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Adamo Melaney

In the photo above Mr. Melaney still had hair when I first met him, he also still had the "o" at the end of his first name, and his whiteness was fully intact. Like Henry, Adam also struggled with identity, when we first met he was Italian, I think from both parents and then magically he slowly became LatinX, specifically Puerto Rican. #🇵🇷

His identity issues weren't a big hang-up in our friendship, other things caused tensions which led to the dissolution of a relationship that spanned at least fifteen years. I hadn't even expected to do another 'friend feature' so soon in my journal, but listening to the Sunday Story on NPR about relationships that were more than friends had me thinking about Mr. Melaney.

Codependent is the first and only word that comes to mind in regards to my friendship with Adamo.

"Healthy relationships are mutually beneficial, providing love and support to both parties. Codependent relationships, on the other hand, are one-sided, casting one person in the role of constant caregiver. By being caring, highly functional, and helpful, that person is said to support, perpetuate, or “enable” a loved one’s irresponsible or destructive behavior." - Psychology Today

Hmm now I guess I need to place whom was in which position. I guess Adam was the constant caregiver, and I guess I was the destructive one by being poor and Black. I'm really not trying to be funny, I think he perceived my Blackness as an unfair burden something that made the playing field unequal and the progressive liberal in him felt a need to right this societal wrong.

This is my first time attempting to unpack this very intimate dynamic, there might be some unintentional misrepresentations but generally speaking I do find some truth in these assessments. I believe that Mr. Melaney felt a certain level of guilt over his whiteness and affluence, and sought to financially assuage this burden by assisting me in ways that would normally be designated to a parent or other close relation.

From my perspective I just looked at it as him being a good friend, I think the problem was created in his head, and in my view the partnership became something more than the normal parameters of friendships. I believe this was confusing for both of us with us both being gay, young and attractive. We were figuring out who we loved and why, and also figuring out who we were at the same time. Even though we were both on the other-side of college we were still developing our adult identities.

To be clear there was never any sexual or romantic aspects of our relation, but there was a level of intimacy that should have possibly been left to a non-plutonic partner. This is something I think young gays deal with a lot when they're more or less going through a late puberty in their early twenties as opposed to when they were teenagers.

I was in love with Adam and expressed as much as I saw in a instant message from the mid-aughts. But it wasn't love love, or it didn't feel like romantic love, but this unhealthy codependency affected our romantic relationships. I remember feeling quite jealous of the latest man he was dating because he had a tendency to drop everyone else for whomever was the latest tryst in his boudoir.

We were like connected at the hip, speaking everyday either on the phone, on instant message and constantly together if not everyday just about daily. On the weekends we had rituals that included each other usually with brunch at some local restaurants and then some other activity like reading comics or watching Noah's Arc together.

It seemed like it was hard for him to find a balance with his friendships and his relationship. And I felt spurned, angry and hostile to being replaced, which in all instances I was. I attempted to do better when I was in my own relationships and made sure that I included him with my boyfriend at the time in shared activities like game days or celebrating a particular holiday all together.

But then there was an undercurrent of non-verbal hostility from him towards whomever my current partner was. I remember him saying to me specifically, why do you buy gifts for him and not for me? Maybe this isn't codependency, but this kind of statement raised all kind of red flags. Of course I would get a beau gifts et al, but that wasn't the currency of friendship. Possibly it was the fact that he had financially supported and assisted me when I wasn't doing as well in my career and this relationship happened to occur at a time that I was financially thriving. Maybe he thought he was owed something during these lush times.

But in my head that isn't friendship, or frankly any relationship. You don't do things for other people because you expect them to do things for you, you do things because you care for that person. What you give should be unconditional, not contingent on you getting the same in return.

The irony for me was the fact that he was a whole-ass psychotherapist having went to school for his masters in Social Work a lovely progression of the HIV/AIDS work we did together he specialized in working with young adults and teens. He tried to use his degree to show me that he was right in regards to his feelings and positions, even though my common sense knew better.

This change didn't sit well for me I never looked at him as being in competition with my boyfriend, I was careful to make sure I found as much balance as I could in both relationships as not to leave anyone feeling neglected, but I do recall my boyfriend at the time feeling a way about our friendship, justifiable so.

