#🫧 journal *.⊹

[dreamyning]

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✿﹒ 𝗡𝗜𝗡𝗚 𝗬𝗜𝗭𝗛𝗨𝗢 🕸️ 𝗦𝗖𝗢𝗥𝗣𝗜𝗢 𝗕𝗔𝗕𝗬 ♡ྀི - 𝟐𝟑𝟎𝟖𝟎𝟐 𐙚 INFO 🌙

[thejournallo]

Life Hack: the right affirmations

If you struggle to find the proper affirmations for specific manifestations but enjoy reading or read a lot, choose a book that discusses what you want to materialize and highlights the lines that can be used as affirmations!

For example:

Some affirmations may appear as "you are everything I need, and you already are." and some can appear as "he got closer to me; he looked___." 

if you are intrested in more method check the masterlist!

[digitalautumn]

🌿 Relationship Healing 🌿

“People know your worth, they just hope that you don’t.”

The fact is relationships are not easy. Sometimes we get consumed by social media or our friends situations and assume they have the perfect relationship making us feel some kind of way about our own. What changes this and how you navigate relationships is knowing your worth. A relationship I was in, that person treated me terribly by my standards. I was secure and suddenly I was anxiously attached comfortable with being shown I was not a priority. At some point I had to look in the mirror and be mad at myself for forgetting my worth.

How did I discover my worth again?

I made a list of everything they did that I would not find expectable for someone I loved or my future child to go through. If I questioned their love for me, their loyalty, if they did something that felt like a betrayal I wrote it down. It doesn’t have to be what others considered bad, it was anything that hurt me. Once I had this list I made the decision to either make it work or leave.

Once you understand your worth it is so much easier to get up and leave at any moment.

Journal Prompt:

Make a list of how the person hurt you emotionally, physically, or mentally. Reflect over that list until you start to see it was less than your worth. Make that the example of what you will not go back to or what your new person should not do. For example,

I will not allow someone to call me out of my name.

I will not allow someone to talk about others in a way that makes me uncomfortable.

I will not allow someone to _____________.

Start making a habit of seeing what you deserve. It won’t happen overnight but eventually you’ll get to the point that bad behavior will become unacceptable.

Affirmation:

🌱 I am worthy of love and deserve to have a fulfilling relationship.

[chantalstacys]

saturday morning 🍃

[wayward-sherlock]

year in review playlist is going well.

[2zen]

zen's azure spider lily journal entry from nov. 3, 1915. some info from @askbluespiderlily and the corps records book ^_^

first page:

[drawings of blue spider lilies in shallow or deep water labelled shallow? or deep?]

'only drawn bloomed so I know how to draw spider lilies. ❀'

'they actually look like horsetails.'

[drawing of horsetail. no colour.]

'they still look nice in the ponds unbloomed, though.'

second page:

'I want to go with shallow water because I'd be able to hide them from moonlight with a blanket.'

'I don't think they'd be able to photosynthesize in deep water anyway. the only way I'd be able to hide them is with the lotuses, and I don't think our leader would be very happy with me moving them.'

'I wonder what they mean. they don't seem to show up in my hanakotoba book.'

[absentmoon]

anyways back to wizard posting Odozeir

[cupidmio]

i love my BED!!!!!!! i love my HOUSE!!!!!!!!!! i love my PAJAMAS!!!!!!! i love my CAT!!!!!!!!

[loveemagicpeace]

North node in houses🌠

🫧North node in 1st house-you can fight with your personality, appearance, courage and fear. You have the feeling that you never have enough courage to do something or you are afraid that you will embarrass yourself or that you will look stupid. The most important thing here is that u trust yourself. Maybe you can pay too much attention to what others think, but the mission here is to pay attention to yourself. The key lessons of the north node in first house are developing independence and learning to be brave and stand up for yourself. You also need to let go of the abandonment issues and clinginess. You have to find a way to find yourself (many times someone can help you), especially the person who have the first house placements can open you up a lot personally.

