#conversation starters

[agirlwithglam]

becoming a good conversationalist

Tips and conversation starters!

TIPS TO BE A GOOD CONVERSATIONALIST + BE FUNNY

lil tips:

a huge part of people wanting to be around you again, is how they emotionally feel when they're around you.

go into a conversation not thinking "i hope they like me" but thinking "i hope i have fun!"

remember that they are just people, just human. they aren't a whole lot different to you! you live, you die; they live, they die. dont be so scared and uptight about talking to someone.

conversation starters:

things that they've never done but they want to do

find out about their interests

find out what they like and dont.

which places do you really want to go to?

what is the best place/ country you've been to?

what are your fears?

ask about food

what foods and drinks do you like?

your favourite restaurant?

favourite chocolate?

recommended youtubers/ videos:

Joshua Otusanya (self improvement + the BEST conversation tips!)

Tam Kaur (mainly talks about self improvement but also has socialising/ becoming an extrovert content)

Xoxo, Vanilla

[minecraftbookshelf]

Life series AtLA au concepts let’s go.

I’ll share first

Grian is an Airbender

Tango is a firebender

Scar I am torn between non-bender and earth ender/sandbender

Pearl is either an Airbender (bc wing-siblings) or a waterbender (bc moon)

I have more thoughts but the get more complicated and it’s past my bedtime. Share yours and I’ll respond when I wake up!

[femmefatalevibe]

How do I sound and appear more intelligent and sophisticated? I've read books and stuff but how do I apply the knowledge in real life? How do I make my everyday vocabulary more sophisticated? Ik the general advice to read books and converse with people etc, but how do I actually apply it irl?

Hi love! Here are some of my suggestions/tips:

How do I sound and appear more intelligent and sophisticated?

Keep your language and explanations simple & concise

Speak slowly & deliberately: Take your time between sentences, and pause between your thoughts. Always think before you speak. Silences, while slightly awkward, are not always best avoided

Use the proper propositions when speaking: Avoid small grammar mistakes (know when to use less vs. fewer, I vs. me, graduated from an institution, etc.)

Articulate complex concepts into layman's terms: Break concepts down into different parts of the conceptual equation – chronically, from beginning to end or outcome to origin, simultaneously moving parts/micro-stories or situations; Use analogies (metaphors, mundane/real-life examples, or hypothetical situations) that require the same thought-process or methodology)

Apply conversational "show don't tell" when sharing a story: Describe the situation using the 5 senses to convey the implied meaning (e.g. "I could feel the pit in my stomach." vs. "I was nervous.")

Use subtle tonality to convey particularly emotional or significant points while speaking

I've read books and stuff but how do I apply the knowledge in real life?

Relate cultural references or learned concepts to add clever humor to everyday conversations

Create parallels and analogies to outside information to convey your understanding of what someone is saying, ask more thoughtful follow-up questions, or smoothly transition into a new conversation topic

How do I make my everyday vocabulary more sophisticated?

Use everyday/simple sentence structure and replace one simple word choice with another more sophisticated word that is equally apt to the message you're trying to convey

If you're ever confused about whether a particular synonym makes sense to use IRL, look at how it is used in the dictionary sentence examples and in other books/articles

Ik the general advice to read books and converse with people etc, but how do I actually apply it irl?

Reiterate a concise, simplified version of the other person's anecdotes to convey your understanding. Drive the conversation forward by asking specific follow-up questions based on one "part" of the idea or story

Use cultural parallels to convey your understanding of what the other person is saying (sounds like this TV show character, like a certain artist, historical/current event, etc.)

Leverage metaphors to connect the dots between the points you and your conversation partner are making. Make an insightful connection to break up the air time between their anecdote and contribution

Conversational word choice should be used to create vivid images in people's minds – to paint a picture of the concept, scene, emotions, or sensations one would engage with or experience if the person was living your conversation in the present moment

Learn how to use wit conversations – context and delivery are vital to its success and positive reception

Hope this helps xx

[youneedsomeprompts]

~ SECRET CRUSH ~ CONVERSATION STARTER PROMPTS

requested by: @shedoandsaku

Feel free to use and reblog!

"Hey, you!" *heavy blushing*

"Hey. It's nice to see you." "Oh, hi. I didn't know you noticed me."

"Is everything alright? You're looking at me all the time."

"I'm sorry. What was your name again?"

"You never say hello. But you greet everyone. Why is that?"

