#Terfs do not touch my blog

[theforesteldritch]

'People who dont think genderfluidity is real can fuck off. No, im not making people think gender can be chosen, i dont choose when im what gender. i just am." Lmao what? When is anyone any gender? Gender is fake.

Also was trans-axolotl implying Alice Dreger is a terf? Lmao nobody at ISNA was a terf and they're a very trans-inclusive org run by a trans woman.

Gender is real, gender roles are fake. If you’re transphobic at all this is not the blog for you, I am intersex and as you seem to know, genderfluid. People who are homophobic, transphobic and intersexist will be blocked. I genuinely have no idea what’s being asked here in the second part. Could you clarify what you’re referring to and what you mean?

[mycoblogg]

can terfs interact?

no lol i will hunt you for sport. fuck off

[steakout-05]

hey just a reminder because i keep seeing this garbage pile up in the lgbtq+ community: people are not inherently bad for being a man and being masc. it is not a bad thing to identify as a guy and do masculine stuff and present yourself in a masc way. the view that being a man somehow makes you bad/abusive/creepy/bigoted hurts so many men in our community (gay men, trans men, literally everyone actually) and it's just a ridiculous statement in itself. gender does not equal morality, belief or action. people are not predisposed to badness because of their gender. that is a silly idea and i thought we as a community progressed past this but apparently not.

[ghostfoolish]

xxx

[obsessivefangirl]

Terf/Radfems/Transphobes in general who support JK Rowling: Why? Sure, you agree with her stance on trans people, but I feel like you're missing so much bigotry in her just because she has one or two beliefs you can follow.

Even if you think trans people are Satan himself, I just can't think of any other reason to like her. She is by far the most bigoted creator I know and I'm baffled anyone would support her

[nvzblartdump]

I will block any TERF that touches my stuff. Get out.

[marciliedonato]

ppl will see you calling gerard ‘babygirl’ and think you’re one of the freaks who legititimately only refers to him as ‘she/her’......i think the bird app might be messing with your reading comprehension for real

[arise-ascend]

Grant me the serenity to not read reddit threads about JKR, the courage to not read reddit threads about JKR, and the wisdom to not read reddit threads about JKR.

[theotherace]

terfs really think about the weirdest fucking shit.

[transinclusionary]

Reread your own responses to my asks and my asks themselves, I never called myself a crypto. I'm not a crypto, even my trans friends know I'm a terf and yet they still choose to come over (in fact one of them chose to travel hours to see me), come to lunch/dinner outtings with me, oh but people avoid me right? Anyway I love how you went on and on about how you are so good at figuring people out and therapy and now you're trying to backtrack by "oh....but the...the children. Also my list was addressing you, your point? Like half your post was "you're lonely, everyone avoids you and people adore me hehe" and you expect me to answer that seriously?

I'm screaming you seem really upset for someone who is so confident in yourself. If I'm so wrong about you why do you want to convince me so badly you're liked. I don't care. Instead of talking to me why don't you perform maintenance on your friendships and put energy into positive things instead of someone online. So weird

[darling-bunny-boy]

I love the idea of being fucked by a priest over an altar after confession…

I’m just a poor, lost sheep. I’ve come to confess my sins to you, Father. I’ve been corrupted by demons, turned against your divine authority. Every night I lie awake thinking about you, and I touch myself in the most sinful ways, defiling God’s creation.

How can I atone for this grave sin? I’m willing to do anything, Father.

Anything.

I’m ordered to strip out of my clothes, but I have to hesitate. For the moment my pants come off, my deepest secret is shown to the world. My little pussy is so wet, for I couldn’t handle being in your presence, Father. You easily take notice; how could you not? I’m standing there trying to keep my hands away from my needy cunt.

You tell me to fall to my knees, and I do. While you pull out your cock, I can’t help but lean forward and open my mouth, drooling all over your divine body as you gently thrust yourself inside of my mouth. It’s magnificent, it tastes divine.

