#dark feminine archetypes

[succulentsiren]

༺｡THE SIREN ｡༻

“The Siren is the ultimate male fantasy figure because she offers a total release from the limitations of his life. In her presence, which is always heightened and sexually charged, the male feels transported to a realm of pure pleasure."

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I. Have an Air of Mystery

“The less they know the more they fantasize.”

The Siren is very much in the spotlight but she is not consumed by it. She keeps certain parts of her life private and only shows certain highlights to keep people invested. This air of mystery makes her all the more alluring and keeps her targets intrigued and craving for more.

Tips:

Limit social media. Be discreet. Make short replies. Leave details out. Leave a little to the imagination.

Let your actions speak for themselves. Show people don’t tell them.

II. Have a Highly Sexual Presence

“You never possessed Cleopatra, you worshipped her.”

By styling herself as a Goddess/Deity the Siren attracts praise from every angle. She is not usually known for her beautiful face (since this can be too intimidating). But still charms all, even the most logical people through a gregarious sexual presence.

Tips:

Play with Fantasy: dress like a goddess/deity, dress up from different eras, wear elaborate attire, represent a mythical figure, spiritual tattoos, jewelry, etc.

Keep your target on their toes by being unpredictable and never sticking to a routine.

III. Unhurried Demeanor

Calmness and sensuality are major characteristics of the Siren. Their serene nature refers to a strong confidence that is held within'. Instead of rushing into situations the Siren makes graceful moves and her unhurried demeanor is mirrored in her voice, mannerisms and behavior. 

Cleopatra's voice was slow and pleasant. Marilyn Monroe's voice was breathy and gentle. Both of these prominent Sirens learned the art of slow and steady speech and the explosive effect it has.

Tips:

Stop rushing to post everything you do on social media or telling your business to others.

IV. Hint of Danger

“You are a woman who gives off sex vibrations - no matter what you are doing or thinking."

Innocence may draw out the protective instinct in men, but danger brings out the desire instinct. This combination creates the 'forbidden fruit effect' and makes the Siren extremely sought after especially by suppressed men who are plagued with responsibilities. Creating excitement can be as simple as a glint in the eye or a smug smile. 

Tips:

Be playful, naughty, irrational and fun.

Instead of having access to you so easily, create a barrier to get to you.

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[sk-lumen]

femme fatale aesthetic

[femmefatalevibe]

you talk about archetypes a lot and i’m currently obsessed with the entire concept. what do you know about the feminine archetypes and where did you learn it? xo 🎀

Hi love! I've read about Robert Greene's 9 Seducer Types, the 13 Female Seduction Archetypes (Women Love Power), and the 7 Female Archetypes (quiz). Ultimately, I think that all of these archetypes ultimately measure various degrees and combinations of the following qualities:

Passivity vs. assertiveness

Overt vs. covert self-expression (how they dress, speak, body language, etc.)

Dominance vs. submission in sexual, social, and professional contexts

High vs. low levels of neuroticism

Logical vs. intuitive (go with their head or their gut instinct)

Nuturing vs. leading energy

Tradition-oriented vs. free-spirited

While I think that understanding these pre-constructed archetypes can help you some truths about uncover your needs, inner world, motivations, values, and personality, it is unlikely that any full-fledged person fits perfectly into one of these boxes. I believe that it is best to use these archetypes as a way to understand your core motivations and to help you tap into your "emotional home" (the way you act and think when you feel no desire to perform for others and allow your "true self" to emerge).

Use the archetype models that resonate with you to create your unique-crafted ideal self or "dream girl archetype." by doing an intake of who you are now and the individual you strive to be. Consider your personal values, ideal lifestyle, habits, mannerisms, behavior, and how you generally move throughout the world. Therein lies the key to true self-discovery and mastery.

Hope this helps xx

[chichimodele]

Seductress

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Wild Woman

[rose-pearlescent]

[cloudofbutterflies92]

dark feminine

You may not always know what you want, but if, you know how to get it. You have a strong personality. But try not to blame yourself so much when something goes wrong.

I did this uquiz test on dark and light feminine energy and it's right on point 👌

I'm not tagging anyone, anyone can do it😌

[self-improvementgirlie]

What Are The Seven Feminine Energies?

The Maiden: Embracing New Beginnings

Definition:

The Maiden archetype embodies youthful energy, symbolizing new beginnings, innocence, spontaneity, and curiosity. She represents the unfurling petals of the feminine journey, embracing the spirit of adventure and exploration.

 

Expert Opinion:

Renowned psychologist Carl Jung proposed that the Maiden archetype reflects the initial stages of individuation, where one explores the world with a sense of wonder and openness. This phase is crucial for self-discovery and laying the foundation for the subsequent stages of life.

The Mother: Nurturing and Compassionate

Definition:

The Mother archetype represents nurturing, compassion, and unconditional love. It is associated with caretaking, protection, and the ability to create and sustain life. The Mother transcends biological motherhood, encompassing all forms of nurturing connections.

