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chenfordspiral · 1 year

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Currently on a train, using my time to continue writing Little bit of Love, and I have to either stop myself from giggling, or bursting into tears because this chapter is making me emotional. And I’m only 700 words in.

#i’m fine it’s fine i’m fine #i may need some professional help #i live in my own little chenford bubble #as you can see: it’s always desaster when i write #get your shit together woman #little bit of love #me writes

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yardsards · 2 months

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im like the lorax when it comes to women's body hair. we should let it grow.

#eliot posts #the other day my roommate was talking abt how she hates shaving #but does it anyway bc she doesn't want people to be mean to her about her body hair #and i was like yeah i mean i used to #also worry about that bc my mother was always so fucking cruel to me when i didn't shave #but as an adult i find that it's extremely rare that anyone even mentions it (tho my body hair is pretty light so that could be a factor)#but even when people are shitty i find that i no longer give a shit about what what those idiots have to say about my body #but i understand that that can be a hard step to take so if you need to keep shaving for your own comfort then i won't judge #but on the inside i was just like #*ibuprofen hand meme* ''let's get called disgusting hairy d*kes together <3''#i had a great time showing off my pit hair at the pool today!#(i get read as a woman when im swimwear cuz i can't hide my body as much. so i get read as a hairy masculine woman.)#i show off my leg hair every time i wear shorts but like. my leg hair is Pathetic #i look practically prepubescent vis a vis my leg hair (my mother still calls it disgusting lmao)#but my pit hair is pretty good #i occupy a weird gendered place in society where i am more of a man in identify but society genders me as a woman #the only time i feel remotely okay being seen as a woman is when i am seen as a BAD woman. a woman who cannot/will not be A Proper Lady #it's not an entirely ACCURATE view of me but there's Something in it

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ihaveanaversiontodecisions · 3 months

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Bloody Mary

can't believe arthur fumbled HER. she's the queen of Hollywood and so powerful that she stayed around as a ghost after crepuscule!! literally only her and renwick were able to do that she's so insane I adore her

(info about commissions for Palestine in my pinned post if anyone's interested)

#not to mention it was just her and decon vs daybringer Solomon #shes strong AND beautiful #step on me please #arthur get your shit together and marry this woman before i do #the suckening #jrwi the suckening #jrwi podcast #jrwi fan art #jrwi mary #mary davis #jrwi mary davis #bloody mary #jrwi bloody mary #love of my life fr

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cherriontopp · 9 months

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My Ins and Outs

Ins:

Pilates, Celery juice, Gel nails, library to study, Clean scents, Barre, Travel, Less screen time, Grattitude

Outs:

Smoking, sleepless nights, Being unorganised, Overspending, skipping self-care days, Forgetting to take vitamins/ medication

Keeping it simple and sweet xx

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gender-critical-analytical · 4 months

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the way some of you clearly think bisexuals don't experience actual attraction and feelings for people, but rather decide ahead of time if they want a man or a woman this time and then just go and pick whoever comes into their line of sight next is so obvious and definitely makes me think you all don't need to speak on things you don't know about

#if you aren't bi I realllly don't want to hear you talking about us or our experiences #because it's just gonna be stereotypes or bitterness from a bi woman who upset you #I know damn well I would not get away with saying some of the shit that you guys do if it was about lesbians instead of bi women #and I don't want to #I shouldn't be able to get away with that!#but some of you absolutely are completely prejudiced and I feel like no one takes that seriously #if you use the term 'bihet' this is about you btw #gonna call out 'bi lesbians' because 'that's not how sexuality works!! you're one or the other!!' but then turn around and say it's okay as #long as it's to insult us??#doesn't add up.#so if you aren't bi go ahead and don't bother talking about bi people #you don't understand how bisexuality works #you don't understand how relationships in general work #('you could just get over your attraction to women and eventually find a man you'd be happy with so you aren't actually oppressed!')#(like okay. you could just never act on your attraction and not tell anyone. just like you want us to do. oh wait? sound familiar? yeah.)#'you could lie about your sexuality and force yourself to only date men' is not an argument you want to be making and I can't believe you #haven't pieced that together. because that exact same thing can be said about anyone