Although you haven’t cum yet, you want to do more to me. You pick my frail body up with a single hand, dragging me over to the altar. I’m bent over it, back arching as you shove your fingers inside to get me loosened up. I moan in your presence, as you promise to rid the demons from the inside. Your fingers fuck me slowly, and my cunt can barely handle it. I’m on the edge, about to release myself, when you remove your fingers from me.

But you quickly replace them with something larger: your throbbing cock.

And I can’t help but scream. I press back against you, matching each of your thrusts evenly. You sing praises to me, proudly announcing how well my body is taking your dick. I can only whimper in response, as you finally release your seed inside me.

“To purge the demons, I must claim your body as mine.” You tell me, as your seed leaks from my cunt. “Come visit me again, little lamb. It seems the demons haven’t been truly purged from you yet.”

By your divine will, Father… anything for you.

Antishippers, TERFs, under 18, and WLW-only blogs this space is not for you!

[katrafiy]

It's simple, if someone says "die men!" 200 times and each time they say it they hit a trans woman instead of a cis man, then they clearly don't actually hate men. Clearly something else is happening here; "hating men" is a false pretense, not their actual motive.

I've seen people from the transunity blog talking about how people shouldn't believe terf rhetoric regarding trans men/transmasculine people, but they apparently are totally willing to believe them when they lie about the reasons they hate trans women.

People who hate trans women aren't doing it because they "hate men". If they did, they would treat cis men the way they treat trans women, but they clearly don't do that. Instead they buddy up with fascists like MW and put out calls for cis men to go into women's bathrooms with guns to protect them from the evil r*pist tr**nies.

"Transmisogyny relies on anti-masculism/misandry" is a statement that is completely out of touch with the realities of trans women's oppression, and this should be obvious to anyone who knows better than to take our oppressors at their word, and think they are being honest about their motives.

"Hating men" is a pretense, their actual motive is trans women being an underclass of "girls they can hit".

So why does transunity continue to believe what fascists say about trans women instead of the trans women who are telling them that they are lying? Until transunity can reconcile with that, I simply cannot trust that this 'movement' is willing to or capable of seriously representing me or my sisters best interests.

[olderthannetfic]

I agree that DNIs are best used as a boundary warning / "excuse" to block (not that you need an excuse to block someone, but you know).

Are minors physically capable of pressing a "follow" or "reblog" or "like" button on an account with "🔞 NSFW so minors DNI" in bio? Are antis capable of following someone with "antis not welcome i hate you" in bio? Yes they are, in the same way anyone is physically capable of touching the "do not touch" display in a museum or anyone is physically capable of cheating in a class with a zero tolerance for cheating warning on the syllabus. But once you do it, you have a "reason" to get expelled from the situation now. (yes i know none of these things are on the same level lmao dont worry)

Even then, the group being asked to "not interact" will likely have a miserable experience on the account if they DO interact, so what even is the point? if a terf follows someone who says terfs don't follow, the terf has no right to be shocked when the person starts posting pro-trans stuff. . .if someone hates otherkin and follows someone with an "anti-kins don't interact", and gets upset when that person posts about their kintypes, they only have themselves to blame. . .it almost has troll energy when you get to a certain point? A common thing I see in younger groups on fan twitter (not using younger as an insult nor even as anything to mean "ha cringe teenagers", it's just a genuine observation that this is most common in ~-25 people) is "DNI if you hate my fave (characters/shows/ships/etc)s." If I follow you despite hating your fave shows because I like another fandom you're in, I don't exactly have the right to get annoyed when you post about them. What I do have the right to do is mute the words or unfollow, or realize, "hmm, yeah, maybe that silly DNI i rolled my eyes at initially is there for my own benefit as well as OP's."

I think the only time DNI is a sorta weird thing to expect to be obeyed, is when your post "breaches containment" so to speak. "If you're anti self diagnose, don't follow my mental health blog"? Valid. "Anti self diagnose, don't interact" banner on your posts you post to that blog? A little bit cringe, but overall can still be an out for "I'll block you if I notice you're reblogging my posts and you hold this opinion." "Anti self dx don't follow" warning that's deep in your carrd, that is deep in your links page, that is deep in your blog's pinned profile? Yeah, I'm not gonna check for that just in order to reblog your funny mental health meme that you made. (I'm now realizing this is a bad metaphor as I'm not actually anti self diagnoses so I'd be able to interact with this guy i just made up, but whatever.)