But then came Rafi, who was so notorious that I have to be more explicit around the details about him for the situation to make sense. Raphael was someone Adamo met online and who had misrepresented his serostatus meaning he was HIV positive and he had told Mr. Melaney that he was HIV negative. This alone wouldn't have been a problem if Adam, who we've established that we both had been HIV/AIDS educators hadn't been having unprotected sex with Rafi.

This lead Mr. Melaney to displace anger towards me and my relationship at the time with roommate who I had had a sexual relationship way longer than he was a tenant of Adam's. He thought I was deceiving Karl who Adamo assumed was of a different serostatus than he actually was. My position was its not my place to disclose anyone's status, that isn't my story or business to tell. But Mr. Melaney's anger at his spurned relationship left him projecting his feelings on to my relationship and causing unnecessary tensions between me and my partner.

This lead to the dissolution of our friendship after him still being in his feelings thought it prudent to share something I had told him in confidence with another friend. As I have said I have no clear language to define this relationship with Adamo other than toxic and unhealthy whether it had codependent aspects or not. Our personal boundaries had been blurred and he felt it his place to tell me what to do or not do in my bedroom based on what he observed from my online sexual activity, this wouldn't sit well with me being a full-ass adult and having my own agency and more importantly he wasn't sleeping with me, so he didn't even have a horse in the race.

What they talked about in the NPR story I think was true for a while with us, but my past of having sexual relations with so many of my queer friends, and the fact that we met through HIV/AIDS education, our classes being distinctly different and even our races played a role here in the demise of our friendship. For a lot of our adult life we lived less than a mile away from each other but somewhere along the line our feelings and boundaries got blurred and this caused the ruin of the mutual respect and kindness we used to have for each other. I agree with the NPR story, we should better define close and intimate plutonic relationships because than it would give everyone a better understanding where they stand and how to proceed.

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So I have HIV, I'm waiting on the final test results to get into the government program for HIV positive patients and get the meds I need. My boyfriend definitely gave it to me, He says he only had unprotected sex with a guy I also had unprotected sex with during the time between taking the test and getting the results, and I choose to believe him.

The thing is he now refuses to use protection with me, we closed our relationship after the news and now I'm horny af, we've had unprotected sex three times since the first result and I worry it'll start to become a habit if I don't do something.

I know that if I start telling him to use it he'll just stop having sex with me because he's not as horny as me and topping him isn't a satisfying solution cus I'm transmasc and don't get any pleasure from it. Having non-penetrative sex is also out of the table cus he has sensory issues and wouldn't want to feel my mouth on him or vice versa without something to distract him.

Opening the relationship up again isn't really a solution cus in the 8 months we had an open relationship I was never able to have sex with anyone else without him present not because I didn't want to but because the opportunity never came, I think I'm just not made for casual sex. Also that would mean he could be just having sex with other people and not with me if I continue to ask him to wear protection.

I know he's capable of using it, we've used it before, but he says that whenever I ask him to he just completely looses his libido because he remembers we're HIV positive now. I don't know what to do or what to say to him.

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Incredible Hulk #420-AIDS awareness issue 

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Today marks World Aids Day! As we commemorate this important day, discover different ways how you can support people who are living with HIV! 

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Which is More Stressful, Herpes or HIV?

The diagnosis of a sexually transmitted infection (STI) can be an incredibly stressful and anxiety-provoking experience for anyone. Two of the most well-known and stigmatized STIs are herpes and HIV. While both conditions can have significant impacts on one's physical and mental health, it's worth examining which one may be more stressful to deal with.

Herpes is caused by the herpes simplex virus (HSV) and manifests as painful, fluid-filled blisters or sores on the genitals, rectum, or mouth. There are two main types of herpes - HSV-1, which typically causes oral herpes (cold sores), and HSV-2, which is the more common cause of genital herpes. Herpes is a lifelong, incurable condition, with periodic outbreaks that can be triggered by stress, illness, or other factors.

The psychological impacts of a herpes diagnosis can be quite significant. Many people experience feelings of shame, guilt, and stigma due to the sexually transmitted nature of the virus. There are also concerns about disclosing one's status to current or future partners. The recurring nature of herpes outbreaks can also lead to ongoing stress and worry about when the next flare-up might occur.

