#all pride is kink to bigots

[fractangle]

Pride month vest project, a patch a day #14: All Pride is Kink to Bigots

[sketchy-scribs-n-doods]

i need a little notes section to be added to all block list functions in social media bc my goldfish memory having ass don't always remember why i blocked someone

see i looove blocking ppl and curating my online experience with wild abandon, but that means it can be anything from 'this person is a fucking terf' to 'this person is harmless but has annoying opinions about fictional characters i like' to 'this person once said mango was disgusting and i took it personally'

so now tumblr or whatever is telling me i have a mf blocked and i gotta sit there and wonder if they're a bigot or just have bad opinions on cheesecake

[godbirdart]

in what universe is someone going to see a DNI that applies to them and think "this person is definitely someone im going to enjoy following and get along with". do you go on twitter and see nazis saying they hate trans people and decide to follow them out of spite? of course not, and literally nobody else does that either, even on the other side. hell forget DNIs, I get less conservatives in my notifs than I used to just by having they/them pronouns in my bio because they see it and go "ew, I'm not following them". people dont typically follow people theyre clearly not going to feel welcome around, a DNI is just another way to communicate that.

1 - you don't have to Get Along with someone to follow them. people can and will hate-follow or follow to annoy you, block evade, etc out of spite. some people will interact with you just because you told them, or people like them, not to.

2 - your experiences are not universal. nazis, terfs, bigots in general, they can and will follow and harass people they don't like online. this is spoken from my own experience as someone who has seen his transfem friends be followed and harassed by alt-right nut jobs online.

3 - "forget DNIs, I get less conservatives in my notifs than I used to just by having they/them pronouns in my bio" ← you're right. this is effective because the vast majority of people regardless of political stance or belief will only ever read your bio. not many people are going to jump through hyperlinks to read your DNI. if they don't like what they read in your bio, they'll just leave [or possibly harass you, if they're particularly malicious]. ergo, making a DNI is largely just for yourself and not at all a real, useful barrier people must pass through in order to follow / engage with your posts.

no one is stopping you from making a DNI. you can write a terms-of-service length novel of a Do Not Interact list, put it on its own Carrd and make it aesthetic and pretty with flair. you're completely free to do so and tell people to read it. a few will, sure.

however. the post you're referencing is specifically addressing the glaring reality that most people, regardless if they fit your DNI criteria or not, are simply not going to go out of their way to find and read it. abusive people aren't going to see "DNI abusive assholes" and be deterred because they themselves don't consider themselves abusive. this post, particularly what OP wrote, is saying how it's much more proactive to curate your own space through utilizing the block button and tag filters when you see things and people you don't want to engage with instead of trying to impose your personal boundaries on strangers online.

addendum // i don't really care if teens are making DNIs and being aggressively annoying about em. i remember the era of setting weird arbitrary rules in my developing years while i was forming Who I Was as a person. they're figuring out who they are and what their comfort levels are. i get it. it's the grownass adults that are hyper-virulent about DNIs that i worry about - and i'm not talking about when they're trying to establish an adults-only space with a stern "minors DNI".

note: what i'm talking about below, i am Not referring to literally illegal and harmful activities / content. just want to be clear.

now, i'm not saying you have to welcome and embrace the content you don't like, but it's important to challenge yourself and toe your comfort boundaries. if you over-prune yourself trying to be the bestest morally correct person, at some point you're going to start boxing yourself into this narrowed teeny tiny worldview. you may turn into the person you claim to have loathed, imposing personal beliefs and morals on others, and brandishing your DNI like it's a certificate of righteousness; not unlike how conservatives wave around religious scripture while pruning away LGBTQ+ rights because it goes against their morality. a few examples of this are topics such as: kink at pride, and the language discrepancies between the younger and older generations of the LGBTQ+ community - particularly in regards to self-identifying with words such as Queer and Dyke and Transsexual.

i probably derailed a bit here, i'm answering this before my caffeine's fully kicked in. if i vaguely worded something or yall want more elaboration on something, don't hesitate to ask

[yourtoradorasextendedwarranty]

So I didn't want to involve the people on this post in my shenanigans. Mostly because I don't want to see a dogpile, or because I don't want to deal with the ignorance that will come from the responses.

So this showed up on my dash

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And honestly I don't think they understand what's really going on. There are a lot of people living in a bubble and it kind of annoys me a bit.

