#I don’t get it?

[thatmooncake]

“I’m too intimidated to interact with you specifically” and other things they tell you that make you go “this is fine 🥲”

[sadieshavingsex]

What is the point of ego work/shadow work? Honest question because I find the whole thing confusing and right now it sort of seems like a journaling/self-questioning practice that doesn’t have a logical end… like what is the end point and what are the actual steps to get there? Right now I am seeing that you ask yourself a bunch of questions and try to get in touch with yourself but… to what end? How do you employ anything you’ve learned to make your life better, help yourself, etc? I have heard about this concept of detaching from your defensive ego in order to make decisions from your “authentic self,” but I really have a hard time understanding how this would actually work in a real life example, whether it is a real thing that makes sense, or why it would even be beneficial.

[roadrunnerposting]

dating tip: guys love when you answer everything they say with one word answers and don’t leave any way for a conversation to progress

[justalitlecreacher]

I don’t understand why Psych is wasting one of its 11 episode final season remaking an episode that was good the first go round

[cross-u-out]

in this episode of i will never know peace my entire tumblr dash is total drama related now thank you new cast names.

anyways MK needs to win I will be so upset if she doesn’t (but literally why the fuck is she bright yellow wtf cast designers.)

[justascrollingghost]

I just saw a TikTok about a gal bragging that she ‘sent’ her therapist to therapy.. like?? you’re aware that all practitioners have to attend therapy right? they didn’t do that because of you babe they’re going because they have to??????

[lowshoulder]

Annoying pet peeve aimed at no one in particular: why do people keep insisting on saying mcr is a girl band/riot grrrl band/band of lesbians when you could… Like… Just listen to actual women…?

[goldensunset]

advice i think we should tell children is that when adults say stuff like ‘now that i’m an adult i get really excited about stuff like coffee tables and bathrooms and rugs etc’ they don’t mean ‘and now i don’t care about blorbo and squimbus from my childhood tv shows anymore’ bc your average adult still loves all the same pop culture stuff they always did; they just have a greater appreciation for the mundane as well. growing up just means you can enjoy life twice as much now. you can get really excited about a new stuffed animal AND about a new kitchen sponge. peace and love

[thunderon]

so my roommate is completely straight edge like no drugs no alcohol etc and so im sure y’all can imagine my surprise when i saw she brought home this sign

so i immediately inquired

and now you may ask. what the fuck did my roommate think that sign meant? well

anyways i moved the sign so it’s now front and center in our living room and ive been laughing every time i pass it

[starbuck]

i say i like tragedies and everyone’s all like ‘why do you like sad stories? are you depressed?’ and never ‘how was the catharsis? was the catharsis fun?’

[zenwhoberi]

had the wildest interaction today some random woman called me a slag and my dog a fucking faggot because I was using a pink lead/harness and he’s a boy like what the fuck lmfaoo

[pixiemage]

Please, for the love of god, please don’t be this person. No matter how long it’s been since an update, no matter how many unfinished stories are sitting on their account, no matter what - do not be this person.

Not only is it insanely rude, but you also do more damage than you think be being such a self-entitled ass about something someone created for free and for fun. “This author” can see what you say.

RIP decency indeed.

[sunglassesmish]

no judgements at all here. i was thinking about the possibility of moving out and wanted to know what age other people did

[oopdeathnote]

Imagine if you locked Light and Patrick Bateman in a room together. They would be having the most generic conversation but you wouldn’t be able to hear it over the sound of their overlapping internal monologues. There would be a few seconds where their monologues both play in sync to say something misogynistic.

[gemsandjunk]

god imagine logging on one day and learning:

the amv you made for a relatively niche ship a couple years ago has gotten a huge spike in views out of nowhere

a massive youtuber apparently stole it to put in his video essay because he just couldn't be bothered to watch the actual show???

the only reason people know about this is because some guy dedicated half of a 4-hour long video essay to calling the guy out for never having an original idea in his life.

like genuinely. how do you even begin to react to that

Edit: I am not the op of the amv!!! That is someone else!!! Please don’t spread misinformation!!!

Actual op’s (who is not me) reaction to this:

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[abigail]

when i got home after the new years celebrations last night, i took off my boots and found this pin stuck in the bottom of one of them,, a good sign for the new year perhaps ? :-)