#you are outside the gender binary

[nonasbirthday]

of course you can read necros and cavs as a parallel to the gender binary bc A) you can do whatever you want forever and B) yeah there's plenty of textual evidence comparing the necro-cav bond to a marriage. however one thing i think many of these discussions keep missing is the fact that most people in the nine houses are not necros or cavs and do in fact exist outside of this binary. which would make it. not really much of a binary

[marihem]

All I know is I just want to spend the majority of my life with you

The actual very first doodle where I finally put my QPR Frans idea on canvas. Man I really love thinking about queer relationships

Please feel free to ask me anything about their relationship too

[agendercryptidlev]

your intersex post failed to mention anything about transmisogny, which is at the forefront of the whole discussion at the Olympics

While I wholeheartedly agree that intersex people are affected by the transmisogyny that so often targets them, the purpose of my post was to give attention to the aspects of the intersex experience that do not correlate to the trans experience, as those are the areas of intersexism that perisex trans people most often ignore. Most people talking about the olympics were entirely ignoring the intersexism at play to exclusively talk about transmisogyny, once again only caring about intersex issues when you can view them through a framework made by a perisex trans person. Intersex people are often targetted by the same people who target perisex trans people, but this is not because of their proximity to the perisex trans experience, more so it's that those who are hatefully transphobic are usually just as, if not more, intersexist.

[ineed-to-sleep]

Funny how all it takes is a couple of conversations with a cis straight man about gender to make me go "yup I'm definitely not cis"

[moreclaypigeons]

No like seriously ARE we ready to talk about the misogyny in fandom spaces

[mamawasatesttube]

thinking about kon and gender euphoria he can't actually put a name on when he tries on a circle skirt and discovers the glee of The Spinny Thing that circle skirts are so good at...

[sprnklersplashes]

I feel like as a general rule I will always be put off by the mentality of "this experience is a Totally Unique Experience which is only experienced by My Group and anyone outside of My Group who claims to have experienced this is Stealing or Did Not Experience It the way My Group did".

[ask-the-totally-real-peppino]

For Fake Peppino, have you heard about Fake Peppina? She made her first appearance in Recd's Lap 3 Cover, and entered the mod called "Peppina Ramen over Peppino." She is only seen in the opening before your boss fight. And in the version 3.8 update, Fake Peppina was now a boss while you're in the background of her boss battle, The Crumbling Tower of Pizza, and the ending of the mod.

('Fake Peppina' does not exist in this AU, and certainly not in the way described - bc that 1. Assumes I (Bean the mod/artist) has seen or was even aware of these (I didn't know about them until this ask), 2. Assumes that the cover and mod are canon here, and their story events played out - which is not the case bc, again I was not aware of them, and I don't take ideas from fan creations such as mods (at least not intentionally fsdklsdf), and 3. Implies that the characters are aware they are in a game and are aware of mods/other fan creations - they're not jlkgsfd

Even regardless of that specific mod, there still is no 'Fake Peppina' or a 'real Peppina' or any genderswapped variation of the characters - I am not a huge fan of genderswapping and that is not the story I want to do

There are plenty of female clones here, but they are their own characters and not just 'Fake Peppina', so if you are looking for specifically her, then you'll have to go somewhere else to find that - there are plenty of creators who do genderswapped AUs etc out there!)

[jackklinemybeloved]

ame worlds beyond number is soooo non-binary coded To Me.

[nest-being]

men should be able to wear skirts without it being considered 'gender bending' like babe, it's a piece of fabric, it doesn't say ANYTHING about someone's gender. what it DOES say, is 'these are the kinds of clothes i like' and that's it. just so sick of the fact that pants are the "androgynous" choice that are okay for anyone to wear but put a man in a skirt and he's a weird, sexual deviant.

like, every day gender feels like more of a prison and people are fine to just go along with it instead of trying to break free. i really think that cishet men (in particular) wearing skirts and dresses and traditionally feminine clothing is a small step in the right direction. men's fashion mostly sucks anyway so they'd be doing the world a favour tbh.

[eldritchmochi]

same guy!!!

[kindergarten / ~2008] / [2016]

[2023] / [2022]

[rjalker]

just saw someone trying to argue that binary privilege isn't a thing because "that assumes all binary trans people pass"

what in the fuck are you talking about.

[farseerofv0id]

*scrolling through the tag for the first time*

"Mizu is a trans man and so it's transphobic for the creators to show part of his life as a woman or talk about him with she/her at all"

*absurd amount of self control not to engage in what would become a fruitless discussion, ultimately keep scrolling*

"Mizu is a woman and it's disrespectful to women to call her a trans man because it takes away a 'strong woman' representation"

*scream into a pillow*

[aptericia]

while I'm thinking about it bc of that last reblog...

I love you Octopath but would it kill you to be normal about fatness? Do you really have to have the most prominent fat characters (Giff, La'mani, and Mother) not only be chapter bosses but also among the most selfish and un-nuanced of them? And the one fat character who isn't evil (Pom) is obsessed with food? Really?

[funnyposts4friends]

imagine being so miserable to the point have to go to the lengths of insulting people for making content that involves women and trying to justify it as being ‘anti man’ when it so clearly isnt.

its not inherently creepy to like women. it is not inherently predatory to like women. people are not inherently invading spaces by liking women or acknowledging their existence. media including women is not inherently lesser it is not inherently taboo it is not something that needs to be exonerated for the crime of having women in it.

telling people not to make content about women is misogynistic, inherently. it is not feminist. ask yourself why you think people should jump through hoops to prove their content about women is valid when people get to make art and stories about men all the time.

why do men get to be the default but you need to justify art and media having women? why are you making people justify including women in their art? because that’s what youre doing and all youre getting out of this faux righteous reactionary tirade is making sure there’s less for women. rot.

[copiawife]

i've been thinking on it and i think i'm agender not non-binary, updated my pinned and carrd to reflect that