#bts fandom culture

[jiminsass-istant]

IT'S NOT ABOUT THE HICKEY

This post was triggered by an anon moving around in these spaces trying to explain away the hickey/bite moment as something trivial. I will save my thoughts on the hickey for the end of this post.

First of all, to that anon- Get off your high horse. Not being a shipper doesn't make you superior. You are probably one of those cringey people cancelling queer armies on tw!tter these days. Now readers, sip your drink as you read this short think piece-

OT7 Captains in the fandom bubble:-

I really don't get the superiority complex of so called OT7s who love to live inside this cute little bubble they have created for themselves or as they call it nowadays:- " a curated tl". Cancelling people everyday and actually driving people away from the fandom. Every bio says "multis, solos, shippers dni". What are you afraid of? Little pixels? I have personally followed solo fbs of all members and boy the things I have found! They can get extreme at times, but it takes 2 minutes to fact-check their claims and draw your own conclusion.

I follow wholesome ship pages too, they are a great way to not miss out cute moments between various duos. If you are blocking them out, you'll be swept into whatever the OT7 decide the important interactions are. 🤷

Have y'all watched 'The Social Dilemma' on Netflix? I would actually want all bts fans to give it a watch. A very prominent tech figure admitted that she follows a good number of Tw!tter accounts that disagree with her to ensure that she gets to see all sides and all opinions. When you deliberately 'curate' a timeline to feed only your opinions, to make a 'safe' space that doesn't trigger you, without letting new thoughts penetrate it..THAT! That's the beginning of a cult.

Army is not a cult for defending BTS or for calling out billboard and other big authorities, but army is indeed a cult with the way they move against people within the fandom.

I said what I said.

With a curated 'OT7 captain' timeline, you start internalising things about the artists that the people you follow want to believe:-

1. All true army are OT7 and non shippers. 💫💫

Sure some of them are. But biases exist for a reason, right? If you think people don't run their bias's playlist more than the other 6, you are so deluded. Spotify wrapped'23 was a prime example. With the solo era, the rise of solo fanbases was unavoidable.

2. Your favourites are spotless, impeccable people. 💌💌💌

They are so not. They date, they make mistakes, they hurt people (like we all do). Heck, they might even offend certain groups of people, unknowingly or knowingly. Being ignorant is also a flaw.

3. Everything they say on camera is true.🙊🙊🙊

Everything they say on camera is what they want you to know. As Park Jimin of BTS, as Kim Namjoon of BTS and so on. And yes, your perception of them should be built based on their words alone, but it doesn't mean that you purposefully stay blind in a way that serves your personal projections onto the members. As Jimin once said " please take our words as they are"(Festa 2022). Read between the lines, and you get- "please do not make assumptions about us, please do not project past or future narratives onto us." No matter how much it makes BTS look like a saint, DO NOT paint them as perfect human beings just because they are your idols.

Once you get into the fandom bubble, you start rejecting all opinions that threaten to puncture that perfect bubble. In that process, you end up never getting to know about how some member promotions were horribly managed, how company delayed certain stuff, the obvious company agenda and different business strategies for different members. It's not about victimising members, but calling out the company when they make obvious mistakes. You do not see when hate against a particular member gets aggravated to the point it affects streams and sales.

And musical preference? The way the fandom just collectively decided that if you hate any song except 'ON ft Sia", you are basically an anti. I have no words.. I'll come out and say: I don't like DNA. SORRY JIMIN. Sure it's a great concert song, or maybe at a party, but it's never making it to my down-time personal playlists. Cancel me?

Top Social Artist?

This is my personal opinion. BTS having a huge presence on social media is both a boon and a curse. While it ensures that new fans are made everyday, the bts social media presence is an uncontrolled monster right now. Millions of insta, YT channels- most of them spreading a superficial image of BTS. It's for this reason, there are so many 'fans' out there who just love BTS for the few members and their visuals. I can guarantee you that they don't even know how streaming works, but they'll be sure to have an insta name like "mrs.jeon jungkook". If you made it to this part, I don't need to tell you how certain ships inducted their shippers through these very channels, spreading misinfo about the group dynamics and a completely manipulated idea of the boys, as if it's not real life, but some shitty bl drama.