However, herpes is ultimately a manageable condition. Antiviral medications can help reduce the severity and frequency of outbreaks. And while there is no cure, many people with herpes are able to have healthy, fulfilling sex lives by taking precautions and communicating openly with partners. The physical symptoms, while unpleasant, are usually not life-threatening.

In contrast, HIV (human immunodeficiency virus) is a chronic, potentially life-threatening condition that attacks the body's immune system. If left untreated, HIV can progress to AIDS (acquired immunodeficiency syndrome), which severely weakens the immune system and leaves the individual vulnerable to opportunistic infections and certain cancers.

The psychological burden of an HIV diagnosis tends to be even heavier than that of herpes. There is often intense fear, anxiety, and grief over the prospect of a shortened lifespan and the many unknowns of living with a serious, stigmatized condition. The social stigma and discrimination faced by people with HIV can also be immense, leading to further isolation and mental health challenges.

Additionally, the physical impacts of HIV/AIDS can be quite severe, including fatigue, weight loss, neurological issues, and life-threatening infections. While antiretroviral therapy (ART) has greatly improved the prognosis for people with HIV, allowing many to achieve an undetectable viral load and near-normal life expectancy, the side effects of the medications and the ongoing management of the condition can still be very stressful.

It's also important to note that the stress and anxiety associated with an HIV diagnosis can have tangible effects on one's physical health. Chronic stress can weaken the immune system and make it more difficult for the body to fight off infections. This "mind-body connection" is particularly significant for those living with a condition like HIV.

That said, it's crucial to acknowledge that the level of stress experienced can vary greatly from individual to individual, regardless of the specific STI diagnosis. Factors like personal resilience, access to quality healthcare, and levels of social support can all play a major role in how someone copes with and adapts to living with herpes or HIV.

Ultimately, while both herpes and HIV can be immensely stressful to manage, the chronic, life-threatening nature of HIV, coupled with the intense social stigma, suggests that an HIV diagnosis may be the more stressful of the two. The prospect of a shortened lifespan, the complex medical regimen, and the added burden of stigma can make the psychological impacts of HIV substantially more severe.

However, it's important not to minimize the very real stress and difficulties faced by those with herpes. And for some individuals, the uncertainty and lack of a cure for herpes may be even more distressing than the relatively predictable course of HIV with effective treatment.

while HIV may be the more inherently stressful of the two conditions, the subjective experience of stress and coping can vary greatly from person to person. Empathy, understanding, and access to quality medical and mental health support are crucial for those navigating the challenges of any sexually transmitted infection. Ultimately, the most important factor is ensuring that all individuals feel empowered, cared for, and able to manage their condition to the best of their ability.

Some tips for relieving stress for people living with herpes or HIV:

For those with herpes:

Educate yourself and others. Learn about the facts of herpes - it's a common, manageable condition that doesn't have to define you. Sharing accurate information can help reduce stigma.

Focus on self-care. Make sure to get enough sleep, eat a healthy diet, exercise regularly, and engage in stress-reducing activities like meditation, yoga, or hobbies you enjoy. Taking good care of your overall health can help minimize outbreaks.

Seek counseling or Herpes support groups. Speaking with a therapist can provide a safe space to process the emotions around a herpes diagnosis. Connecting with others in similar situations can also help reduce feelings of isolation.

Disclose carefully and selectively. Only share your status with partners when you feel ready. Focus on building trust and intimacy, not just on your diagnosis. Many people with herpes go on to have fulfilling sex lives.

Reframe your mindset. Try to shift your perspective from seeing herpes as a "problem" to managing it as a chronic, manageable condition. Avoid catastrophizing, and remember that you are still the same person.

For those with HIV:

Educate yourself on treatment advances. Remind yourself that with proper medication and care, many people with HIV can achieve an undetectable viral load and near-normal life expectancy. Knowledge can help alleviate fears.

Build a strong support system. Surround yourself with trusted friends, family, or a support group who can provide emotional, practical, and social support. Feeling isolated can greatly exacerbate stress.

Prioritize mental health care. Seek out counseling, support groups, or a therapist who specializes in HIV/AIDS. Addressing anxiety, depression, or trauma is crucial for overall wellbeing.

Practice stress management techniques. In addition to self-care basics, explore methods like deep breathing, meditation, mindfulness, or creative outlets to help you cope with the ongoing stress.

