#Child groomers are not LGBT

[muggle-born-princess]

Reblog if you're LGBT and are against MAPS/Child Groomers

[astraltrickster]

Periodic reminder that you are not immune to reactionary radicalization through fandom.

We all know the "jokes" about how old bronies either came out as queer or became fascists - except they're not really jokes, and a lot of the queer ones admit to having been in the pipeline before they came out (some in a way that implies they never totally got out of said pipeline and don't understand the gravity of it),

GamerGate was an entire right-wing reactionary movement that was - and this is not hyperbole - partially responsible for turning fascism into a "legitimate" position by the American Overton window, composed entirely of people who feared losing their fan spaces,

We've had terfs right here on tumblr dot com BRAGGING about how useful fandom is as a recruiting space,

TJLC was a big pipeline for acephobia on this hellsite in particular, when people argued that headcanoning Sherlock as ace was inherently homophobic because it was denying a TOTALLY GONNA BE CANON (while the creators were promising that it wasn't going to be canon) gay pairing, and puritanical, and just HAVING that headcanon was saying that people COULDN'T ship Johnlock, all in the interest of a "fake" sexuality and "pretending to be oppressed" and oh whoops there you went,

We see people who all but center their fandom activity and identities around figuring out which people in predominantly queer fandom spaces are SECRETLY PEDOPHILES AND GROOMERS, acting consciously or otherwise under the assumption that predominantly queer fandom spaces are just massively infested with them in a way that other spaces are not for SOME reason, who twist the definition of "pedophilia" in these spaces until it covers shipping a 17-year old fictional character with an 18-year old fictional character, or a 30-year old with a 45-year old, or including an autistic character in a ship, and drawing two 17-year old characters kissing constitutes "child porn", and who unironically say we should bring back the Hays Code and Censorship Is Good Actually And Our Problem Is We Don't Do It Enough and this often becomes a pipeline to "sex ed is child abuse; people shouldn't even know what sex is until they turn 18; you need my consent to wear certain outfits in public if I see them as sexually charged, and Pride SHOULD be an assimilationist sideshow for our corporate overlords family-friendly party with no sadness or anger or ESPECIALLY acknowledgement of sex allowed",

We've seen otherwise progressive people defend literal hate symbols in fanart when pushback against the above brand of reactionaries gets corrupted into zero-nuance "it's us vs. them so anything they don't like is Good",

Even outside of those examples some of the most vicious, unapologetic, blatant queerphobic abuse I've seen in recent years hasn't come from right-wingers but from LGBT+ people, dressing their deep, violent, seething hatred for queer people who aren't exactly like them in a thin veneer of progressive language, who have become so convinced that they're the main character of the fucking universe that they think writing or enjoying a queer story that doesn't resonate with them is more queerphobic than sending a queer person who writes or enjoys such a story countless rape and death threats and denying their identity,

We've seen these examples again and again and again, and we keep seeing it again and again and again, so I am once again on my knees BEGGING people to recognize that this is not Something That Happens To Other, BAD People, or Something That Happens To People In BAD Fandoms, or Something That Happens To People On The OTHER Side Of Perennial Drama; this is something that CAN happen to you.

These things are the result of the fact that fandom is, by nature, a place of heightened emotion and if you don't know what to look out for that is very exploitable; you need to know the methods people use to do this, simply Being In The Right Fandoms or Liking The Right Ships is not enough.

So, if you see someone trying to convince you that you have the ONLY valid approach to any specific character, or ship, or show, or whatever, that your ship is activism and your fanfics are praxis, and liking something else or liking the same thing differently is Only For Bad People, that is the single biggest red flag that YOU NEED TO RUN, THEY'RE TRYING TO SELL YOU SOMETHING THAT YOU DO NOT WANT

[theconcealedweapon]

People who want to legalize child marriage and who want a child to be forced to give birth to a rapist's baby believe that the LGBT community are groomers.

People who hit their children, who berate their children for bad grades, who gaslight their children, and who constantly threaten their children with hell believe that teaching about white privilege is child abuse.

They're not trying to protect the well being of children. They're trying to protect their power over children. That's the only way that their beliefs are consistent.

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

AITA for telling a school counselor about what my friend does online?

