#stopshamming

[xxjessabugxx]

Yes indeed 💯 #lovethis #wearwhatyouwant #wearit #stopshaming #true

[linearlunetta-blog]

“Anakmu udah bisa apa sekarang, anakku usia segitu udah pandai bla bla bla..

Anakmu kok kurus, si itu lho gendut banget..

Anakmu makannya apa, anakku makannya lahap banget makanya gendut bla bla bla..

Kok dikasih makan kek itu, harusnya sudah makan yg lain donk..

dan pernyataan sejenisnya - yg sebetulnya - ingin membuat mental sang ibu down.“

Parenting itu bukan kompetisi ya buibu, stop mom-baby shamming! Kita gak tau seperti apa kisah di baliknya, setiap ibu pasti berupaya melakukan yg terbaik buat anaknya. Mending gak usah komentar daripada nge-judge semena-mena. Semua anak itu pasti unggul dan baik kok. Mereka diciptakan hebat!

Sekuat-kuatnya ibu kalo udah dikomentari negatif pasti kepikiran. Jangan bikin kewarasan ibu jadi meredup hanya gara-gara denger hal tidak berfaedah.

Tolong berempatilah sedikit. Empatilah dg minimal ekspresi wajah bisa tergambar jelas dan intonasi suara yg mendamaikan. Kalo tidak dimulai dari kita, dari siapa lagi?

[raphaelius2305]

#KnowYourFacts !!! #StopShamming & #DoUnderstand !!! (at Subang Jaya) https://www.instagram.com/p/CKsh3cvH7USB58B7_mNTiiEy5lXQ9wxY6is1qw0/?igshid=97ohsgm3v0fk

[sane-one]

Meri Marzi(My Choice)

Sana: Nia, ye makeup shaming kya hota hai(what is make up shaming)?

Nia: Umm, when an individual is berated for donning makeup (a bit more than what's "accepted"). It's a way to look down upon people who wear makeup and a venture to induce guilt and hostile sentiments in an individual established on their level of makeup.

 Sana: But likewise people are condemned for not wearing anything as well, it's like Naa ye karo Naa vo(neither do this nor that).

Nia: Right, but the concept of makeup shaming privileges genuine beauty and calls out people for enclosing their faces out of insecurity.

Sana: Which may not be the motive. I like the person who I am irrespective of my looks but it's no secret that I cherish buying and using beauty products. My choice of liking make-up doesn't mean that I do not like people who don't wear it.

Nia: Absolutely, kyunki vo tumhari Marzi ha(because its your choice)i. It's a subjective preference.

Sana: Makeup is an art that I paint on the canvas of my face because I want to and not to show off or to hide my flaws.

Nia: For me it's therapy. And I don't understand why it's gendered. I mean make-up doesn't have any gender. A lot of our male friends wear them, why is it okay for celebrities but not for us commoners?

Sana: You're right! Is there no way to stop makeup shaming?

Nia: Oh, there is, Sana!

Sana: I guess I shouldn't pay any heed to people who look down on me for my choice of make-up.

Nia: True! But you can't always ignore it, at times you must say that maybe it's not your makeup but their thoughts that's showing.

Sana: I like that one. Or maybe my epic eye roll.

Nia: Hahaha! How about an epic comeback (◠‿◕)

Sana: Confidence does help.

Nia: Plus giving yourself the time to get better at it.

Sana: And to be surrounded by supportive and loving friends like you!

Nia: Hey! *hugs*

~Lokeshwari H Naidu, intern @lemmebegirls

[faianindika]