💗North node in 2nd house- many times you can have problems with your value. People with this placement often struggle between materialism and love. Many times you can feel that money shows your worth. Which means that without money you can feel worthless. You can see love through money or you can feel that this is why people love you. You can feel power through money, valuable things, cars & everything related to luxury. You may have problems with food or you may have an unhealthy relationship with food (this can be in several ways). Let's say you only eat once a day. Many times you can lose your appetite if you have too many worries (especially money-related). Also I don’t know why but I noticed that these people don't like music. In general, it's hard for you to find pleasure in life, but it's actually one of the most important things. U are worthy! Remember that.

💬North node in 3rd house- you may have a problem with speaking, expressing yourself. It is difficult for you to find the right words to describe how you feel or what you want to say. NN guides individuals along a path of mental and social growth. Communication and writing are very important with this placement. You can develop as a person a lot through writing and journaling. You can have close friends or you can be happily married, but you feel that you are a stranger in your local community.

🏖️North node in 4th house- you have a problem finding your safe place, people with whom you feel safe and at home. You want to have your own private space where it's just you. There is a tendency to want to control everything and everyone, what can cause you trouble in your family life. It is hard for you to cooperate with others. Maybe you felt like you never had anyone who was really there for you or with whom you felt completely safe. Your home can sometimes be an unsafe place for you. In this life u have to find your safe place and people.

🎠North node in 5th house- you may have trouble finding your joy. Maybe it's hard for you to be in the energy of a child or to give in to your inner child. I think a little prince book would be good for people with this north node-to remember what it's like to be a child and surrendered in your childish joy. You may have trouble showing your talents and being seen. You can also have a dating problem. You can also feel lonely, even though you are surrounded with people. Many people with this placement are afraid of standing up for themselves and prioritizing their own wishes. You have to learn to shine on your own. Find things that make you happy. Remeber the happy memories.

🌸North node in 6th house- you have problems finding your own routine. Maybe many times you have a problem with your health (in the sense that you worry too much about how things will turn out or not at all). Maybe it is difficult for you to find a suitable job or a job that would really interest you. This north node also suggests that you are prone to escapism. Maybe it's hard for you to stay in one routine. But since this house is also connected with animals, others, the physical body - this can also mean that you have a problem with getting along with animals or you have a more alienated attitude towards them (not necessarily), it can also mean that you often face the loss of animals.

🎨North node in 7th house- you can have relationship problems, stay in a relationship, or let go completely. You may always have the feeling that something is missing or that the person is not giving you as much as you thought. Many times you can be hurt by people. Maybe you never feel fully accepted in a relationship. You may face a lot of ups and downs in life, justice, maybe even a divorce, or maybe your marriage is more challenging. You want to do things your own way. This also suggests that you don’t like taking advice from others. Here you have to learn to accept the opinion of others and listen.

🌊North node in 8th house-you maybe have issues with your intimacy or being intimate with others. It’s similarly to Scorpio north node. You also have some trust issues and you do not easily trust people actually. It's very hard for you to trust someone and really believe them. You can carry a lot of secrets within you. Maybe since you being a child or from your very early age. It could be some secrets about your family and you don't want to tell anybody. You feel like nobody really gets you or understand you or that nobody will accept your dark side. Can also be some dark stuff about your family that you're ashamed to. You want someone who will be there for you forever. Somebody that will never die(vampire diaries thing),somebody that will never leave you ,somebody you can trust with all your heart. Ride or die kind of love.

🧁North node in 9th house-it is difficult for you to find faith, meaning and optimism. You may have lost your faith as a child and it is difficult for you to find something to believe in again. It can also mean that your faith has disappointed you and that the things you strongly believed in were not what you thought they were. Goals are to find meaning and live for it. You have to learn to live in the moment and enjoy the given moment, because you never know if you will be able to experience something twice. You have to grow through what you are. Another key life lesson with this placement is developing a sense of freedom.

☕️North node in 10th house-In this lifetime, you can experience tremendous growth in this life area if you are willing to face the challenges and lack of experience. Your soul wants to take responsibility for your life and become the master of your own ship. You may have trouble building a career or feeling worthy of it. Many times you are looking for your place in this life and among the audience. You want to be seen and noticed. You want to make an impression. You may have a problem with your father or your relationship with him may be a bit distant. It can also be that it is difficult for you to be around people who are older than you and that you feel uncomfortable.