People are not pissed that LGBT people exist. Contrary to popular belief. Nor are they mad that LGBT products exist. What they are mad about is that June has become, "Worship the LGBT or else" month. And while many don't think that's true, it very much is.

I've seen pride parade over the last 6+ years with HEAVY kink involvement IN PUBLIC in full view of kids. Also in full view of people who really don't want to see it. People who can't close their businesses. People who have appointments to keep at offices. Dick shaped lollipops. Near full nudity. What used to be SUPPOSEDLY a celebration of love is now a degenerate (and that's coming from me) fetish fest. More over, if you don't brandish your cult symbol, people get mad at you. And now a days threaten to destroy your livelihood.

(And before you continue reading. THIS MAY well ruffle some feathers. And while you may not agree with my sentiment, this post is not hateful. It's observations and ideas based on people I've talked to both in and out of the LGBT, things I've experienced in my own life, and stuff I've read up on over the years. And while I'm not as articulate as a used to be, it's written not in anger, but with the intention of explaining all of my thoughts. And while they may not get across the way I want, I mean no hate by them.)

Pride hasn't been about love in years. It's been about how degenerate and fetishy can we get in public until they start putting us in jail. Except we can't even do that anymore because protected classes get an absolute pass to break the laws now. And you might not see that but everyone else does.

What's more, what LGBT means now isn't what it used to mean. It's some weird amalgamation taking every sex based thing and non sex based thing and shoving it all under the same umbrella. Hell, most modern trans activists want to get rid of gay people. And no that's not some joke or conspiracy.

Consider this. A lot of modern "LGBT" people claim that gender is a social construct right? Ok and now they are trying to say there is no difference between men and women. In the biological sense. Now you have, "Lady dicks and man pussys" and what not. Except it's not a joke. And I'm not joking. I've been seeing a hard push from trans activists in the modern day, to claim that biological sex does not matter (to the point they want to be able to change their birth certificates), and that if you are a Female dating a male, so long as they SAY they are a woman you are still somehow a lesbian.

THEN you have the now famous Tim Pool clip where the guy from The Serfs claims that if a woman sleeps with an effeminate man, she's actually a lesbian. Or vice versa, if a man dates a non feminine woman, he's actually gay. I don't think most of you realize right now but modern activists are hell bent on erasing gay people. Gay in it's ACTUAL meaning. Which is sexual attraction to the same SEX. Not the same gender. Which both were interchangeable for years. Now it's a clusterfuck of what ever either side wants it to mean. And that's devastating for society. It's devastating for communication between people. And it's devastating for relationships.

Things are breaking down at the seams. People who have been gay their entire lives now have to contend with being called bigots by self righteous, narcissistic, young, dumb people trying to tell them THEY are the bigots. When arguably they had it much harder in society. Hell the middle east STILL gives you 2 options if you are gay. Transition so you are not a monster, or die. Because at least if you appear like the opposite sex you can't participate in your debauchery. That's how they view it. And activists in the west are doing the exact same in their own way. It's pretty fucking scary.

But to the original point. It's not just about Trans this, Gay that, Lesbian this, or anything. People are just tired of the celebrations. Because it's moved way past that into glorification. To a point that among the people that support it, they are deifying it. That's not exaggeration. You are now considered boring if you are straight. You are considered an evil racist monster if you are "cis". And don't get me started on the rant that is talking about that term. Kids are now being indoctrinated into being something other than straight and their own sex/gender. Because according to this hell site and others like it, "Straight people are so boring and stupid and violent and and and and and~" Fuck you.

You don't get to shit on straight people with impunity and then get upset when they say enough. You don't get to tell people that "every day is straight pride day" meanwhile smearing your privates in their faces for a full month. No criticism. No conversation. Just mindless worship. And don't tell me that's not what it is. That is fully what it is.

And before anyone decides to come at me telling me I'm transphobic or homophobic, Plenty of LGBT people agree with me. Some even have more extreme views on all of this than I do. Mine seems to be the very mild view on all of this considering.

But we don't need a pride month anymore in the US. The initial movement was about not just getting the right to marry, but being able to be seen as human just like everyone else.

Well guess what? It has not been like that since 2012. Now it's about, "Call me my pronouns or I'll cut your head off" and "If you don't celebrate pride then your a bigot, a monster, and a nazi", or, "I can't believe this old woman called me young lady, WTF, I'm clearly a man" or my personal favorite, "Kink needs to be in front of kids so they can grow up and understand good sex". Yeah. I've actually heard every one of these IN PERSON and wanted to call the cops on the last one. And fringe or not, these ARE the views being pushed to the forefront.

