A Historical And Kinktastic Journey
BDSM is a complex and multifaceted practice that encompasses a wide range of activities, power dynamics, and psychological elements. Exploring the history of BDSM reveals a rich tapestry of human desires, power dynamics, and social attitudes toward sexuality and pleasure. Today we are going to take a high-level look into the evolution of BDSM, tracing its roots from ancient civilizations to the present.
The origins of BDSM can be traced back to ancient civilizations, where evidence of power exchange and sexual dominance emerges in the form of erotic artwork and literary works. In ancient Egypt, hieroglyphics and papyrus documents depict scenes of
bondage and flagellation, suggesting that elements of BDSM were present within their society. Similarly, ancient Greek and Roman cultures embraced various forms of sexual expression, including dominance and submission. Greek and Roman mythology, such as the story of Zeus and Ganymede, and the practice of sexual flagellation in Roman society, offer glimpses into the early manifestations of BDSM dynamics.
During the Middle Ages, BDSM practices were often intertwined with religious and judicial systems. The concept of flagellation as a form of penance and self-mortification played a significant role in Christianity. The flagellants, religious sects engaging in self-flagellation, sought spiritual purification through pain and submission. Furthermore, the Inquisition's use of torture and humiliation as a means of extracting confessions displayed elements of power exchange and sadism.
The Renaissance period witnessed a shift in attitudes towards sexuality, leading to the emergence of erotic literature and artworks celebrating BDSM themes. Artists like Rembrandt and Caravaggio depicted scenes of bondage and discipline, reflecting a growing interest in exploring the boundaries of pleasure and pain. Notably, the works of the Marquis de Sade in the late 18th century challenged societal norms by exploring explicit BDSM themes and paved the way for later discussions around consent, desire, and erotic power dynamics.
The Victorian era, known for its strict moral codes, paradoxically also saw an undercurrent of hidden sexual desires. BDSM practices found expression in clandestine gatherings and secret societies, particularly among the upper class. In an era characterized by prudishness and repression, the fascination with dominance and submission thrived in private circles, leading to the production of erotic literature such as "The Pearl" and "The Romance of Lust." These publications provided an outlet for exploring sexual fantasies and fetishes within a fictional framework.
The early 20th century witnessed the gradual emergence of BDSM communities and organizations, albeit underground due to societal taboos and legal restrictions. The growth of secret societies like the "Order of Chaeronea" and the "Vienna Circle" provided a platform for individuals to connect, share their experiences, and explore their sexual preferences openly. In the 1930s, prominent psychiatrist Richard von Krafft-Ebing published his influential work, "Psychopathia Sexualis," which discussed various sexual deviations, including masochism and sadism, further contributing to the understanding and acceptance of BDSM.
World War II brought significant changes to the landscape of BDSM. With the advent of the war, military and paramilitary organizations incorporated elements of BDSM within their training regimes. Practices such as military discipline, punishment, and role-playing were employed to foster obedience and enhance combat readiness. Additionally, BDSM played a role in providing psychological release and coping mechanisms for soldiers stationed far from home.
The period following World War II witnessed the beginnings of BDSM as an organized subculture. Inspired by the works of Marquis de Sade and Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, pioneers such as John Willie and Irving Klaw started publishing fetish literature and imagery. These publications, often circulated through the underground market, provided a means of connection and exploration for individuals interested in BDSM.
The sexual revolution of the 1960s and 1970s brought increased societal acceptance of diverse sexual practices, including BDSM. The feminist movement also played a role in encouraging discussions around power dynamics, consent, and sexual liberation. As a result, BDSM communities began to form in major cities, providing safe spaces for individuals to explore their desires. Prominent organizations like the Society of Janus in San Francisco and TES (The Eulenspiegel Society) in New York City emerged as beacons of education, support, and socialization for those interested in BDSM.
The advent of the internet in the 1990s revolutionized the dissemination of information and facilitated the formation of online communities centered around BDSM. Online forums, websites, and chatrooms allowed people from different geographical locations to connect, share experiences, and exchange knowledge. These platforms fostered a sense of community and contributed to the spread of BDSM awareness.