While the company is obviously doing nothing about this mess, it is YOUR duty to focus on what's important as a fan and participate in projects that plan to counteract this mess. ( Of course only if you have time)

So..what does the hickey have to do with all this?

When you finally grow out of your perfect pure breed OT7 agenda, who considers this group of men a picture perfect family who can do no sin, you'll be ready to view the hickey/bite mark as a normal functioning member of the society who's in touch with reality.

Did I just write "pure breed"..

Let's say the hickey/bite does not actually mean anything intimate in a romantic sense. Sure. Even I think it was probably not an exclusively romantic thing. And this is coming from someone who ships them, but I do not see them as 2 people who are dating each other (because I don't claim to know their personal lives).

An older person biting the neck of a younger person long enough to leave a mark is NOT A NORMAL LEVEL of skinship. For friends, for family, for brothers. And this goes for Korea as well as at a global level. Not only k-jikookers but also k-armies had raised eyebrows when that happened. If you didn't raise your eyebrow at this, you need to go out more, have a social life, hang out with long term friends, idk.

But I'm sure if it was a man and a woman, you would have already declared that they are f@cking.

If you have observed jikook through the years, they have had an abnormal level of skinship that even surpasses skinship within their own group. Reminds me of the Butter photoshoot behind, where JK's hands so naturally slid under JM's crop top, like it was a usual thing. Now if one of them reacted differently or in a goofy way, I'd still brush it under the rug. But what had me scratching my head was the indifference. How close do 2 people have to be, for someone to SEARCH for familiar skin to touch?! Let's not forget how JK always touches JM's neck like a habit, massaging, holding, or just caressing, usually a little inside the collar.

Now if they were a man and a woman, you would have already declared that they are f@cking.

If you don't at the very least, acknowledge that it's an abnormally high level of skinship, and that jikook are at the very least, a highly interdependent, symbiotic, close, 2 souls-1 body entity, the closest duo in bangtan..then you are the delulu here. 🫵

I would advice such anons to stop visiting shipping spaces if you are bringing nothing to the table. (As I always say, opposing views are always welcome as long as you bring receipts and not hate). Maybe spend some time talking to real life people, couples, friends, you know?

[beautifulpersonpeach]

Hello BPP,

One of the thoughts I have had over the last few days, and one I hope doesn't offend anyone, is that shipping sometimes is founded in selfishness.

The reason I have come to this conclusion is the behaviour of a certain community that is quite vocal online in their displeasure over the content that gets produced. They have turned to focusing solely on the members they ship instead of grasping the emotional weight of the moments we get to observe. They immediately jump to the conclusion of a conspiracy against their ship, despite how non-sensical repressing said ship would be from a purely capitalistic viewpoint, and then use footage that was taken without the consent of the members and after their express wish for fans to not appear at the send-off to support their theory. I have heard of them furthering the narrative that their ship is real due to private moments yet these moments are either (a) debunked by those who are not sucked into the narrative or (b) obtained by sharing videos once again without the consent of their shippées.

But it isn't about the bond between JK and Tae for them but rather being right, about being the ones to see the truth - going against the grain - and whatever rhetoric they like to employ.

It's about the fetishisation of two attractive men being together, a comforting thought for what I imagine to be girls and women that would like to be in a relationship with these two themselves. Why else would they mostly focus on bashing a company and real human beings because they're not being catered to?

It is quite disturbing to consider how there's this willingness to cross boundaries of every type, including tweeting at an actual government branch and then accusing said branch of furthering fanservice. All of it is, as I stated at the beginning, selfish. There is no consideration for the feelings of the people they claim to protect, no media literacy, no acceptance of Occam's Razor, no interest in factual depictions.

I hope they grow tired soon, because it is tiring to even witness in the periphery.

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Sorry for the quite stilted English, I've been watching too many video essays the past few days and I physically cannot turn off that filter.

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It’s sad, amusing and concerning all at the same time, isn’t it? You’ve hit the nail on the head and yeah it applies to most shippers: taekookers especially but also many jikookers, and even solo stans, who resort to the same mental leaps when their expectations aren’t met. I agree with you and have said much the same several times in the last few years.

I don’t share your hope that they grow tired soon though. In fact what tends to happen is that they become even more unhinged. The more they invest into their theories and worldview, the more they take increasingly invasive steps to validate those theories. It’s sad and one of the worst expressions of sunk cost fallacy I’ve seen in fandom. The most we can do as fans is to check that behaviour when we see it in the fandom, and deplatform people building a following set on those ideas. And hope to god that the military does a decent job of ensuring their security while in service.