Advocate for yourself. Be an active partner in your healthcare, asking questions, voicing concerns, and ensuring you receive the best possible care and support. Feeling empowered can increase resilience.

Challenge self-stigma. Work to overcome internalized shame or negative beliefs about living with HIV. Remind yourself that you are more than your diagnosis.

Ultimately, the key is to develop a multifaceted approach to managing the physical and psychological impacts of these conditions. With the right support and coping strategies, it is possible to live a fulfilling life with either herpes or HIV.

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Rishi Sunak sorry for infected blood scandal

Prime Minister Rishi Sunak has apologised “sincerely and unequivocally” to the victims of the contaminated blood scandal, saying it was “a day of shame for the British state.”

The Prime Minister apologised in a packed House of Commons hours after Brian Langstaff published his report accusing the British government of covering up the disaster.

Sunak spared no element of the British government in his criticism, which highlighted the blunders of ministers, civil servants and the NHS. However, he himself faced accusations that he had added to the victims’ pain by failing to set up a compensation scheme a year ago when Langstaff first proposed it. He said:

This is a day of shame for the British state. Today’s report shows a decades-long moral failure at the heart of our national life – from the National Health Service to the civil service to ministers in successive governments at every level – that people and institutions in which we place our trust failed in the most harrowing and devastating way.

History of the scandal’s origins

The mass human infections occurred in the 1970s and 1980s. Most of the victims suffered from haemophilia, or a blood clotting disorder, and were injected with a drug called clotting factor VIII, a gene defect in which can lead to haemophilia. The US produced the drug, where high-risk people, including drug users and prisoners, often became donors. Donated blood had no HIV tests until 1986 and no hepatitis C tests until 1991. And one carrier of the virus is enough to spoil the entire batch, Sky News reports.

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"I'm tired of being afraid. I've spent my life so afraid of being alone, of dying with no one to hold me. How many stupid mistakes do we make with our lives, running from our fears. We deny them and they just come back to haunt us. Until we turn and face them, we are ruled by that which we fear. I can't run anymore. I'm too tired. I'd rather face my 'doom' and look it squarely in the eye."

The Spectre (1992-1998) Vol. 1: Crimes and Judgements. "Final Fate."

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SLEAZY AIDS AD TAKE THE GAY TRAIN

[Originally published in Fashion Fag Magazine Volume 1, Number 2, February 1994, very mildly edited for clarity.]

The New York Post bashes Gay Men's Health Crisis new poster.

"Anyway you read them, the poster endorse homosexuality. encourage promiscuity and promote the false and dangerous notion that condoms are safe and will protect users against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases." says Ray Kerrison columnist for the post.

Let me explain this poster to those of you who have not seen it. It is a bright purple subway poster with three pictures of couples embracing or kissing. In bright yellow writing there is the poster's slogan YOUNG, HOT & SAFE, each couple is holding a condom, lubricant, latex dam, or latex glove. There is also the GMHC hotline number which ask you to call for further information about safer sex.

To address Mr. Kerrison's first point I don't understand how he comes to the assumption that this poster is promoting homosexuality or any kind of sexuality. Its like he's saying a poster of a couple of married couples is promoting marriage, or a couple of African American children promoting Afrocentric ideals. I feel that Kerrison is just another homophobe who believes that any portrayal of queers in a positive light is saying to everyone that homosexuality is OK and there is nothing wrong with it. Which there isn't, I've been a homosexual a long time now and I am perfect proof.

Kerrison's second issue of the poster encouraging promiscuity is absolutely absurd. Everyone in these posters is full clothed and pictured above the shoulders. Now last summer there was an ad campaign by a local radio station

HOT 97 who had really raunchy posters which portrayed men in women in very suggestive positions and very skimpily clad. One of the more overt posters had a male grasping a topless women's breast.

And GMHC's poster's are called porn and sleaze???

Lord forbid we show happy homosexuals that are healthy and not dying of AIDS. I strongly believe that these type of gays are the only kind that the conservative heterosexual community can deal with. Because then they can feel sorry for the poor dying fag.

Kerrison's final point of his article bothers me the most because not only does the information it contain very wrong but could be very dangerous if you are not an informed reader. Studies show and have proven that latex condoms are the most effective device against the HIV infection, if used properly.