And more than that even. A school quite literally said, "Memorial day weekend? What's that? Pride month though. Let's dress all these kids in pride stuff and parade them around to prove how virtuous we are."

Yes this DID actually happen. A school opted to not recognize or celebrate our fallen, and instead opted into worship. Modern pride is a cult. I'm not sorry for saying it. Most of you pushed to see how far until it was too far. And now you WILL see people walk back acceptance of the LGBT as a whole. You waved your crotches in their faces for long enough and they've had it.

And that makes me pretty upset honestly. Because my LGBT friends may likely have to suffer through widespread discrimination again because you didn't understand how far is too far. And then when you were told how far too far was, you opted to take it further than that.

Now let me cool the pot as it were. I'm not putting this on the LGBT people who've been nothing but good people, who just have been trying to live and enjoy their lives. And I don't want to see an overreaction to all of this. But the issue is not enough people smacked these activist types down. Their fringe views were allowed to flourish and be the dominate idea. And now we have people boycotting LGBT stuff aimed at kids, and parents are pissed. Kids are already confused enough growing up. Hormones, School, Friends, Parents, figuring out life, etc. It's a confusing time in their lives and they frankly don't need more stuff to be confused about. More over, they don't need to be focused on sexuality (which again is a concept based on SEX based attraction) at 10 y/o. Will they figure that stuff out? Yes. Do they need a LGBT teacher teaching them how to be gay? No.

Do they need books teaching them how to get on gay dating apps at 14 for anonymous hookups with gay men? ALSO no. Do they need to learn how to use butt-plugs at 13-14? FUCK no. Do they need to be taught in gay books how to give head to other boys? NO! THEY DON'T! Do they need drag queens, wearing thongs and a miniskirt twerking in their faces at 6? *cocks shotty*. And before I get the onslaught of, "That's not happening", yes it is. There's proof of it all over the US. Happening in more and more frequency. Including librarians suggesting books featuring explicit content to very young teens.

The final straw was kids. And when you told parents they were not allowed to defend their kids, parents said, "Excuse the fuck out of me". And now here we are. In a country were if you are LGBT and you rape someone, it's perfectly fine. And calling it out is actually bad. If you call out biological men, claiming to be trans so they they can rape women in prison an issue, THAT'S somehow calling all trans people rapist? If you point out that a gay man or a trans woman is grooming kids and or has sexually assaulted them, that SOMEHOW all gay men and trans women are predators?

No one said that. YOU said that. And your fighting tooth and nail to defend people who do those things, is a problem. And it's why people are fed up.

This is not and has never been about anti-LGBT sentiment. But it will become that if people who've done this stuff continue to be shielded. It will become that if normies get even more fed up with the cult like worship once a year of Pride. I don't want to see it become that. It will however, if things don't come down from a boil. Leave kids alone, call out groomers and predators, and stop featuring kink and fetish at pride parades. Put on a rainbow shirt hold hands with your S/O Hold up a sign saying "Love" and that's it. It's super simple. And for the love of all that is holy, stop shaming straight people. Because if you don't they WILL come to resent you. More than some already do.

And just to wrap things up. I don't want to see things get worse for LGBT people. What I do want to see is certain LGBT people stop acting like being LGBT is their entire personality. Because it's not just grating to me. It's grating to other LGBT people. And worst of all it's grating to normies. And they are the people you need to be worried about.

[kapreday]

Happy Fucking Pride Month Queers.

There's a blazed tumblr post going around by user @servant-of-the-sacred-heart that is absolutely vile titled "My Testimony -- Catholic and Ex Bi."

Don't interact with it. The user used religion as a grounds to re-closet themselves and is pushing that same dehumanization onto other queers. There is reference to the Catholic church having a better understanding of science and biology, there's fully the removal of pride to encourage us queers to practice "humility" in June instead. It's... all kinds of the same gross religious trauma.

REPORT THAT SHIT AS HATE SPEECH.

Because it does dehumanize people based on sexual orientation and gender using religion as it's crutch, it appears to be against tumblr's hate speech policy! Even if the person doing the speech wants to pretend to be one of us, this is still dehumanizing to anyone who doesn't share their religion kink. Here's how I phrased it.

