#Financial Psychology

[themillionairethinking]

Mindset Matters: The Psychology of Millionaires

🧠✨ Unlock the Secrets of Success: Diving into the Mindset of Millionaires 💼💡 Explore the psychology behind wealth creation. Comment below for the blog article 🚀💰 #MillionaireMindset #SuccessPsychology #SuccessMindset #WealthMindset #FinancialFreedom

Have you ever wondered what makes some people rich and successful, while others struggle to make ends meet? Is it luck, talent, education, or hard work? While all these factors may play a role, there is one thing that sets apart the millionaires from the rest: their mindset. Mindset is the way you think about yourself, your abilities, your goals, and your challenges. It influences how you…

[therapycards]

Which association do you get in terms of your financial behavior when you see the following therapy card?

How is that about you? How does that affect you?

What does it describe and when does it happen?

#fear #financialstability #financialfear #moneytalks #therapycards #metaphoricalcarrds #metaphoriccards #metaphorical #financialgame

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[finominaleducation]

FINANCIAL PSYCHOLOGY

[furiousgoldfish]

Abusers can often tell, that what gives them the power over another person is just them owning a piece of property, a house, financial and economic hold over this person. They know that the only thing that enables them to control a victim, to punish them and keep them unable to escape, is that the victim has no other house to go to, no other source of income, no other survival resources.

So they’re not going to sit still and watch as the victim attempts to gain friends, a job, resources, piece of property. They’re going to do all in their power to sabotage it, stop it, or have it work in their favour.

For example, if the victim is acquiring friends (whose houses could be later used as a refuge), the abuser will attempt to sabotage or break it, either by monopolizing the victim’s time, giving them chores and jobs and time-consuming activities they have to do, away from friends. Or by telling the victim, that they’re universally unlikable, that their friends are not real friends, that they’re secretly judging and consider the victim a burden in their life. They might also go the route of suddenly needing the victim’s all time, being jealous, sick, feeble, needy, anything to stop the victim from reaching out and forming connections with the world.

If it’s about the money, the abuser will either find a way to claim a part, or all of the victim’s new income, or they will try to get the victim to spend it, by withdrawing the money the victim would usually get for necessities. They might sabotage the job by causing new trauma which will keep the victim incapable of work, they might steal the money, break something so the victim would have to replace it, or, they will try to talk the victim into putting the money in a place where they won’t have access to it, like in a joint account, savings account, a gamble, an investment. They will make it sound like a smart thing to do; then, the victim can’t go anywhere as their money is out of reach. And once the money is within reach, the abuser will find a new joint venture for them to spend it on, so then again, the victim would end up spending the money on increasing the abuser’s property, rather than for buying their own. The abuser will convince the victim that doing otherwise, would be very stupid.

In order to escape the sabotaging abuser, the victim has to somehow organize savings, a new place to go, new social connections, new experience and income, practically overnight, or completely in secret. This is why it often feels hard or impossible, it’s not a matter of taking your stuff and physically getting out, they make sure you have nowhere to go. They make sure you’re either unaware, or too ashamed to go to a shelter, that you’re looking at homelessness if you turn your back on them, because they made sure you have no income, no access to resources or social connections. 

And I’m not saying that the escape is impossible because I did it, and others have too; it might take years, it might take risks and secrecy and fighting with the abuser over and over again for the right to privacy, for the right to keep your own money somewhere they can’t reach it, sometimes it takes enduring violence, putting your life on the risk only for the escape. I’m saying you’re not guilty for having a hard time with it. It’s not happening because you’re incapable, or lazy, or don’t know how to get anywhere in life. It’s not because you’re bad at getting friends, or a job, or income. It’s not because of you. The abuser is actively standing in your way at the every step of it. But they won’t be able to do that forever. Nobody can keep another human being where they don’t want to be, forever.

[squeakadeeks]

moodboard for this past week ❤️

[sprinklecipher]

A Case Study in Using Tumblr Blaze to Collect Survey Data

A little while ago, I ran a very niche survey about the vernacular names used for a specific type of North American bug, and I used Tumblr Blaze to try to get more survey responses. I figure that others who’d consider using Blaze to promote surveys might want to know how it went, so here's a graph of the number of survey submissions, with the “Blazed” periods highlighted in dotted orange:

Additional details below the cut.

Response Numbers: Between 4/17 (when I first posted the survey) and 4/30 (when I analyzed data for it), I received a total of 291 responses.