In parallel, popular culture began to depict BDSM themes, albeit often sensationalized or stigmatized. Books like Anne Rice's "Exit to Eden" and films such as "Secretary" introduced BDSM to a wider audience. However, the portrayal of BDSM in mainstream media was often distorted, emphasizing the sensational aspects rather than the core principles of consent, negotiation, and trust.
The 21st century has witnessed a significant shift in the perception and acceptance of BDSM. As the internet continued to play a crucial role in connecting individuals, educational resources, and support networks proliferated. BDSM organizations, workshops, and conferences have become more accessible, promoting safe and consensual practices, and the importance of negotiation and communication.
Furthermore, BDSM has entered public discourse through the efforts of activists and advocates who work to dispel misconceptions, challenge stigma, and promote sexual freedom. Advocacy groups such as the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) and the Leather Archives and Museum actively engage in education, legal defense, and community building.
The history of BDSM is a testament to the resilience and growth of a subculture that emerged from the shadows and flourished into a recognized and respected community. From its humble, ancient beginnings to an underground subculture, BDSM has evolved, breaking taboos, and challenging societal norms. The sexual revolution, the advent of the internet, and increased visibility in popular culture have contributed to the growing acceptance and understanding of BDSM. Today, BDSM is characterized by education, advocacy, and a commitment to ethical practices that prioritize consent, communication, and mutual respect, ensuring the well-being and satisfaction of all involved.
What part of the history of the lifestyle fascinates you the most and why?
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Zero Redeeming Qualities
Before we get into this week’s chapter, an announcement:
I’m now posting this on Archive of Our Own! The version on there is going to go up around 6 hours after this one, but it should include better editing/formatting.
Hope to see you over there!
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A couple years ago the Undertale, Underfell, Underswap, and Swapfell (Red) universes collided, merging into a single - peaceful - universe.
The skelebros have become friends in this universe, often hanging out and spending time together,
Except for Sans, who is distant with everyone and has a tense relationship with Papyrus.
After losing a drinking challenge, Red asked Sans on a date, where he found himself with more questions than answers. He decided to go on a second outing with Sans, this time to the Ebott City Museum.
Something isn’t adding up, and Red is going to figure out why.
Inspired by: Lov Ya by sunblind_seabird
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—Red—
Sans’ pun surprised Red and for a moment all he could do was stare at his alternate. After his earlier attempt had fallen flat he had assumed Sans shared his brother’s hatred of wordplay.
He was even more surprised when Sans let out a short bark of laughter, both at his own joke and at Red’s expression. He quickly covered his mouth and attempted to stifle himself, a blue-grey blush coloring his cheekbones.
Red found he liked the sound of Sans’ laughter.
It was genuine and warm, low and melodic.
… He wanted to hear it more.
Red looked away from Sans, ignoring the way his own cheeks warmed. He collected himself as he focused on folding the map.
He had hoped Sans would share his interest in astronomy. It wasn’t too much of a surprise - all the other Sanses had similar interests. But not liking astronomy wouldn’t be the first time Sans was an outlier.
But if Red was going to spend more time with Sans in an attempt to figure out why the Tale brothers didn’t get along … he might as well enjoy himself.
And Red could live in the Planetarium and not grow tired of it.
He led the way to the astronomy wing, glancing back to catch Sans’ reaction to seeing it for the first time.
It was everything Red had hoped for.
Sans’ eyelights lit up, blindingly bright, and his smile stretched wide. He seemed taller, like he was standing up straighter.
Like he wasn’t trying to make himself as small as possible.
He was all but vibrating with excitement.
“c’mon,” Red said with a grin, his own excitement rising in response to Sans, like a contact high. He jerked his head in the direction fo the planet models. “let’s start over there.”
Sans didn’t need more encouragement than that, and he quickly lost himself in reading the informational placards and looking at the displays.
“it’s too bad we don’t have a scale model of the solar system in ebbot,” Sans said softly after he had spent some time staring at the little Earth model and its moon.
“whaddya mean?” Red asked. “these are scale, ain’t they?”
Sans waved a hand, “they’re scaled for size, not distance. It’s still cool, seeing the sheer difference between earth and jupiter, but it’s hard to get a good sense of how far away jupiter is from earth, y’know?”