BIGOTS DON'T GET TO BLAZE HATE.

[theconcealedweapon]

Bigot: "Pride parades should be more family friendly. All the kinks at pride are not appropriate for children."

LGBT Person: "Pride was originally a riot. It's not supposed to be family friendly. We have other events for children like drag queen story time."

Bigot: "I still don't like it. I don't care if there's no kink or nudity. The LGBT community should be for adults only."

LGBT Person: "Fine. I guess we'll just stick to selling beer."

Bigot: "Yeah, I don't like that either. I'll boycott any beer distributor that shows any support for the LGBT community."

LGBT Person: "Then what the hell do you even want us to do?"

Bigot: "I want you to not exist."

[burningbee]

Dragon Pride Stickers! I wanted to make some queer stickers that were on the subtler side of things. Like the rest of my queer stickers, 50% of the profits go to LGBTQIA charities. They'll be up in my shop by the end of the week.

I obviously couldn't do all the flags (there are so many) but I tried my best. I specifically wanted to include the Leather Pride flag. The leather/ kink community is a huge part of why the current LGBTQIA movement exists. They were there at Stonewall, they protected the first pride parades from bigots and cops. They are integral to queer history and I think the younger generations aren't aware of that.

[olderthannetfic]

/726901861182996480/ a lot of the Richard Siken response is honestly so homophobic, trying to come up with some sinister reason for why a gay man would be interested in writing or reading sexy fanfic about attractive men in a TV show. There was a viral post going around here by some person with a Stranger Things username (not insinuating that fandom is especially weird or anything, just that I remember this person had one of the characters from that show as their username) that suggested he was a creep or groomer or something because he had not responded well to a teenager basically wanting him to do her homework for her, but “he happily writes fanfic of shows for her age demographic” (or something like that) which is both a truly bizarre description of Supernatural, a show that’s always been aimed at adults even if it also has a fair number of teenage fans, but also is really clearly trying to invoke some sort of Groomer Panic in a time when that’s rising as a form of violent homophobia toward LGBTQ+ people especially those who are AMAB. And it’s just such a bizarre statement: even if we were talking about a drama that was aimed at teenagers, in what ways is it “groomer” for an adult to watch this show (lol, on the website that is full of adults freaking out over kids’ shows) or for that adult to find the adult characters played by adult actors attractive enough to write sexy fanfic about them? It’s just really obviously reaching for an excuse to call a gay man a groomer.

In general, I feel like this website has a serious problem (it’s been the case at the very least since the panic over CMBYN, and before anyone gets pissy, I’m not talking about anyone taking issue with the content of the film itself, but the people making weird insinuations about gay/bi men for liking it or “the gay community” for embracing it or over the bi male novel author’s own sexuality or reasons for writing it, etc.) where a lot of people who are not gay/bi men think it’s okay for them to make weird homophobic assertions about it, and generally not bother to question their homophobic beliefs about gay and bi men, because they themselves are some other kind of LGBTQ+. I’m a cis lesbian and a lot of this particular seems to come from cis lesbians and bi women, often trying to couch it in a general sort of skepticism that women as a marginalized group might have toward men as a privileged group, but then it only ever seems to be directed at men who are also marginalized such as gay/bi men (and also MOC) and specifically for things that are a result of those marginalized identities and that don’t affect women — NOT a situation where a man is using his marginalized identity as an excuse for misogyny or anything like that. Anyway, people need to knock that shit off. Not every person in the LGBTQ+ community has the same experience, and being, say, a cis woman who is queer doesn’t necessarily make you any better of an authority on gay or bi men’s lives than cishet people if you aren’t making an effort to talk to them or read stuff by them or learn about their lives, and certainly doesn’t mean you can’t be homophobic toward them — just like how in turn, queer men can be bigoted toward lesbians and/or bi women. I don’t understand how people can be aware of other kinds of intra-LGBTQ+ bigotry — cis gay or bi people being transphobic, gay people being biphobic, etc. — and not be aware that this is also a thing that can happen from other LGBTQ+ people toward gay men.