GMHC is the first and largest AIDS organization in the world and Kerrison saying this to GMHC is like telling God the sky ain't blue. Actually I am very happy there has been such controversy about the ads because it brings back into the public view and that will force people to talk about it.

I got my chance to speak on the issue at a press conferences that councilman Tom Duane held on the steps of city hall. Here is the speech I prepared and read:

"Hi my name is Trevor Brown. I am a proud young black homosexual and I am a volunteer In Gay Men's Health Crisis's Education Department's Young Adult Aids Prevention Program.

According to what this society shows me, I as a young black man should be in jail, unemployed, father of a illegitimate children, and inarticulate. I as a homosexual should be promiscuous, dying of AIDS, and rotting in hell. I refuse to believe any of this to prove this society wrong, and to do my part in the fight against AIDS.

I did the YOUNG HOT and SAFE campaign. As much as adults would like to think they know what is best for youth and would like tell us how to run our lives I believe we young people know what we young people want. I know that my friends and I have been sexually active for years and it wasn't some ad on the train that told us to start having sex. its a natural part of growing up, and exploring your sexuality. Knowing that a lot of youth think it is not cool or fun to have safer sex. We thought it was important to show other youth Hey its COOL to have safer sex I am do in' it you can do it too.

The young people that were working on this campaign were full of positive intentions and I think they should be applauded for being conscious of the health and safety of other youth. Not slapped on the wrist and told there is only one way to avoid the HIV virus. Abstinence. AIDS is something that effects us all and I that there is no one way to properly educate about it there are many different ways. Because it effects many different kind of people. And because my way of trying to educate differs from yours I don't believe we should be bashing one another, You may attract flies with fly paper I prefer honey, But most importantly we will both be saving lives."

I truly can't recall if I had assistance with drafting my speech for the press conference held by Councilman Tom Duane, who was the second openly gay council member and the only one at the time who was public about his being HIV positive. I do hear my voice within it, my phrasing and my colloquialism, so I was totally one of the authors if not final editor.

I know I am being patronizing to myself, because I am so impressed with my eloquence, not at the level of an orator like Dr. King, but for an average individual with minimal press experience I think this was amazing, and I applaud my younger self. Not just for being brave but to speak so publicly about very private things, and to be clear I do not infer that sexuality is something to be ashamed of, but who I go to bed as and with is really no one else's business.

Curiously Mr. Kerrison was my grandmother's contemporary dying curiously enough on her birthday a year after she did. Like her he didn't mask his hostility and disapproval of homosexuality, I guess both of them are products of their upbringings, but both are dead and no longer my concern.

This was thirty years ago exactly and it would be false to say that things haven't changed for the gays since then, but it was also be false to say that we are welcomed with open arms with legislation around "Don't Say Gay" floating around all over the country and it being against the law some places for trans people to go to the bathroom. Progress I guess is always an incremental thing, five steps forward and three steps back.

I guess I can say definitively that I attempted to make the world a better place by physically using my likeness and speaking publicly about my identities to in effect normalize acceptance of folks who looked and loved like I did.

I have mixed feelings about the Young Hot & Safe campaign because thinking about it makes me think of the fact that Tim my photo-partner and friend is now dead, we were both amongst the committee of young people who helped to conceptualize and execute the campaign in tandem with Gay Men's Health Crisis. It was a happy time of my life and I look back on those memories and the friends I had very fondly.

[Photos by Brown Estate]

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HIV Marriages for HIV Positive Brides and Grooms in India

In a society where traditions and societal norms often dictate the path of matrimony, the challenges faced by HIV-positive brides and grooms in India, especially in Hyderabad, are distinctive and demanding. This article delves into the complexities surrounding HIV-positive marriages, shedding light on the need for support, understanding, and the creation of a more inclusive environment.

Brief Overview of HIV-Positive Marriages HIV-positive marriages involve couples where one or both partners are living with HIV. Despite medical advancements, societal stigmas continue to surround these unions.

Importance of Support for HIV-Positive Brides and Grooms The emotional and psychological toll on couples navigating HIV-positive marriages emphasizes the crucial need for support networks and understanding within their communities.

Context of HIV-Positive Marriages in India, Specifically Hyderabad India, with its rich cultural tapestry, faces unique challenges concerning HIV-positive marriages, and the city of Hyderabad is no exception.

