#Post Grad

[in-love-with-movies]

Post Grad (2009)

[liquidloz]

Michael Keaton in Post Grad (2009)

[lady-nienna-the-magi]

14.3.2025

Okay so since i completed the whole the introduction to phd -course yesterday, the next weeks are slightly easier.

Pictured: chaotic academic lecture notes kept w a pen twice shorter than my finger. Also i've drank so much coffee i'll very likely just drop into warp speed territory soon.

today:

research ethics 1. watch 2 first lectures - 3h 2. assignment 1 (DL 16/3) - 30 min edit research plan 30 min uni pedagogy 1. read backround material 50 p. revise korean 30 min if time: - clean up the disgusting lower compartment of the oven (idk how the hell that passed the "inspection" of people moving out xdd i just looked at it like that's 10 years worth of grime..)

[thedeluxedoll]

Reading week has arrived so I need to plan how I am going to spend my time effectively so I don’t regre not being productive!👩🏾‍🏫

[jecroisenmoi]

Technically the first day of class.

8.6.2024

Hello, guys! Today's technically our first day, yesterday we don't have class. I am nervous af. I'm grateful that today is really just an "introduce yourself" type of thing. But tomorrow might be hell— our subject would be Persons and Family Relations plus our proff. is a Judge. So good luck to us! Anyways, today is still quite good, even though I could already tell that our proff. is terror ( why so terror for a minor subject? anyways I can't complain— I chose this for myself, To find yourself, you need to think for yourself-Socrates). Did some readings on our subject for tomorrow. It is tiresome (⁠ ⁠･ั⁠﹏⁠･ั⁠) Good luck and God bless me! Hoping for better days!

XOXO

[asyastudieskorean]

1.04.2023 — First chapter and vocabulary quiz due on Monday, so I’ll be cooped up in my room, watching lectures, reading, and studying, this entire weekend. I have to record an introduction video tomorrow for a discussion, so that’ll be… fun. During winter break, I bought a big ring light tripod thing, so maybe I’ll get fancy with it. We’ll see.

[thesmallerfry]

finishing work at 7:30pm after being sick all day feeling downright murderous, blasting new money from the great gatsby to keep me tethered to reality

[second-hand-literateur]

Lately, I’ve been taking to heart the idea that we choose who we let into our lives.

I deleted my Instagram because it felt too personal and vulnerable to share aspects of my personality with people I met once through class five years ago.

I don’t go out of my way to be overly friendly if I feel uncomfortable around someone. I don’t really care if they like me or not. I like me.

Protecting myself has been more important during this transitional time of opportunity and loss. And I don’t need to pretend or let people in that don’t deserve to stand beside me.

[theluxuriansecret]

Diary Entry 10.6.24

8:25 pm

Dear Diary,

I have a lot of unpleasant feelings tonight and I am unsure on how to deal with them.

To start, my birthday is in three weeks and I have been thinking about planning something for my birthday for FOREVER, but nothing is really clicking. Im unsure why I am so hesitant to do something with my friends. I don't know if this is depression or what, but I just feel like I am coasting in life, and that is just not me. I am fun and semi spontaneous. I love myself, and my friends and going out so why does it all feel so different?

Life has been so boring. And Im realizing how much I have to plan in order to do things that I enjoy! Adult life makes me sad. It is so hard to plan around everyones lives. It is so frustrating. I can't believe I'm about to say this but I lowkey miss college. But not in the school way, just in the way when we were all on the same schedules and things were so much easier to do. I thought I wanted life after post grad, and I really really did. I still do and for the most part I enjoy my routine life, but it's boring..

Speaking of boring, my relationship is kind of boring. I wish we went out more and experienced more together. I feel like all we do is the back and forth to each others places. Like we've been to the movies together twice and we've been out to eat a handful of times but for the most part I thought we do shit that's fun. I want to have cute movie nights with snacks and do face masks. I want to have picnics and go on walks together, I want to go to more dinners and actually spend more time together than drinking and playing video games.

Either way, I am going to try and be more proactive in my life, m y love life, and plan more fun things to do.

Also my bf suggested that I changed my room around and tbh I think I should too. I would love to invest and at least two new comforters and get a new tv and mount it on my wall. I hate they idea of getting comfortable here BUT I'm currently work on accepting where I am is not bad and that I will get to where I want to be as long as I can continue on. Where I am isn't even bad, so

"To hit the jack pot, you might have to bank on where you are in the present" - Carrie Bradshaw

"Why do we let all the one thing we don't have effect how we feel about the things we do have?" - Carrie Bradshaw

[outofccontext]

source: Craig of the Creek. S1E2: "You're It"

[liquidloz]

Chapters: 2/? Fandom: Post Grad (2009) Rating: Explicit Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Walter Malby/Reader, Walter Malby/You Characters: Walter Malby, Ryden Malby, You, Reader Additional Tags: Older Man/Younger Woman, Flirting, Sexual Tension, Daddy Issues, Masturbation, Accidental Voyeurism, Explicit Sexual Content, no beta we die like men Summary:

In order to convince your best friend Ryden Malby to come to a party with you during midterms, you agree to a week of studying at her house. Little did you know, Ryden’s dad is hot and you find yourself not doing much studying…

Rated E for later chapters.

[lady-nienna-the-magi]

19.48 i think i just gotta get some techno going and just do this mini essay instead of staring to the void. If i get this done today i can dedicate saturday for korean and sunday for research plan.

[sohlidarity]

Taking active steps to get over people pleasing is so difficult and the craziest part is everytime you take a small step towards being yourself and not trying to please someone, it feels like you are doing something wrong. Changing your thought pattern, feeling safe in making decisions that make YOU happy are surprisingly not easy. At the end, all of this hardwork also has no reward if you don't prioritize your inner happiness. Over the last couple months I've lost a lot of friendships. Two friends who I was especially very close to and cared about a lot despite knowing that they a) took me for granted or b) kept expecting so much from me that nothing was ever enough. When I chose to consciously step away from these friendships rather than reflecting on what they might have done wrong I was blamed for not speaking up about my discomforts sooner. When things are coming to an end and extreme decisions are being made, people will question you why you haven't taken the preventative measures earlier, why did you not confront, is it really worth to lose a friendship, aren't you being too harsh, where is this coming from, nothing really happened so why now suddenly? And all I can say is that it took me a while to realize that my mere feelings of discontent are enough to step away from people and it doesn't have to make sense to anyone else as long as it makes sense to me. Time is precious but so is my energy. After realizing that life isn't supposed to be so hard and friendships don't have to be so demanding and just being yourself is enough, you will realize how much low quality shit you are putting up with because you called yourself "dramatic" instead of honoring your emotions. Society tells us to adapt and be positive, stop dwelling on the negative so much. But the real truth is, negativity is as important as positivity. I'm grateful for these people that have come into my life and showed me that my self-worth was so low that I couldn't step away from people that didn't support me. So now I've decided to start over, build trust with myself, stopped dismissing my emotions and start creating those boundaries. At the end of the day, YOU are the prize and the value of it will remain high when you start valuing yourself and keep those around that also value you. No one outside of yourself will determine who you are except for your behaviors. So what & who are you willing to put up with?

[thedeluxedoll]

Going to do my best to document my postgrad academic journey📖👩🏾‍🏫

[jecroisenmoi]

10.14.2024

Everyday is a library moment. Hello, law school!

Anyways, I've been inactive 'cause I feel like I cannot survive lol. But I'm still here. So... Thank God.

[tiredapocalypse]

oh you want to have a life? you'd like to take a break? here's 5 articles to read per week. they're all crucial to the exam. hope this helps! :)