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FUCK i can't believe i forgot abt going to a drag show in boston... missed opportunity
#well. the town im going to college in has a small drag scene so its not like that big a deal#but stilllll. would've been fun. and i would've had a friend to ease me into it bc ive never gone#idek if there's still a gay bar in my town#i mean ik there's cruising bc a couple of friends do it#and ofc dating apps and such#but i don't think there's a bar anymore the one everyone goes to closed down 😭 and idk which one they go to instead now#can't drink so idc but itd be nice to know. i think most gay ppl up here r either#too young to go to bars or somewhat closeted#like my civics teacher in middle school was gay but he was like. an former lawyer who moved up here bc he likes horses#dunno that he was going out on the town too much yk#and friends my age go on dating apps and such (#which is really not fucking safe at all but whatever i get it theres not much else to do here#and theres like one public park where people fuck#but no like bars or community centers afaik#i gotta fucking. Get on facebook. its like the only way to link up w people in a small town lmao#its how i found people for pokemon go 😭 and when my cat ran off for a week
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i can think of at least 6 specific examples of the top of my head of men who used grindr to lure and kill gay men but now im wondering if that phenomenon exists among women dating apps. definitely obviously theres probably some examples of men using a girlfriend to lure lesbians potentially for murder. but thats different than what i mean. ive always been interested in female-on-female IPV that comes about without direct influence and manipulation of a man. cause something to that affect happened to me young. statistically it doesnt seem likely theres been many cases at all of a lesbian going on the HER app or even tinder or whatever and then murdering a woman she went out with.
#time to research it doesnt have to be modern dating apps specifically but like a woman being killed on a date with a woman she met online#did a very quick search before hitting post and ofc the first example had a boyfriend involved
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ok let's catch up quickly
#so i went on a few dates w this guy. long hair beautiful face kinda looked like a girl (good) said yes ma'am when i told him to do smth#(also good) film student great at photography including candids. made a sheath of leather for a sword pin i have . et cetera.#he asked to cuddle and i was like iggg and then i felt Nothing and i was like ohhh yh ok ok yep lesbian#like he meets almost all my criteria but. yeahhh no . also at the end of that date he had some weird takes. anyway broke up w him and told#him actually im p sure im a lesbian (again) and he was like yk thats the second time this has happened to me this week but its ok bc ive#fallen for this girl from berlin. and then we cooked together. anyway . met a beautiful butch lowk in love w her. weve been on (1) date.#have two exams in a few days havent studied enough going to like end it all basically. my research partner kicked me off our research#(expected(it was always skinda sketchy)) which was devastating + it happened in a lidl 15 hours into a journey from bordeaux#to go back to the UK. my friends were kinda busy paying for baguettes but also they heard this whole exchange and are kinda mad at him#my friend of 10+ years is coming over in a few days. my evil ex situationship person that i decided to stay friends w because i kept#insisting they are a good friend and not evil and also extremely beautiful? turns out shockingly enough they were evil. tried to fix them#and then i realised due to their entire friendship group being ppl like me (Every Single One of their friends are ppl they met on dating#apps then led on then dumped and proposed staying friends w) and are collectively extremely attracted to them and not over them they#keep validating the most diabolical shit they say/do to hace a chance w them. they broke up w their ex and the way they keep leading#this poor girl on and making her heartbeeak worse and saying that they want more power over her and want her to beg for them back etc...MY#JAW HAD DROPPED esp bc i didnt even know the ex was in the picture BECAUSE ME AND ONE OF OUR FRIENDS (that they also dated) HAD JUSR SLEPT#NAKED TOGETHER IN THEIR BED W THEM. GIRL. anyway that is the least of the diabolical stuff they said but no we are moving onnn#this was b4 the beautiful butch btw. anyways . i have a mitski concert tmrw i think?? idek