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At the lesbian meetup, met a kind of transphobic woman. Started gearing up to get fighty and then realised... she wasn't an actual terf. She was just older, genuinely didn't know stuff, had heard some terf talking points in passing and had been made kind of anxious by them, but hadn't made it her entire personality. She was open to learning that trans women weren't actually roaming around coercing unwilling cis lesbians into sex, thanked me earnestly for giving her a basic explanation of what "non-binary" meant and truly seemed to be relaxing bit by bit the more she heard. Obviously I'm aware that I can't be sure I've given her a sufficient dose of anti-transphobe vaccine to immunise her permanently against the shit that's out there, but overall it made me hopeful. Most people just aren't dyed-in-the-wool bigots. People can be curious and relieved to hear the fearmongering they've been exposed to is untrue. Telling people this stuff isn't a lost cause.

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I have an ask in my inbox which I cannot seem to respond to?

I am very sorry whoever you are but I want you to know that as long as you live in a way that makes you happy and treat people with empathy, everything will work out and if you are ever without a friend I will be here :))

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and separate from platonic feelings too. explain in the tags if you can obvi + feel free to specify if you're aspec! seeking out answers... reblog for reach...

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support your local aros. here's how you can help:

give us 10000 dollars

give us 20000 dollars

a kidney

30000 dollars

by accepting us for who we are :)

40000 dollars

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happy tdov my loves. don't let anyone else define your transness for you.

help trans women evacuate gaza

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Happy asexuality awareness day!

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You'd think I wouldn't have to beat a dead horse but... No actually you wouldn't, seems we all very much have to beat a dead horse on the regular

Hope you've had a good aromantic spectrum awareness week, everyone 💚🤍🩶🖤 I'll be there all... the time.

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A little aroace dragon to start Aro Week 2024 🧡💛🤍🩵💙

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Coming out is a personal choice. You get to choose what you want to share or not about your identity, and with who.

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the day’s only a few hours in and we’re already making it onto the charts… keep it up soldiers

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You know I will actually

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shout out to sleepy aros. go take a nap.

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Same here

As February approaches, and as we reach the starting date for another global strike in solidarity of Palestine, I'm reminded that I've never made a statement solidifying where this blog stands on the manner. I tend to avoid posting anything unrelated to the blog in general, but in this instance it feels important to make it clear what i will and will not tolerate being said here.

This blog is explicitly in solidarity with Palestine. Any rhetoric spoken defending the ongoing genocide or Israel as a whole will be blocked on sight. I will not be accepting questions intending to argue with me on this.

Thank you.

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Perhaps the only people who get to decide what a relationship is is the people in that relationship