"You... you look good." *shy smile*

"Hello, gorgeous!" *looks around* "Me? You really mean me?"

"You've caught my eye for some time."

"I was dying to see you!"

"Hi! By the way, I like your shoes." "You're so sweet. You always have a compliment for me."

"Hey, I thought a lot about what you said last time."

"Oh, hi! I wasn't daring to hope to see you here today."

"Did you change your hair?" "Yes! You noticed? You're the first one to say anything about it!"

"Hey, sorry to bother you." "You're not bothering me! Why would you think that?"

"There is my favourite person!" "Haha, you're so funny!"

[doodle-belle-thorn]

It would appear Cupid neglected to mention that Venus is really bad at conversation starters

Like did she want me say "good for you" or to one up her and say I made out with a jester or what????

[onlycringepost]

im sorry i have ZEROOO knowledge of pop culture. do not talk to me about it. i want nothing to do with it.

im here for the woods, the stars, the sea, the ancient kingdoms

[gleefulpoppet]

A New Year's Gift for You!

This is a "game" I created for one of my stories that I wanted to share with everyone! You can print the cards (detailed instructions included) or use the questions digitally! Please feel free to make copies or share the file with whoever you'd like. Wishing you the best in the New Year! ⭐💖

You can download it from my box account (copy and paste the link) I didn't want anyone to think they were about to get rickrolled 😍 https://app.box.com/s/yle14qfh88rbm6bbik89qsd1tniziz6s

[xxhypersomnia]

About the Tumblr...er?

I love talking with others - so strike up a convo with me about any of these things! MDNI +18

Nice convos only. If you say anything just to be a turd, I will not reply. I’m not here for negative energy. ☮️ ☮️

Name: Ray Age: Early 30s Pronouns: she/her Occupation: Animal Shelter Professional Sign: Aries Favorite Color: cerulean blue Favorite Animal: Coatimundi, Orca Hobbies: Warhammer, Dragon Age, Reading Non-fiction, Painting, singing, theatre Favorite Fictional Characters: Din Djarin, Inigo Montoya, Paddington, Megara Fictional Characters I Identify with (Can you see a theme? - it may not be the theme you're thinking): Korra, Ellie Williams, Sailor Jupiter, Cassandra Pentaghast, Leslie Knope, Nadija of Antipaxos Favorite Online Personalities: Shane & Ryan, Brittany Broski, Miles Bonsignore, Safiya Nygaard, Trixie & Katya Celebrity Crush: The one and only Pedro Pascal Fanfic Favs: Joel Miller, The Mandalorian Favorite TV Shows: The Last of Us, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Drag Race, Community, The Mandalorian, Sailor Moon, Adventure Time, Regular Show, The Dick Van Dyke Show, Dexter, Parks and Recreation, Spongebob, Futurama Favorite Movies: Just Friends, Howl's Moving Castle, The Labyrinth, Nacho Libre, Unbearable Weight of Massive Talent, Dumb and Dumber Favorite Travel: Norway, Iceland, London, Utah Music On Repeat: Orville Peck, Elvis, Amelia Moore, Magic Sword, Doja Cat, The Chicks, Carly Rae Jepsen, Ashnikko, Lauv, Lady Gaga, Miley Cyrus, Audrey Nuna, Yung Gravy, Peach PRC, Reve, Kim Petras, Kah-Lo, WILLOW, My Chemical Romance, Paramore

TikTok: xxhypersomnia

Photo: Me from Ren Fest 2022 😋

[malencholic-nyx]

Everytime it's not about "I love you, u r beautiful, I like u"... bla blah

Sometimes it's all about – "hey u okay?" "I don't think so.. wanna talk?"

—It's not always about expressing love or admiration; sometimes, it's about showing empathy and concern.

[minecraftbookshelf]

Concept Discussion Post

(Yes this is for you, if you are seeing it you are invited to reblog and add your thoughts. There are no wrong answers, this is purely throwing ideas at each other)

Life Series Leverage AU GO!

My thoughts:

Pearl is a hitter

Scar is a grifter

Scott and Cleo are both also grifters just wildly different styles from each other. They’re both Charisma based Scott just rolls for seduction and Cleo rolls for intimidation that is all.

Martyn is a thief

Grian is a hacker with a penchant for explosives and surveillance (watching :) )

Etho is a hacker/hitter combo

Skizz is a hitter

[femmefatalevibe]

What does it mean to speak less when trying to seduce someone’. Can you provide a conference example of how it would look like? How should one act etc?

