other sa survivors, does anyone else hate the trend of people saying like 'im gonna touch you' as a .. joke ??
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(TW: Mentions of Su1c1de, COCSA, SA, and Gr@pe) Me Hugging Sarah Gardener
Today I’ve seen a YT video by @Aspiringauthorwithasweettooth and let me say, This is honestly so sad and how it accurately portrays sexual harassment and COCSA really well and NGL, I teared up when Sarah (that’s the girl I’m hugging), committed Su1c1de at a young age because of that fucking creep Tom Anderson! AND BOY I SO GLAD HE GOT HIS JUST DESSERTS!!! Hope he has a swell life in Hell! And want to know the worst part? Both Tom and Sarah only TWELVE!! Yes fucking 12! I can’t believe that fucking Tom instantly drew her inappropriate pictures of her in his sketchbook and even Gr@ped her!!!! And He made Valentino from Hazbin Hotel look like a very likable character! And poor Sarah, she’s doesn’t deserve to live that sort of hell with that creep, and fact that can happen IRl because I heard that many people commited su1c1de due to Sexual Abuse. . . . . . . . But with all that matters . . . . . . . . That the actual monsters are the ones who sexually assault innocent people.
And if you want to see the video, here, Be warned because there are some pretty heavy topics:
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I need a clear answer or whether or not this counts as COCSA:
If your cousin tried to kiss you when you were younger despite you constantly telling him no, does that could as COCSA?
When it happened, we were alone, standing in very tall blades of grass and playing a game. Then he asked to kiss me. I told him no and he asked again. I kept telling him no over and over until he finally gave up. I knew it was wrong because we were cousins. I pretty sure it only happened one time.
I never chalked it up as sexual abuse because it’s just kissing and I thought it didn’t have as much of an effect on me; but now whenever I see him, I just remember that event instantly. I feel uncomfortable around him and get intrusive sexual thoughts about him.
My therapist told me that it’s not abuse because it’s between two children, and “kid-to-kid” is not abuse. I asked her if that was the only reason, and she said yes, and that if it was “adult-to-kid” then it would be different. I don’t know who to believe and I just need a clear answer.
I would say that counts as COCSA. Ultimately it is up to you to define.
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can’t cut? then listen to songs that remind you of your trauma!
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// Did anyone else watch those Fight Child Abuse videos to feel more validated about your experiences when you were younger 😭😭
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trying to figure out if it was really assault or I was just being dramatic
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