#trumed

[annnathegayblogger]

Some phone wallpapers based off of pride flags! part 1!

(please only use the second or third one if you aren't a radical transmed, thank you)

gai, transmed, trident trans, MOGAI, strayt, proxvir, genderflor, stargender, stellerian

[the-fox-alive]

Poc can be racist, disabled people can be ableist, queer people can be queerphobic, your identity doesn’t stop you from doing damage to people even if they’re like you

[iguinn]

person on twitter: *makes a tongue in cheek joke about how more people should consider medical transition cause its cool*

people in the comment who didnt get it: *says something a bit silly but understandable cause jokes can be hard to understand online*

person replying to the above person: *says that people who dont want to medically transition shouldnt call themselves trans which is not what the op of the tweet meant at all*

us: u should kill urself.

[schreibenwelt]

Demos Oneiroi - Schlafes Dämonen - Kjärmes (on Wattpad) https://www.wattpad.com/1543739621-demos-oneiroi-schlafes-d%C3%A4monen-kj%C3%A4rmes?utm_source=web&utm_medium=tumblr&utm_content=share_reading&wp_uname=SarahSander1 Eine lose Sammlung von kurzen Erzählungen und Geschichten, in der Regel basierend auf Traumfragmenten. Fantastische und verwirrende Begebenheiten, Begegnungen mit Monstern und dem Unterbewusstsein. Dinge, die es in der Realität nicht geben kann und die sich manchmal der Logik entziehen.

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[residentsofhollowville]

Lucía is at Hollowville. She isn't sure why. Maybe she's trying to make sure the damn house is still smoldering, maybe she's just getting the hell away of London, maybe she's looking for a good fight. Maybe she's just wandering. She always had been good at wandering.

So she's kicking around her heavy boots, the ugly ones, with the heavy bass of Sydney Silver truming in her ears and frostbite still at her fingers.

((The Falling Girl - @im-not-good-with-names

There's a little girl sitting on the front steps of Cerise's burnt house. Well, to call her little or a girl is a massive stretch. There's an age in her eyes that shouldn't be there, and she dresses like a boy, perhaps as a form of self-defense, perhaps just for her own enjoyment. She'll never know and never tell.

She steps down and stares at this woman she feels she halfway knows.

"Hi. Are you a crazy person?"

[sophieinwonderland]

Re sandstorms-syscourse: "[insert thing here] makes a mockery of the queer/trans community" is a thing that has been said about any discourse topic you can imagine. Aphobes used to say that aspecs are a mockery of the queer community. Trumeds used to say that transgender people with little or no dysphoria are a mockery of the queer community. Assholes who can't accept the existence of mspec labels are saying that people who identify as bi lesbians or lesboys or what have you are making a mockery of the queer community, and they used to say the same thing about pansexuals. This is a shitty argument because it's basically meaningless. Like, I'm sorry you find it insulting that a group of people exist/identify in a way you disapprove of, but that's a you problem.

Moreover, it is not the job of queer people to make themselves more palatable to bigots in order to be accepted. The people who say "Oh I don't mind the gays, I just wish they wouldn't shove it down our throats" are not allies and pandering to them does not do anything to further queer acceptance. All that will actually accomplish is forcing people back into the closet.

Also, it is very strange to me where anti transIDs draw the line. Transspecies is okay. For some reason, that's not an issue. Saying "I don't want to get an autism diagnosis because it could impact my chances of getting gender affirming care, but I'm 99.9% sure I'm autistic" is fine. Saying "I support singlets who want to become plural" is contentious, but it won't usually get your blog terminated. Saying "I'm transrobot, transautistic, and I support transplurals" is grounds for being actually executed in cold blood. Make it make sense.

I've actually seen mixed opinions from anti-trans ID people about "transspecies." A lot of them seem against transspecies as a term too.

It kind of feels like there is a certain group of people who will claim to be okay with otherkin and alterhumans as long as they "stay in their lane" and don't use any label that would associate them with transgender people or the LGBT community.

[just-antithings]

From the carrd of someone I encountered on bsky

✕ do not interact if :

Proship

Dead Dove

Zionist

Aro/aphobic

Trumed

Terf

Antisemetic / racist

Are you normal around minorities? answer carefully.

"[name], how can you be anti proship?" the answer is simple! i engage with media as critically as i can. i am an adult who can tell the difference between reality and fiction, and i can also spot when fiction contains something damaging that can and has bled into reality. if you identify as proship or dead dove, i'm blocking you! it's as simple as that! it sets a very obvious precedent that i do not want to associate with. it isn't me "advocating for censorship" or being "anti fiction," it's me having a brain. got a problem with that? save us both the stress and just block me! ♡

... who the fuck *identifies* as dead dove??