There were 14 responses in the first 24 hours after I posted the survey (before Blazing the post related to it).  For all subsequent days that the post was not Blazed, I received between 0 and 2 additional responses. By contrast, I received 145 responses during the first Blaze period and 110 responses during the second Blaze period. It isn't possible to definitively know exactly how many responses can be attributed to Blazing the post, but from this data, I'm comfortable assuming that it's a large majority of the responses.

The Blazed post: I exclusively advertised the relevant survey on Tumblr, and with one, specific post. The post itself was nothing fancy—just a quick description of the survey and some emojis, basically. It looked like this:

I’ve left the survey running (although I don’t promise I’ll analyze new data for it), so if you would like to complete it, you may do so here (NOTE: the survey contains a photo of a bug). Current results for the survey are also available here (NOTE: the results post also contains a photo of a bug).            

Blaze information: Both times that I Blazed the post, I purchased the second tier level (which provides 7,000 estimated impressions, although in both cases, the actual impressions ended up being ~10k, per the post-Blaze summary reports). I also opted to specifically target a US audience.

Data quality: One worry I had about Blazing my survey was that I’d get a bunch of joke responses or (worse) harassment, but that fortunately did not happen. I can't know for sure just how honest any individual respondent was, but the overall pattern of results was plausible and suggested there wasn't any widespread bad-faith responding. One respondent gave a clear joke answer, but that was it.

Conclusions: It’s hard to express this honestly without sounding like an ad, but I had a generally positive experience Blazing my survey. As someone with a very small blog, Tumblr Blaze helped me get enough survey responses to crunch some numbers on my (perhaps aggressively niche) project idea, which I otherwise wouldn’t have been able to do. I didn’t receive a staggering amount of data or anything, and the response rate I got might not be worth the cost for all projects, but it served its purpose for me. All in all, I'd say it's at least worth considering for anyone interested in running an informal survey without having a pre-existing audience to lean on.

[feline17ff]

Found a new YouTube channel called The Financial Diet. Videos include:

"You're Not Ugly, You're Just Poor": A Deep Dive (watched)

How The Wealthy Gaslight America

It's Not Just You: Jobs Didn't Used To Be This Terrible (watched)

The Toxic Boomer Money Advice You Need To Unlearn (watched)

3 Lessons From My No-Buy Year That Totally Changed My Finances (watched)

3 Things I No Longer Buy After My No-Buy Year (watched)

4 Lies From The Beauty Industry That Trick You Into Spending More Money (watched)

4 Minimalist Principles I Practice After Quitting Shopping For 1 Year (watched)

Overcoming "Post-Traumatic Broke Syndrome" & Building Real Wealth (watched, features TheBudgetnista Tiffany Aliche who talks about the finances of grief, the lasting effects of being broke, and what it means to be truly good with money)

Why ADHD Makes Money So Hard (And What To Do About It)

[mishkakagehishka]

I'm being forced to visit my abusive grandma to deal with my childhood traumas and grow up as person(already ended crying and visiting the clinic because of that) so with that said

What is it to be an adult for you ? One of the expectations is for me to be able to become an adult since I will be 23 when I get back so...

I think you shouldn't need to confront your trauma Like That to grow up as a person tbh i'm no psychologist but it feels counterproductive. Abusive people should be put behind you, not at your side. Stay safe, and stay strong, bestie, i'll be keeping you in my thoughts🫂

As for me, being an adult is a subjective thing. I'm not sure? I think "responsibility". Having more of them, and being okay-ish at keeping the strings together. -ish, i emphasise. Nobody can keep all the strings together, but trying your best is part of it. You gain a bit more independence, but you end up losing a lot of that freedom you gain to responsibilities. But i'd still say adulthood comes with additional freedoms. I hope the expectations placed on you aren't some shit like "get a (good) job" or "become fully independent, financially and otherwise" bc for me that's awfully individualist and might not be feasible for every adult (like, a disabled adult might not be able to keep a job that is exhausting, whatever "exhausting" might mean to them - could be the medical profession known for a lot of overtime and sleepless nights, could be an office job where you have to stare at screens that cause eyestrain for too long etc etc).