I (F minor) am in middle school. I have a group of friends, about 8 people, but this is about one girl in specific we can call Annie. All of us are mutuals on tumblr, twitter, etc. and we have a discord server too.

All of us are into a lot of the same things, like art, anime, video games, and have a lot of the same hobbies. Most of us also struggle with mental health stuff like anxiety and/or depression so we regularly talk to our school counselor (F, Idk how old she is).

Anyways, we're all really close and we get along really well for the most part, but lately Annie has been doing stuff that really bothers and worries us.

She's VERY into internet discourse. Has 10 paragraph long DNI page, is constantly starting fights with other people, etc. She usually argues about stuff like LGBT+ rights, womens rights, etc. but also a LOT of fandom discourse which is my biggest concern.

A lot of my other friends reblog/retweet stuff like anime gifs, fanart, memes, etc. but pretty much every post I see from Annie is her fighting with someone over shipping or something like that.

A lot of the posts are basically:

Her talking about how disgusting a certain ship or character is

How everyone who likes that specific thing is a degenerate, or freak, or pedo or groomer.

How if you like problematic ships you need to get a therapist, or you deserve to be hurt. Once I saw her arguing with someone who said they write certain stuff due to trauma and she said "You don't have trauma, you're either lying or you actually liked it and that's why you write such disgusting nasty shit"

Fighting with random people and accusing them of being a predator or a pedo

Breaking her own DNI (which says adults, proshitters, etc. DNI) and then getting mad at the other person for responding

It's really upsetting to see because she does this CONSTANTLY. She never seems to use tumblr/twitter to do things she actually likes. I never see her reblog gifs or memes or just silly lighthearted posts about stuff she enjoys.

It's especially upsetting because we're minors and she TELLS PEOPLE THAT. Like she's arguging with people that she thinks are pedos or child predators, while openly telling people her actual age. To me that's like covering yourself in bloody steaks and then jumping into water full of sharks.

I was really starting to get concerned because even in our private discord server she's always talking about how much she hates these people or whatever and how they should die, a lot of the time she says things like "they should get the wall" or "I hope their nasty fanfics happen to them irl that would teach them lol" and it really freaks me out.

She also talks about seeing the "child porn" that these people make which as far as I'm aware is drawings of characters but it still freaks me out how open and calm she is about looking at what she THINKS is child porn. I asked her if it's child porn why is it being linked in callout posts for other people (including minors!) to see and not being reported to the FBI but she just gets mad and changes the subject.

Me and our other friends have mentioned before that we don't like hearing about this kind of stuff but then she just gets mad and goes offline or gives us the silent treatment at school.

A month or so ago I got so fed up and upset, that I took a bunch of screenshots of her tumblr account and discord messages. One thing to note is that her username is VERY specific.

It's a combination of her first and last name and her birth year. Most people will not know that, but if you know her name and birthday, it's easy to tell it's her. She also goes by her real name online which I also screenshotted as proof it's her.

I brought all this to the school counselor, and I told her how worried I was about Annie, and how I think she's doing something really unsafe. Not only is she confronting people she thinks are child predators/groomers, she's telling people they deserve to get hurt in really awful ways, and looking at porn and I don't think this is good for her mental health.

The counselor at first was like "Idk are you SURE it's her? It could be anyone online!" But I insisted that it was and explained the username thing and that this was our private discord server so obviously I know it's her.

She thanked me for letting her know and told me I was being a good friend and then we talked about how I was doing, and then I left. I kind of forgot about it until a week later.

Annie wasn't online at all and I was kind of worried, but then I saw her on Monday at school. I was with our other friends and we called out her name so she would see us and come over and she LOST IT. She started screaming at us and telling us how awful we were, and how we ruined her life.

Idk what exactly happened, but apparently the counselor talked to her and her parents got involved? Her parents now monitor her internet usage, they have child safety stuff on the browsers, and she's only allowed on certain websites for doing research for school, or watching videos on youtube on their account so they can see what videos she's watching, or playing games on steam.

She said that her parents are also putting her in therapy once a week now (with an actual therapist, not the counselor) and she's only allowed to go out with an adult chaperone (either her older sister or one of her parents).

But... None of our friends know it was me who told the counselor. Annie has other friends besides us, so they're also "suspects" for being the snitch. It seems like half of our friends are relieved that Annie is kept away from that kind of stuff and the other half are mad at whoever the snitch is for ratting Annie out and resulting in her having less privacy/freedom.