[nonsharingstruggles]

𝕎𝕖𝕝𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕖

This is a confession blog for those who are nonsharing with their F/Os, fictional partners or whichever other terminology you prefer

Ask box is always open for vents, rants and confessions

𝔹𝕦𝕥 𝕓𝕖𝕗𝕠𝕣𝕖 𝕒𝕟𝕪𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕖𝕝𝕤𝕖, 𝕙𝕖𝕣𝕖'𝕤 𝕤𝕠𝕞𝕖 𝕘𝕣𝕠𝕦𝕟𝕕 𝕣𝕦𝕝𝕖𝕤:

Do not name or overly describe your F/O. For your own, as well as other's, well being and comfort. We're all nonsharers so it's best to not have to worry about others thinking about our F/Os in that way

Ship hate is 100% fair game, if that bothers you please block this account. Similarly: hate the ship, not the shippers, asks that harass real people will be ignored and blocked

Vaguing is okay, but do not name specific users or real people. This is not a space for harassment or bullying

+18 asks are okay. Sexual, violent and/or angsty confessions are all fine with me, just don't threaten any real people, or wish actual harm upon them

Feel free to specify whether or not you wish for your ask to be answered with commentary, positivity, etc, or with a simple gif/emoji

𝔸𝕓𝕠𝕦𝕥 𝕥𝕙𝕖 𝕞𝕠𝕕:

I am an adult and happily married

Any pronouns are fine

I may block you if you have any association with my harasser/stalker

I do not tolerate antis/pro censorship/pro harassment alignment individuals

This is also not the space for radqueers, trumeds, TERFs and anyone who's pro contact for harmful paraphilias

Contents under the cut: Tagging system & List of anons

𝕋𝕒𝕘𝕘𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕤𝕪𝕤𝕥𝕖𝕞:

๑⁠ shared sorrows [vents/sad asks]

๑⁠ midnight howls [rants/angry asks]

๑⁠ shooting stars [mod posts/non ask posts]

๑ light up the sky [positivity]

⁠๑⁠ sink and drown [ship hate, ships won't be directly tagged as to not show up in their respective tags]

𝕃𝕚𝕤𝕥 𝕠𝕗 𝕒𝕟𝕠𝕟𝕤:

🍡 - Mochi anon

💍 - Ring anon

⭐ - Star anon

🐶 - Puppy anon

[i-fucking-hate-radqueers]

I would like to point out btw that transx was originally used by transmeds/truscum/trumeds to describe enby people if I'm remembering right. Just further proves the transphobia is in fact very fucking blatant

[schreibenwelt]

Demos Oneiroi - Schlafes Dämonen - Der Goldfisch (on Wattpad) https://www.wattpad.com/1472004692-demos-oneiroi-schlafes-d%C3%A4monen-der-goldfisch?utm_source=web&utm_medium=tumblr&utm_content=share_reading&wp_uname=SarahSander1 Eine lose Sammlung von kurzen Erzählungen und Geschichten, in der Regel basierend auf Traumfragmenten. Fantastische und verwirrende Begebenheiten, Begegnungen mit Monstern und dem Unterbewusstsein. Dinge, die es in der Realität nicht geben kann und die sich manchmal der Logik entziehen.

[alphystims]

Just your basic pinned post!

To start off:

This is a Queer run blog, so TERFs, Trumeds/Truscum and other assorted Exclusionists are not welcome here.

This is also a Proship and Proselfship blog. Antis are not welcome here.

Request Rules

I will make icons, headers, moodboards and stimboards!

Be as specific as possible so I'm able to make something that you are happy with!

Please include the source in all requests, even if you think it's obvious!

Please state if you want a Stimboard or a Moodboard. If you just say 'A Board' I will not fill your request.

Anything not listed in the 'Will not Fill' list below is welcome to be submitted. Any rejected requests will be answered with a reason as to the rejection (most likely: You were not specific enough or I could not find enough to make something I was happy with)

If you want your request to be anonymous, please start the message with 'ANON' (caps optional). I will not be turning anon on for my own safety. (These will be filled and listed as 'for anon' and the ask will be answered privately with a link to your request. Public requests will tag the requester in the creation and the ask answered publicly)

If you wish to have your gift directed at a side blog, please start with 'ANON' (caps optional) and then tag your side blog in the ask. Your request will be filled in a separate post, and gifted to the side blog! (Your ask will not be answered privately and will instead just be deleted as one of your blogs will be tagged for this)

Only one request or game per ask, but you're more than welcome to send in multiple asks (no limit but please be reasonable with non-game requests. Games are always welcome to be spammed!)