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I would like people to phrase them as "I will block if" and not "DNI".

[luxurychristmaspudding]

Hi, I'm Em!

It’s lovely to have you here <3

This blog is a safe space for kind people, all my LGBTQIA2S+ loves, and spiciness. It’s a dangerous one for bigots, terfs, and twats.

Love, peace, and good vibes,

LCP x

Divider from the incomparable @saradika

JOEL MILLER

Clot

summary: joel has lost something. but once he pieces himself back together, he'll remember what it is.

Need To Know

summary: 1k of horniness with dbf!joel

FRANKIE MORALES

Pickup Truck

summary: frankie hates your boyfriend. in fact, everybody does. but he’s willing to give him a chance. you’re his best friend, after all. until frankie discovers something he can never forgive.

Tommy's Party

summary: your handsome new roommate spells trouble. or, a bunch of times you and frankie nearly fuck. and then one time you do.

pt. i - you and your friends pt. ii - tommy's party

DIN DJARIN

let me be needed

summary: the mandalorian pays you an unexpected visit. you both get more than you bargained for.

LUCIEN FLORES

mutual

summary: you and lucien have both been invited to this dinner with explicit instructions: play nice. but it's kind of hard when you can't stand each other. even harder when the meaning begins to blur with his hands on you.

DAVE YORK

sedated

summary: you and dave are no strangers to this business, to death. so there can be no harm in relying on each other in a time of need.

JOEL MILLER X FRANKIE MORALES X SANTIAGO GARCIA X F!READER

listen

summary: you’ve been serving frankie and his friends at your bar for months. despite your wishing and wanting, the shy pilot doesn’t work up the nerve to ask you out before santi introduces you to his buddy, joel. swept off your feet by the sweet southerner, and charmed by pope, the boys come together to show frankie exactly what it is he’s missing.

watch

summary: after showing frankie what he was missing, something seems to have been awoken in you all. with joel away on a contract and santi called out of town, you're left in frankie's care. except one rule still stands - you can't touch.

BONUS: al's handy guide to reading watch

[max--phillips]

Hey, @staff @support @wip @engineering @changes @humans it’s me again. Do you have a second? I would like to draw your attention to something.

So, you know how when you start typing in a tag, it’ll list tags to choose from based on what you’re typing in? Y’know, you start typing “star” and the list will populate “Star Wars” and “Lego Star Wars” among a few other tags you can tap on to auto-complete what you’re typing if you want? Yeah, it’s about that function.

I assumed that these tags populated based on popularity or number of uses. But when I saw some weird shit populate that read more like a clickbait article headline than a tag an actual human being had used at some point, I did some experimenting.

To preface, the tags that I'm about to list here have never once been used on my blog, and are not suggestions from my history. They are purely on tumblr's side.

Did you know that if you type in simply “I need,” the following tags auto-populate?

“I need to lose so much weight,” “I need to lose this weight,” and “I need to ⭐️ve.” Yikes. Knowing this, out of curiosity, I typed in "I want" next. Guess what I found?

"I want to ⭐️ve," "i want to cvt," and "i want to be skinnier." Again, yikes.

But perhaps this is a bit too leading. What if I just type in "I w" instead?

It auto-populates with some repeats, PLUS some more concerning shit. we got "i want to ⭐️ve," "i wanna lose weight," "i will reach my ugw," "i wanna be skinnier," "i wanna be tiny," "i want to cvt," "i want to be skinnier," "i wanna be perfect," "i will lose weight," and "i wish i was weightless."

Let's try just "i n" too, for fun.

We get "i need to lose so much weight," "i need to lose this weight," "i need to ⭐️ve," and "i need to be weightless."