anymore#i used to have a crush on this guy very briefly and then it disappeared and then i realised if he fundementally changed everything abt#himself then maybe id like him but ofc i didnt tell him that but i still think abt it sometimes but anyway thats irrelevant now bc 99% sure#even if he did id still not find him attractive (lesbianism). please recommend good overnight moisturisers btw i have super dry skin#right. the friend of 10 yrs. we had a hard convo abt why she essentially bullied me in year 8 and it made me highly bitter but i also love#her and ik things are diff now its been like . Many Years . and shes going to stay a while I HAVE TWO EXAMS I DONT HAVE TIME but i love her#its fine. i think i might just switch into medicine and do the whole become a neurosurgeon thing (which was my plan B) bc plan A is looking#kinda impossible rn. I WANNA TALK MORE ABT WHAT THE EX SITUATIONSHIP PERSON SAID but i wont bc i dont wanna be too mean but also . MY GOD#i had a conversation w a philosopher friend about whether i have a moral responsibility to try to fix them bc unleashing this on society#feels wrong and he said 'probably but...run' so yeah im not talking to them atm. second date w beautiful butch on monday btw IDK WHAT TO#WEAR. she said she likes fems. im just gonna wear the shortest ralph lauren skirt i have w the cute leg warmers and hope 4 the best#its 1:15 AM im abt to drink coffee and start studying bc what the FUCK man. also almost finished watching the boys its very good#one of my best friends is struggling rn it is breaking my heart i want to take the burden from her i miss her very much
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life is full of questions without answers such as "how can i get over my crush", "how do i stop thinking abt him in the middle of the night", "how to stop feeling like a bad person for having feelings for a friend who'll never like me back", "will i ever be romantically loved" etc.
#slowly going insane at almost 3am#i helped a friend to move out to a new place today. ofc my crush was also there to help.#the whole fucking time when we were carrying furniture and stuff i couldn't stop looking at him and thinking abt how attractive i find him#like we were all sweating and feeling gross and still i was looking at him like 'haha he looks kinda hot ngl' i literally hate myself#🤡🤡🤡🤡#anyways how can i find someone who actually could like me. do i need to download a dating app#i just feel so pathetic that im already 24 and ive never even had my first kiss#honestly at this point i'd just happily kiss any consenting friend to get that over with.#my posts
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Wolfstar Dating-App Meet-Cute
Sirius and Remus match on a dating app
Sirius is very into the frail, “hot” nerd look
Remus is very into Sirius’s everything, but thinks there’s no chance in hell he ever has a shot with the guy. He just stares at his profile and fantasizes. He can’t bring himself to swipe it away, scared that it’ll be the last time he ever sees those beautiful tattoos and the silky black hair and the cute earrings paired with that confident smile… sigh. And he can’t just take a picture and moon over that, that’d be totally creepy!
So whenever he opens the app, it’s to Sirius’s dating profile which in consequence means he can’t swipe anymore.
Oh well, he didn’t really think this dating app thing would work to begin with.
Until- on the third day of opening and closing the app he accidentally gives the guy a superlike!
Remus is mortified! This is so embarrassing! Now Sirius will think he actually believes he has a chance! Only weirdos give superlikes! Ahhh! He screams into his pillow.
He’s so distracted in fact that he doesn’t notice the app telling him “It’s a match!”. At least not until he gets a notification! From Sirius!
Because, meanwhile, Sirius has been absolutely elated that the cutest guy on the app has given him a superlike! Jackpot! Of course he’s going to text him immediately!
Remus can’t believe his eyes. This must me a dream.
But he obviously can’t ghost the guy! He deserves better! Who is Remus to make him upset!!! No one’s probably ever ghosted Sirius! And he will definitely not be the one to start!
So they talk.
And they bond over their mutual love for dogs and political activism.
Turns out there’s a LGBTQIA+ demo in their city in a few days!
And Sirius wants to go with him!
And if it’s for queer rights Remus can’t possibly say no, right? It’s for the greater good!
So they meet. And Remus is extremely shy at first because Sirius in real life is a thousand times prettier and cooler than on his profile. How is that even possible!