🐚North node in 11th house- you can have problems with friends. Maybe it's hard for you to find a friend who would really understand you and see you for who you are. Many times you feel like you don't belong in the group and that you are the outsider in the group. Even though you craved friendships, the north node in 11th house suggests that in the past, you didn’t fit in well in any circle of friends. Many north node in 11th house people are lonely as children and young adults. You may have a problem keeping friends and people around you, and quickly people don't suit you.

❄️North node in 12th house- you have a problem with staying hidden. You have the feeling that people don't see and understand you the way you would like them to. People with this placement tend to be hard on themselves. It can be harder for you to forget and forgive things. People with this placement are strongly attached to reality. It is actually hard for you to be dreamy. In your lifetime you can meet a lot of people who are spiritual. The north node in the twelfth house indicates that you have to let go sometimes. Immersing yourself in the world of fantasy and the divine helps you find balance in your life.

-Rebekah🍸📀❄️

[stararch4ngelqueen]

Star’s DC Masterlist (+18)

Genres/Tags-

Fluff (💕) Pregnancy (🍼)

Smut (🔞) Angst (⛓️) Suggestive (🔥)

Jason Todd

Drabbles -

• A Cozy Accident (🍼💕)

• Friday Night Entertainment (💕🔞)

• Impatience (🔞🔞)

• Overachiever (💕🔞)

• Move Night Gone Right (🔞🔞)

• Don’t Call Him Jealous (🔞🔞)

• Revive your Piece of Mind (💕⛓️)

• Repose (💕💕)

• Cold Gotham Weather (💕🔥)

• Menstruation Crustacean/Period HCs ( 🦀 💕)

• The Journal (TW: Suicide/⛓️⛓️)

• Do Not Imagine (⛓️⛓️)

• Innocent Possession (🔞🔞)

• Leather Weather (💕☕️)

• A Warm Hug (💕🫂)

• His Favorite Part of You (💕💕)

• Broody Behavior & Nutella Sandwiches (💕🥪)

• He’ll Show you how to Cut Onions (💕🧅)

• Grocery Shopping (💕🍨)

• Bath Time (💕🫧)

• Fresh From the Dryer (💕🫂)

• A Five Dollar Shake & A Proposal (💕💍)

• Freshly Cleaned Floors (💕🧹)

• Red Couch Potato (💕🥔)

• Midnight Blues (⛓️💕)

• Temptation of Chocolate Croissants (💕🔥)

• Cozy Kitchen Waltz (💕🫂)

• A Soft Night (💕🔞)

• Light Use of Laughing Gas (💕🦷)

• Afterglow Discussion (💕🔥)

• Chronic Pain (💕⛓️)

• Early Morning Surprise (🔥🔞)

• Thanksgiving with BatFam (💕🦃)

• The Book Cover (🔥🔞)

• Early Morning Nightcap (🔞🔞)

• A Compromise (⛓️🍼💕)

Finished Mini-Series -

• Low Rise Melancholy Pt.1 (⛓️💕)

• High Rise Melancholy Pt.2 (⛓️💕)

• Motivation Pt.1 (💕🍼)

• Sympathy for Breakfast Pt.2 (💕🍼)

• Ripping Clothes Off Pt.1 (🔥🔞)

• Ripping Clothes Off Pt.2 (🔞🔞)

Ongoing Series -

• Sheer Irony Pt.1 (⛓️💕)

• Mischievous Curiosities Pt.2 (🔥🔞)

• Dancing in the Dark Pt.3 (💕🔥🔞)

• Behind Blue Eyes Pt.4 (⛓️⛓️)

Dick Grayson

Drabbles -

• Date Night Blues (💕💕)

• Taking the Wheel (🔥🔞)

[dreamyning]

gym date but we both are foodie and i’m always hungry :< @icy-psh

[digitalautumn]

🌱 Healing Tip 🌱

Healing begins when you start having honest conversations with yourself. -Ash Alves

One of the biggest tips that has helped me grow and heal is journaling, more specifically writing letters to my past self and what I wanted to hear from others. To understand what was missing I needed to understand what I wanted to hear from people who hurt me. Telling myself if I heard this it would have gone a long way.