Stop shamming Kenapa aku begitu peduli dgn healing dan hal semacamnya? Pertama bgt karena aku merasakan sendiri akibat dari hal2 berbau shamming itu. Setiap orang memiliki kelemahan, dan kelemahan itu bukan sesuatu yg perlu dibuli. Allah tu gak liat fisik kita seperti apa, yg Dia lihat tu ketakwaan kita. Jadi, kalau Allah aja ga lihat fisik hambaNya, mengapa kita sering membuli orang lain karena fisik? Shamming gak selalu dlm bentuk kasar seperti dilabrak dll, tapi bisa juga secara halus, dgn kedok bercandaan yg menghina fisik misalnya. Tanpa kita sadari, hinaan itu menyakiti hati paling dalam tmn kita, dan akhirnya dia menjadi pribadi yg mungkin sulit berkembang. Mungkin ada orang yg mampu mengatasi hal ini dgn mudah, tp ternyata byk yg menyimpan hal2 ini di dlm hatinya. So please stop shamming. Selain jelas hal itu dosa, hal itu jg melukai tmn kita. Bayangkan kita mjd org yg terbuli, sakit gak hati kita? Satu dua kali mungkin tdk berefek, tp jika sepanjang dari SD sampai kuliah terus saja terbuli, aku yakin ada luka yg dalam di hatinya. Apa kita sehebat itu sampai pantas membuli orang? Kedua, mungkin bukan kita, tapi banyaak sekali korban broken home, atau diperlakukan tidak mengenakkan oleh keluarga atau orang sekitarnya. Klo bahasanya @sekolahrumahtangga luka pengasuhan. Tdk bermksd menjelekan orgtua, tp setiap diri kan pemeran utama di hidupnya, mungkin ada ortu yg diuji sgt berat shg berpengaruh tidak sengaja kasar pada anaknya. Nah anaknya secara tdk langsung trauma dr perilaku orgtuanya, misal si anak jadi takut menikah, atau berperilaku tdk sesuai gendernya, sulit memulai hubungan dgn org lain dsb. Trauma2 ini perlu diobati. Again, kita adalah pemeran utama dlm hidup kita. Kita berhak sembuh dari luka-luka masa lalu kita. Itulah mengapa saya tertarik bgt dgn ilmu2 ttg healig. Mungkin tdk semua org memendam luka masa lalu, tp kita tumbuh di lingkungan yg berbeda2, maka wajar jika pribadi kita masing2 berbeda. Dan dlm kesempatan ini saya juga mau minta maaf sedalam2nya pd siapapun yg pernah saya sakiti baik sengaja ataupun tidak sengaja. Mari sama2 belajar utk tdk menyakiti hati org lain 😊 #stopshamming https://www.instagram.com/p/BuFrNFrH_HY/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=sx0xsfxjl76x

[claudiarya]

2019 is the year we stop shaming and calling out people for what they read, listen , watch and most importantly ship!

Kindness shall prevail ❤️🤗

[xxjessabugxx]

Just don’t ! #stopshaming #stopslutshaming #sexist #justdont #no https://www.instagram.com/p/CjYA_KQOyY7/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[bellaeblack]

Some days i live here. And some days im at my house. There are times that Doctors and nurse dont remember that just because you can't see the illness. Doesnt mean the person is lying. I swear, i do not want a high from Epi or any other meds. Ijust want to be able to breathe and talk. I want to go out and not panic that it's summer and water balloons are every where. I am a strong woman, I have given birth three times. I dont do street drugs because im allergic to most drugs. Stop shaming Stop making people like me feel like we are wasting your time. Stop the hurtful treatment. #stopshaming https://www.instagram.com/p/Bx-Dj2WF71_/?igshid=17ezwqan6wem3

[abovegroundpodcast]

Speaking of self care, I think I need a break… from everyone and everything. It’s hard to watch people shame another for an illness that they can’t see. I mean, would you shame someone for having asthma? It’s weird to me, extremely vexing. Sometimes I think to myself I’m surrounded by people who I call a friend and yet they are complete strangers. Maybe I should focus more on the service side of things…. Feeling a bit lost and things are unclear. Take care of yourselves and be kind to others, you don’t have to help everyone but you shouldn’t do harm to anyone. That’s my story and I’m sticking to it 💚🤘🏻. #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #selfcare #inservice #mentalillness #mentalillnessawareness #stopstigma #stopthestigma #endstigma #dobetter #bebettereveryday #stopgrindingstartthriving #depression #anxiety #bipolar #stopjudging #stopshaming #heal #grow #bewell #beabove https://www.instagram.com/p/Cb2D2bFOH0w/?utm_medium=tumblr

[spiceborg]