[staytinyville]

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This is where you can find any and all of fan fictions. They range from all kinds of fandoms. I even have a few more in the works! These are my most popular ones so far. Some are complete and some are still on-going. Be sure to give them well deserved likes!

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[t-a-r-y-n]

This might not be a popular take but I really don’t love the sentiment of posts like “they are no longer my secret” or “omg they are so big now”.

I could really get into this. Let me preface this with like many I have gatekeeped. Its a natural thing to be proud of things you like and protective of them. I think especially this is true in a society that deems things woman, fem-identifying or fem-presenting people as of lesser value, importance, or quality.

That being said… I have worked on it and I think others need to as well. Artists make money from streaming, selling albums, going on tours, selling merch, performances,etc. The root of all of these things is people and audiences watching artists perform and enjoying it. This exchange is mutually beneficial… the artist’s time, talent, and dedication for a fan’s attention, money, and enjoyment. For an artist to grow and be more successful, their fanbases MUST GROW as well. If you care about your artist, you should be excited more people are into them. You should be excited the community of your fandom is bigger.

Y’all, all fandoms have toxic parts. All fandoms also have beautiful people who want to be together in celebrating a person or work of art. I’m tired of people not taking accountability and working to be better fans. Be kind to your artists. Be excited for new people to join the fandom. Have fun. Respect boundaries. It’s not that hard.

[ichverdurstehier]

Things men have said to me as I try to explain shipping and fandom culture, an incomplete list:

"It may very well be a good show, however, considering It's centered around a gay romance, I'm quite certain It's not for me..." Random man on twitter. Context: I was trying to convince him to watch the untamed. He wasn't convinced

"how can women read that?!?"- a Columbian catholic teenage boy on twitter. Context: I was explaining what omegaverse is. He didn't like what he heard

"anything demonic saddens me" -a conservative trump supporter, age 47. Context: MDZS

"I guess this is even more proof that I don't understand how the female mind works. I've seen all the Harry Potter movies, but not once did I ever think, "what if Harry and Draco were gay for each other" " - a man with questionable political views, mid thirties. Context: I sent him a link to the first fanfiction I ever read in an effort to make him less homophobic. It didn't work.

"That is bringing you further away from the Lord" - random street preacher with a large sign roaming around campus, late twenties. Context: I asked him if reading gay slash fanfiction on ao3 was a sin.

"that's definitely the work of Satan" -another street preacher who claimed to be a former meth addict, despite his suspiciously healthy teeth. Late thirties. Context: I was showing him a BTS music video and he wasn't thrilled

"Ever consider reading the Bible instead?" Guy at my college who's really nice but talks about God too much

"Homoerotic subtext will probably skew the data" my psychology teacher in high school

"What grade did you get on your latest quiz again?" My dad after I showed him a Wangxian fanart after he asked me how school was going. School isn't going too well btw

[taekookielove0130]

Jungkook's Melody

A short story of about 200-300 ish words. I haven't been able to post much recently. An apology for that...

In the quiet corners of Seoul, where cherry blossoms whispered secrets, Jungkook and Y/N found each other. He was the brooding artist, lost in the hues of his canvas, while she was the girl with stardust in her eyes.

Their paths crossed at a dimly lit café, where the aroma of freshly brewed coffee mingled with the promise of something more. Jungkook’s fingers brushed against hers as he handed her a sketchbook, and in that fleeting touch, their story began.

He painted her laughter—vibrant strokes of crimson and gold—while she wove melodies into his heart. Y/N’s voice danced through the air, a symphony of longing and hope. Jungkook listened, entranced, as if her every note held the universe’s secrets.

Under moonlit skies, they traced constellations with their fingertips. Jungkook whispered poetry against her skin, and Y/N’s laughter echoed through the night. They became each other’s muse, their love a masterpiece painted across time.

But life, like a tempest, threatened their fragile canvas. Jungkook’s dreams pulled him toward distant horizons, while Y/N’s roots anchored her to Seoul. Tears blurred their sketches, yet love remained—the indelible ink that refused to fade.