And being ANY kind of queer absolutely does not give you a get out of jail free card for buying into and disseminating the moral panics about groomers, “kink at pride,” “drag is problematic and always sexual” etc. which are used by the right wing to hurt all of us. This was bad enough in like 2018 as part of the perennial brain worms people on this website have about Pride (that are because way too many of them don’t leave their houses and actually go to a Pride parade) or when people could plausibly believe that “groomer” was purely about shipping discourse and maybe the occasional actually kind of creepy older adult in fandom spaces who spends a little too much time glomming onto teens specifically. But in 2023 you don’t really have any excuse for not being aware of how those terms have broken containment and are now part of regular right-wing propaganda, and particularly a concerted right-wing campaign to try to re-mainstream homophobia in places where it had become socially taboo. Your discomfort around a real adult gay man just enjoying fanfiction, which does not affect you, is not justified and you need to work through that. Using terms like “groomer” for fucking fandom discourse when it’s come to mean what it does in the broader culture is just completely morally reprehensible. Get a fucking grip

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[magioffire]

rpc i think we need to have a little talk about misconceptions surrounding polyamory after the shit show last night

not all polyamorous relationships are open relationships. polyamorous is not a fancy word for 'free for all'. poly people can and do have closed relationships.

polyamory is not synonymous with religious polygamy. no one is mandating you into a polygamy unless youre in some kind of cult sect or a religious group that actively practices such things. consentual relationships between adults is a lot different from mandated polygamy brought on by religious or political authoritarianism. monogamy and polygamy both have been utilized to oppress and control people throughout history. non-consensual arranged monogamous marriages anyone? that shit still happens to this day.

polyamory is not a fancy word for 'lack of commitment'. if anything, it takes more commitment to support a romantic relationship with multiple people

polyamory is not inherently more abusive than monogamy. this is just straight up just not true from a statistics standpoint, polyamorous relationships are not any more abusive than monogamous relationships. and since there are just more monogamous relationships out there, the chances for abuse to occur in monogamous relationships is just simply higher. as the stigma against polyamory fades, more people are going to attempt it. just like how when theres more dogs, more people get bit by dogs -- doesnt suddenly make dogs evil (tho some people would argue that for some breeds). your relationship status or mode does not indicate how good or bad of a person you are.

polyamory is not cheating. as with any relationship, in order for it to be healthy, there must be boundaries and respect for your partner/s. people in both monogamous and polyamorous relationships cheat. cheating has nothing to do with your sexuality or your relationship preferences. no sexuality or relationship state inherently makes a person more likely to cheat. its like implying bisexual people are more likely to cheat because of their sexuality.

humans are not 'wired' for monogamy. this is bioessentialism. no one is arguing that monogamous relationships arent common among humans, but saying we are 'wired' to be monogamous implies that polyamory is somehow an unnatural state. which stinks of the same sort of bigotry of 'homosexuality isnt natural/humans are wired for heterosexuality'.

'i have nothing against polyamory, but i dont want it forced on me' is a dogwhistle for 'i dont want polyamorous people to exist in my general direction' and if you said that about any other group of people, it would obviously be a bigoted stance. 'i have nothing against gay people, but i dont want their gayness forced on me'. you see how fucked up that sounds? no one is holding a gun to your head saying you have to be in a polyamorous relationship.

the internet has made people forget how to mind their own business. it has also made people forget that just because something makes you personally uncomfortable doesnt mean you have to create some sort of moral justification for your hatred and fear. its a common tactic among troll and extremist political groups to prey upon people's discomfort and fear and turn it into hatred (kink at pride discourse anyone?). outrage culture is very real and 'alternative' or non-mainstream lifestyles and people have always been a target for this. it is nothing new, it is just the same old bigotry given a new fresh coat of paint. learn to sit with your discomfort, because its ultimately a you problem, not an everyone else's problem. people are not obligated to change or make themselves smaller to uphold your comfort. a boundary is not an ultimatum you place upon other people, its something you place upon yourself. people existing and living their lives is not forcing anything upon you.

[spnpridecestweek]

SPN Pridecest Week

❀ June 24 - 30 ❀

Prompts:

Day 1 || June 24: Monstrous / Purity

Day 2 || June 25: QPR / Marriage

Day 3 || June 26: T4T / Bi4Bi / Femslash

Day 4 || June 27: Post-series / Pre-series

Day 5 || June 28: Samulet / Worship

Day 6 || June 29: First time / Last Kiss

Day 7 || June 30: Kink/fetish (18+ participants only) / Coming Out

Use the tag #spnpridecest2023 and tag us @spnpridecestweek in all your creations!

