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My list of Queer Movies:

I now have them in categories so they’re easier to find!

Gay/MLM:

Monsoon

And Then We Danced

The 10 Tear Plan

BearCity

Friends And Family

Brokeback Mountain

Those People

I Am Jonas

I Am Michael

Handsome Devil

The Thing About Harry

Your Name Engraved Herein

Seashore

Benjamin

Play The Devil

From Zero To I Love Uou

Wish You

Loev

Breaking Fast

Supernova

My Own Private Idaho

(BPM) Beats Per Minute

Happy Yogether

Weekend

Beautiful Thing

Parting Glances

Mysterious Skin

Maurice

Giant Little Ones

Boy Erased

The Way He Looks

The Birdcage

Last Summer

Fair Haven

Men For Sale

Dreams From Strangers

Lucky Bastard

Daddy

Out In The Dark

District

Into The Lion’s Den

I Want To Get Married

Hara Kiri

I Am Happiness On Earth

Moonlight

Peyote

Such Good People

Holding The Man

Naz & Maalik

Getting Go: The Go Doc Project

Touch Of Pink

Sun Kissed

Free Fall

Shared Rooms

Boys

Rag Tag

Something Beautiful

A Wake

Ripples Of Water

Akron

Love The One You’re With

Speech And Debate

Milk

Alaska Is A Drag

Eternals

Bros

Lesbian/WLW:

Dare Me

Saving Face

Elisa And Marcella

The Favorite

The Miseducation of Cameron Post

Tell It To The Bees

Rafiki

Elena Undone

Ride or Die

Ana e Vitória

The World To Come

The Girl King

House Of Hummingbird

Disobedience

The Watermelon Woman

Imagine Me & You

Duck Butter

Desert Hearts

Shiva Baby

Girl Gets Girl

Elvis And Madonna

Her Side Of The Bed

Sand Dollars

Below Her Mouth

Summer Time

Kyss Mig

Hearts Beat Loud

The Half Of It

Pariah

Mosquita y Mari

Cloudburst

Two Of Us

The Feels

Benedetta

The Portrait Of a Lady On Fire

Colette

Claire Of The Moon

The Handmaiden

My Last Summer

Beautiful Creatures

Between Two Women

Circumstance

The Fish Child

Signature Move

Set It Off

Unfreedom

Stud Life

Desi’s Looking For A New Girl

Yes Or No

Tender

Ammonite

Moonlit Winter

Trans:

Port Authority

The True Adventures of Wolfboy

Transfinite

Alice Junior

A Fantastic Woman

Happy Birthday, Marsha!

Tangerine

Disclosure

Paris Is Burning

Anything’s Possible

Bit

Girl

Boy Meets Girl

Boys Don’t Cry

Ma Vie En Rose

Queer: (Multiple Sexualities/Genders In These Films And/or Sexualities Not Disclosed)

Undertow

Check It

But I’m A Cheerleader

Edge Of Seventeen

Saturday Church

Tucked

The Wound

Stage Mother

Lady Peacock

Velvet Goldmine

Bessie

The Skinny

Can You Ever Forgive Me?

Heartstone

Booksmart

Polyamory:

The Sex Of Angel’s (M/M/F)

Havana Eva (M/F/M)

Vicky Christina Barcelona (F/F/F)

Design For Living (M/F/M)

Taste Of Betel Nut M/M/F)

We Are Three (M/M/F)

Professor Marston And The Wonder Women (M/F/F)

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I’m still adding to this list, recommendations are greatly appreciated!

If any of these are labeled wrong or are problematic let me know I’ll change or remove them!

I also do not know of the Trigger Warnings for any of these movies as I haven’t seen most of them, please do your research, protect yourself!

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Sapphic Images from Akram Zaatari’s Curated Archival Collection of Hashem El Madani’s Studio Practices

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To savour you I’d die of thirst

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People from this country are always so beautiful

(the flag is super pretty, too)

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Anyone else feel like you've just settled for a certain name or pronouns?

I don't like words. Speaking, reading, writing, spelling. I don't like them.

Human feelings are far more complex than any language can ever be.

So I haven't found any pronouns that actually feel like me. I've settled for He/They. Yeah, I'm comfortable with them, I'll answer to them but they don't feel like ME. None of them do.

I haven't found a name that is ME yet either.

He, She, They, Ze, Hy, Fae, Hir, Em... nothing, I've heard of a lot of neopronouns. nothing.

Nothing feels like ME.

Don't know if I ever will find the right ones.

Maybe my distaste for words is part of what's making it hard to find ones I like and that fit me.

Maybe there are no words for me.

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Michaela Coel is rumored to be playing Aneka in Black Panther 2: Wakanda Forever!

This is what I can find about the character:

"Aneka was the combat instructor for the Dora Milaje. She was tasked by T'Challa to train the female warriors in techniques that could combat robots in anticipation of the Doomwar"

Michael Coel is Aromantic and is rumored to be saying a Lesbian character, Aneka, who in the comics, is in a relationship with Ayo of the Dora Milaje!

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Aces and Aros are LGBT, cry about it

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With Hurricane Ida making landfall, I want to be sure that disabled people and their families/friends are aware of the Disability and Disaster Hotline, which can be reached by calling (800) 626-4959.

The Disability & Disaster Hotline provides information, referrals, guidance, technical assistance and resources to people with disabilities, their families, allies, organizations assisting disaster impacted individuals with disabilities, and others seeking assistance with immediate and urgent disaster-related needs.

