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carnevol · 7 months

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Austin Butler | Dune 2 Premiere in NYC (x)

#austin butler #feyd rautha #dune 2 #dune 2 press tour #dune 2 nyc premiere #this man's beauty is lethal #those pretty blues #those long lashes #those lipsss #yeah ☠️

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queenofcringe · 2 years

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I cried both times

#tokyo revengers #a silent voice #the parallels #takemikey #takemichi hanagaki #manjiro sano #manga #tr spoilers #shoya ishida #shoko nishimiya #tokrev #official art #mikey is so babygirl #those long lashes #my otps

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giantkillerjack · 1 year

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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

#hlep #original #mental health #my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need.#the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it #i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support #and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist.#the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28!#a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents.#they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of #huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the #longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong.#and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives.#you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead?#or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of.#no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow.#i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel #i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong.#just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop

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vintrage · 28 days

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fire cannot kill a dragon BITCH

#a song of ice and fire #game of thrones #asoiaf #got #mine.png #i have no clue what dany era this is i just wanted to see if i could get down how i think book dany looks just like. in general #results are inconclusive #also ive been doing like exclusively multimedia w either sketching or doing full colored pencil first and then taking a picture #on portrait mode ☝🏻#and finishing the rest in procreate so if things look weird thats like #why #im figuring stuff out lmao #and like! where ae the highlights on her coming from?? idk but surely not that fire #daenerys targaryen #adding tags bc my tags are my safe space and if ur reading them then. ur in this with me i locked the door i secured the chains..#just realized that lowkey with how daenerys is described as being just like #ethereally pretty as per the targ pretty gene #i sort of picture her face as like #one of those insanely pretty girls u see on tiktok and they just like naturally have a disney princess face #no makeup bc their skin is perfect and their lashes are naturally super thick and long #thats dany to me #this face ate an entire raw horse heart <3

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elskiee · 4 months

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my brain is so fried like why did i see this pic of cillian and immediately thought "mmmhm mommy mhhhh" as if he didn't have beard and mustache

#i mean #yeah you're a man but u also have long lashes red lips and pretty face??#and those mommy milkers yeah I'll see myself out #cillian murphy

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mayasaura · 1 year

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Actually. Looking at the chronology. The last time Gideon and Harrow talked alone before the pool scene, Gideon accused Harrow of being a jealous creep for telling her to stay away from Dulcinea.

A whole lot of stupifying things happened in between, but really, it wouldn't be surprising if her first panicked reaction to Harrow disrobing was to think Harrow was making a move on her. Relationship definitely hurtling toward something.

#the locked tomb #gideon the ninth #griddlehark #so much happened those last two days at Canaan House #I lost track of just how much relationship upgrade Gideon and Harrow went through #Gideon goes from insisting Harrow is jealous over her and not envious (guarding something that's hers and not coveting something that isn't)#to lashing out at Harrow in the worst way she can manage without physical violence (threatening to leave her)#to assuming Harrow is a murderer and resolving to kill her herself rather than let anyone else touch her #to finding out Harrow had a good reason for everything she'd done and just didn't trust or respect Gideon enough to tell her #to finding out Harrow's worst secrets and swearing herself to Harrow #....in the span of about. mmmm. three hours? ish?#probably less #depends on how long she was wandering around or with the Sixth really #I'd say someone give that girl a nap but for once she actually got one

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allmyandroids · 3 months

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Desperate for the most handsome man on this planet💕🖤

#james spader #raymond reddington #the blacklist #reddington #red #raymond red reddington #blacklist #tbl #my screenshots #screenshot edit #photo edit #4x16 #seaaon 4 episode 16 #i loooove him in the beanie and big jacket he looks so cuteee #and gosh HIS EYES 💥💥💥💥my man realy hypnotizing me with them #and those long babygirl lashes #always sooo handsomee❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥#husband #loml

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everyryuujisuguro · 14 days

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fumiko-matsubara · 1 year

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A warm-up portrait of Okano 🩷

My personal design interpretation this time is that she sports a wolfcut hairstyle. I once gave it a thought and it never left me. I just think it'd be cute 💕

#assassination classroom #ansatsu kyoushitsu #assclass #okano hinata #hinata okano #my art #art #digital art #warm up portrait #in the same manner that sugaya has two toned hair to me #or that chiba has those pair of singular long lashes that makes his eyes resemble a dragon's even more #or that hayami has straight but angular eyebrows #or that kimura and puey have a galaxy of freckles

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ilovemesomevincentprice · 10 months

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Vincent Price

Confessions of An Opium Eater aka Souls for Sale (1962)

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lususnatura · 3 months

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blamore having to wear things like back-less shirts / lower - cut tops and just items of clothing that will allow him SOME sort of free range of movement for his tail in general + will actually not constrict his rib cage may just make him a fashion icon y'all... sorry, i don't make the rules ( nah i'm just joking around with you guys LOL... mostly )