Hi love! I would say that this concept boils down to two main principles: Not offering any more information about yourself than absolutely necessary to continue the conversation (nothing too personal, keep it light), and remaining interested to be interesting.

Regarding not offering any more information about yourself than absolutely necessary to continue the conversation (nothing too personal, keep it light):

Keep the conversation on a more surface level; avoid any sensitive topics or emotionally-charged topics (like a breakup, toxic ex, strained family relationship, financial struggles, workplace drama, or job/career difficulties)

Focus on conversational topics you would pitch to a magazine, post on social media, or take a quiz on vs. something that would be better saved for a close friend chat or therapy session

On remaining interested to be interesting:

Ask questions before sharing information about yourself. Initiate a conversation with a question. Ask relevant follow-up questions as a response vs. offering to disclose an anecdote or personal information about yourself

Use their answers or shared stories as a way to frame your reply. Volley the conversation back to your conversation partner by paraphrasing what they just said to you to show that you were listening and sought to understand what they were saying. After paraphrasing, ask another question that dives deeper into an aspect of their shared story, opinion, recollection of an event, etc. As an example, if they were telling you about a work presentation, ask about how they felt before, after, or during, what it was about, why the presentation mattered, what their colleagues and bosses thought, the next steps, where it was held, what they had for lunch after, etc.

Hope this helps xx

[midgeo]

40+ Good Conversation Topics to Talk About With a Guy

40+ Deep Conversation Topics You Can Use to Talk to a Guy

Travel: Favorite destinations, dream trips, travel experiences.

Hobbies: What he enjoys doing in his free time.

Books: Favorite genres, recent reads, book recommendations.

Movies: Favorite films, actors, genres, recent releases.

Music: Favorite bands, genres, concerts attended.

Food: Favorite cuisines, restaurants, cooking experiences.

Sports: Favorite teams, memorable games, sports he plays.

Work/ Career: His job, aspirations, achievements, challenges.

Technology: Gadgets he likes, latest tech trends, favorite apps.

Family: Siblings, childhood memories, family traditions.

Pets: If he has any, favorite animals, funny pet stories.

Fitness/ Exercise: Workouts he enjoys, fitness goals, sports he plays.

TV Shows: Favorite series, binge-worthy recommendations.

Dreams/ Goals: Short-term and long-term aspirations.

Art: Favorite artists, art mediums, creative hobbies.

Current Events: News topics, recent developments.

Philosophy: Existential questions, life perspectives.

Funny Stories: Embarrassing or humorous experiences.

Gaming: Favorite games, gaming experiences, latest releases.

Cars/ Vehicles: Favorite models, dream cars, driving experiences.

Nature/ Outdoors: Camping experiences, favorite outdoor activities.

Fashion/ Style: Clothing preferences, fashion trends.

Languages: If he speaks multiple languages or wants to learn one.

DIY/ Home Improvement: Projects he's worked on or wants to do.

Relationships: Views on dating, friendships, or family dynamics.

Finance/ Money: Saving tips, investment interests, financial goals.

Health/ Wellness: Healthy habits, self-care routines.

Education: Favorite subjects, memorable school experiences.

Science: Fascinating scientific topics or discoveries.

Cultural Differences: Discussing diverse cultures and traditions.

Social Media: Favorite platforms, online interactions.

Volunteering/ Charity: Causes he cares about, volunteering experiences.

Conspiracy Theories: If he's into that sort of thing, it can spark some interesting conversations.

Spirituality/ Religion: Beliefs, experiences, or philosophies.

Home/ Living Situation: Decor preferences, dream homes.

Humor: Favorite comedians, types of humor.

Memorable Trips: Sharing travel stories and experiences.

Future Plans: Where he sees himself in the future.

Technology Trends: Emerging tech or gadgets he finds exciting.

Astrology/ Zodiac Signs: Whether he believes in it or not, it can be a fun topic.

Remember to gauge his interest and comfort level with each topic and keep the conversation flowing naturally!

[cryptomiracle]

men...... whimpering ☕

[beautyschooldropouttt]

Normalize asking to look through people's contacts when they hand you their phone to put in your phone number

Who do you call and text most frequently? Are your parents contacts "mom" and/or "dad" or have you never changed it from their full names? What is your boss's name? I must know.

[treasurem]

Art talk

SAVE THE DATE.

[flamingocards]

Have more meaningful conversations ✨

#questionsforfriends #conversationstarters #questionsforcouples #deepquestions