Luckily Sirius thinks Remus’s initial nervousness only makes him cuter!
And Sirius is excellent in bringing people out of their shell. Remus doesn’t even need much coaxing!
He accidentally starts heavily flirting with Sirius after only a few minutes. He just doesn’t realize that’s what he’s doing. He’s only saying what’s on his mind! Sirius deserves to know that the color of his eyes looks lovelier than the summer sky!
So Sirius falls. And Remus does to. How could he not?
They fall madly in love with each other and after a few months they move in together. Then they adopt a dog. They go to every queer and human rights rally in their vicinity.
And obviously they delete the dating app. They will never need it again.
A few months in, Remus comes clean about the accidental superlike and three-day-pining over Sirius’s pictures.
Five minutes later, Sirius is still laughing.
“Did you ever wonder why my profile was still there, even after 3 days?”
“Um, no? What do you mean?”
“If I hadn’t liked you, you wouldn’t have been able to see it anymore!”
“Oh.”
#wolfstar#just a silly thing cause I thought#what would be the most boring idea for a fic#and then I tought meeting over a dating app ofc#and it spiraled#cause wolfstar somehow make everything cute??#remus lupin#sirius black#remus x sirius#marauders#fanfiction#writing#meet cute
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date back on for sunday now. His friend is okay. thank god. And uhhh, yea now we're finally be fr about the "hey we met on a dating, lets be so fr about what our experience has been" uncharted territory besties. we're not at "so what are you looking for?" but i already essentially told him my approach is to just really try getting to know ppl i find interesting and letting a spark develop from there w/o pressure. kinda like in school where you consistently see people in casual settings. and he thought it was a good plan so uh. here we are.
#basically he's had no luck and only like 2 matches (excluding me i believe) and all those people just never responded to him#which must be so funny bc now theres like. me. where i have seen his id. know his govt name. address. dob. and vitals. like. crazy.#and he's seen mine too ofc. equality. and uh. sounds like he's never dated. never had any bug feelings for anyone despite wanting to fall i#love so bad. which is... interesting. i feel like he has liked ppl and not recognized that it's a crush. nit just wanting to be friends but#imma hold off on sharing that until further developments.#i basically told him that I've had a very different experience. not to like brag but like most women will have better luck on apps (also hi#profile kinda sucks. all 4 photos look like a different person. his like actual answers to prompts aren't bad. they're good. thats what mad#me think 'oh i think i could rlly get along w/ this dude' but he'd attract a very niche type of woman)#which i also. didn't fully say. bc time and place. it'll come up but not right now. but yea so i told him that like. ive gotten many matche#but a lotttt of it is super low quality. lot of wasted time. so like. yea. we all have a bad time on dating apps till someone sticks and we#dont. we basically have both admitted to having idealized people in the past and getting the ick irl. and yea. building some good common#ground. ive always wanted to ask to ppl ive gone out w/ what their experience looks like but i feel like thats not smth to talk abt till#later on and I've never wanted anything past a 2nd date before so. yea.#although my first date did tell me but she was poly and like much more open to talking abt that than most monogamous ppl would be
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#daytime is easier bc then im like#ok... i will try i will not think abt it#i will keep living my life even if it hurts#i will finish school and go to university and get an apartment and live alone#i'll talk to my mom and fix things with my sisters#i'll try apps and groups and interests to make friends..#even if its only friends i dont connect with but just hang out with#i will try dating even if thats so scary and bleak#bc maybe im a person better suited for the mundane and lackluster#maybe since i have avpd intense and passionate love will ruin me#maybe its betterr if i meet a person i like and is nice to hang out with#and think is attractive and being intimate with them is nice and ok#and then i can be in a relationship with them even if im not deeply profoundly in love with them#bc if youre a person who cannot be ok with being alone#then being alone rather than surrounded with ok ppl is NOT better#i need ppl around me even if im not gonna connect to them on a deeper level#and maybe i can acheive that#maybe nobody will ever be him or make my heart burn as much as he will#bit maybe i will keep going and be ok anyway#i dont need to be great i just wanna be ok#and we're all differentbc ofc i feel dumb af for caring this much#'love' is ruining my life and i feel insane for it#but this is what im dealing with i cannot make my heart feel less or nothing i feel what i feel#i want him but if i cant have him i will go on i have to#even if everything will always feel dull and bleak and slow and boring without him i have to keep going#i just hope i really hope it starts hurting less bc im in sm pain
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i will shut up abt this i promise but like. the concept of being in a stable safe mutually loving whatever relationship is INSANE . like how can you ever feel bad about yourself or wounded or whatever again. it’s like a superpower or somethi ng. <- doesn’t know what she’s taking abt bc she’s never experienced it or the absence of it after having it merely the negative space of it and is filling in the gaps w logic or something. but it’s INSANE to me. like of course i feel like shit about myself i am catcrumb unloved.jpg!
