#social battery drained

[chrissy-kaos]

I’ve lost my way…

[pixieverse-icedtea]

me going into hibernation when it's time to recharge my social battery

[abstractprince]

the bar was cute but tbh never been more excited to get back in bed

[thetransguard]

okay i knew it was coming but its kind of killing me how obtuse people are being towards toshiro (im not fucking calling him shuro and honestly yall should stop with that too). should he have told laios how he really felt about him, sure, yeah, but im going to go off on a limb here and suggest maybe! maybe! he's been raised in an environment where it's actually like legitimately unheard of and taboo to be very open and straight forward about his feelings. the entire party has been calling him by a name that literally isnt even his own because he is so used to quashing down his own reactions to others. like i think other poc diaspora dunmeshi fans might agree with me here but he just reads like someone whos not bothered enough to correct every microaggression thrown his way. because that shit is exhausting. and after like five hours of laios bugging him about stories of his homeland why would he have a good opinion of him. genuinely. im not saying laios is entirely at fault but neither is toshiro. i love laios too but it is Very Weird that toshiro gets the brunt of their friendship's falling out (ill circle back to this)

also to preface this i am a farcille shipper so im. not pushing for falin/toshiro. but people acting like his affection for falin is somehow not relevant or he has no devotion to falin at all is CRAZY. immediately after being teleported out he threw himself back into that dungeon and didnt eat or sleep properly to rescue her. we literally watch him collapse from it. after multiple episodes emphasizing the importance of nutrition and caring for yourself and your take away from a man willing to toss that away is that he just. doesn't care for falin? why is he in the dungeon then? answer. quickly. granted he's not as onboard with the whole black magic thing but his concerns are literally valid and before we see falin chimera he seems to have been talked down from reporting them all for it. its the proof of his concerns of the use of black magic that he decides to go up and report them at all. his bond with falin isn't nearly as strong as marcille's bond but its also not nothing. ignoring that or minimising his own sacrifices is such a nasty bad faith disservice to his character.

speaking of bonds. toshiro doesn't hate laios. guys. his last act this episode was to give laios and the rest of the party (yes, even black magic user marcille) a way out of the hole that they'd already dug for themselves. fleeing to the east and leaving falin to the elves isnt the best case scenario but it is one that lets the majority of the party survive whatever's coming. its the realistic play. is this the act of a man who hates his former colleagues? is he wishing harm and further misfortune on them? his actions speak for themselves. you guys are being way too hard on toshiro and its really fucking telling. this goes for white viewers especially

[fireis-catching]

I just want some recognition for having good tits and a big heart 🖤

[peekychu]

Got SILLY at the meet today (not clickbait!!!)

[grimm-haven]

The best news (better than her university acceptance) she has ever received in her life and she's stuck in university, writing her thesis and getting ambushed by weird professors at the bathroom door. Honestly, why can't they leave her alone? She most definitely will not join a random club!

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[magpie-to-the-morning]

The real reason I want a life partner is because I ache for emotional and physical connection, and my social battery drains too quickly with people I’m not intimately comfortable with.

[coquelicoq]

facing the fact that i am an adult and that if someone's behavior is bothering me and i would like them to change it, i am going to have to say that to them with my words, as opposed to just hiding in another room until they cease the behavior that they don't even know is bothering me.

[curioscurio]

new job is killing me to hell but thank GOD most of my coworkers are either queer or autistic or both it really makes the horrors manageable

[giantsinthemist]

introversion is wild because you can go from "this (social) thing is awesome" to "I need to leave now but also I don't have the energy to leave so I'm kinda stuck, please, please, PLEASE, someone, please, interrupt the social pattern so I can break out of this inertia" with like no warning. no ten percent battery message. nada.

[betweenblackberrybranches]

Ok so i saw you taging me in that chicken nugget of friendship post @here-2suffer @bbonkie and @bilolli thank you all so much<3

I just didnt feel like reposting that for some reason, sorry

[kebriones]

Alcibiades gets in a very crowded bus and starts bribing people to get off with cold hard cash.

[vixvaporub]

I really need to learn to say no to doing things and make sure I have a day to rest

[fallenoutoflove]

It’s hella wild to me that some people don’t understand a person being socially drained.

[astarionz]

i’m not sure why i agreed to go to the bars with my friends when i #Dont #Drink