At first I was happy that Annie was getting help and being kept away from this but now I feel really conflicted. I feel so disgusting talking to her and our other friends and pretending nothing happened, knowing that I was the one who told the counselor.

Annie still talks to us but she's a lot less open. We still have our discord server but apparently her parents will read through the messages to make sure she's not talking about anything bad and that she's only talking to us and not strangers.

What are these acronyms?

[coochiequeens]

When I say "Stop transing minors" I don't just mean medically transitioning, I also mean stop exposing kids to overly sexualized situations.

By Shay Woulahan April 24, 2024

A 14-year-old girl who identifies as a “drag king” and is being transitioned to a “boy” has reportedly been performing sexually suggestive shows at LGBT clubs and bars across Vancouver, Canada. The minor, who is disabled and autistic, goes by “he/him/they/it” pronouns and is taking testosterone under the permission of her mother.

The child, who was born female but identifies as a “boy,” uses the stage name “Nova Tropica” and has performed in at least three LGBT bars in Vancouver, all of which are adult venues that serve alcohol. Among the clubs Nova has danced at are The Fountainhead Pub, Steamworks brewpub, and The Junction.

According to Gays Against Groomers, during her performance at The Foundationhead Pub, a gay bar located on Davie Street, the child danced with only tape covering the front of her breasts.

The child as seen in an uncensored video posted to Instagram.

Nova maintains a YouTube channel where she often uploads footage of her performances.

In August of 2023, she shared a video of her dancing on stage in a bar to the song “Bubblegum B*tch” and is seen collecting dollar bills from audience members. In another video, Nova is seen dancing alone to the Britney Spears’ controversial song “If U Seek Amy,” which is intended to sound out the letters “F-U-C-K me.”

In some of the videos posted to her YouTube account, she is seen dancing to an adult crowd wearing only a cut-out bathing suit, an outfit she has also posed in for photos shared to her social media while wearing clear, stiletto “pleasers,” a form of platform high-heel most frequently associated with stripping, pole dancing, and the sex trade.

As well as posting footage of her performances to YouTube, Nova also maintains an Instagram page where she posts clips of herself dancing on stage while exclusively adult crowds cheer her on. In many of the videos, Nova is wearing revealing clothing and, during one performance, she even spreads her legs for the audience.

On her Instagram, which was made private shortly after her activities were first exposed by Gays Against Groomers, Nova also frequently posted about her mental health struggles, though continuously insisted her “neurodivergence” was unrelated to her desire to transition.

“The only way they could even correlate is through the way I view my gender,” Nova said in the caption of one post where she described herself as a “demon boy” and said she’s “everything Lucifer wants her to be.”

In another post, in which she wears a cut-out swimsuit she has performed in, Nova said she “loves” how testosterone is starting to affect her muscle definition.

Nova’s transition has been supported by her mother Chrysta. On her own Instagram page, Chrysta posted about how she had been struggling to access hormones for her daughter since she was just 11 years old.

In the post, Chrysta acknowledges that Nova is experiencing poor mental health, but attributes her condition to “being born in the wrong body.” She also condemns the Canadian political parties attempting to pass legislation which would protect children from medical transitioning.

“I will not allow any government to MURDER my child,” Chrysta said in one post. “Forcing a child to live in a body that is not authentic to their person is MURDER.”

The post was made in reference to the People’s Party of Canada, which developed a 7-point plan to protect women and children from the harmful effects of gender ideology, such as banning men from women’s spaces and sports and banning genital mutilation surgeries and cross-sex hormones for minors.

Not only has Chrysta facilitated Nova’s transition, but she also confesses to monitoring her social media, meaning she is aware of the inappropriate videos and photos being posted online of her minor daughter.

In one post, she addressed rumors that an adult Drag King had behaved inappropriately in messages with her young daughter, claiming the concerns were “false accusations.”

But her notice was not the only suggestion that Nova has been in contact with adult drag performers.

On Instagram, Nova spoke about attending a youth summer “drag camp” hosted by “Rose Butch” and “DeeDee LaCraze.”

DeeDee LaCraze also operates a YouTube channel called “Drag4Kids” where he has made multiple videos in full drag singing nursery rhymes. LaCraze hosts his youth drag camp along side Rose Butch, a trans identified female who calls herself a “non-binary drag thing.”