On a rainy afternoon, Jungkook played his guitar, the chords echoing through their shared memories. Y/N stood by the window, raindrops tracing her cheeks. “Promise me,” she said, “that our love will be our eternal melody.”

He kissed her, tasting rain and forever. “Always,” he vowed, intertwining their souls like the ivy that clung to ancient walls.

And so, in the quiet corners of Seoul, where cherry blossoms whispered secrets, Jungkook and Y/N wrote their love story—a symphony of passion, painted with love’s brush, and set against the canvas of their hearts.

Their love story unfolded like a timeless ballad. Jungkook and Y/N faced trials and triumphs, their hearts etched with shared memories.

1. The Farewell: Jungkook’s art took him to Paris, where cobblestone streets whispered of forgotten romances. Y/N stood at the airport, her fingers tracing the edges of his sketchbook. “Come back,” she pleaded, her eyes mirroring the Seine’s melancholy waves. He promised to return, but promises are fragile things.

2. The Letters: Distance couldn’t sever their bond. Jungkook’s letters arrived like love notes from the cosmos. Y/N read them under the same moon that witnessed their first kiss. His words painted sunsets and star clusters, and she replied with verses that tasted of longing.

3. The Reunion: Years passed—a canvas of missed birthdays and silent anniversaries. Then, one autumn day, Jungkook stood outside her door. His hair held traces of silver, but his eyes still held constellations. Y/N’s laughter echoed through the hallway as she flung herself into his arms. “You’re my favorite melody,” she whispered.

4. The Eternity: They settled in a cozy Seoul apartment, surrounded by Jungkook’s paintings and Y/N’s melodies. Their love story became folklore—the boy who painted galaxies and the girl who sang them into existence. Jungkook’s hands found hers, weathered yet tender. “Our love,” he said, “is our eternal symphony.”

And so, in the quiet corners of Seoul, where cherry blossoms whispered secrets, Jungkook and Y/N danced through life—a masterpiece of love, painted stroke by stroke, note by note. 🌸🎨🎶

[letmetellyouaboutmyfeels]

That's so weird because my reaction to S4 finale is it was the moment that convinced me Buddie was going to be endgame. Now two seasons later and we could be heading back to that same ending for the season depending on the events of the finale leaves me doubting things ngl. The only things I'm clinging on to are the couch theory, Eddie saying that relationships with people you meet at a rescue never works, and the fact that we're being introduced to these women so late in the season. It just seems like the writers even know they're giving this the most superficial things so that they can fix what they did in early S7.

To put it bluntly it just sucks that you know if this was gonna be the final 2 episodes that instead of going towards a story they've been telling since S2 they decide to put Buck and Eddie with women we don't even know their last name or anything about them. But they got renewed and will be moving to ABC so they can do the story they wanted to tell and I imagine these women will be kicked to the curb early in S7.

Okay, I'm gonna be real honest with you. I've seen that you've sent asks to a few of my friends, all generally saying the same thing. So to see you send me this ask makes me feel like you don't really want to have a discussion and aren't looking for actual support or positivity, you just want to keep being upset and tell people until someone agrees with you and tells you that your opinion that the writers made a shitty choice etc is valid.

So, to repeat a few things my friends have said:

They have not been doing Buddie since season two. I don't know why people persist on claiming this. Buddie was never the original plan. They did not decide to have Eddie get with Buck in season two. In fact in season two they seemed kinda unsure what to do with Eddie since he wouldn't be with Maddie any longer, but they still wanted the character, and Ryan, on the show. For my money, they started exploring the possibility of Buddie and discussing it seriously in season three, and season four was when they locked that in.

Now, I don't know about you, since you're a stranger on the internet, but to me, as a writer, it is a much, much better choice for them to have taken the risk rather than cram Buddie together, for a few reasons.

One: They cannot walk it back once Buddie is together. You're telling me you wanted them to sacrifice their story's integrity to give us a rushed unsatisfying get-together? Get out of my house. Watching television is, inherently, a gamble because it means you might get your stories unfulfilled. If you can't take that risk, then leave the casino. I am willing to risk it because I want a truly satisfying get-together, not something that was rushed and therefore isn't worthy of the delicious slow burn they're building.

Two: How many times do I have to scream at everyone to consider the behind the scenes issues before people start actually listening to me? Oh, forever? Because everyone is operating in bad faith and nobody wants to actually listen? Good to know. This will be the last I say on the matter.