Journal Prompts:

Write a letter to yourself saying how proud of the progress you are making big or small.

Write a honest letter to the people or persons that have hurt you. You don’t have to send it, but it off your chest.

What could I have done differently? Holding ourselves accountable is hard, but in the long run it is worth it.

How did I change from this experience?

What did I learn about myself?

Affirmation:

I am healing myself from the inside out and love who I am becoming.

[z0mbi3k1d]

Ways to feel more girly

🎀 Bake something

🍥 Listen to your playlist or a generic girly playlist

🩰 Light a candle

🧁 Play dress up

🛍 Paint your nails

🍓 Do skincare

🌷 Water plants

🌸 Make tea or have a tea party with stuffies

🍡 Color a coloring page

🫧 Take a bubble bath

🍭 Make a new Pinterest board

🍨 Write in a journal

💌 Write a letter

🍮 Manifest

🥛 Listen to subliminals

💐 Pick flowers

🍰 Put fuzzy socks on

🪽 Take a nap :3

☁ Watch clouds

🦢 Meditate

🪐 Eat some chocolate

🧸 Use a music box

🤍 Walk in a forest

Upcoming posts

I don't really know lol

Links

Thanks for reading, love you! Drink water and have a good day! 🩷

[tiniestkitty]

🫧🌧️ tips for regressors struggling with depression and anxiety 🌧️🫧

( here are some things that have personally helped me as a person with severe depression as well as generalized anxiety disorder during depressive episodes in the past. not everything might work for you, and I'm not the best at writing but I hope you find some of this helpful. remember you are loved and cherished🩷 )

🧸 one thing that has helped me tremendously has been starting a therapy / mental health journal. you can find prompts online, or even come up with your own ! I find tracking my triggers (what makes me feel upset or anxious), reflecting on how I handled my day, writing my thoughts, and what I'd like to bring up in my next therapy session helps me feel a lot better. ૮ ◞ ﻌ ◟ ა

-you can take time to learn about your brain and how it makes choices; for example, learning about and researching your trauma responses, mental illnesses and how to ground yourself during panic attacks. sometimes our brain can make us feel or think things that we can't control, so its important to differentiate between what we are telling ourselves and what our brain is telling us.

🫧 be kind to yourself and take time to rest if you need to. Indulge in things you like and find calming activities to do after a hard day such as coloring, doing a fun craft, playing a video game or using play therapy.

🧸 distance yourself from relationships or people that make you feel uncomfortable or are harmful to your mental health. its not mean to say you need space. you can still be friends and have established boundaries, and if someone dose not respect those boundaries its okay to distance yourself from them or take a break from talking to them until you start to feel better and are more capable of saying how important those boundaries are.

🫧 make sticker charts and schedules ! I have one for brushing my teeth. I also use a fun app on my phone called Pokémon Smile that reminds me to brush and sets a timer. ૮₍ ˃ ᵕ ˂ ₎ა

🧸 find little things to look forward to, like a new movie coming out, a birthday or a Holliday you love. sometimes I order little gifts for myself in the mail after doing a big task or getting trough a hard day hehe ! ૮ ◞ ﻌ ◟ ა

🫧 clean your space, and maybe even redecorate a little to give yourself a fresh start

🧸 find ways to "work around" overwhelming tasks like running errands or going to the doctor by bringing a comfort item or stuffed animal with you. you could keep them in your bag if you are too shy to hold them, but from my experience, no one seems to mind hehe. /lh I also like to pack fidget toys to hold when I get anxious.

🩵💕 extra recourses 💕🩵

breathing practices for anxiety relief and grounding

hotline numbers

inner child healing journal prompts

[mandm-cringe]

☆ F/O ask game collection!

{My favorite questions I've seen!}

⭐️🌟⭐️🌟⭐️🌟⭐️🌟⭐️🌟⭐️🌟⭐️🌟⭐️🌟⭐️

🎨 - Do you journal about your F/O?

🌈 - Is your F/O queer {canon or headcanon}? What labels do they use, if any?