The summer camp, held in July 2023, was made available for children as young as 7.

There has been an uptick in the number of children performing drag, often in bars and clubs, in recent years. Last April, a video went viral showing a young “drag queen” dancing at a party sponsored by a gay hookup app.

Arguably one of the most well-known “drag kids” is Desmond Napoles, who goes by the name “Desmond is Amazing.” Desmond rose to fame at only 11 years old in 2017 after being featured on RuPaul’s Drag Race. Soon after, the child appeared in YouTube and Facebook streams alongside adult men, and was even filmed joking about snorting ketamine.

With the increase in “drag kids” has come further scrutiny of the sexual predators involved in the drag scene. In 2022, a “drag kid” mentor and a former elementary school teaching assistant faced child pornography charges following an investigation into exploitative material shared on the internet.

[antifainternational]

Republicans will be all like "save the children" but then turn a blind eye to the horrific abuse of children in ICE custody and throw their own LGBT children to the wolves by kicking them out to the Streets. 🐸☕

(content warning for discussion of child sexual abuse)

If right-wingers were actually concerned about saving children from sexual abuse, they'd be focusing their efforts on where most children are being sexually abused. The trouble for them is that the same institutions they actively participate in and/or support (e.g. their fellow right-wing extremists, the Southern Baptist Convention, CPB/ICE, the Catholic Church, Donald Trump, etc.) are regularly accused of the worst examples of systematic child sexual abuse, with the accusations coming from actual people making credible allegations, usually backed by substantive evidence. There are media reports from well-respected outlets; publicly-accessible court documents and hearing transcripts; and public statement made by some of the victims that anyone could find to verify the claims with just a little effort. But right-wingers don't actually care about child sexual abuse. They don't raise money for counselling and therapy for survivors of child sexual abuse (and as politicians they often block access or prevent funding for therapy for survivors). They don't support NGOs that do credible work fighting human trafficking. They actively work against providing the kinds of supports that are the most effective at preventing children from being sexually exploited to begin with. What they do instead is use terms like "groomers" and "paedophiles" to tar-and-feather any outgroup they want to portray as "the baddies" in an effort to rally their troops to attack a scapegoat - both to distract people from the actual problem and what could be done about it and to build their followings and encourage violence against those outgroups. Currently it's trans people that are being subjected to this abuse; previously it was Muslims, then LGBTQ+ people before them, and so on. We're not saying that child sexual abuse is not horrific and that the problem does not have to be addressed, obviously. But the way the right accuses any group they're currently scapegoating as "groomers" allows the institutions the right supports that are currently and have historically engaged in the systemic sexual abuse of children to get away with it and even continue the abuse and shelter abusers without accountability. It also does real harm to legitimate organizations doing legitimate work combatting child sex trafficking because it takes resources away from them and diminishes the credibility of the movement as a whole. It's a cynical weaponization of child sexual abuse to gain political points against the perceived "enemy du jour" for the far right. It is especially ironic that people holding this viewpoint would then use it to justify ostracizing and rendering their own LGBTQ+ children homeless, since doing so makes their own children extremely vulnerable to sexual exploitation and abuse. That's a long way to say that the right-wingers are disgusting hypocrites, but there you go!

[queerasaurus-rexx]

transphobes: lgbt+ people are groomers, they wanna fuck your kids!

also transphobes: I NEED TO SEE THAT CHILD'S GENITALS BEFORE I WILL BELIEVE THEY'RE MALE OR FEMALE

[qqueenofhades]

I came across a post about some show called The Other Two and it was making fun of Angels in America and I just...I didn't know how to react to it beyond rage. Like do young LGBT+ people understand how important that play is? How much it meant to our community and still means? Why are we all so irony poisoned that we put down the things that gave us comfort in a time where all of us are faced with the very real possibility of being erased from existence and murdered by the right wing nut jobs passing horrible legislation calling us child groomers. I'm so fucking sad and angry.

I'm in two minds about young LGBTQ people these days. On the one hand -- it's great that they get to grow up in an environment where they can (more or less) be themselves, have institutional supports like marriage and Pride Month and LGBTQ characters in media and plenty of visible discussion. It really, really is. All of that progress was hard won and we shouldn't WANT them to have gone through the exact same struggles as their elders. That's always the thing -- fight so your kids can have a better life, and we shouldn't want that to be any other way.

