#desi family

[misssclumsy]

"or beta 12th ke baad kya plan hai?"

*MONEY SMUGGLING* "pata nahi, uncle"

[maihonhassan]

Desi parents usually don't throw surprise parties for their kids, but when they do, it's called an arranged marriage.

[creatingnikki]

notes from my therapist

when we explore what happened in your childhood, it is not to blame your parents or have a biased judgement of them. it is to understand how events impacted you and what your experience was. so you don’t have to feel guilty about talking about it or as if you are betraying your family. 

trauma can be of various types and it does not only have to be induced due to one major event. there can also be trauma from situations of acute stress over a prolonged period of time. 

choosing the wrong or right people does not mean they are good or bad. it means understanding what is healthy for you and what you want. it’s not putting them into boxes, it’s simply knowing what is healthy for you.

why do you wait for a green light from others? what is your green light? why do your decisions have to be based on what others want? what do you want?

being a friendly person and being an open book does not mean that you cannot have boundaries. 

you disappointing someone or them disappointing you does not have to be the end of the relationship. 

[rayyzcosmos]

you aren't the eldest child in an indian family if you don't get told that you are not good enough atleast 48 times in 24 hours

[iamreallyawkwardsblog]

Aaj bhagwat sunne gayi wahan prasad mai kulfi di yaar 😭😭😭😭😭

Itne ache log kahan se aaye mere aas paas🌬✨

[aurkitnarulaoge]

The Indian urge to "dhiktana dhiktana dhiktana dhik dhikatana dhiktana dhiktana" at a family function with your cousins and friends

[biharanbitch]

BEAUTIFUL PERSON AWARD! Once you are given this award you're supposed to paste it in the asks of 8 people who deserve it. If you break the chain nothing happens, but it's sweet to know someone thinks you're beautiful inside and out <33

Okk soo....... When u guys get anons... It's a secret lover and/or flirtatious comments....

Mere pe baap ki aankh WhatsApp k forwarded mssgs aa rhe h🙃🙃🙃... Mere chehre pe hutiya likha h kya?(Sameer fuddi slangs)

Jokes apart!!! Thank you to whoever sent this to me! But I'm not the anonymous mssg kind... So I'll just tag my favourite mutuals here who are beautiful in and out! ( On a personal level) @shyam-kariya @aapki-shayara @abhidubey @sauravscribbles @btw-its-tamanna @whatsleftofdishaa @anarkali-disco-chali @nainasfuneral @kashviiii @inaasaysshelloo @manincaffeine @oldersiblingcurse @laacfaze @yahvii @yourmomsahira @shadowseductress

These are my good frnds... And people I have interacted with on a personal level... And I love them like my family literally! U people are gorgeous in and out and I'm extremely lucky to have met u people! ❤️❤️❤️

My world is better with u people in it! Love u guysss!!!

(and to the person who sent me this anon... Idk if we know each other...but hey I would love to know u! I'm sure u are beautiful ❤️ )

[kashviiii]

daddy issues????

more like “dadi issues”

[septemberkisses]

i think people don't understand that your life when living with a parent(s) who you don't really get along with isn't all black and white. it's not good or bad. it's neither 100% love nor 100% hatred. it's always in the grey zone. it's the varying emotions - usually a mix of them. its usually i love you so much but i also hate you. I cannot live without you but i also can't live with you.

[misssclumsy]

Desi parents be like "tumne abhi duniya dekhi kanha hai" and won't let you see duniya as well.

[maihonhassan]

“Being an introvert in a brown household is absolute trauma.”

[geekytango]

brown girl forced to unclog sink with her hand while washing dishes

4 dead 15 injured

[diorficent]

Mere ghar wale basic human rights ko "zyada udne lagi hai" kehte hai :)

[meanslackofart]

after meeting certain parents of other people, the respect i have for my parents increases