But i think it does include some independency. Dependant on the person. YMMV. I think i'd leave it up to the individual to define, beyond the biological "maturity/end of puberty" or sociological "minor/adult" divide

[sassmill]

Thinking back to the parking lot conversation I had with my coworker after I fully broke down and told her everything that has been going on at home and how I feel so fucking trapped because I can’t afford to leave and she compared it to intimate partner violence and it just. Sank in in a way that it hadn’t before. Like when my therapist told me to imagine if somebody treated the girl I babysit the way I was treated, would I think that was something to brush off or would I immediately report it? Just. Having somebody force you to view your struggles from another perspective is so powerful.

[themillionairethinking]

Money Matters: Unraveling the Psychology of Millionaires

Dive into the fascinating world of millionaire psychology! 💰 Ready to unravel the psychology of millionaires? Read more in our latest blog post! Link-In-Bio #MoneyMatters #MillionaireMindset #WealthPsychology #MillionaireThinking #Wealthy #Successful

Have you ever wondered what makes millionaires different from the rest of us? How do they think, act, and feel about money? What are the secrets behind their financial success and happiness? In this blog post, we will explore some of the psychological traits and habits that distinguish millionaires from the average person. We will also share some tips and strategies on how you can adopt a…

[therapycards]

When we talk about financial management strategies and financial psychology, which association comes to your mind, if I show you this card? What is that about for you?

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[bypatia]

why is my family like succession but without the money?

[furiousgoldfish]

Things abusers do to sabotage you from leaving, or 'Why you can't just leave':

Parental

convince you that you couldn't survive without them and you wouldn't be able to support yourself or make it out there alone

refuse to teach you survival skills, find excuses like 'you're too clumsy, you're not capable, you wont be able to do this'

convince you of 'catastrophic events' that would take place if you were out there; homelessness, starvation, social rejection, failing at everything, financial struggles, kidnapping, murder

convince you that the world is a scary place and you'd be a failure and dead 'in the real world'

traumatize you to the point where you struggle to get thru the day, which now also makes it seem like you wouldn't be able to make it on your own

talk you out of finding work, tell you about awful things that would happen to you if you went and found a job, try to make you to 'work for them' or at least in the close area

if you find work, they claim a part or entirety of your income, making sure you don't have escape money

regularly make you feel ashamed of not being able to be independant, and letting you know that only people who are able to be independant deserve to have freedom and place out in the real world

guilt-trip you to feel like you owe them caretaking because they raised you, so you're owing them to stay and take care of them instead of living your own life

Emotional

complain about how 'everyone abandons them' in order to make you feel like you're just 'one of the bad ones who betrayed them' if you think about leaving

every time you try to leave, they overwhelm you with a new incident, sickness or drama that makes it seem like you're abandoning them in the middle of a tragedy

act overly attached to you, making sure you know that if you left, they wouldn't know what to do without you, and they'd be heartbroken, but still they refuse to respect your boundaries

convince you that you're "all they've got", you're special and unique to them, only you can understand and help them

love-bomb you until you're attached and bonded to them to the point where leaving feels unimaginably painful because you'd be losing your closest person in the world

begging, pleading, acting like they gave you no reason to leave, promising to change, promising to do anything you've wanted to happen for a long time, making you feel like things are just about to get good and like they regret everything bad they've ever done

launching an attack on your persona, pointing out every time you did something 'bad' and insisting that you're actually the worst of the two, so you can't blame them for anything

guilt trips; reminding you of everything they've done for you and how ungrateful you are, reminding you of all of the nice things you've said about them before, asking if it ever meant anything, accusing you of being heartless if you go, of never loving them, of mistreating them, accusing you of being toxic, deciding you're hurting them on purpose if you leave

deciding you're leaving because of their specific problem/situation/disability/illness that you've always been considerate and supportive about (another guilt trip)

say it's "your fault they'll never get better" with whatever you were helping them with

deciding you only want to leave because of your unhealthy trust issues or 'you push people away' or 'misinterpret things because of your trauma' and asking you to be honest with yourself

asking you to explain in detail why you feel the need to leave, only to attack your reasoning and explain it all away and minimize it to make it seem like you have no good reason for leaving

tell you that 'nobody will ever love you again' if you leave

threaten to expose your most vulnerable secrets if you leave

threaten to hurt themselves if you leave

Psychological

gaslight you into doubting whether you're abused, to the point where you feel like you're exaggerating, going insane, remembering things wrong, and unsure if the problem is you or them

time an event of abuse specifically when you're trying to work on something, or you're immensely stressed and trying to meet a deadline, so you'd be too overwhelmed with fear/anger/grief, and can't make your work in time