This is a Wincest-focused event! Wincest is preferred, other incest ships (including pseudo-incest, step-cest, incest au, etc) are encouraged, and non-incest ships are allowed. 

All creation mediums are accepted and encouraged, including but not limited to: gifs and gifsets, fanart, fanfiction, meta, videos, etc. Please put long written posts under a “keep reading” cut when possible!

As this is a pride event, keep queer identities at the forefront. This means, yes, it IS gay if you’re brothers. Sorry Dean!

Rules:

Participate in as many or as few days as you would like! You can either pick one of the prompts from a day, or combine both. Creations don’t need to be SUPER related to the prompts, as long as they in some way show pride <3 

Anyone can participate, as long as you are respectful of the event and other participants. 

Please include warnings for any sensitive subjects (except incest! we already know ;)) and tag any NSFW works “18+” or mark as “mature” using Tumblr’s community labels. 

Any genuinely bigoted content will not be promoted on this blog. Including but not limited to: transphobia, homophobia, racism, misogyny, etc. Depictions of these subjects are okay, but they should not be condoned or glorified within the work. 

Minors (ages 14-17) can participate but MUST abide by the following rules: 

Do not create any form of NSFW work for this event 

Do not create works that depict minor/adult relationships for this event

Block the tag “18+” and do not interact with any works from this blog that are tagged as such. 

If you are under 18 and you break one of these rules you will be blocked from the event week blog and banned from all future iterations of it. 

If you have any questions, please drop them in the ask box and we’ll get back to you as soon as possible!

[space-station-nursery]

🌧️⸝⸝ Welcomes to Finns Dream! ⸝⸝☔

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Hello again Akhts! Just want to check if you alright for this month, i see the comic for pride parade and that one Anonymous saying that homophobic, like Huh??? It's nothing like that, it's just someone is uncomfortable anything sexual, if you are asexual or not, people still get uncomfortable even LBGT+ people get uncomfortable when it start to get freaky as i think, and to be honest that people from the parade should have control themselves? I'm hopefully not saying anything bad, as a Ally I understand people want to be themselves and be with anyone they desire but sometimes people are not like that like asexual, aromantic for example, and that's okay I think we should respect them for they're comfortability and be their self as well even if they lack of romantic and sexual, that's normal,

I am apologize if I got carried away, I just wanted to say from the mind, take care, stay safe and happy Pride month! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️❤️

Hey bean, I hope you've been well!^^

Some stuff IS getting to me a little bit these days but overall I'm having an awesome pride month, thank you so much for the concern TwT

I DO think everyone at pride events IS controlling themselves, tbh – I mean no offense, but I think "control themselves" is actually a bit of a slippery slope of a phrase, because it may be the kind of thing bigoted people would tell to queer people to force them to mask their non-heteronormative sexuality, ironically the same bigoted people who'd tell us to "get out of our comfort zone" to force us to mask our non-heteronormative sexuality... So I wouldn't go there personally. Everyone should have the right to celebrate in the way they want and feel safe and embraced in. If this can't happen for kink-positive people, heck, if it hadn't started with them, it couldn't happen for us.

I just wish sex-repulsed asexuals wishing for a safe space without heavy sexualization SOMETIMES (again, not ALL OF THE TIME, we're NOT bigoted assholes) wasn't seen as a risk of regression. We ace people began to feel safe expressing our identity thanks to the LGBT people of the past who paved the way for us and showed us it's OK to express a different identity than the heteronormative one. I'd hate for these same people who showed us the way to be the one who repress us.

...Anyway that got heavy. Sorry. Been weighing a bit on my mind. But I had it coming I guess. Guess I got carried away a little too, hehe^^"

But either way, thank you so much for the kind comment and for checking on me, it's super appreciated^^ I hope you're doing good and I hope you're having a lovely pride month!! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️💜

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Wisdom vs Knowledge

The reason we have a concept known as "Adults" aside from just maturation of the body, is based on the idea of wisdom. Wisdom is technically knowledge, but it's more lived experience than anything else. Even deeper than that, it's a level of understanding you have of things based on that experience.

Knowledge is knowing you can cook most things.

Wisdom is knowing not everything is cooked in the same way.

Similarly I've seen issues arise from people not knowing the difference. Initially I was going to label this post, "Fantasy vs Reality" but decided this works better. Moreover since it's often the fact that people lacking in wisdom is WHY they can't separate fantasy from reality.