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dreamlogic · 3 months

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i have no clue what's going on w/ the hiring process for the job offer i got yesterday, but at least it seems like nobody at the post office does either. 🙃

#ctxt #charlie vs mail #got a call from some guy at the regional sorting facility like 'uuh yeah just drop in to your PO whenever for fingerprinting'#so i show up in shorts & a t-shirt as a stop along a multi-errand trip bc my impression was that this is just a part of the background check #woman doing my prints was like 'idk if anyone's here to speak with you today but we can check'#me still thinkin it's just a casual meet/greet 'oh no worries haha! btw i got the job offer before having even 1 interview is that normal?'#she doesn't know but leads me around until we find someone buried under a stack of paperwork at her desk #'hi [redacted!] charlie is here for their interview!'#redacted peers over his monitor like a deer in headlights 'who is here for their what now??? oh uuuhh gimme a minute uuuhhhhh'#i'm sweatinnnmng like i'm wearing my birks i am massively underprepared but ok i guess we're doing this & they already offered me the job so #redacted also seemed to be panicking a lil bc the person who usually does these interviews isn't even in today #we had a moment of 'so we're both utterly blindsided here right?' 'yeah can we reschedule?' 'yes god please let's reschedule'#so i'm going back thursday for an actual interview. after already completing background check & filling out tax paperwork #get home to an email from the dude who called me this morning like 'btw dress business casual for your fingerprinting & bring XYZ'#but still stating nowhere that the implication was that fingerprinting & interview would happen concurrently????#this is a federal institution & the second largest employer in the US. get ur shit together !!!#hoping it's not gonna be a black mark that i showed up in my casual summer clothes without the necessary docs #but tbf to me the expectations were hella unclear like i wasn't even given a point of contact for an onboarding supervisor until today #since they were also drastically underprepared i hope it'll just be water under the bridge & we can properly meet thursday #hands down weirdest hiring/onboarding process i've ever gone through but fuck it we ball

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kinfusion · 3 months

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#eva yan #daniil dankovsky #andrey stamatin #eva tag #pathologic #he treats her like he owns her and i do not like seeing cute ship art of them together #starting shit in my notes will get you blocked #'i let her do what she wants but she's my woman' ok 👍 he sees her as property #everything he says abt her just pisses me off.#'my woman is eva. your woman is maria. i wouldve gladly switched places with you.' he does not love her.

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lucifer-kane · 4 months

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main reason i wanna make clothes even on a small casual scale for myself is there's soooooo many cute things i see. alas. i am fat.

#some of the dresses/top i see im like. i want that. oh. oh it's for skinny people only. anyways #i only got into this kind of stuff within the last couple of years. shopping in the womans section is like. damn. damn i know stuff sucked #but i didn't know exactly how bad. as a person who mostly wore leggings/skinny jeans/t-shirts #i've been lucky to find stuff and been able to piece together what i think are nice outfits in my style from discount/thrift shops #i know some fellow fat people aren't that lucky but honestly it's abt diy #this coming from someone from a tiny ass area where finding thrifted clothes requires sorting through so much shit #until you find one or two nice pieces that'll fit you. or that you can diy into something your style #i can't sympathize with fellow plus sized people who use stuff like shein like cmon......#i get wanting to dress cute but. like. fr.

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iceyrukia · 4 months

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the ‘influencer lifestyle’ really rotted a lot of women’s ( + girls) brains and I’m not necessarily talking about the traveling part but the whole self-imposed prerequisite requirement of having to look like an instagram model before getting to live your life to the fullest as a woman. This internalized monitoring of the ‘self’ that women do when it comes to their own physical appearance, something to show off externally, is really pervasive and you can see it reflected in social media.

