to all of my dolls finding themselves:
originality is the "aesthetic" you are looking for. individuality is the "it factor" you are looking for. from your personality, pieces, hair, cadence of voice...even down to your favorite foods or special interests. you aren't supposed to change every aspect about yourself to be more palatable for everyone you meet. that actually makes you BORING!!!
"but so and so is doing this" "but what if people don't like it" ... so??? don't take people disliking your aesthetic as a sign that you need to do something different. like, of course they don't like it or have second thoughts - it's because THEY wouldn't do it themselves because it wouldn't go with THEIR given aesthetic. HELLOO??????
unless they are like minded, stop asking other people to weigh in on the things you CLEARLY like about yourself. especially if it's a core personality trait or interest. your LIFE isn't a group project. your LIFE is not a co-op game.
and yes... people will try to force you to assimilate and follow the crowd by speaking misfortune on your rebrand, your expression, your hobbies, your chosen path out of jealousy. however, that jealousy is lowkey unspoken respect for the fact you have the candor to go against homogeneity.
your authentic dedication to everything that makes you YOU is what will bring you the illustrious life you so fervently seek in the end...not some book a celebrity wrote or a youtube video. it's in YOUR DNA to be a star already in anything you want to do.
there isn't one tutorial on this world wide web that will help you if you don't realize you have the components within you first. there is NOTHING wrong with you!!! you are EVERYTHING that is right already!!!
NEVER conform to the way they think you should shine.
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I wanted to talk about this and didn't find a post i could reblog so I'm doing it myself. I loved how even before the kiss reveal we saw the little ways in which August is treating Day like a child vs. Mhok who is always giving Day as much as he wants/needs. He gives him agency.
Like you get scenes like this:
contrasted with Mhok's
and again August with the
and later in the episode I saw him tying Day's shoelaces
Like Day, because of his crush, was finding excuses thinking it's just August being extra caring because of his love for Day but really it was August thinking that Day can't do anything himself.
I talked about this before but I loved the moment with Mhok in the bookshop and the Last Twilight book couple of episodes ago. Because it showed how much Mhok understands Day and understands that Day does want to do things himself and he wants people to not feel pity for him or not make him feel like he's some helpless child. Mhok is there to guide him and help him push his boundaries but he let's Day eat by himself with few basic instructions, he let's him take pictures of his toast by himself, bring sauces for his food from the cupboard by himself. He's helping him and guiding him but knows that Day wants to do these things on his own if he can. The solution to a stumped toe is not stop eating food in the kitchen but buying big foamy slippers that protect your fingers from getting stumped on the corner of the kitchen table.
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Just posting to let everyone know that i am currently on the way to an airport about to move overseas for a year to attend university on an island that is famously full of horses and folklore and equestrianism so just in case anything happens to me and i find out i need to save the world from a tentacled god imprisoned in the sea instead of doing my assignments you know what happened…
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Sim Lookbook - Nicoleta
General: Skintone / Skinblend / Eyes / Teeth / Ears / Brows / Brow Extras / Nose Overlay / Eyeshadow / Eyeliner / Lipstick / Necklace / Nails
Everyday: Hair / Top / Skirt / Tights (Calliope Stockings) / Garters / Shoes / Hair Accessory / Earrings / Rings
Formal: Hair / Dress / Tights / Shoes
Athletic: Hair / Outfit / Socks (Lou Socks) / Shoes
Sleep: Hair / Dress
Party: Hair / Dress / Tights (Yoshi Tights) / Shoes / Hat / Earrings
Swimwear: Hair / Swimsuit / Shoes / Hat (Julianna Hat)
Hot Weather: Hair / Dress / Tights / Shoes / Earrings
Cold Weather: Hair / Dress / Tights / Shoes / Hat / Earrings / Gloves
Thank you! @cerberus-cc @miikocc @evoxyr @pralinesims @silentgrim @faaeish @remussirion @myfawnwysimblr @blahberry-pancake @daylifesims @lazyeyelids @helsoseira @sentate @trillyke @aurumsims @oydis @rimings @caio-cc @sforzcc @sifix @aharris00britney @s-club-tbr @aithsims4 @jius-sims @regina-raven @isjao @rustys-cc
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💖Golly Gee💖 it's ⚠ENTITY G⚠
(2023)
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Let's keep the demo chain going! Demomedic!
i love them so much.... my inbox is empty btw feel free to request some more
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I can’t be the only one who’s annoyed at ao3 bundling botw and totk fics together, right? Even from the perspective of someone who’s played both (I haven’t yet), doesn’t the option not to be able to filter between them get bothersome? What if I want to read just a botw fic? No totk anything? For me, who’s still trying to avoid totk spoilers, it’s maddening.
I can’t just filter out totk fics, unlike every other zelda game on the entire website, I have to block all the character tags, and all the ship tags, and any additional tags as well that might even remotely have anything to do with totk, and then just cross my fingers and hope that everyone tagged things properly and I don’t get smacked with a giant spoiler in any untagged stuff.
I’ve mostly just given up on reading anything botw. It’s not worth it.
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I GOT THE $20 WEIRD LITTLE CABINET AHHHHH
it appears to be hand-made. the inside is lined with thin velvet. the owner said i should probably refinish it but i actually loooove the old and chipped and lacklustre surface. so happy i succeeded in being an adult and figured out our miscommunication and got the cabinet hehehehe
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overall, when it comes to 'bad' takes on the dsmp, i think most of the time i can just go 'well people have different interpretations' and move on.
except for when people are clearly forgetting the real life situations that impacted certain lore moments. then kill bill alarms start going off in my head, y'know.
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