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One life, live it. It’s now or never. There’s a reason why we’re here. Answer the call. Live your purpose.

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To anyone out there who’s still hurting over the loss of a breakup.

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And find yourself again. We all struggle with self-doubt and second guess ourselves from time to time and we need to remind ourselves that we’re all different individuals with different struggles. But we also shine in our own unique ways.

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When you’re spiraling down the existential rabbit hole and wondering what the f*** to do with yourself and your life. When you feel like there’s no meaning to your life and existence. You realize that you can still find ways to be useful which then adds meaning and purpose to life. Such as helping others for instance, in ways that only you can. Maybe you have a way with words or maybe you’re good at fixing things, whatever it is and no matter how small and insignificant it may seem to you, it could help someone out there who needs it. And all those little things add up and becomes your life. With meaning.

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Here’s what I’ve concluded after years spent on figuring out the whys and living with the doubt, resentment and lack of closure. Some of us have been on both sides (ghosted on and ghosting on others) for various personal reasons because you could be stuck in a situation whereby telling the truth or confronting the other person may cause more hurt and damage, and this may seem the safer option or only way out of all the drama. There’s also the fear of rejection, abandonment and attachment issues that some of us could be struggling with that causes people to do so (ghost on others). Or, you’re simply tired of putting up with crap from someone such as lying, betrayal or abuse. Also, if you’re dealing with someone who’s in a fragile state of mind, you’ll have to think of the consequences if you were to tell them. Depending on the situation and person, if you wanted to be open and honest with them about the reason behind why things aren’t working out, would they be able to accept the reality of it, or deny, defend and justify their actions? Would that exacerbate the situation and cause them to have a meltdown? And if you can’t lie about it and can’t tell the truth about it, one might consider resorting to ghosting. It all depends on the situation and circumstances. I hope this helps someone out there gain some understanding and find some form of peace and closure in their own way.