 

Expert Opinion:

Psychiatrist and psychoanalyst D.W. Winnicott emphasized the significance of the mother-child bond in early development. He highlighted the role of a nurturing figure in fostering a secure foundation for emotional well-being.

The Wild Woman or Creatrix: Unleashing Untapped Potential

Definition:

The Wild Woman archetype taps into primal, instinctual, and creative energies. She embodies raw, untamed aspects of femininity, encouraging self-expression, intuition, and a deep connection with nature. The Creatrix is a source of inspiration, unleashing untapped potential.

 

Expert Opinion:

Clarissa Pinkola Estés, a Jungian analyst and author of "Women Who Run with the Wolves," explores the Wild Woman archetype. Estés emphasizes the importance of reconnecting with the instinctual, wild aspects of femininity to reclaim personal power and creativity.

The Lover: Exploring Sensuality and Passion

Definition:

The Lover archetype encompasses sensuality, passion, and deep emotional connection. It involves the exploration of pleasure, both physical and emotional, and the celebration of beauty within oneself and others. The Lover embodies the pursuit of joy and fulfillment.

 

Expert Opinion:

Sexologist and relationship expert Dr. Sue Johnson emphasizes the importance of emotional connection and vulnerability in intimate relationships. The Lover archetype aligns with the emotional depth and passion crucial for building and sustaining meaningful connections.

The Queen: Sovereignty and Self-Mastery

Definition:

The Queen archetype represents sovereignty, leadership, and self-mastery. It is associated with maturity, wisdom, and the ability to govern one's life with authority. The Queen encourages embracing responsibility, making decisions, and leading with grace and confidence.

 

Expert Opinion:

Psychoanalyst and author Marion Woodman explored the Queen archetype in the context of feminine psychology. Woodman stressed the importance of women embracing their inner authority and wisdom to navigate the challenges of life.

The Warrioress: Fierce Strength and Resilience

Definition:

The Warrioress archetype embodies strength, courage, and resilience. This energy is not constrained by traditional gender roles and symbolizes the ability to face challenges head-on, protect oneself and others, and stand firm in convictions.

 

Expert Opinion:

Author and mythologist Joseph Campbell explored the archetype of the hero's journey, which can be applied to the Warrioress. Campbell's work highlights the transformative power of facing challenges and emerging stronger, a theme central to the Warrioress archetype.

The Crone: Wisdom and Acceptance

Definition:

The Crone archetype is associated with wisdom, transformation, and the acceptance of the cyclical nature of life. She embodies the energy of the elder, offering guidance and insight gained through life's experiences.

 

Expert Opinion:

In her book "The Women's Wheel of Life," Elizabeth Davis emphasizes the importance of embracing the Crone archetype as women age. Davis encourages seeing menopause as a transformative time, embracing the wisdom and strength that come with the Crone energy.

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[adiaryonthemoon]

Sun opposite Pluto woman

You may have the strength in you.

You may have the darkness in you.

You could be the white sheep.

You could be the black wolf.

Do you really need someone to find it out for you?

[meruladelux]

Hello love! First of all let me just say how much I love your blog and everything you're doing. It feels like coming home and getting to know a feeling which I longer for my whole life. Rather than that, I also need your advice. I am a gay man who would like to get to know his inner prostitute and incubus. I would like to experience all the beauty and sexual energy this archetype can give me. Your help would be appreciated. :)

What a joy to read this.

First, I want to thank you and welcome you.

It is important to always do your own research first into different types of archetypal powers that appeal to you (the internet is full of them), then I advise you to find out where this urge comes from - What is the motivation? what do you think and feel about the words 'inner prostitute' and 'incubus'? that can be different for everyone.

Also know that these archetypes and energies can be experienced and embodied differently for everyone.

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I recommend doing research and starting with the basics: think of visualization, imagination, affirmations, grounding, centering and maybe writing short incantations yourself. Create an altar (or an I-honor-myself temple) decorate it with things that inspire you and nourish your soul; think of pictures, shells, jewelry, make-up… a beautiful candle holder in which you place a large pillar candle. Think of a beautiful mirror in which you say affirmations, by candlelight surrounded by the clouds of rose incense; thus create a psychopheric space.

Think about dancing in front of the mirror, imagine (feel it, visualize it, taste it, hear it) what you want to embody and radiate, feel yourself shapeshifting into the being you want to be. Dance in trance to sensual music (for example: dark erotic music, perhaps Lana Del Rey...)

Create pinterest mood boards, music playlists, buy a notebook in which you write your affirmations. Read about the femme-fatale, siren, prostitute archetypes. Read about sexuality and seduction (Robert Greene wrote a great book: 'The Art of Seduction' for example) read also about dark psychology.

It doesn't have to be very complex, in fact doing it too complicated can go against your great potential.