We do not know what behind the scenes was going on in addition to the cancellation. What if certain Fox executives weren't supportive of Buddie? You're telling me that the writers and cast and crew should have, right when they'll need new jobs, guaranteed that their last employers will talk shit about them for disobeying orders and putting two characters together that they were told not to put together?

This is purely conjecture on my part, but I have seen time after time in fandom certain cast members and certain crew members and certain writers want a ship to become canon, and others not, and I have seen the way that back and forth played out, and guess fucking what? NOBODY WANTS TO LOSE THEIR FUCKING JOB. NOBODY WANTS TO BE PREVENTED FROM HAVING ANOTHER JOB.

Now, again, that's pure conjecture, but Fox really hasn't treated OG well for a while in terms of renewal, marketing, etc. And I have never, EVER, seen a show snapped up by another network so quickly. It's always "we got cancelled!" and then a few days or weeks later it's "we were saved by another network!" ABC was ON it. This gives me hope for a lot of things, like perhaps a 22 episode season. But given Fox's lack of promotion and appreciation for OG, it wouldn't surprise me if the cast and crew wanted Buddie and some people in the network didn't, and that is why we've been delayed on Buddie going canon. And while YOU may cry viva la revolution, it's much easier to have your principles when you've got a belly full, and while it may suck creatively there is no reason to piss off your bosses right when you need them to write you a recommendation for a new job because your show got cancelled - and while I'm sure they were hopeful, given the cast's social media I do not think anyone knew until it was publicly announced that they had, indeed, been saved and gotten another season.

My point is, this is just one theory I'm pulling out of a hat like a rabbit. We do not know what other BTS stuff is going on that made them choose to delay Buddie until season seven.

Three: To go back to point one, I do not think you've seen the reactions when a ship goes canon poorly. I was there, Gandalf. I was there the day that Booth and Bones got together. I was in the trenches. It soured SO many people, including me, on the show. To quote MBMBAM: YOU DIDN'T STICK THE LANDING! YOU JUST FLIPPED IN THE AIR FOR TWENTY MINUTES!!!

Sticking the landing when getting a ship together is possibly the most important moment in the couple's story. You cannot fuck up that landing. The writers chose to take the chance on it never happening in order to stick the landing the way they wanted. If that pisses you off, FINE. But stop coming into our inboxes to say the same thing over and over again about it, because we do not agree and we are never going to agree. We are at an impasse.

Now, to move onto some other points, WHY IS EVERYONE CONVINCED THAT EDDIE WILL STILL BE WITH SOMEONE WHEN THE SEASON ENDS!? WHEN DID WE DECIDE THIS!? He could be! But holy shit he could just go on one date with her that fizzles out! We have no clue! If someone in this fandom can see into the future and knows for sure this is going to happen then give me the winning lotto numbers right this second!!! Give them to me!!!! I need to fund my world domination campaign!!!

And finally, I feel like you've answered your own concerns, here. Given that you have sent similar asks to my friends, I don't think you're actually interested in allaying those concerns, because you keep answering your own questions and repeating yourself ad naseum. I could be wrong. Again, I don't know you. But this sure seems to be the case given that you're saying to me similar stuff you've said to my friends in asks they've already answered.

But to look at your own ask, you just said why we shouldn't be worried. "It seems like the writers even know..." YES. YES, THEY DO KNOW. I would love to know who the hell decided that television shows are made by the Television Fairy who creeps into the studio at night and waves her magic wand to create all the good stuff we see on our screens while the writers sit around with their thumbs up their asses.

Let's imagine you are a showrunner and you are going into the second half of your season, and you learn that it is extremely likely this season is actually your last. You guys start negotiating quietly with other networks to move the show, while hoping against hope this is not, indeed, the end. But this means you now have, what, nine episodes? To put all your characters in a place that is, if not ideal, at least somewhat positive for your audience?

You can't start any too-major arcs. You can't end on too bad of an emotional cliffhanger. This means some things will wrap up faster. Other things will get pushed forward. And some things have to be delayed, because they might never happen, and you can't give people a third or a half of an arc. Which means that you're going to be throwing in some filler for those characters instead, and doing things differently than how you might have wanted.