I was around a 2 before pandemic. Now mostly an 8. I have had to go to 2 virtual outpatient behavioral health groups, I am attending a weekly virtual DBT group. The social isolation has impacted my mental health and now physical health. Lives are being tortured and some lost because of this forced conditioning. Mental Health problems are at the highest now. Does the current "solution" of mask up, stay 6 feet apart, stay away from groups of people truly save lives? For me this has done way more harm to me and my family than any virus. #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthisimportant #depression #anxiety #speakyourthoughts #avoidance #behavior #youarenotalone #behuman #beheard #stopshaming #censoring #getbackontrack https://www.instagram.com/p/CaNHkMGFIEX/?utm_medium=tumblr

[kimmaylou]

Every time I eat anything, about a million things go through my head. Most revolve around how I think people are perceiving me while I'm eating. Now though, there's something more. Not only is it "Will I be judged for what I'm eating?" but now it's "Will I be judged because oh my god this isn't fresh or raw or organic?!" .... This is all so stupid. Yes. That is canned pineapple. Yes. That is a metal can. Yes. That is a plastic spoon. No. I don't care that it isn't fresh. No. I don't care that it came in a metal can. No. I don't care that I'm using a plastic spoon. But I have to feel like I do because we are living in an age full of SHAME. And it is ridiculous. #lunch #pineapple #dole #ramble #eatingdisorders #eatingdisorderrecovery #bulimia #shame #randomthoughts #stopshaming #foodisgood https://www.instagram.com/p/BnmDT_HAMF0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=19v6v1xi1nlgk

[dannysafeplace-blog]

Why are we like this

Hi readers, today I want to share what I witnessed on social media. So I was scrolling through Instagram when I came upon a post from a girl from my high school bullying another girl's TikTok. Girl A wrote how she was shocked by the way Girl B had dressed for a party and had posted herself dancing with a bikini. And the worst this is that all of girl A’s friend had reposted her post, adding more and more rude and unnecessary comments about girl B.

Girl B is proud of her body and is okay with showing it. Why should one person be allowed to judge another one’s looks? Why do people feel the need to comment publicly on another person when they do not like them, why can't they just mind their own damn business. 

Please help me, am I in the wrong for thinking this shouldn’t be happening in the world?

[sophiejewel]

New buttons getting listed in the shop right now! SophieJewel.storenvy.com #notaskingforit #feminist #endrapeculture #mybodymyrules #stopshaming #femaleempowerment #shopsmall #pingamestrong

[ausdemakoerbchen]

NEW BLOG POST!!! I‘ve finally said goodbye to my ugly plastic razor and are now a happy @heyestrid user! because I love this sustainable, vegan and SO PRETTY razor aaaa looooot, I wrote a little product review for you guys, which you can read here: https://bit.ly/32p1iuU TW: the post includes photos of the razor and the blades, so please don‘t look at the images if that is something that is something you are uncomfortable with!

[xxjessabugxx]

Look if you wouldn’t want somebody judging on how you dress maybe you should take a good look at yourself and stop judging what other people wear and worry about yourself. If you’re that, insecure of yourself and have a problem with everybody else, not dressing the way you dress maybe is the time to reevaluate yourself or get professional help #lovethis #true #30andup #older #dresswhatyoulove #lovewhatyoudodowhatyoulove #stopshaming #bodyshaming

[hikurion]

Dingin Cuaca yang mulai menghangat, kadang seolah membuat panas hati dan pikiran beberapa orang, mungkin termasuk aku. Terkadang panasnya terasa di lidah-lidah orang yang kita kenal atau bahkan tidak dikenal, semoga bukan aku. Anehnya, mungkin karena suka berbagi, maka panas dilidah mereka kerap kali disebarkan ke sekitarnya, ah panas. Hai es krim mint dan strawberry kesayangan, terimakasih mendinginkan suasana kembali. Setidaknya berkurang alasan untuk berbagi panas lisan kepada yang lain karena sejuk barusan. #hikuriondiary #diaryhikari #myselfrandomtalk #icecream #hotweather #stopshaming #youaretooprecious https://www.instagram.com/p/CM3sTIQh9F_/?igshid=aou878c48k04