On the other hand, because this is the case, a lot of younger LGBTQ people don't respect the community's struggles, believe that they're real, learn its history, or understand the magnitude of the threat it is once again facing now. Instead they end up doing things like embracing TERF logic and arguing on social media about who has the right to use the most hyper-specific microlabel, pushing us all into smaller and smaller separate boxes because "queer is a slur!!!" and relentlessly gatekeeping and moralizing at other vulnerable people, both inside the community and outside it. And man, that just does not sit right with me. Of course, not all of them are like this, but a not-insubstantial number are, and it troubles me.

As for Angels in America: I saw Part 1 live in 2010, after reading both parts beforehand. It knocked the fucking SHIT out of me, and this is even before I had consciously realized that I myself was queer (though I was already reading a ton of queer lit/history like This Just Seems Neat, because I was clueless). So I don't know why the irony-poisoned postmodern masses feel the need to get their jollies out of taking shots at it, especially since, once again, times have changed and LGBTQ art and experience is represented in a whole lot of other ways than just "AIDS tragedy." Which is as it should be! But if anyone thinks that it's okay to then mock, minimize, ignore, or otherwise discount everything that led us to the point of them smugly having the ability to do that, then yeah. Fuck off. Jfc.

[generalmiraclecoffee]

is everyone going to ignore that fact that their was a subreddit called INCELTRANS which was about lonely incel men becoming trans to get with lesbian women.

is everyone going to ignore that fact that their are lgbt people defending chris chan, the guy who raped his own grandmother and admitted to only becomg a woman was to get with lesbians.

why is the lgbt allowing predators and rapists in the community and defending them????? why?? at least on on twitter and everywhere else their are people who are lgbt are calling them out.

STOP DEFENDING THESE PREDATORS BEACUSE THEY HAVE THE SAME LABELS AND FLAGS AS Y'ALL.

No wonder LGB without the T was trending.

trans womem are not a born woman. y'all cant have periods, cant get pregnant, y'all do not experience anything a women goes through. POINT BLANK PERIOD.

WHAT Y'ALL ARE, IS GROWN AS MEN WANTING TO PREY ON LITTLE GIRLS AND WOMEN AND LESBIANS. I'm so glad their is people with a decent mind exposing these predators.

THAT'S WHY PEOPLE ARE HATING THE LGBT COMMUNITY CAUSE Y'ALL ARE DEFENDING AND PROTECTING GROOMERS AND PREDATORS!

these assholes are not y'all friends, KEEP CALLING THEM OUT!

ONE THING THAT PISSES ME OFF MORE IS SEEING DUMBASS CRYING ABOUT BE MISGENERED WHEN THAT IS NOT EVEN A THING. Y'ALL ACTING DUMB AS HELL, YALL SUFFERING ISN'T SHIT COMPARED TO PEOPLE WHO FOUGHT IN WAR. tiktok exposed some of the most mentally ill people in the whole world and it needs to go. tiktok was a mistake.

also another thing china and russia have their own lgbt laws, they just don't want men going into womens bathrooms, men going after little girls, parents abusing their child for money.

PEOPLE WHO LIVE THEIR LIVES ON THE INTERNET WILL FOREVER BE UNEDUCATED, DUMB AS HELL, AND just plain dumb, stupid and ignorant.

[just-a-silly-clownguy]

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CW: this contains swearing (people sensitive to swearing are on my DNI list due to my tendency to use curse words) and some gifs may be overstimulating or triggering to some people and include bright, colourful and surreal imagery, please don't view if these are in any way harmful to you.

My name is Moth, I named myself after a hyperfixation! :3

I'm still figuring myself out tbh so I'm probably gonna discuss that on my profile.

my pronouns are they/he as well as a long list of neos and variations of that, I am transmasc nonbinary and aroace. when I'm done, I'll add the link to my carrd and pronouns.cc.

I'm a british minor and artist, I am alterhuman/nonhuman (I use the two terms interchangeably but if I shouldn't please tell me) and I don't really categorise myself into any sort of label like spiritual, physical, psychological etc. I just categorise myself as nonhuman and alterhuman, I'm very alternative and consider myself a part of many subcultures but I mostly align myself with punk, I use xenogenders, xenoidentities and neopronouns, I am disabled (chronic pain + a bunch of other symptoms of shite) and I'm neurodivergent.