Have fun you beautiful Creature X

Love,

Ricca

[retrogradepermaculture]

ms coulter, his dark materials | tarot character analysis

the empress reversed, the high priestess

• A combination of secrecy (the high priestess) and abuse of feminine power (the empress reversed) •

• inversion of a maternal archetype to Lyra • A further layer of secrecy conceals a genuinely sympathetic motivation •

• combination of two seemingly disconnected feminine archetypes creates a nuanced and well written character • ruled by the moon, pluto, saturn, and venus retrograde •

[sk-lumen]

Dark Feminine Energy: Avoid This Common Trap

Dark feminine energy is a hot topic in 2024.

Since the arising popularity of the femininity wave, awareness of its shadow aspects – dark femininity – followed soon after. This is most noticeable through social media trends like TikTok blowing up with #darkfeminine content and tips, followed by even Vogue articles on this topic that holds such fascination for so many of us.

I believe all women can benefit from tapping into their dark feminine energy. However, I’ve noticed a common misconception about what the dark feminine is about, and many creators (businesses, sites, blogs) are perpetuating this misconception because the toxic angle is more profitable than the self improvement angle.

In short, they’re giving dark feminine energy a bad reputation by claiming it’s all about “using dark psychology tips and tricks to manipulate men, get into their heads and get them to treat you right”.

There are many problematic things with the above. Let’s name a few:

Why it’s problematic to associate DF to manipulation

You can’t (and shouldn’t) waste your time persuading someone of your worth. It’s not your job to prove yourself. People either appreciate you, or they don’t.

I don’t recommend playing with dark psychology the same reason I don’t recommend playing with black magic. What goes around comes around. However, I support every woman’s freedom of choice, as long as you’re taking ownership for your actions.

It’s yet again male-centered. Instead of being about self improvement or self-discovery, it revolves around… yes, male validation.

Dark femininity is an incredibly empowering tool, and this misconception is leading a lot of girls and women to play games and chase men, instead of leading them into their own power.

A more accurate term for the above trend which revolves around revenge and manipulation is simply “toxic femininity” or the wounded feminine. Yes, the female equivalent of toxic masculinity, because mistakes can be made on either side.

There is nothing feminist or empowering in chasing an ex that mistreated you, and putting on an elaborate show just to convince him you were always his dreamgirl.

Understand that through this, you are giving away your power and relying on another person to validate your...

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[femmefatalevibe]

What does it mean to speak less when trying to seduce someone’. Can you provide a conference example of how it would look like? How should one act etc?

Hi love! I would say that this concept boils down to two main principles: Not offering any more information about yourself than absolutely necessary to continue the conversation (nothing too personal, keep it light), and remaining interested to be interesting.

Regarding not offering any more information about yourself than absolutely necessary to continue the conversation (nothing too personal, keep it light):

Keep the conversation on a more surface level; avoid any sensitive topics or emotionally-charged topics (like a breakup, toxic ex, strained family relationship, financial struggles, workplace drama, or job/career difficulties)

Focus on conversational topics you would pitch to a magazine, post on social media, or take a quiz on vs. something that would be better saved for a close friend chat or therapy session

On remaining interested to be interesting:

Ask questions before sharing information about yourself. Initiate a conversation with a question. Ask relevant follow-up questions as a response vs. offering to disclose an anecdote or personal information about yourself

Use their answers or shared stories as a way to frame your reply. Volley the conversation back to your conversation partner by paraphrasing what they just said to you to show that you were listening and sought to understand what they were saying. After paraphrasing, ask another question that dives deeper into an aspect of their shared story, opinion, recollection of an event, etc. As an example, if they were telling you about a work presentation, ask about how they felt before, after, or during, what it was about, why the presentation mattered, what their colleagues and bosses thought, the next steps, where it was held, what they had for lunch after, etc.

Hope this helps xx

[newfeminine]

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[hlaexcelente]

DARK ACADEMIA DREAMS!

can't wait to live in Europe, make new friends, & start a small secret dark academia society with 'em LIKEEE imagine hanging out with like-minded people to share the flame of thirst for knowledge & creativity???

imagine: you're all on the same wavelength, joining forces to uncover the mysteries of life that are tucked away in the vastness of the universe through your curious & versatile minds. you have a meeting place (let's say) in Italy, where you meet them at midnight in the paths of an old castle, or in a quiet space of an old library or cafe to talk about astrology, psychology, literature, the arts, & philosophy. you all write poetry & essays, memorize poems to share, you’re all driven to learn Latin, Spanish, French, or Greek together, & share books with marks & annotations. you all practice drawing & painting together. you also scream verses that were written on an old typewriter a few centuries prior to your existence at the top of your lungs. everyone is an avid feminist, & have strong opinions & anger to particular institutions, & you all consider yourselves as gods, as if you have the entire world at your fingertips, possessing all power in the universe. a group of women with varying female archetypes who harmoniously fit & blend together, where you literally can appreciate all the magnificent pretentious things in life.

LIKE IMAfuckingGINE??? 😮‍💨 ahuh… this my drug of choice. I’M MANIFESTING THIS SHID & I’LL BE LIVING THE LIFE ❕just can’t find the right people rn cus yk these typa bitches always gotta be a thousand miles away 😓