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Still not over the head of cardiology, who said she wouldn't formally diagnose me with dysautonomia because she didn't want me to think of myself as disabled.
As if good vibes and a can-do attitude can stabalize autonomic dysfunction.
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gonna go ahead and apologize because I haven't been in the headspace to update Atom Bomb Baby Daycare fic update, my head hasn't been in the right space to do an update there because of garbage happening at work. Also may not be an update next week for a couple of fics next week depending on my headspace.
I don't want to put out a chapter that I didn't have my heart in, so we're gonna just roll with what we've got. see what can be managed. wish me luck.
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love when men cry about body hair bc "it's hygiene" and yet 15% of cis men leave the bathroom without washing their hands at all and an additional 35% only just wet their hands without using soap. that is nearly half of all men. that means statistically you have probably shaken hands with or been in direct contact with one of these people.
love when men say that women "only want money" when it turns out that even in equal-earning homes, women are actually adding caregiver burdens and housework from previous years, whereas men have been expanding leisure time and hobbies. in equal-earning households, men spend an average of 3.5 hours extra in leisure time per week, which is 182 hours per year - a little over a week of paid vacation time that the other partner does not receive. kinda sounds like he wants her money.
love that men have decided women are frail and weak and annoying when we scream in surprise but it turns out it's actually women who are more reliable in an emergency because men need to be convinced to actually take action and respond to the threat. like, actually, for-real: men experience such a strong sense of pride about their pre-supposed abilities that it gets them and their families killed. they are so used to dismissing women that it literally kills them.
love it. told my father this and he said there's lies, damned lies, and statistics. a year ago i tried to get him to evacuate the house during a flash flood. he ignored me and got injured. he has told me, laughing, that he never washes his hands. he has said in the last week that women are just happier when we're cooking or cleaning.
maybe i'm overly nostalgic. but it didn't used to feel so fucking bleak. it used to feel like at least a little shameful to consider women to be sheep. it just feels like the earth is round and we are still having conversations about it being flat - except these conversations are about the most obvious forms of patriarchy. like, we know about this stuff. we've known since well before the 50's.
recently andrew tate tried to justify cheating on his partner as being the "male prerogative." i don't know what the prerogative for the rest of us would be. just sitting at home, watching the slow erosion of our humanity.
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Okay fuck it let's do this. ive seen this going around and i think i could use the encouragement
10 notes and i'll drink some water
20 notes and i'll clean my room
50 notes and i'll try to take care of myself more often with small things
100 notes and i'll finally stop putting off editing my fic
250 notes and i'll start drawing in my sketch book everyday again
500 notes and i'll post the first chapter of said fic
1k notes and i'll start studying for my exams
2k notes and i'll continue planning and writing my other fic
5k notes and i'll try to eat three meals a day again
8k notes and i'll start learning how to animate properly
10k notes and i'll commit to learning Italian
im gonna give this one till april
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