How they help:

- Urgent disability-related disaster response referrals

- Prevention of institutionalization during and after disasters

- Applying for, understanding and navigating FEMA and other federal, state and local government emergency and disaster programs and services

- Disability rights before, during and after disasters

- Accessible and actionable emergency information

- Building and neighborhood evacuation

- Accessible transportation

- Sheltering and temporary housing

- Disaster housing programs

- Alternatives to “special needs” and “medical” sheltering and “special needs” and “voluntary” registries

- Health maintenance

- Health care access

- Disability accommodations in disasters

- Repair, replacement and loaned durable medical equipment, disability supplies, and assistive devices

- Resuming school/work/home life after a disaster

- Navigating disaster recovery initiatives

- Disaster funding

They provide accessible and multilingual information to callers, including via videophone for the deaf or hard of hearing, upon request to info@disasterstrategies.org

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How to help Hurricane Ida victims

While the hurricane is finally weakening, the victims are going to be impacted long after it passes. Please avoid donating to the red cross as they have been known to misuse funds. The salvation army also has an extensive history of homophobia and transphobia.  Here are some groups to support that will directly benefit local communities!

http://cajunnavyrelief.com/ and https://www.thecajunnavy.org/ are local organizations that volunteer to rescue and provide supplies to victims during and after hurricanes

https://www.imaginewaterworks.org/ is another local organization for mutual aid and disaster prep. They’ve put together resources like the Queer/Trans Guide to Hurricane Season, Covid-19 Guide to Hurricane Season and lead the Mutual Aid Response Network

https://mutualaiddisasterrelief.org/ has a sign up form if you are able to volunteer including options that can be done remotely!

https://wck.org/ provides emergency food relief and is in New Orleans making food for shelters

https://southernsolidarity.org/ is a group that organizes food delivery, medical resources, and more services for unhoused citizens in New Orleans

https://anothergulf.com/ida/ has a frontline resource page specifically for Ida as well as a mutual aid response fund for vulnerable families

Another Gulf also has this list of indigenous communities to support:

http://www.atakapa-ishak.org/

http://www.isledejeancharles.com/donate

https://unitedhoumanation.org/donate/

https://pactribe.tripod.com/

https://www.gcdbcc.org/support

If you have been affected by the hurricane and need support, please add your own donation links!

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When I say toxic monogamy culture, this is what I mean.

The idea that someone mistreating you is love.

The belief that masturbation after getting a partner means you're a ill behaved person.

The idea that you can't ever masturbate and MUST wait until your marrige partner touches you to ever be touched down there at all.

The fact everyone ignores that whole idea of marrige which stems from oppression and ownership.

The idea that you MUST throw away all your sex toys because "you have a partner now and don't need them "

The normalization of jealousy as a indicator of love.

The fact people think having insecurities makes you a bad partner.

The glorification of jealousy that turns into physical abuse as a indicator of true love and care.

The idea that physical abuse = love

The idea that you owned by your partner.

The fact people knowingly cover up their partner abusing their children cause their partner matters the most..

The idea that all attraction to anyone else just disappears when you put a ring on it.

The false belief that your partner should always know what you're thinking and feeling.

The falsehood that healthy communication is a indicator of failing love.

The idea that you should meet your partners every need no matter the cost.

The belief that your partner matters more then your children.

The idea that your children are your competition...

The idea that having a marrige and children is the only life that's worth living.

The idea that your partner no matter what should always matter more then your family and friends.

The normalization that your partner is allowed to dictate who you speak with.

The fantasy that boundaries stop existing when you get married.

The idea that disagreeing or judging your partner is practicality a horrible offense.

The belief that personal therapy is somehow offensive to your partner.

The idea that consent stops mattering when you're committed to one person.

The idea that your partners sexual trauma doesn't matter as much as your sexual desires..

The fact people think r×pe is okay as long as you're married..

The belief that couples counselling is somehow bad..

The fact people get jealous over character crushes..

The idea that partners should have no privacy at all.

The idea that you must talk with your partner before changing your body because their feelings on your body matter more then your own.

The belief that " true love " without work is a thing..

The falsehood that love =/= understanding

The idea that love =/= trust

The fetishization of taking your partner's virginity..

The idea that a piece of paper the government made = love

The belief that a mental ring = happiness forever.

The idea that breeding is the biggest sign of love and if you can't breed then it's not true love.

The idea that you'll never be unhappy at any point on your marrige ever and if you are then you're a bad partner.

The " you share everything and nothing is your own " belief.

The idea that love = giving virginity.

The idea that your children's lives matter less then the whims of your partner..

The belief that you'll know exactly who you are and will be completely whole just because you have a partner.

The idea that you'll never fully love yourself until someone else loves you.

The belief that your value as a partner should indicate how you value yourself.

The belief that self-care is selfishness.

The belief that divorce is bad.

The idea that you'll be whole when you're married.

The fact people think emotionally loving your children more or just as much as your partner is bad.

The falsehood that sex = love.

The idea that alone time is selfish.

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Reblog with your pride flags!

Pride flag chain?

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So what if I'm bisexual and polyamorous? A stereotype doesn't invalidate who I am, and that goes for all other mspec polyamorous people, too. It can be exhausting when monogamous mspec people try to justify deserving respect by emphasizing their monogamy; it's not our fault that these stereotypes exist, and we shouldn't have to silence ourselves to be palatable to those who don't question the stereotypes they hear. Every mspec person deserves respect, no matter the relationship type they prefer, and if we're polyamorous alongside being mspec, then bigots will just have to deal with it.

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Congratulations to Luke Prokop! He is the first NFL player (under contract) to come out as gay (July 19, 2021) - the first player under contract with an NHL team to do so.

"It has been quite the journey to get to this point in my life, but I could not be happier with my decision to come out.”

Prokop currently plays with Calgary Hitmen. He signed a three-year entry-level contract with the Nashville Predators. I wish him luck. He may need it - Tennessee is one of the most backward state in the country!