💐 - What flower do you associate with your oc F/O? Why?

🍓 - What are you and your F/O’s trope{s}?

🦋 - How did you and your F/O meet?

💭 - How would the fandom react to your S/I?

🫧 - Did you ever keep your relationship secret from anyone?

💗 - What are your pet names for your f/o’s? what are their pet names for you?

💛 - What’s the silliest nickname(s) you have for each other?

💖 - What's your favorite nickname/petname for your F/O? How about your favorite nickname/petname that they call you?

🩵- Do either try to hide their emotions if upset? Can the other still tell?

🪁 - Do you and your F/O live together? If not do you want to or plan on it?

🐱 - Do you and your have any pets? {Together or separate}

💤 - Who sleeps in and who’s an early riser?

🎀 - Do they wear the other’s clothes? {Sweatshirt, bandana, necklace, etc.}

💌 - Do you and your f/o’s send each other love letters?

💝 - What kind of gifts does/do your f/o’s give you?

🎊 - Who makes a big deal out of every little anniversary?

🐞 - Who insists they’re luckier to have found the other person?

💟 - What’s a non verbal way they say I love you?

🥰 - Can they sit side by you without touching you or are they handsy? {lacing fingers, touching knees, etc.}

❤️ - Which one would take their jacket it off and drape over the other one because they were visibly shivering?

💘 - Who fell first and who fell harder?

☔️ - Who carries an umbrella everywhere & who splashes in puddles?

👾 - Who asks ridiculous questions?

💋 - Who kisses the other and leave as many lipstick marks as possible and who gets all heart-eyed and melty like a lovestruck cartoon character?

🪩 - Who is more likely to jump in an elevator? Who freaks out?

🧸 - Would they build a pillow fort together just because?

⭐️🌟⭐️🌟⭐️🌟⭐️🌟⭐️🌟⭐️🌟⭐️🌟⭐️🌟⭐️

[sk-lumen]

How to declutter for a fresh New Year 🫧

The very first time I got into the spirit of minimalism and decluttering physically, mentally and emotionally, it was challenging as I still had a lot of resistance and attachment to things.

I started this during winter many years back, and it's becoming easier and easier. Not just as a great practice before the new year, but also as a habit throughout the year or whenever I feel like it.

When I started seeing how the mental load, the brain fog and distraction and worry... shifted into peace, relief, joy and mental clarity every time I let go of things, I understood why it's important to not be a hoarder. Physically or otherwise. (Of course this has nuance to it and it can be a privilege to be able to do it, but that's for a different topic.)

Here are ways you can start the new year fresh (or just clear the energy any time you need):

Online / social media

delete old files or photos you don't need from your devices or cloud

unfollow accounts on social media that don't inspire/uplift you

delete old messages

archive or delete conversations you no longer want to see

block or delete numbers that are affecting your mental health

Home

throw away things that are broken or falling apart (clothes, items, lingerie, etc)

donate or sell clothes you no longer use or want

sell items you don't use anymore but which are perfectly functional (hair straightener, lamp, etc)

throw away or repurpose gift bags, bags, cards

put away items you still need but are not using in this particular season - ie. put away into storage any winter clothing during summer, it's just cluttering your hangers

reorganize your home, your room, your bathroom, move furniture around or replace decor to give it a fresh exciting new feel and remove any stale energies

Physically

salt bath with essential oils to release any tension or toxins

lemon water, ginger and turmeric shots for cleansing

drink plenty of water or green tea or mint tea for improved digestion

Mentally

dedicate a journal to write down tasks, lists, to vent any negativity, or just thought-dump at the end of the day in order to feel lighter and clear-headed

have a calendar or agenda to note any important things, to lighten the mental load

say things that keep bothering you for days/weeks, do things you've been antsy to get done for days/weeks

Emotionally

journaling is an amazing way to offload emotionally

going to therapy

talking to a friend or family

cultivating healthy boundaries and communicating your needs

Spiritually

do a guided meditation to clear your head

spend time in nature, in the forest, by the sea, away from noise and crowds to clear your energy

you can also use crystals like crystal quartz to cleanse your aura