I like to draw, read, write and listen to music

fandom list

demon slayer

spiderverse

riordanverse (mostly MCGA because MCGA is the best rick riordan series)

sanrio

DDLC

furry

vocaloids

hilda

steven universe

gravity falls

my little pony

avatar the last airbender

hyperfixation/special interest list

psychology

moths

mythology (mostly greek)

criminology

music

vocaloids

spiderverse

demon slayer

riordanverse (mostly MCGA)

possible cladokin/therian

therian(thrope)

otherkin

otherhearted

synpath

Theriotypes

bluepoint ragdoll cat

white's treefrog

carrion crow

clado-fungus (possible)

fox/some other type of canine (possible)

Kintypes

clown

angel

demon

dragon

clado-fungus (possible)

fae (possible)

cryptid (possible)

the star shape (possible)

the colour yellow (possible)

the colour pink (possible)

Hearttypes

moth

cats

minecraft endermen

deerfoxes

Synpaths

most of these are connected to my mental health struggles/trauma in some way

Angel Dust (hazbin hotel)

Husker (hazbin hotel)

Charlie Moringstar (hazbin hotel)

Mitsuri Kanroji (demon slayer)

Shinobu Kochou (demon slayer)

Muichiro Tokito (demon slayer)

Sanemi Shinazugawa (demon slayer)

Inosuke Hashibira (demon slayer)

Nezuko Kamado (demon slayer)

Tanjiro Kamado (demon slayer)

Natsuki (doki doki literature club)

Sayori (doki doki literature club)

Yuri (doki doki literature club)

Hilda (hilda)

Frida (hilda)

Magnus Chase (riordanverse)

Alex Fierro (riordanverse)

Nico Di Angelo (riordanverse)

Will Solace (riordanverse)

Leo Valdez (riordanverse)

Calypso (riordanverse)

Spinnel (steven universe)

Mabel (gravity falls)

Dipper (gravity falls)

rainbowdash (my little pony)

fluttershy (my little pony)

pinkie pie (my little pony)

twilight sparkle (my little pony)

diagnosed/acknowledged things

autism

dyspraxia

hypermobility

chronic pains

anxiety

depression(?)

undiagnosed/possible things

ADHD

hEDS

DPDR or some other type of dissociative disorder.

depression(?)

PTSD

DPD

do not interact: zoos (unless trying to recover), "MAPs"/pedos, groomers, pro/com/darkshippers, loli/shota-con, DDLG/DDLB and similar kinks that sexualise adult/child relationships, anti-xeno/neopronouns, anti-neo/xenogenders, anti-self diagnosis (with heavy research), self diagnosed without any research, anti-LGBT/MOGAI, homophobes, transphobes, FETRAH, racists, fascists, anti-alter/nonhumans, against any religion (includes satanism), anti-athiests, ableists, classists, transid/transx, radqueers, abusers/abusive people, raypissts/seggs offenders (idk if I'll get banned if I don't sensor those words but I wanna be accessible for screen readers), makes fun of/judges others for interests, refuses to use tone indicators, uses slurs that are against communities they aren't a part of, "dark humour" (racist jokes, homophobic jokes, grape jokes, saying slurs, jokes making fun of others' trauma etc. are not dark humour, they are just insensitive), AI "artists", anti-recovery, uses mental conditions/neurodivergency as a joke and/or insult (e.g. "I'm so delulu" without experiencing delusions, "I have so many personalities" without having OSDD-1 or DID, using autistic as an insult, uses the words sociopath and/or psychopath as a way of calling someone a bad person, "I'm so OCD" as a way to describe being tidy without actually having OCD), gatekeepers, fakeclaimers, conservative "punks", bullies and harasses others, TERFs, supports all of the previous things listed, NSFW blogs, only trying to convert others to a religion, sensitive to swearing (I swear a lot and do not censor it or wish to censor it), under 12, only likes characters like Mitsuri for their sexual aspects, Miguel O'Hara (ATSV) focused blogs.