Understanding the Challenges

Stigma Surrounding HIV-Positive Individuals One of the primary obstacles faced by HIV-positive brides and grooms is the pervasive stigma attached to their condition. Addressing this stigma is vital for fostering acceptance.

Lack of Awareness and Education A significant hurdle lies in the lack of awareness and education regarding HIV transmission, prevention, and the realities of living with the virus.

Emotional and Psychological Challenges Coping with the emotional and psychological challenges is a journey often traveled in isolation. Counseling services play a pivotal role in supporting these couples.

Navigating the Wedding Preparations

Support Networks for Couples Establishing robust support networks is essential for couples preparing for an HIV-positive marriage. Friends, family, and community organizations can offer invaluable assistance.

Counseling Services Professional counseling services provide a safe space for couples to address their concerns, fears, and aspirations, ensuring they embark on their marital journey with resilience.

Positive Examples and Success Stories Highlighting positive examples and success stories of HIV-positive marriages inspires hope and resilience within the community, dispelling myths and misconceptions.

Legal Aspects of HIV Marriages

Rights and Responsibilities Understanding the legal rights and responsibilities of HIV-positive brides and grooms is crucial for navigating societal expectations and safeguarding their union.

Legal Safeguards for HIV-Positive Brides and Grooms Legal frameworks exist to protect the rights of individuals with HIV. Awareness of these safeguards is vital for ensuring fair treatment.

Navigating Societal Norms and Expectations Balancing traditional expectations with the realities of HIV-positive marriages requires open dialogue and education to foster acceptance within communities.

Wedding Rituals and Traditions

Adapting Traditions for HIV-Positive Couples Customizing wedding rituals and traditions ensures that they align with the needs and comfort levels of HIV-positive couples.

Creating a Supportive Environment Fostering a supportive environment during wedding ceremonies helps create a positive and inclusive atmosphere for the couple and their guests.

Inclusivity in Wedding Ceremonies Promoting inclusivity in wedding ceremonies not only supports the couple but also contributes to changing societal perceptions surrounding HIV-positive marriages.

Community Involvement

Raising Awareness Community involvement is crucial for raising awareness about HIV, dispelling myths, and fostering an environment of empathy and understanding.

Building a Network of Support Communities can play a vital role in building a network of support, ensuring that HIV-positive couples have the backing they need to thrive in their marriages.

Encouraging Empathy and Understanding Creating spaces that encourage empathy and understanding reduces stigma and helps the community embrace the diversity of love.

Healthcare Support

Access to Medical Facilities Ensuring access to medical facilities and healthcare services is imperative for the well-being of HIV-positive brides and grooms.

Importance of Regular Check-Ups Regular health check-ups are vital for managing HIV. Encouraging couples to prioritize their health is essential for a fulfilling marital journey.

Dispelling Myths About HIV Transmission Education plays a crucial role in dispelling myths about HIV transmission, promoting a more informed and accepting society.

Financial Considerations

Challenges in Employment Opportunities HIV-positive individuals may face challenges in employment opportunities. Addressing these challenges through advocacy and support is essential.

Financial Planning for HIV-Positive Couples Financial planning becomes crucial for HIV-positive couples, considering potential challenges in the employment sector. Government and NGO support can play a vital role.

Government and NGO Support Governments and non-governmental organizations can contribute significantly by providing financial support and creating initiatives to empower HIV-positive couples.

Social Media and Advocacy

Utilizing Social Platforms for Awareness Leveraging social media platforms is a powerful way to raise awareness, educate the public, and advocate for the rights of HIV-positive couples.

Advocacy for HIV-Positive Marriages Advocacy efforts aim to break down societal barriers, challenge stigmas, and create a more inclusive society for HIV-positive couples.

Empowering Couples Through Online Communities Online communities provide a space for couples to share experiences.

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M4M COMMUNITY BUILDING SUPPORT GROUP

What an EPIC FIELD DAY to remember! This weekend we launched our inaugural M4M Social Support Group with our collaborators House Of Trouble. Food, games, friends, drag and POZITIVE COMMUNITY BUILDING was on the roster! Many people living with HIV face stigma and isolation, our goal is to reduce HIV stigma by education, activities that promote associate and combat isolation, empowers and motivates and by association by creating a FUN social sober (sometime) network.

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