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I've been seeing a disturbing number of "queer safe spaces" describe themselves as things like "femme & them" and even worse "she+," conflating femininity & nonbinaryhood. cease this immediately. say it with me: nonbinary people are NOT women-lite and it is extremely violent and straight up incorrect to imply that all they/thems are fem adjacent. this is erasure and this verbiage does nothing but make gnc and nonbinary spaces unsafe for masc and male nonbinary people. nonbinary, genderqueer and other third gender people can be and are masculine and men, we can be hes as well as shes and theys, stop allowing yourself and your peers to view nonbinary as woman/femme-lite, signed a butch nonbinary person.

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Looking for friends update

I wanted to do an update especially since its been a hot minute since ive been on tumblr but here it goes!

Name: Sage or Rowan

Pronouns: They/them (Non-binary)

Age: 18

Fav music - Stray Kids, Txt, Ateez, Enhypen, Rihanna, NF, Chase Atlantic, Cigarettes After Sex, Doja Cat, 2000's and early 2010's RNB,Pop, and rap

I also enjoy to listen to true crime podcasts

Favorite show to watch right now is How To Get Away With Murder

I'm from America

I'm 5'4

College Freshman @salemstateuniversity

My hobbies are cooking/baking, reading, listening to music/podcasts, watching tv, talking to people or sleeping lol

tbh idek what else to put here but yeah thats me. Also p.s plz dont message me if ur 16 or younger. Honestly tbh i say that bc im 18 and thats super weird ngl.

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My dear lgbt+ kids, 

Some of those adjectives in positivity posts probably do not apply to you - and your existence is still a positive thing. 

Maybe you are not funny, or perhaps you are not smart. And I’m sure you are actually not always looking beautiful and you aren’t always kind, either (because, let’s be honest, who is?). 

And you know what? That’s fine, and not just in the “You have your own highly individual positive qualities because humans are so diverse that a sweet little text post with a bunch of generic keywords can’t possibly cover everyone’s unique strengths” sense - but also in the way that its fine to just be alive. 

You are not meant to be a walking list of all those positive qualities. You aren’t a bunch of descriptive words. You are alive. 

You don’t need to fit into the labels funny or smart or creative or hot or whatever. You just need to be alive. You are the only one who can think exactly like you do. You have the unique quality of being able to experience the world like you do, to see the world through your eyes. 

Your life is worthwhile because you are living it. 

With all my love, 

Your Tumblr Dad 

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Looking for online friends!

I’ll tell y’all a little about me. My name is Rowan or Sage. My pronouns are He/they/she. I have no preference on my name or pronouns. I am genderfluid and bisexual. I am 17 years old. English is my only language. I love K-pop. I love to bake even though I never have the time to do so but I still love to do it when I am free. My pfp is actually me. Also no I do need to wear glasses I just wear blue light glasses because it helps when I’m looking at screens or bright lights and also they boost my confidence. Anyways that is me. If y’all wanna be friends lmk!

Also plz do not respond if you’re 15 or younger

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~Bisexual space moodboard~ Requests are open!

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this user is bisexual

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btw there's no hard barriers between any queer identities- where one identity ends and another begins, they meld together, creating a gradient between the two, and every other identity around it. it's one big gradient, not rigid boxes that can never be touched by one another. queerness involves embracing those gray areas, celebrating them, and the lives of people who occupy them. being unique does not involve casting away those who are similar to you- there are no barriers between different queers, we are all part of the the same beautiful tapestry.

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There's a house on my way home that has one of those Home Depot 12 ft. skeletons and they haven't taken it down since Halloween, just dressed it up in holiday-appropriate wear and of course for June it's all about Pride so please allow your dash to be blessed by 12 ft. Pride Skeleton

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A Message for Trans Day of Visibility

A bit of a late post, but in honor of Trans Day of Visibility:

I wish every one of my fellow trans/nonbinary/genderqueer comrades to receive an Award of Greatness for achievement, progression, authenticity, courage, strength, and so much more. You are here and that is important and valuable.

It's really rough out here. You got this. I know you do ❤️

-Sincerely, Min

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transmasculine is not an afab exclusive word and transfeminine is not an amab exclusive word go forth and be transsexual Be ftmtf. be mtftmtnb. Be god. be the moss on the sidewalk. be a whole forest. Love the creature u live in. Just stop telling people they're wrong for existing in the most lively and loving way they can.

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Here's the thing, sometimes my gender is boy and sometimes it is girl. Most of the time it is fluid.

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Me in a nutshell of like the last 4 years

found back this thing from 2021

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Looking for online friends!

I’ll tell y’all a little about me. My name is Rowan or Sage. My pronouns are He/they/she. I have no preference on my name or pronouns. I am genderfluid and bisexual. I am 17 years old. English is my only language. I love K-pop. I love to bake even though I never have the time to do so but I still love to do it when I am free. My pfp is actually me. Also no I do need to wear glasses I just wear blue light glasses because it helps when I’m looking at screens or bright lights and also they boost my confidence. Anyways that is me. If y’all wanna be friends lmk!

Also plz do not respond if you’re 15 or younger

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monsam  💘

check more of my work on instagram // buy prints here

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