This really makes you see how many shitty people there are in the world, I hate how long this list is.

definitely interact: alter/nonhumans, neurodivergent, disabled, artists, in the same fandoms as me, musicians, objectum, alternative, anarchist, MOGAI/LGBTQIA2S++, mutuals, supports all of the above.

thin ice: over 16, recovering pedos, Miguel O'Hara (ATSV) fans (he reminds me of my dad's more toxic behaviours).

my triggers

if we're mutuals please atleast TW these things.

(key: not always triggering and/or depends on context and situations, constantly triggering)

loud noises

flashing/strobe lights

doors slamming

angry shouting/raised voices (especially if they're male voices)

certain sexual language (especially the word "eat" in a sexual context)

sexual and nude imagery (especially of genitals).

discussions of grooming and pedophillia

depictions, mentions and discussions of self harm

boundaries

do not purposely send or show me any content that portrays the following in any sort of positive light:

Miguel O'Hara from ATSV Elvis Presley anger issues any form of SA weird age gaps (e.g. 14 and 17, 16 and 21 as well as blatantly obvious grooming) minors doing sexual things especially with adults. domestic violence most things related to people listed in my DNI

don't try and push me to share things that I haven't already willingly shared, you can ask questions but if I delete or don't respond to your asks or tell you I'm not comfortable with answering it please don't push me, I probably have a reason, usually I will specify if I'm comfortable with people asking me questions and which ones I'm comfortable with in posts.

don't use the pronouns she/her or similar pronouns while referring to me.

I'm OK with people making sexual jokes with me but I am incredibly uncomfortable with people genuinely discussing sexual subjects with me unless I have said otherwise.

don't debate me on my DNI, triggers and boundaries, I have them for many reasons and a lot of them are in some way related to trauma and mental health.

my music taste

genres

hyperpop

punk

emo

metal

goth

scenecore (I know the difference between scene and scenecore, I do not consider myself to be scene)

vocaloid

grunge

alternative pop

80s pop

artists (any artists that I am aware of doing and saying bad things will be highlighted in red, I do not condone any of these actions or support them, I avoid listening to them on any form of media where they will be decently monetised, I am not saying I like the artists themselves, I'm merely saying I like the music they make. If there are any artists who have done bad things which are not highlighted, please tell me, I mostly just listen to the music and don't really research the artists so I will most likely be unaware of their actions.)

Insane Clown Posse

Pierce the Veil

6arelyhuman

Mindless Self Indulgence

Party Cannon

Metallica

Ramstein

Hatsune Miku

Maretu

Kikuo

DECO*27

GRLwood

Mommy Long Legs

Siouxsie and The Banshees

Bauhaus

Nirvana

Jack Stauber

alex g

The Smiths

TV girl

Melanie Martinez

Conan Grey

Queen

David Bowie

Choking Victim

The Crane Wives

Marina

Mitski

Fish In A Birdcage

Florence + The Machine

Bikini Kill

The Dresden Dolls

Daisy and the Scouts

Slayer

Mother Mother

The Cure

Ado

Rebzyyx

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[theconcealedweapon]

An LGBT child is constantly bullied by their classmates and abused by their parents.

They then meet a predatory adult who takes advantage of their vulnerability. There are numerous red flags that would be obvious to anyone who's not traumatized, but because they're used to being treated like garbage, they idolized the first person who appears to show them the tiniest shred of humanity. So when the predatory behavior started, they just accepted it.

After being traumatized by the sexual abuse that they suffered, they want to do whatever they can to protect other children who are in a similar situation.

So they try to raise awareness of anti-LGBT bullying. They try to help LGBT children who have abusive parents. They try to promote LGBT representation so LGBT children know that they're not alone. They do whatever they can to stop LGBT children from being vulnerable.

They get called a groomer for this.

And this isn't some wild, hypothetical "what if" scenario. It happens regularly. LGBT people are abused as children, they advocate for ways to make LGBT children less vulnerable to abuse, and they get labeled as abusers.

[zinniajones]

Gender Analysis present our remarks at the Seminole County Public Schools board meeting addressing the censorship of LGBTQ+ students in the Lyman High School yearbook.

This is the two-page spread at issue. Several speakers from Moms for Liberty, Turning Point Action, and other extremists called the school staff pedophiles, called trans children demons, said their parents are groomers, and accused the board of advancing the agenda of Satan. Those were their objections to the following two pages, which are now censored and removed:

Our remarks are reproduced below. Also refer to www.floridaban.com for the referenced materials.