“i dunno if I’d be up to that much walkin’,” Red said with an exaggerated yawn. “space is … spacious. does that sorta thing even exist?”
Sans nodded, his attention on a sign about the asteroid belt.
“there’s a bunch walkable and drivable scale models, all over the world. the sagan planet walk in ithaca, one in vienna, another in melbourne. there’s one in munich called the planet walk. the biggest is in sweden - spans the whole country.”
Red wondered, but didn’t ask, how Sans knew about those when he didn’t know the local museum had a planetarium.
Sans mumbled something too soft for Red to hear, but he didn’t push for the other to repeat himself. Instead he let Sans get lost in the informational placards and models again, while he went over to the planetarium to see what was showing.
The next show started soon, and was one of Red’s favorites. While it tread into science fiction rather than fact, it was still built on sound science. Its focus was on what life might look like if humans ever left Earth to become star-farers. Beginning with more-realistic colonization of the moon and Mars, ending with distant future marvels like Dyson spheres and ring worlds. It even dove into the concepts of wormholes and warp drives, and how they might be created.
It was aspirational. Inspiring.
Red bought two tickets and went to find Sans, who was more-or-less where he’d been left.
“hey,” Red said as he approached, causing Sans to jump. Red gave an apologetic smile and held up the tickets. “they got a show startin’ in ten minutes. wanna find some seats?”
“show?” Sans asked. He frowned at the tickets in Red’s hand, beginning to curl in on himself again. “i … i don’t have the g … ”
“don’t worry about it,” Red said with a shrug and a wave of his hand. “it’s on me.”
Sans raised a brow bone at him, eyelights dimming with uncertainty.
“y-you … you mean it?” He asked.
“ya don’t have to make a big deal about it,” Red answered, annoyance bleeding into his tone. Sans flinched, shrinking away.
Red sighed, his annoyance fading to worry.
“it’s fine,” he said. “i wanna see it, an’ boss’d dust me if I just … abandoned ya.”
Sans still looked uneasy so Red added, “seriously. don’t worry about it.”
“o … okay,” Sans answered, and he looked up to meet Red’s eyelights with a shaky smile. “Thanks.”
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Red only glanced at Sans once during the show.
He’d had them sit in the back, away from everyone else. Their glowing eyelights bothered the human guests, something that Red had dealt with before.
It turned out to be a good decision.
Sans’ eyelights were glued to the whirling cosmos above them, bigger and brighter than Red had ever seen them.
They didn’t rival Blue’s cyan stars, they dwarfed them.
The smile on his face was euphoric and real. Open with wonder and awe.
Red knew that was the same smile he’d worn when he had first been in this room, watching a film similar to this. The same smile he’d worn that first night on the surface, after the sun had set and the stars came out.
He tried to ignore the feelings Sans’ smile raised in his Soul.
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They spent the entire afternoon in the astronomy wing.
Sans went from exhibit to exhibit, reading every placard over and over again.
Like he was trying to encode every detail to memory.
“what’d ya like most?” Red asked as they passed through the gift shop on their way out of the museum. When Sans didn’t answer he glanced back, only to find him holding a NASA mug, eyelights hazy. “sans?”
Sans jumped, putting the mug back and smiling at Red.
“i liked everything,” he said as he caught up to Red. “actually seeing the difference in size between earth and the gas giants was … awesome. puts everything into perspective, how tiny our planet is in the universe. And the pictures? from the surfaces of the moon and mars? from the surface of venus?! it’s amazing what humans have been able to accomplish without magic or a functional understanding of quantum theory. imagine what they’ll be able to do once they start allowing monsters into scientific fields!
“and the moon rock! that little piece of grey basalt is extraterrestrial! and humans brought it here through explosions and mad science! they decided to go to the moon, built a rocket, went there, and brought back a rock. that’s insane!
“and the setup dedicated to what the first mars colonies might look like? so cool.
“and the planetarium show … i can’t begin to describe it. the models of potential exoplanets were fantastic, and the projections of how we might terraform a planet?” Sans sighed happily. “i could spend forever exploring every bit of that wing and never get bored.”
Red laughed in agreement.