regularly having intense violent or dramatic reactions to your harmless behaviour, making you feel like you can't predict what they'll do if you leave or how that could end for you

support your codependency on them, or financially support your addiction, so you feel tied to them and have to go back to them in order to feel normal again

undermine and trash your work, imply or outright say your work is stupid, meaningless, badly done, and not worth doing, trying to discourage you from working

verbally assault you and criticize your work to the point where you start to feel anxious and upset whenever you're working, making work a trauma trigger for you

punish you for 'lying to them' if you fail to mention something, making it clear that you will get hurt every time you make any move they don't like, which makes it even more scary to leave

threaten to make a suicide attempt if you leave

threaten to hurt you if you leave

threaten to report you and try to get you imprisoned for a real or imagined crime if you leave

threaten to have you admitted to a mental institution (or any other kind of institution) where you'll be even more controlled

threatening your family members, loved ones, friends, and/or pets, saying horrid things they would do to them if you dared to disobey or leave

threaten to find you and drag you back and hurt you if you try to leave

say outright they're going to kill you if you ever leave, or that they'd rather have you dead than gone

 Social Isolation

create insecurities in your behaviour, repeatedly imply or claim you're too loud, obnoxious, sensitive, crazy, stupid, clueless, demanding, nagging, until you're worried that everyone is secretly judging you and the world feels against you

take apart your appearance until you feel too insecure and lose confidence in socializing or meeting new people, constantly feeling like you need to 'fix yourself' first

demean and condemn your personality, appearance, social standing, finances, capabilities, to the point where they decide you can't do any better than them and you should feel lucky anyone is tolerating you at all

inflict punishments on you for socializing or hanging out with new people; break your things, throw jealous tantrums, ask why they're not enough for you, go thru your things, rage

violate your privacy and take away things you need in order for them to control when you're allowed to have them

smear-campaign you; spread lies about what you were like to them so everyone sides with them, and blames you and tells you what to do (exactly what the abuser wants you to do)

turn your family members and friends against you, and make sure they'll be unnaccepting of you and refuse to help you if you try to leave

Physical

Physically assaulting you if you do something they don't want you to do, making it clear they're going to hurt you for any attempt at leaving them as well

Physically assault you if you try, or say you're going to leave

Inflict injuries on you that will prevent you from working/being independent

Stalking, making it known they can always find you and seek revenge if you dare to leave

Influencing other people to stalk you and let him know where you are and what you're doing; making you feel like you're always being watched and always surrendered by their influence

hurt themselves physically if you make an attempt, or even say that you're leaving

attempt suicide if you make an attempt of leaving

attempt at murder if you try to leave

 Financial

create and maintain a financial situation where they are the only one having income, and they're able to control how much money you get to spend

withhold financial knowledge from you so you'd be clueless about their finances, and managing finances in general (you can't get an idea of how much money it takes to get thru a month)

refuse to give you your right to keep your money separately from theirs

create financial trouble that you have to solve, taking up all of your savings in the process

take your money without asking, and the amount you'd never consent to, and they give you excuses and pretend it was 'necessary'

accuse you of 'spending irresponsibly' as an excuse to confiscate or control the money you have on your person (or in your account)

throw a fit if they find out you have any money on you that they're not aware of/have approved of (if you borrow or win or earn money that they didn't give you)

make sure you're overwhelmed with tasks and problems and emotional trauma, to the point where you don't have a chance to get out and find a job, or go and look for resources for getting out of abuse

stand against you getting more education, or starting any new activities with people around you (making sure you don't get any social connections that could lead to a job)

get you fired from a job by spreading lies or calling in and harassing the employer about you

forcing you to spend any money they know you have saved up, so you'd have no money to plan escape

It is NOT EASY to leave, and statistically it takes several attempts to leave an abusive situation. Be aware that it's hard because they're sabotaging your every step, not because you're not doing enough. Abusers often wont show their abusive side until they're absolutely sure that you have nowhere else to live, and no other place to go. All of the things on this list are psychologically damaging, and terrifying to live thru. All of this is abuse. Nobody has the right to tell you this is your fault. Keep trying. Keep fighting.

If you're struggling to leave an abusive situation, here's an article on How to Leave an Abuser.

[minilibrarian]

I just got approved to rent my first adult apartment!! This feels extra special because I did it all on my own; no co-signer, no guarantor, just me! Finally being financially independent feels so good 😭

[dockaspbrak]

i think the stock market in its entirety is such a flop....back to grain markets.