With this in mind, I typed in "ana" because I recognize all of this as stuff people struggling with anorexia have historically said on this platform. Once again, we have some concerning things auto-populate:

"ana meal," "ana bllog," "ana tricks," "tw ana diary," "ana trigger," and "ana rant."

Here's my question: how and why are these auto-populating? This kind of thing literally goes against your own community guidelines. Here's a screenshot from those community guidelines:

I highlighted the text that reads "Don't post content that actively promotes or glorifies self-harm. This includes content that urges or encourages others to: cut or injure themselves; embrace anorexia, bulimia, or other eating disorders;"

I realize that monitoring tags like this isn't going to be perfect, some things inevitably slip through the cracks. But this many tags? Someone somewhere is dropping the ball.

That also leads me to another point.

I, as with many other people on this website, the self-proclaimed "queerest place on the internet," occasionally tag posts with something to the tune of "terfs do not interact" because... well, being a terf is to be inherently transphobic and anti-queer. I noticed something peculiar recently while tagging a post as such.

I'm willing to bet real actual money that the tag "terfs dni" gets used significantly more than the tag "terfsafe," so... why does the auto-populated tag list look like this when you type in "terf?"

We get the auto-populated tags "terfblr," "terfsafe," and "terfism." But not a sign of "terfs dni" or "terfs don't touch." Why is that?

So, again out of pure curiosity, I typed in "rad."

"radblr," "radical feminists do interact," "radical feminist safe," "radqueer" (which isn't radfem related but also shouldn't be on that list), "radical feminism," and "radical feminist community" auto-populate. Considering radical feminism and being a terf are literally the same thing, this is further concerning.

For shits and giggles, I typed in "lgb" to see what I'd get.

Why on EARTH is "lgb drop the t" the second auto-populated tag?

Let's try just the word "gender."

"gender critical" is the second auto-populated tag. Another transphobic term.

I'm sure this has nothing to do with the fact trans women can't post entirely safe for work selfies on this website anymore without their post getting flagged as mature content, or the swath of trans women who have had their blogs entirely terminated for no reason recently.

Also, interestingly enough, in your community guidelines, under the hate speech guideline, you have written "Don't encourage violence or hatred. Don't post content for the purpose of promoting or inciting the hatred of, or dehumanizing, individuals or groups based on race, ethnic or national origin, religion, gender, gender identity, age, veteran status, sexual orientation, disability or disease." You may be interested to know that terfs and other transphobes do, in fact, encourage, promote, and incite hatred of, and dehumanize, individuals or groups based on gender and gender identity.

Perhaps what you have auto-populate for tags should reflect things that are popular and inclusive on this website, not... whatever this is. If this is truly the queerest place on the internet, and you want to continue to cultivate it as such, you should probably at least act like it.

Anyway, it'd be cool of you to address these things. Toodles.

[emeritus-fuckers]

Hey ghestie i just saw a terf blog while i was scrolling through my tags and I'm shook, could you write me some Mountain comfort pls

It's okay if you can't, hope you're doing well i love your writing

ew.. sorry you had to see that. - Zenith/Jasper.

Mountain comfort

TW: Mentions of drugs (weed).

He notices you're upset before you do.

If you're someone who loves touch and affection, he's around you in a second, holding you close, gently asking what's wrong.

He'll lead you away if you're in any room besides your shared bedroom, and make sure you're as comfortable as possible.

He's always been a fan of naked cuddles, so do expect his skin pressed against yours, holding you close.

If you're someone who smokes, he'll pull out two perfectly rolled blunts, and light them both, making sure there is plenty of water and snacks nearby, and play whatever show you want.

If you don't smoke, he'll pull you close and rest his head on your chest, listening to your heartbeat, grabbing a marker of your favorite color, and just lazily draw plants and roses on your arm.

If you want to talk about it, he is more than happy to listen. And give his input if you would like it.

If not? He is more than happy to just listen and hold you close and listen to your heartbeat. Maybe a lazy makeout session, just trying to help calm you down.

~

Written by Zenith/Jasper.

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