Will Not Fill

Steven/Stephen Universe

Zombies

Fallout Ghouls

If it looks or acts like a zombie even if it doesn't carry the title, do not submit. (If you're unsure you're welcome to ask if XYZ thing falls under this rule and I will let you know)

Clowns

Heavy gore

Explicitly nsfw.

Mouthwashing (Game)

Ask Games (Always Open and Accepting)

🌈 - Random HC Icon Edits

🎲 - LGBTQIA Wiki Randomiser Icon Edits

⭐ - Aesthetic Generator Moodboards

💥 - Random Stimboard

Credit to @ofironandivory for my lovely DNI banner! 💙🩵💙🩵💙🩵

Under the cut is just a little about your friendly neighbourhood mod!

Hello~!

Name: TW, or Alphinaud/Alphy

Pronouns: They/It/Fae/Star

Favourite fandoms: Final Fantasy XIV, The Coffin of Andy and Leyley, One Piece, Baldurs Gate 3, Kingdom Hearts!

Favourite Stims: I love painting stims, or cake decorating!

Other Blogs: @lesbxdyke , @littlelordalphinaud

[sophieinwonderland]

Hi, “accidental tulpamancer” here. It’s in quotes now because of what you said about potentially having a dissociative disorder. I’m awake now. I made some popcorn in the air popper for breakfast. Not the best breakfast ever, but it was something.

I want to tell you a little bit about myself and my life story as it relates to plurality and potentially having a dissociative disorder. I’m not sure why I’m doing this. You can ignore this if you want. But I trust you and I think you have good intentions. So here goes nothing.

I have always had a fairly… loose connection with the person I’m apparently “supposed” to be. When I was younger, I would wake up and decide that I was a different person today. I would get dressed according to what that sort of person would want to wear. At school, I would sometimes sign the name of the person I was supposed to be for the day instead of my own name on my paper (My teacher would put these papers on the no name board. When I pointed out that they had a name on them, she would say, “but not the one on my class list”. So I stopped doing this.).

I assumed that I would grow out of this. But I didn’t. I would still wake up and pretend to be someone else. Someone who was more powerful than me, someone who was better suited to face the challenges of today. Because I definitely wasn’t. This is when my depression started, and it would only get worse from here. I had dozens of stories I made up about these people, and eventually found D&D and writing fanfiction as an outlet.

I developed a short-lived fascination with psychological case studies. I would check out books from the library on them and read them in my spare time. Most of them were the more “common” disorders. PTSD. Autism. Schizophrenia. But I read one case study on a young girl with DID. She had been kidnapped and abused for 2 years before finally being found, and as a result had 7 different personalities. I remember reading it and thinking about how horrible this was. Even now, when I research dissociative disorders, this girl sticks in my head. Nothing similar has ever happened to me. How could I claim the same or similar diagnosis? Wouldn’t that be an insult to her suffering?

I don’t remember when I first started hearing voices. But it got more and more frequent. They had their own personalities. Some were dangerous, like the one who tried to convince me to develop an eating disorder. But most were friendly. Companions. I told a professional about my symptoms, both about my voices and my paranoia (believing that the world was evil and wanted to hurt me). They said that I checked most of the boxes for schizophrenia. Then they asked if I wanted my voices gone. Like, with medication. I thought hard. And said no. By this time I had already been hospitalized twice for suicidiality. But as bad as things had been, they would have been so much worse without my voices. Without companions to encourage me to live. Because who would they talk to if I was gone? As frustrating as they could sometimes be, I knew I would have already been dead without them. So I wasn’t diagnosed. Because a schizophrenia diagnosis would have meant medication.

I also don’t know when I first heard of plurality. It was most likely through the MOGAI community (yes, I was one of those kids with over 200 genders that trumeds love complaining about). There were a lot of systems in those spaces, and I was encouraged to ask questions in order to be the best ally I could be. And I did consider myself an enthusiastic plural ally. But I never considered myself plural. Not even when I started hearing voices. Because my voices couldn’t control my body. They could ask me to do things and I would do them (example: one of my voices really liked My Little Pony, so I would go to YouTube and put on an episode for them) but it was always me doing the thing. Me in control. As it should be. So no, I wasn’t “multiple people in one body”. I was one person in one body. I just talked to external agents. Until now.

