loving parents can treat you wrong and be bad. even when it's showed as "funny gig" it still doesn't have to be considered normal. yk, i love my mum and dad with all my heart, they definitely love me and wish only the best for me, but there's still things i'm gonna think about for the rest of my life cause this events greatly negatively impacted my behaviour and world perception.
and when mitsuki hits katsuki for the sake of joke and blames him for the kidnapping, and after that katsuki repeats this same things while crying to midoriya... that isn't right.
like, wonder why he's so determined to deal with everything by himself and his basic way to solve any problems is his fists. yeah, society as all formed katsuki's behaviour by constantly praising him, but mitsuki's personal impact also is very much there. ofc she wouldn't speak about it with aizawa cause neither kats nor mitsuki can easily admit they're wrong, but she's his mother. parents usually affect their kids the most.
notice how mitsuki is saying that everyone was putting katsuki on the pedestal and nothing about what she and masaru were doing with all of this. they definitely couldn't entirely change his world views but that's still somehow strange for me that she didn't take any credit for how katsuki turned out.
like, we all agree that mineta's shit is entirely wrong even when horikoshi doesn't, so why can't we understand that mitsuki's ways of parenting aren't right.
#also i know that in this post i spoke only about mitsuki while katsuki ✨surprise✨ has both parents#masaru is also to blame#but rather for being passive than for actively planting wrong ideas#i'm just not so interested in his character as i am in mitsuki's#but don't think i put all the responsibility in raising children on mothers#bakugou katsuki#bnha#mha#my hero academia#boku no hero academia#bakugou mitsuki#katsuki bakugou#mha bakugou#why the second somebody's talking about mitsuki being wrong#people attacking them with “mitsuki isn't abusive!!1!”#like no shit sherlock#haven't compared her to endeavour unlike u mr “14-yr old is as bad as a man who spent his life abusing own family”
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