“getcha talkin’ about this stuff and ya never shut up, do ya?” Red teased.
He had been enjoying Sans’ exuberance and excitement. He had meant the comment to be playful. He had been the same way the first time he’d come to the museum, spending the whole night ranting to Edge about everything he’d seen.
He expected Sans to blush that pretty blue grey color, maybe be a little embarrassed. Maybe comment something back.
He didn’t expect Sans to deflate. To look away, ashamed, as he crumpled back into his usual slouch. For the bright lights of his eyes to dim, and his grin to fall back into the stiff mask he usually wore, the joy gone like it had never been there.
“s-sorry,” Sans stuttered, voice soft. “i don’t … i didn’t … sorry.”
Red was lost in the wake of Sans’ sudden emotional shift, and he kicked himself for causing it.
“i didn’t mean it like that,” Red said carefully. “i get the same way. space is cool, y’know? sorry.”
Sans shrugged and shook his head, muttering something that sounded suspiciously like “it doesn’t matter, anyway.”
He turned away from Red, and Red let him. He waited as Sans collected himself.
He hid the pain he felt in his Soul when Sans finally turned around to face him, smiling mask in place.
Sans didn’t meet Red’s eyes.
“thanks … for inviting me,” he said. “i had a lot of fun.”
He glanced at the sky, awash in reds and pinks as the sun sank below the horizon.
“i should probably get home,” he said, more to himself than to Red. He looked back at the ground, grey-blue blush on his cheekbones. “i don’t wanna be a bother, after you brought me here, but … could i bum a ride home? i don’t have money for bus fare.”
“yeah, sure,” Red said, off balance from Sans’ mood swings. He offered his arm and pulled them both to the street outside the Tale brother’s apartment building as soon as Sans had grasped it.
Sans stepped back as soon as they were on the other side of the void.
“thanks,” he repeated as he turned to the building.
He took a single step forward, and then stopped. Red could see he was staring at one of the windows, could see his smile ticking away by fractions.
“hey,” Red said.
Sans let out a shuddering breath as he glanced back, eyes wide.
Red rubbed the back of his skull awkwardly as he looked away. “you, uh. ya got a phone, right?”
Sans frowned but nodded, turning fully as he dug it out of his pocket.
“we should exchange numbers,” Red said, the words coming out in a rush before he could regret them. “it’d make it easier to hang out.”
He watched as Sans’ expression did an emotional speed run. Confusion, anger, refusal, relief … acceptance. He held out his phone.
It was an old flip phone. Dumb, worn down, and well out of date. Between the scratches, the LCD burn, and a crack on the lower right that had killed a substantial number of pixels, the screen was nearly unreadable.
It looked a lot like the phone Red had used when they were still in the Underfell Underground, long since tossed for a nicer smartphone now that they were on the Surface.
He pushed aside his questions, although they bounced in his head like ping pong balls.
Why is Sans’ phone so … shit?
Doesn’t Papyrus have a fancy smart phone?
Red flipped through the options, sending himself a text message before handing the phone back to Sans.
“now we got each other’s numbers,” Red said with a lopsided grin, hoping it hid his uneasiness. “text if ya wanna hang out.”
Sans nodded, and the last thing Red said as he stepped through the void was his grin.
Wide and bright again, open and sincere.
The void closed in around him and Red was alone.
He collapsed in his bed, trying to quiet his racing thoughts and to ignore the feeling gnawing at his Soul.
He was no closer to understanding the rift between the Tale brothers.
—Sans—
Sans stared at the spot Red had been, conflicting emotions battling in his core.
He closed his eye sockets, focusing on his breathing to try to calm his confusion and anxiety.
He wanted to focus on the good parts of the day.
He looked up at the sky. The sun had finally set, but it was still too light to see all but the brightest stars.
He’d spent the entire day surrounded by the cosmos and their mystery.
He glanced at the phone in his hand, seeing the text message Red had sent himself. There wasn’t any content, just a single word.
hey
Red had given him his number.
Sans closed his phone and slid it into his pocket, smiling with relief.
He hadn’t fucked up.
Despite everything. Despite not having the money, despite not leaving the astronomy wing, despite talking too much …
He hadn’t fucked up.
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