Recently I've seen people getting mad at Anime, and other mediums in general because of really dumb concepts. For example, Antis, who are people on twitter that seem to have a problem with everything are mostly on the younger side. They whine about stuff as a virtue signal when if you look into their likes and comments you'll see they very much like similar stuff to what they are publicly complaining about. We used to call these people fakers. Now we call them tourists. Though truthfully it's hard to know if either of those are accurate at all.

Mostly due in to the fact that it could very well just be clout chasing. And shitting on certain mediums because they can. More often than not, anime. And more often than not when they do it, they are extremely racist and xenophobic when they go about the virtue signaling. Because when it becomes pervasive in your life it alters your mind. And you end up with stuff like this

Fantasy is fantasy. No reality. They don't exist in real life. They don't have a mind of their own. They can't "Consent" or not consent. They are not real. They should never be treated like they are real. And the issue with treating them like they are real comes with the VERY real threat of that becoming the norm. All kink books? Gone. All books with murder? Gone. All books with abuse? Gone. All books with bigotry? Gone (except for acceptable bigotry at any given time. *like now with it being fine to be bigots towards whites and cis people*)

However, in this case I don't just mean books. I mean all story mediums. This is the same argument made by those that argue that video games cause violence. Except in every single study ever conducted it's more likely that video games REDUCE violent tendencies, rather than create them.

The thing however that made me make this post is because ignorant people on Twitter have been making a fuss because of course they have, but in regards to an anime that I like called "Frieren: Beyond Journey’s End". In the anime, you are introduced to an Elf woman who has live for quite a long time. During the anime they meet Demons that are left over from the war with the Demon King.

Demons, in the anime, are basically monsters or beasts that have attained human language. However, they only truly use human tongue to deceive humans. They lack most emotion, and do not have concept ideas like family or love at all. And even when treated with these emotions nothing changes. Nothing shifts. Fundamentally they are lower than beasts. They only things they feel are what we would classify as the negative emotional spectrum. Pride and Anger among the highest 2. Often, they are also arrogant. And most importantly, they are man-eaters. They feel no remorse. They feel no care. They feel more often than not, nothing.

So what does this anime have to do with this topic? This:

Want to know what Wisdom has to do with this? Understanding nuance. Knowledge is knowing racism is bad. Wisdom is knowing that it existing in a medium isn't an endorsement. Ignorance is not understanding that Demons, in this medium are a species. Not a race. But then again, this is not the only one like this. At this point, I'm almost at the point of saying, if parents can't do their jobs as parents, maybe they should just keep their kids away from fantasy as a whole.

Clearly, they are too young, or even if not young, too immature to handle it. And part of all of this is why I have a loathing for tourists (in this context) Because it's not just the youth that lack this wisdom. It's a lot of people in general. I'd have more to say on this, but I've made my point.

All I'm going to say is if you think like the comments in the very first picture, you need to stop consuming fiction. Because it's clear you can't consume it in a healthy manner. And thus forth should not consume it at all. Live life a little and come back with more wisdom. Until then? Get the f*ck out of my fandom and stay out. Because I'm sick of people who lack wisdom making claims every other day about stuff in anime or gaming, when it come out of Japan that are just not true.

Grow up. Oh, and if you take the media company Vice at face value? You not just lack wisdom. You're a moron.

[maddie-zylophone-hatter]

Can pointless queer discourse end? No, pansexuality is not biphobic or transphobic, and bisexuality is not panphobic or transphobic. The creator of the pan flag is not lesbophobic, they just support people who use mspec or bi lesbian labels, which aren't lesbophobic. The creator of the pan flag support kink at pride, which is fine. kink is still an important part of queer history, so queer people who partake in kink should be at pride. Truscum rhetoric is transphobic and usually excludes nonbinary identities. Asexual people aren't just straight people and they do get discriminated against. Aromantic people are human, and they don't have to explain how their relationships are important. The battleaxe bi tag is becoming a mspec exclusionist dog whistle tag, like why are pan and bi people fighting? Similar labels can coexist without being queerphobic to the other label. Solidarity isn't "clearing your concise of knowing that x label is y phobic". If you don't like the word queer for yourself, use LGBTQ. if you feel like queer is a good description of your identity, use the word queer. Mogai identities are just as valid as any other identity. Even if you dislike someone's pronouns/ think they're "fake", use them. Unlabeled and queer can be synonyms if you want them to be, if they have different definitions to you then use them how you understand them. People can use the term bisexual if they only have an attraction to 2 genders, or it can be attraction to all genders. Don't be rude to someone who you think has "confusing/contradicting labels"

Yes, this shade to a post I saw on my dash that was purposely panphobic.