#IT WAS PROBABLY NOTHING BUT IT FELT LIKE THE WORLD: musings.#MAN IS BOUND TO LIE ABOUT HIMSELF: headcanons.#and he also wears cut-off shirts that may have like. rips in them or netting in the front of them due to the fact that one of the-#downsides of his transformation that is more like a minor inconvenience than anything is that he can no longer wear a lot of-#materials and so he kinddd of has to either make his own clothes or get a special tailor to make them for him? so yeahhh BUT he can also-#wear like loose clothing if he wants to completely cover up his rib cage for some reason. though no matter what he HAS to have some sort of #free range of movement for his tail bc it gets very irritated and stiff if it's like stuck in one position for too long / bound in some way #so that's why he has a habit of wearing partial / cut-off shirts and stuff bc he values comfort a LOT + this may have some implications-#behind it if/whenever he's imprisoned because you already know most people are NOT going to risk him having even partial rein-#over it's tail so they would make it so that he can't move it and wouldn't give a shit if it was uncomfy / eventually painful for him.#though blamore would CERTAINLY care and at least try to lash out at whoever's keeping him locked up (which coulddd theoretically be-#arkham since they do have special containment cells for those like Killer Croc and Man-Bat) but they would really have to limit his movemen #because trust me when i say if you allow it to still practice it's bone-manipulation then he is going to be planning each and EVERY-#person's decimation who put him there so... yeah. that's lovely ain't it y'all JSJSJ LMAO but again being compassionate towards patients-#/ inmates in arkham is something that DESPERATELY needs to be practiced though it's certainly missing most of the time from-#the place unfortunately.

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seilon · 1 month

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love when this is referred to as the gifted kid website. shockingly my mental disorders made me mentally disordered and school never really vibed with that so. couldn’t be me

#ppl always talking about their whatever grade reading level and how many books they’d read as kids and im just over here like🧍🏽#I’ve never been actually bad at english or reading but I couldn’t focus on reading books to save my fucking life #I hated those sheets where you had to read like a certain number of books or whatever over the course of a semester or the year or whatever #my GATE test scores for english were super high but my math was bad enough that I never qualified #and adhd made me not even perform well in English half the time because I couldn’t pay attention I couldn’t read long books I couldn’t turn #in my assignments or if I did they were late and etc etc etc #don’t get me started with math #I was the worst in my class in third grade at minute math and never made it to the levels of minute math my classmates did #(they posted results on the wall for everyone to see)#and in 6th grade I was put into an additional remedial math class #throughout middle-high school I was at the level of most classmates in terms of the classes I took but that’s only because I was not allowe #to fail and was put through absolute fucking hell with a billion tutors and grueling hours of extra work from them and blah blah blah #like I remember how I felt in those tutoring sessions and half the time I actually wanted to cry.#I didn’t start doing solidly genuinely Good in school until senior year of high school.#not coincidentally around the same time I started taking adderall I think #I had accommodations by 9th grade but they didn’t do that much except for the function that let me turn in assignments up to 2 days late #without penalty. which i had teachers question sometimes and i had to pull the Yeah it’s Literally Against The Law to not allow me this car #anyway. point is. i was never in the gate program and most of my friends were and it was mostly adhd related #adhd is considered such a quirky nothing disorder nowadays that I don’t even like mentioning I have it really. because what people think of #when I say the term is Not what i actually dealt with and made school torturous and made my parents lash out at me for things and etc etc #depression and dysphoria did not help either. but I digress #I’m not sure why im making this post #kibumblabs

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carbon--14 · 11 months

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absolutely obsessed with partha pratim and rachelle rosenberg's decisions to draw steven with giant eyelashes and noticeable blush. really goes great with the eyebrow slit. steven grant mk system prettyboy confirmed

#ell shut up #moon knight #moon knight comics #marvel #mk #maybe he's born with it maybe its maybelline etc etc #and for those who havent read this issue none of the other characters have eyelashes this intense in their closeups its JUST steven.#he totally put on mascara for this. as he should after marc went into wet cat mode for who knows how long #and left them with a busted up face and beatles hair #anyway i will be drawing steven with thw biggest prettiest lashes known to man from now on #moon knight comics spoilers #is that a tag? do i need to tag that?? this issue is from july

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freaky-flawless · 5 months

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I love my creepros a whole lot, but I really don't understand why they had to change their faces. Cleo and Ghoulia look true to their originals, but Abbey and Spectra have really noticeable differences, and I think their original face ups look better.

#monster high #monster high dolls #cleo de nile #ghoulia yelps #spectra vondergeist #abbey bominable #deuce gorgon #deuce...well his face was always kinda awkward tbh #which is a shame because he could be so handsome #his g3 doll is handsome #i might reblog with a picture of my abbeys cuz its such a shame #her new face is ok but her old lashes were so thick and long #i feel like her new face looks more...surprised? idk maybe just more awake lol #and they just did spectra dirty tbh #poly hair choppy ass haircut and her cheekbones aren't nearly as sharp as her og doll #which looks especially bad considering she has a skullector doll that has none of those issues #text post

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the-kipsabian · 7 months

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speaking of him looking cute

whats happening with those goddamn eyelashes boy

#look at those last few frames where he blinks #what are they so long and luscious for boy. what #his eyes are such a good feature anyways but with those lashes? BOY #sorry its like 9.30 and ive been awake for like four hours im having feelings ough #hes just. so pretty ;;#box thoughts

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dalkyum · 2 years

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I think I love you ♡

#yugyeom #kim yugyeom #got7 #got7edit #got7daily #kpopco #malegroupsnet #madstual #do not be fooled the caption is a reference to got7's masterpiece page off of album spinning top (2019) and not an admission of my feelings #pretty boy would you mind sharing some of those beautiful long lashes with the rest of us it isnt fair #and you're using them for evil #also how is it possible that he pouts when he speaks it's not fair #ilygif #183-185 #emigif

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