I do not know how many times I have to explain this, but television is not fanfiction. When I sit down to write a fic, there's not a damn person in the world who can tell me what to do. I write the story that I want, and if someone doesn't like it, they can hit the bricks.

Television is not like that. Television is one of the biggest group projects there is. Picture the worst group project you had to do in school and then times it by ten. Welcome to the television and film industry. The fact that any film or show, even the truly awful ones, gets made is nothing short of a miracle given all the people involved and all the ways the ball can be dropped. As a show runner, you are answering to multiple executives, to the creators, to the executive producers, to your own writers' room, and to the fans. You are trying to balance what everyone tells you to do, what the fans want you to do, and what you and your (hopefully trusted) writing team want and plan to do. I could never be a show runner and while there are quite a few with whom I've got bones to pick, I cannot deny that they all do a job I would never, ever be capable of pulling off. I'd quit on day three.

So, yeah, they gave Buck a temporary girlfriend as filler, to kinda cap off his current arc if this was the end, or to provide more layers to his full arc if they got another season. If you don't like that, then that's okay. Nobody is telling you to like it. When you come into someone's inbox like this, the assumption is that you're looking to be reassured, and so that's why you're getting the responses that you are. The previous people who've answered you have been trying to reassure you and allay the concerns you seem to have.

But it seems to me like you want a more full conversation, and possibly, that you just want to rant and vent. That's fine, but find a friend for that. Join a discord server. Because when you send the same stuff over and over again to different people, all of whom give you basically the same reply, it just makes you look like a very obstinate stick in the mud who wants everyone else to join them in being upset, and people don't much like having the same conversation multiple times, or being pushed into being upset when they're not.

You might just have to agree to disagree, and move on. Find other ways to get this out of your system, because my inbox, and the inboxes of others, is not the place for your venting in circles.

Now, in spite of my firm tone, I hope you will believe me when I say that I hope you're taking care of yourself, and that you are staying safe in this scary world, and that you have a good rest of your day.

[bylertruther]

sitting here wondering if the by|er fandom's resistance to AU fics is because for many this is their first time in fandom or if they just really Do like the canon plot of stranger things that much 🤔 hmmmmm..

[gottan]

Seriously? 1k+ people in 20 minutes agreeing with this dumb comment. So much wrong with this and at the core of what's wrong with it is that their lives revolve around bts and they think everyone else's does as well. Take a hard look at yourselves and think before speaking.

[good-to-drive]

Why are certain fandoms so utterly toxic and horrible like how does that dynamic even start and why do so many people make it their life's work to keep it that way

[1dhq]

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[perfectlyphil]

yr tumblr: yrtwt is the absolute worst place on earth. yrtwt is the cesspool of the internet, it’s full of toxic behaviour, bullies, and these fans are constantly invading and violating the cast’s set boundaries. yrtwt is just the absolute worst platform for the young royals fandom. it is truly their fault edvin deactivated and felt pressured to reactivate again! 

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[rainbowsuitcase]

I'm very quickly getting sick of the generalizations. "All armys hate this, all armys do that, all armys bla bla bla." Dude. Armys are several millions of people. You will never get even half their opinions, even if you tried, which I honestly don’t think you do. Get out of your internet bubble, I'm begging you.

This could go for any fandom ever tbh. Like, if you keep only interacting with bad stuff on social media, you’re only gonna see bad stuff on social media. I'm sorry you haven’t realized how algorithms work yet. You learned something new today, you're welcome.

[dearweirdme]

Are you also a Taekooker?

Yes 🤫

[clovdzia]

Hi everyone, my friend, Soumya, an M.A student at SOAS London, is conducting this survey as part of her master's dissertation which aims to study the interaction between queer fans, queer content, and queer artists in the K-pop/K-drama industry.

This survey aims to study the interaction between queer fans, queer content, and queer artists in the K-pop/K-drama industry. It is divided into two main parts: "Queer Hallyu" and "Queering Hallyu Fandom."

As a whole, the survey should take around 20 minutes to complete. All responses will be anonymized and referred to within the dissertation only with the initials.

If you are unable to answer a required question please write "N/A."

Please ONLY fill out this survey if you identify as queer and are a k-pop/k-drama fan.

*Please fill out this survey if you identify as queer and are also a k-pop/k-drama fan.*

Thanks!

[flower1622]

I loved these fancasts for Disney live actions! 😅🤣🤣