#d/s rules

[wellspankedwife]

Me and my husband are just starting out in a d/s relationship and we are having a hard time figuring out that first spanking. I'm trying to be real good and submissive and all that and there are things that maybe I should have been spanked for but he isn't sure exactly what he should be doing in terms of spanking me and since I'm submissivie I can't really tell him that I should be spanked. Is that how it was for you and your husband and what was that first spanking like.

So we were into rough sex and spanking during sex before we were d/s. So I guess you mean my first punishment spanking, right?

It was kind of a slow roll for us, moving from me submitting in the bedroom to me realizing I was just submissive toward him in life. We played around with submissive days and things like that, but when the pandemic hit and we were together 24/7 we decided to try 24/7 d/s for a while.

What we did, and what I would suggest you do, is write down some rules that he will hold you accountable for. Sir and I just kind of took stock of our wants and his needs and ways I wanted to improve myself and used that to make our first set of rules. Some stuck and some didn't and we revisited them a lot and rewrote some and struck some out altogether.

Housework and budgeting were the big things he wanted me to submit to doing. He's more of a clean freak than I am, so it was important for me to learn better house cleaning techniques. Budgeting has always been my downfall, because when I'm out and I see a reason to break my budget I'm always sure in that moment that Sir will understand my ironclad reasoning. That was actually my first punishment spanking ever. I don't remember the specifics of what I bought outside the budget, but I do remember being a little shocked that he was holding me accountable for it. I remember feeling a little regret over our agreement while I was turned over his knee and I remember feeling shocked that my punishment spankings were harder and longer than the sexy spankings. But when Sir put me in the corner to Think About My Actions after I was spanked, I was able to stop my tears and a real calmness came over me. Everything just felt sort of right at that moment.

It's not ALWAYS like that. Sometimes I'm more begrudging about submitting and being punished for breaking the rules. I think about four weeks maybe went by between us writing the rules and that first spanking. I recall a lot of those four weeks were full of me feeling both scared but anxious to just get that first one over with - which is I guess how you're feeling? That first one can be difficult. Maybe start with a maintenance session to ease you and your husband into it? I don't think that would be non-submissive of you to suggest it. Remember, a d/s relationship is something you're in together.

If you want it, off the top of my head here were my rules to follow when we first began.

-Always submit to Sir sexually. (This one stayed)

-Always be safe. Wear seatbelt, mask in public, don't speed, take your meds, etc. (the mask one we only do when we're feeling under the weather anymore)

-Do not go over the weekly shopping budget - determined by Sir each week depending on those week's needs. (this one stayed)

-Keep up with chores. (This one changed - we had to write more specifics for household tasks because we discovered we each had different definitions of keeping up with chores)

-No foul language. (This one was scratched quickly, but recently brought back since the baby was born and Sir wants a curse free household)

-Maintain a cheerful demeanor. (We kept this rule too, but have made it more specific. I coudln't be cheerful 24/7. I just need to be cheerful when I'm actively submitting, meaning I can't complain about submitting.)

-No leaving the house without permission. (Eh. Since Sir has gone back to work 3-4 days per week we don't really do this one anymore, so it's been scratched. I do at least inform him in the morning if I'm planning on going anywhere, knowing he has the right to say no to my plans)

-Safe words (We obviously kept this one)

-Sir is to respect my hard limits (Kept this one too, obviously. I have a real phobia of having my neck touched so any type of choking or even collaring is an absolute Hard NO for me.)

Those are all I could think of. Anyway, Good Luck and keep me posted!

[lavendervirgos]

If you grab and squeeze my thigh under the dinner table we're going to the bathroom to fuck. I don't make the rules.

[andy-clutterbuck]

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[aramune2546]

Modern au and some lawlu moments. In the timeline of this au they’ve been dating for like 6 months and Ace and Sabo still have Law on the death list lmaoo.

[bittsandpieces]

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[bubb13bunny]

💖𝓦𝓮𝓵𝓬𝓸𝓶𝓮 𝓣𝓸 𝓑𝓾𝓷𝓷𝔂‘𝓼 𝓑𝓵𝓸𝓰💖

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1. NO T3RFS, P3D0S, R4C1STS, M1N0RS, AND ALL OTHER TYPES OF AWFUL HUMANS = IMMEDIATE BLOCK

2. RESPECT MY BOUNDARIES

3. NO AGE IN BIO/NO PICTURE/SENDING DMs OF YOUR PRIVATE PARTS W/OUT ASKING = IMMEDIATE BLOCK

4. BE A DECENT HUMAN BEING TO ME AND OTHERS ON THIS PAGE

5. JUST BECAUSE I REPOST AND POST HOT NSFW STUFF DOESNT MEAN I WANT UNWANTED DMS ABOUT IT

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Learning & exploring my sexual nature and sexuality

I talk like a normal person most of the time

Sometimes bunny talks like dis when she’s playful, or when she feels hot, or when she wants to play

Fav colors: yellow and pink and peach

I have too many stuffed animals to count

💋𝓑𝓾𝓷𝓷𝔂‘𝓼 𝓚𝓲𝓷𝓴💋

Praise

Brat

Possessive (if done right?)

Slight/Full Choking (?)

🚦𝙱𝚞𝚗𝚗𝚢‘𝚜 𝚂𝚝𝚘𝚙𝚕𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝🚦

RED = STOP EVERYTHING IMMEDIATELY

YELLOW = SLOW DOWN/PAUSE

GREEN = OK/KEEP GOING

🛑𝗛𝗔𝗥𝗗 𝗦𝗧𝗢𝗣𝗦🛑

Scat

CNC

Piss

🔪 Play

Breath Play

🩸 Play

R Word that rhymes with Grape

Fisting

Incest

Abuse

Ageplay

Gor𝗲

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𝓡𝓮𝓪𝓭𝔂 𝓽𝓸 𝓹𝓵𝓪𝔂?🫦

[fall-for-tolkien]

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[meyerlansky]

i have never wanted to lock doors and set an entire room on fire the way i did when people fucking laughed their way through If You Could See Her during Cabaret tonight

[deus-ex-mona]

historians will say that they were ✨just rivals✨

[andy-clutterbuck]

[johnobamasblog]

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[vahrutasgrace]

Meeting other Links from different timelines;

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[klainepornytourney]

Cycle 3 - Preliminaries: D/s/BDSM, Poll 13

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[vladdyissues]

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[barrel-crow-n]

Don't mind me, just living in a world were Nikolai is king. And the world is right