I developed an obsession with this character as a coping mechanism. I would have long conversations with them in my head. Some days I would pretend to be them. Act like them. So I could be more powerful and able to handle the world. Eventually they started talking back. I was very scared. I had heard this was a way to accidentally make a tulpa. But I was still so scared. I got the sense from this being that it lived inside my head. Not external like the other voices. I was scared. I’m supposed to be the only person who owns my body. Because if you don’t own your body absolutely, what do you own? It doesn’t help that the entity I was now sharing a head with was just as mentally disturbed. Things got ugly. Multiple times. And it culminated in yesterday.

I still don’t know where to go or what to do. I’m not sure why I just wrote an entire fricking novel. If you don’t read this I don’t blame you. Anyway, I’m about to make pumpkin bread. Or take a shower because my head is killing me. Or both.

I think that this story alone could supply plegg-culture-is with a whole week of content! 🤪

I mean...

They could ask me to do things and I would do them (example: one of my voices really liked My Little Pony, so I would go to YouTube and put on an episode for them) but it was always me doing the thing. Me in control. As it should be. So no, I wasn’t “multiple people in one body”. I was one person in one body.

"I'm one person in one body but there's someone in my head who really likes My Little Pony so I'll put an episode on and watch it with them but I'm totally not plural." But seriously, this is actually super sweet and wholesome! 💖💖💖

"Voices" Is such an interesting word that we use. It's something that I see a lot of people using and what it means can be very different depending on the person.

There is a common type of hallucination where, as you are falling asleep, you might hear a "voice" speaking to you. Usually just a word or sentence. These types of hallucinations though, They don't have agency. They don't have emotions or a consistent sense of self. They are just sounds generated by your brain.

But it seems like yours could think thoughts and had emotions and things that they enjoyed just like any other person.

And while it is true that voices in dissociative disorders will often present as being internal, there are plenty more examples of them being perceived externally similar to imaginary friends.

But I read one case study on a young girl with DID... Even now, when I research dissociative disorders, this girl sticks in my head. Nothing similar has ever happened to me. How could I claim the same or similar diagnosis? Wouldn’t that be an insult to her suffering?

One important thing to remember about case studies is that they are case studies because of how unique and remarkable they are. People don't usually write case studies up of the unremarkable cases. Or if they do, at least those cases don't get that much attention.

I don't know exactly what you've gone through in your life. But I know that it's not just the absolute most severe and most extreme cases that can result into dissociative disorders.

If you've suffered trauma, that trauma is enough. You wouldn't be devaluing what someone else goes through just by having the same diagnosis as they do.

I think... at a certain level, you probably realize that this line of thinking is illogical. That there can be varying degrees of trauma and that yours doesn't need to be as bad as this one girl's to be valid. But I hope it can help hearing somebody assure you of this.

Because if you don’t own your body absolutely, what do you own?

Nothing. Not completely.

But... maybe that's okay.

I mean, would it really be so bad if you shared your life with others? Body included?

If, some of the times you thought you were pretending to be someone else to make it through the day when you were younger, it was somebody else who was fronting, who was helping take the load off of you and make things easier for you? (Not saying that necessarily is what was happening.)

Maybe "ownership" over the body isn't really worth it. Maybe that's the price of spending your life with others in your head. Of having those wonderful companions who helped you through your darkest days.

If you're a singlet, you get the privilege of total bodily autonomy. It's yours and yours alone. And the price for that autonomy is that you're alone in that body.

Personally speaking, I think if I had to choose between owning a body to myself and having headmates to share my life with, sharing time and sharing the body is a pretty small price to pay. But that's just me.

Best of luck with the pumpkin bread!

[allisluv]

Lucy gray is obsessed with true crime podcasts frfr

yes!! i just wanna listen to trume crime podcasts with her while we make our dinner :(

[stonebutchhubby]

J | 26 | switch | stone butch lesbian

married to my sweet femme @highfemmewifey

do NOT flirt with me. i am married. anything personal is for my wife.

tags for my femme ; 🦇 & 💗

NOT WELCOME: minors, terfs/trumeds/transmeds, bigots. dont be a freak, thank you. This includes reblogging, liking, and following btw.

if i reblog from anyone shitty, let me know. this blog is mostly just for me and my femme, but feel free to follow if you arent anything i listed above. 👍

BLINKIES + KINKS BELOW THE CUT

Hi. My brain is shit with remembering things in the moment, but here is stuff you might see on here;

Bondage

Petplay

Smell related stuff

Tickling

Tdicks