#purrs#imbeing insane about it i know it’s not that simple / reductive and i will still feel like shit abt myself once im in a relationshp (if i#get to be ♥️) and there are lots of other legitimate reasons to feel shit agtbyiurself. but it’s like no ficking wonder i feel inadequate i#am a 24 year old who lives at home and has never held a hand or whatever next to two 50sometjinf year old married men with pets and phds. of#course i am going to feel inadequate and stupid and lonely. like i canttttt 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 and th w worst part is you can’t just go out into#the world saying that and looking for that it has to find you so i will not join any dating apps or whatever but i don’t fucking go anywhere#so im not going to meet anyone and i knowi am so young and stupid and just having a horrible day that is reminding me of horrors. but the#way i am mentally shoving my whole fist in my mouth. OF COURSE I FEEL LIKE SHIT I DONT HAVE A LIFE PARTNER!!!!!!!!!!!! I DONT HAVE THAT#SAFETY AND STABILITY AND TRUST AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!!!!!!!! AND I NEVER HAVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#delete later#like this is what makes me crazy abt parents and kids too and whyi don’t think ihave kids. bc i think (and i know this is wrong / unhealthy)#it is a primal human need to be mutually someone else’s number 1 person and when you have kids it’s like you’re gonna love your partner more#than the kids and then the kids (read: me) watch that and get fucked up over it. but also that could just be me reacting to the UNSPEAKABLE#psychological damage of being a twin. which again is ridiculous bc it’s n out like abuse i just had to share something with someone else si#since before i was born and ofc there was more like actually kind of abusive stuff on top of it LOL but that aside. idk what im saying i#just feel so crazy. the amount of composure it takes me every day to not start SCREAMING with frustration and envy when i see ppl being#RIGHTFULLY DESERVEDLY visibly confident and loved. like ok valentines grinch go sit in the drainage pond forever please. but it’s so crazy#like how are you supposed to go through the world unaware of how much love you’re missing out on because you’re young and then you realize I#it and then somehow you miss the train and you are scared you are going to d*e alone ♥️ im normal
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Being a lesbian and finding a girl to go out with is hard in and on itself but finding someone that doesn't ghost me after two text messages and that isn't the fucking personification of boredom is even harder
#the people i matched with on dating apps? BORING#half of them couldn't keep the conversation going#the other half gave me friends vibes#then of course there are the ones that never even texted back#exhausting.#i don't know where else to meet queer girls that live in the area#considering that i don't want to go to a gay club#the only interesting girls i find live on the other side of the country ofc#and sure i wouldn't mind a long distance relationship (i think?) but i kinda want to go on dates and kiss and have the full experience#since i never got to experience it before#oof. i'm tired.#elena rants#wlw
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found a classic reuploaded lmao
tbh aside from the fact that they both go on dates with women and the host's persistence on "and they are both single!!!!" the part in the middle that they just filmed themselves was just classic 2011 era dnp stuff. like really the only thing that made this feel more cringe was the host's persistence on them being single which like makes sense in this being a spon thing about dating apps but its so awkward.