HEATHER: Hi, I'm Heather McNamara. I'm a parent of two Seminole County children. One's a graduate, very proud of him. I want to talk about the past for a second, because none of this is new, it's old trash. I really hope the kids here know that -- this is not new.

I grew up as many of us here did in the 80’s and 90’s, and back then, adults did not talk about LGBT stuff with kids. They were so worried about our freaking innocence, okay, and when Ellen DeGeneres came out on network television there was a huge outcry. The homophobic Defense of Marriage Act was passed, I don't even want to talk about that. Parents and children cheered. Adults said ‘God made Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve’, and ‘you're not gay, everyone gets curious’. Trans people weren't even discussed except on Jerry Springer, which was horrible.

I didn't know many queer kids growing up. At my high school, there was only one openly gay kid and his life was a living hell. We had a gym teacher that we were all pretty sure was a lesbian, but nobody was allowed to talk about that, especially not her. I think she was afraid for her job. Is that what we want to do again?

It was a dark time, so most of us hid ourselves. And you know what, I was exactly what some of you want your kids to be. I was afraid even to think about what I might be. I left high school believing I could live as a straight person – I think most of the rest of us did.

20 years passed, and I was able to reconnect with a lot of kids I went to high school with on social media. Scores of us have come out, because it didn't work. Because whatever you complainants may think, whatever your parental disapproval, just isn't powerful enough. Threats of hell and demons are not scary enough, and an old stupid book, a thousand times translated, and even a government isn't convincing enough to change who somebody is. Don't be your kid's first bullies. Thank you.

BOARD: Order. Order, please. Next speaker.

ZINNIA: Hi, I'm Zinnia Jones, she/her – sorry for the bad handwriting. Heather McNamara is my wife, she's crying right now because of this. I'm a proud mother of a child at SCPS and a graduate. And I'm a transgender woman. I'm 34 years old, I've been doing this for a decade. You call that a phase? I am the ‘gender ideology’ – here I stand. We are many.

We are many!

Board members, restore the censored pages of your LGBT students to their yearbook. Make this right. Calling us groomers is a historical blood libel that leads to pogroms of minorities. To kids and parents everywhere, I'll show you exactly how to stop this. Extremist groups are lying to you here about trans people being too mentally incompetent to know our own genders, and they were lying about us when they said that being trans is a contagion we're spreading to other people. That's genocidal rhetoric.

Who is responsible? The Christian nationalist legal group Alliance Defending Freedom just ordered those talking points as a legal argument from a hate group in Gainesville called the ‘American College of Pediatricians’. They are a fake group, they are not the American Academy of Pediatrics. They are not mainstream, they are about a hundred people – about 12 core members.

The Alliance Defending Freedom ordered those talking points. The talking points came first, the evidence was an afterthought, just like Big Tobacco hiring experts to manufacture doubt that smoking causes cancer. Go read the Southern Poverty Law Center today. Go read FloridaBan.com today, to see their actual documents we uploaded where they planned and workshopped these anti-trans talking points themselves.

This ends now!

I want these queer and trans kids busting open these conspiracies against their lives in the pages of that yearbook. That's journalism. You're only coping with the fallout of this because of a governor who's faced allegations of committing acts of torture against detainees at Guantanamo who were later freed. That is not political, that's the Geneva Convention. Torture is a war crime. [mic is cut] Committing torture would make someone a war criminal. Is he even following the law?

[raptorific]

Like no this obviously doesn't mean you have to buy or even be thrilled about the New Burger King Gay Fries Feat. Elton John Carton (not a real product, made-up example) but it does mean that you have to comply with reality, and the reality is that the conservatives having backlash and accusing anyone displaying a rainbow flag of being a Groomer are a much larger and more financially valuable demographic than terminally online LGBT people scandalized that any company would try to sell a product to them. If any company wants to lose a whole loaf of conservative profits because they were seen asking for two crumbs of gay profits, I say more power to them. The lion's share of backlash against this stuff is literally part of a mainstream, violent attack on LGBT rights, and I promise it does not need any help from within the community. Gotta suck this one up until conservatives stop giving a shit and making laws about how gay beer cans are why we need to institute book bans and gut Sex Ed and start arresting anyone who's visibly gay where a child might coincidentally be