shoutout to aces who want to get married. shoutout to asexuals who long for romance and a life partner.
stop tagging posts about not wanting to get married with #asexual. Aromantic? sure! aroace? sure!
but not asexual by itself please.
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I think a lot of people on this website need to learn two things: how to use the block button, and how to be the bigger person.
Like if someone says something you don't like, you can just block them. Obviously in some situations they are harassing people/being super racist/etc. and saying something/reporting them is necessary. But in most situations, you can just block someone and move on with your day. You don't have to tell them to kill themselves. I promise you it wont help the situation. Like if somebody really does have as awful of an opinion/belief as you believe them to have, a Tumblr ask is not going to change them as a person. Getting them banned or run-off the internet wont make them change their mind. It really wont.
Don't waste your energy on being hateful. Use it to actually do something productive. Use it to go show love to someone who needs it. I don't think you need to show love to people when you feel they're being shitty, no. But there are plenty of non-shitty people on this website who could really use a kind anon, or a reblog, or sweet message.
Do you really need to spend your time sending anon hate to a random trans woman on Tumblr who phrased a post a bit crudely? Or a black person who is complaining about your favorite show in a rude way? Or a Palestinian being upset with the U.S. government in an unpalatable way? Do you really need to spen your time being hateful/condesending towards them? The problem you have with them, whatever it be, is it truly unsolvable by just blocking them? Do you need to spread hatred? Is it necessary?
Chances are, it would be 1000 times more beneficial to everyone involved if you just block the person, and instead use that energy and effort to do something good/kind.
Just because you feel someone is shitty (weather they are or not is irrelevant) does not mean that you need to be shitty back. In the long run, it will always have been better to walk away and try to make the online world a kinder place, than to harass a random person on Tumblr.
Like I mean, I obviously think you should try like. Listening to people first before blocking them. Sometimes people are saying very important things. But either way, if something someone posts is making you upset enough where you feel the need to attack them or be rude/mean/hateful, then you should step away. Maybe you just need to step away from that person, or maybe the internet as a whole for a while. Either way, you need to take second and ask yourself: "Do I really need to do this?"
I'm not exactly sure why this is so hard for so many people, because I thought that this was something that cartoons taught everyone when we were little kids... But hey, its never too late to learn, and its never too late to be kind. There are a lot of people who could use that kindness right now. Take some of that time you might have used to be an asshole, and please spend it on some of these causes;
gazafunds
click for palestine
sudanese fundraisers
congo rescources
lots of trans folks need financial help in the notes of this post!
check out some black creators!
read this post!
and last of all: try to find somebody in your space who is struggling- be it physically, emotionally, mentally, or financially- and send them some love.
Use your time wisely, please. You only have so much of it.
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Well that was all the 2022 SEGAU design sheets. Unfortunately I don't have any others ready to post rn but I'm working on some more, rest assured !
Feel free to send asks about the AU while I figure out how to present written explanations on the major worldbuilding concepts ( I'll probably have to scribble some schematics, otherwise it'll be boring to look at... agh ). I know I really just posted designs without really explaining why they are the way they are and the differences with canon... I imagine you must be a little confused.
I'll have to work on those sketchbook pictures too, there's a lot of them to take, and for some reason my pictures look much darker on my laptop than on my phone, so that's a problem.
Ah but regardless, yes tell me your thoughts ! I love feedback !! ( Even if the feedback is criticism. Feel free to tell me what you don't like, too ! )
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I got one of those dildos you can stick on stuff so I put it on a chair yesterday and did like squats sorta to ride it and now my fuckin wjfbdk my muscles are sore cause I went for so long like I legit gave myself a damn work out after being too horny
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here’s the house!! it’s tiny tho cause i never realise the size while building xD
and a bunch of outfits with Dzidka,, look how lovely
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I always have to laugh when people defend Vivienne by saying that she couldn't possibly have known the extent to which mages were suffering in the Circle because she didn't spend a lot of time there which is pretty contradictory as if I recall she was first taken to Ostwick but was then transferred to Monstimmard plus she even says herself that some mages found it intolerable but little else, so while gaining a noble patron did spare her from a lot of the abuse, she's not unaware of it.
Is she a brilliant, cunning player of The Game or is she a naïve, oblivious innocent? Believe it or not, Vivienne stans, you can't have it both ways.
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