also shoutout to the "phil and dan" era
#the whole time im just like yeah ofc the dates didnt work well youre gay........#BUT WHAT IF. NOW HEAR ME OUT. dnp gay dating app spon. they should do it to continue t beat the marriage allegations#i think it would be really funny#Youtube
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seriously tho someone turn me into a turtle before 7pm my anxiety is going haywire i cant concentrate on anything
#I DONT KNOW IF ITS A DATE+? +?#Journal shit#ofc i dont go on any online app dates no instead i meet someone random#im hoping its not a date and im reading too much into things#if only to just shut my brain up#in hindsight i should have suggested the turtle pond as a place to go#just like potential date litmus test: do they get bored sitting and watching turtles lie in the sun#if the answer is yes then they arent the one
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actually dating apps r impossible if you dont like your appearance
#lets b honest here although some apps are encouraging users to be more personable and introduce more features#that show off personality dating apps are primarily based on ur appearance...the main thing you see is photos#and people make snap judgements based on those photos which is valid ofc if thats what ur looking for#and like... i have photos of myself i like. but i feel like its catfishing bc day to day i feel like i dont look like that i feel like i#look stupid n goofy most of the time#so i refuse to use those goddamn apps becuase the guilt i feel drives me insane#i need people to see me irl first and THEN make a decision and the decision has been 100% no historically#which is Fair
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actually my tinder experience the other day has been eye opening for me... its not that i just havent had enought people contact me first, its also that it feels really bad and scary to have to talk to and meet up with a stranger like that
#ive known that dating apps arent really for me but this solidifies it#even though this dude seemed nice and there wasnt really anything wrong with what he said#the thought of actually meeting up with him was so scary i had to ghosts#ofc its the social anxiety#literally the root cause of everything bad in my life
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Been experiencing a lot more joy in life
#(will still complain abt many things)#thinking abt using dating apps 💭#but ppl rlly ain’t shit over there and ian got time for that#bestie oomf told me her horrendous dating app experiences#wonder if I’ll end up liking someone this semester… i’m a little scared LMAO#dating is still a little scary to me but i want to give my all :3#idk if scary is the right word… mb wary bc it’s just the feeling I won’t be enough for that person#i always end up pouring a lot into relationships esp if i find myself extremely fond or close w someone… sometimes a little closed off too#i’m very odd like that tbh FJDNDJFJEJD#anywho hanging out w my friends has been very lifting ofc#communcating w my closest and dearest lovlies <3#my besties and i have been playing sm roblox lmao#that dress to impress game has them in a chokehold#i need to get them into xiv somehow…..#it feels nice rambling on tumblr bc ik no one would look at this post anyhow mb#i missed rambling in hashtags….#dltl8r
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As much as I love cuddling and physicall affevtion i dont wanna do that with anyone because i dont like anyone. You all suck. And i hate you.
#this isnt true. its just when i try to make friends outside of my very small circle um filled with a type of#aparhy never before seen in the world. it makes me hate humans it really does and of course its enitrly a me problem#like its really just people being people but 99/100 people are a bore to text and tiresome to interact with#but im sure they feel the same towards me#ofc this doesnt go for anyone i DO talk to bc. i simply wouldnt talk 2 u if i didnt want to x#me op#i wanna date someone. not really. go ona. dating app and or talk to other people? whats the point. i dont wanna do that#just to cuddle and kiss someone? or sex? id get like half way through and get that sudden wave of 'done now. board.'#like with all affection. i have to carry on? just bc neither of us came? DAMN. WHATEVER.#whatever.#'AM I TRULY UNLOVABLE WAH WAH.' nah. idc. 'can i ever love?' i dunno. its weird.
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the one downside of living alone that is sticking to me rn is that slight change in vibes when ya get lonely sefirhtpgte
#ooc#out of quizzy#one second youre watching tv#rhe next youre like damn you really kind of a loner huh#this leads to the bad swiping on dating apps ofc XD#and I hate dating apps
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