( and if you are familiar with the whole concept of having a ‘bikini’ body for the summer, that is a perfect example of this, like the absurd idea of women having to visualize themselves snapping a perfect bikini pic in order to fulfill this image of enjoying summer. Like they can’t just live but have to look and dress a certain way because it’s what a ‘successful’ women is supposed to look like, a status symbol to always emulate- yeah :/ )

#ic.text #I hate bikinis and bikini pics and bikini bodies and the history surrounding it #it’s so humiliating seeing travel thumbnails whether it’s a single woman traveler of a moid showing of his girlfriend in a bikini because #it fits the ‘image’ of a tropical vacation or some shit #it looks so staged and more so then it being a pic but because it’s a women #we are always required to be these pretty little eye candy #and the scariest part is how women do this themselves and it’s supposed to be empowering #and then there’s vicariously living through women influencers first if your too ~lazy~ to ‘get it together’ ( marketed as ‘self care’)#and if these women get past that type of voyeurism - they move of to that other voyeurism where they live for others approval #and this relationship between women mirror each other and it’s feedback loop #where none of these women can just live unless they’re ‘pretty’

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sirenium · 1 year

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I made these because I hate the censoring of innocent people. Free to use with credit.

[Pt: I made these because I hate the censoring of innocent people. Free to use with credit. End pt]

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Now that that's out of the way...

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sexynetra · 10 months

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I know this account has become a Marcia Stan account but yknow what I am not sorry because??? Look at her???

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tomboyfriends · 2 months

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does anyone else want to not get married but just have like... a lifelong partner, or however long is appropriate

#like that's been how i've felt for a few years now #ok xavery #i wish marriage as an institution didn't exist i want women to have as few barriers to exiting a relationship as possible #i'm sure others feel the same #like if you're serious about someone that's between you and your partner... why get the legal system involved...#i know there are barriers in place to make it difficult to be partnered and living together without being married but #it just shouldn't be that way imo #like animals don't gotta deal with all this complicated shit to have lifelong monogamy... but humans are forced to be different #not to mention marriage was literally created to transfer ownership of a woman from father to husband aka treating her as male property #like i get how marriage can be helpful i.e. gay marriage #i just wish there was a way to go without it as well

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cherriontopp · 9 months

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Getting it together for 2024

I've been in the gutter too long and have to pull myself together. When is a better time than New Year's to do that! I wanted more than just the average vision board bc I think I need more stimulation for that kind of thing (I need a reminder of what I'm actually doing). so here it is:

I want to use this little girlblog to track me actually getting my shit together bc I'm so undisciplined it's crazy. xx

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pavlovianfuckery · 4 months

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all i wanted was something silly to watch while crocheting but noooo

smartmouthed shithead with failed (so far at least) redemption arc? SOLD

#i dont even like blond guys why am i so damn easy get your shit together woman

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fledermaus-art · 1 year

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'Cause someone loved me, someone fucking loved me Someone fucking loved me, I loved them too Goddamn it, I was worth something, I fuckin' earned something.

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dockaspbrak · 5 months

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A big thank you to my mutuals who like my nervous breakdown 2-4am posts. You're the backbone of my blog

#its like im not completely alone #idk #what losing a cat does to a woman i guess but #lets be real i was like this before #im just a sad person who laments more than takes action and #i think ill be sad forever probably #in that way some people are #i feel like im one reality over from where im supposed to be yakno?#i used to have this image id hold onto of leaves in the sunlight when i was a kid and i kept waiting for someone to talk to me who #would take me wherever that was #maybe thats the nature of never fitting in u get too in your head and then #reality doesnt feel like home #yeah ive heard people say shit like that sbout books #sorry im not wearing my glasses #lately days blend together and i feel like i cant hold into time #and people talking to me (when they do) sounds miles away #takes ages to get to me if it does at all #oops! sounds like im dissociating hahahahaah oh fuck #when u write it all out. stares at ya right in the face #if im not doing something it feels like my anxiety will latch onto anything #like. rn i feel like im gonna throw up bc of like 5 different things about my car #car insurance. registration. trying to find a job #then it spirals into what ifs. and how thatd suck #constantly this shit. constantly! the only reprieve is going to hang w my grandmother who is 90 and talking about death a lot #😵‍💫#but shes my best friend so ???! fuck!#man idk. im so sad. idek what to do abt this. work out #maybe get a new actor to have a crush on #what makes people happy? idk #em yaps

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