Instead of fighting about useless shit, lets fight for reproductive rights and making sure lgbtq+ rights aren't stripped away.

minorities can still have bigoted views.

you cant take our queer rights.

-A

Quick edit, it's in the tags, so I thought people might see it: Radfems, panphobes, biphobes, aphobes, transphobes, homophobes, truscum, and queerphobes dni.

I realized trying to change people's minds and fighting is fucking stupid so sincerely, no discourse please?

[fractangle]

yo!!! hi!!! can I ask you what kind of stitch you used for the letters for your "all pride is kink to bigots" patch? it's pretty good at making the letters pop and I'm making my own patches 👍

It's just a backstitch with a double-threaded needle! Each line of the letters is two stitches wide. I'm not sure what kind of thread I used - it's slightly fuzzy and I got it years and years ago at a thrift store. Possibly acrylic of some sort? It came on lil rolls/spools. Also the font I used is called FreeMono in case that helps you or anyone else. :)

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What did Genshin characters do during pride month?

Jean: try to repress urges

Lisa: succeed at preventing Jean from repressing urges

Barbara: gay choir

Rosaria: gay choir (reluctantly)

Mona: work

Fischl: desperately try to convince Mona to cosplay the main couple from her favourite yuri light novel

Klee: solitary confinement after finding one of Lisa’s toys and running through the library pretending it’s a magic wand

Kaeya: pose nude

Albedo: paint Kaeya nude

Timeaus: token het

Noelle: gay baking

Benny: failing at gay baking

Razor: bark bark woof woof, grrrrrr

Sucrose: making sure everyone is hydrated

Eula: win dance battles with drag queens at the club

Amber: get hammered watching Eula dance at the club

Venti: host a drag show

Diluc: drink alone

Hu Tao: kink at pride

Yanfei: petition to make sure that the Millelith don’t attend pride events in uniform

Xiangling: organize a gay picnic!

Ganyu: nap at the gay picnic

Keqing: pick fights with religious bigots protesting the gay picnic

Shenhe: fuck

Yelan: get fucked

Zhongli: wonder when pride became so commerical

Childe: cohost Venti’s drag show

Xinyan: headline Venti’s drag show

Xingqiu: attend the gay picnic with the boyfriend

Chongyun: attend the gay picnic with the boy- oh god is that his aunt? With the tea house lady in her lap? What are they doing?? Oh- oh no, he’s gonna be sick.

Ningguang: politically neutral statement in support of embracing ourselves (and getting railed by her wife)

Beidou: ;)

Yae Miko: Gaslight straight girls into sleeping with her

Raiden Ei: yell at 12 year olds who say homophobic slurs in the discord chat

Nagonohara Yoimiya: accidentally start a fire

Arataki Itto: start a riot

Sangonomiya Kokomi: successfully rallying the rioters and then defeat the cops in an hours long street battle

Kuki Shinobu: drink to cope

Kujou Sara: pine

Kamisato Ayaka: sit alone in her room because she’s unsure how to hit on girls

Kamisato Ayato: buy poppers

Thoma: take poppers

Gorou: come to terms with gender dysphoria (and then be gaslit by Yae Miko into sleeping with her)

Kirara: hide from the loud noises

Collei: go to a pride parade with her gfs for the first time

Dehya: organize outings for the polycule

Candace: actually the one who organized outings for the polycule

Dunyarzad: fund the polycule outings

Nilou: dance with Eula and Venti

Tighnari: in the woods

Cyno: in the woods (played GI TCG on his phone while Tighnari drones on about plants)

Haitham: Read theory

Kaveh: watch Haitham read theory and brooding

Faruzan: cause age gap discourse

Layla: slept through age gap discourse while actively participating in it (her position is that queer time problematizes age gap discourse for queer couples and that historically, age gap relationships have formed the basis of a sort of queer apprenticeship system through which important often lifesaving knowledge is passed from generation to generation in lieu of institutional support. Also, abuse is abuse regardless of other contexts, thus teaching emotional resiliency is important for people of all genders and sexualities)

Nahida: safe sex education