#didcringe

[sophieinwonderland]

Anti-endo posts to r/systemscringe. Face gets eaten by leopards.

Their reply was removed. Luckily, you can still find it on their profile.

Remember, sharing you have a disorder is against the rules of the r/systemscringe subreddit.

(u/Bugzxvi was also the author of this misinformation post about endogenic systems on r/DIDcringe a few weeks ago.)

I really don't know what OP expected. 🤷‍♀️

I don't support fakeclaiming, but it's also really hard to feel an ounce of sympathy when they're engaging with the hate.

So here's your daily reminder: r/systemscringe is a vile ableist hatesub. They do not support systems. Even if you think that you're "one of the good ones," they are not safe for you. Don't expect to find acceptance from these people.

[69constellationsinatrenchcoat]

Hot take: If you are posting to r/systemcringe you're part of the problem

"but what if—"

No. Even if they're endogenic, claiming DID without evidence, being "weird", posting too specific flags, a LOT of people posted on r/systemcringe are minors and bullying minors still figuring themselves out is not okay.

And yes, this goes for "TikTok DID" too, even if they *are* faking, they're still people under all of the facades they've made and still deserve empathy (and educating). Anyone who fakes a disorder for clout has issues, and should be seen by a therapist, or kindly informed they're being inappropriate, not mocked to high hell.

"but they're damaging the system community!"

If it bothers you that much, speak to them, KINDLY reach out. don't be an asshole and go behind their backs and post them to a subreddit that gets off from mocking people.

"they're clearly faking!"

Have you done a psychological assessment on them? Mmm, no? Thought as much.

"yea but it's obvious-"

Okay fine, it's obvious in some cases, but do you want to be part of a problem too?

"but-"

....what did I say, it's never okay.

So many systems fear being authentic for fear of being posted upon this subreddit and that's not okay, people will always be assholes but you don't need to perpetuate it.

The only way to stop subs like r/systemcringe is to stop interacting with them.

[gipzisays209]

No way! I feel flattered!!!

Remember what I said before? About the sysmed server not knowing I exist? Well! It appears as though that would now be an incorrect statement! (More under the cut)

Let's go at this like it's English class, shall we? Dissect this post for it's contents?

"If you get this server taken down, we'll just make another server. ... If it comes to that, we'll just share the links in private GCs ..."

Well. Ain't that a kick in the head! If one server gets taken down, it's entirely possible to take another one down for the exact same reason! And saying you'll only hand out links privately... hate to break it to ya, but I, the host, am a Theatre kid. Acting is a hobby, and one I'm damn good at. You hand out links privately, only to people you deem trustworthy? Honey, that is my forte. ;)

"You're getting mad and defensive over us calling you out ... Instead of wasting your time reporting our server, maybe focus your energy on reporting servers that are actually harming people?"

Whoa, slow down there, hoss. Take a breather. You ever thought about why we're here? In your Discord? Taking screenshots and leaking them?

It's because, surprise surprise, fakeclaiming is harmful. It doesn't matter what it is, if you're getting fakeclaimed over a unique and individual experience/identity, that can (and sometimes will, sadly) cause a spiral that can lead to some nasty places. Depression. Isolation.

Even places like self-harm and suicide.

We are here because your server is harmful. We are here because you present an active threat to the community. But of course your HIGHNESS can't bear to think they're the problem!

"Addressing the ban claims, at one point we did ban a lot of faker systems from our server while rooting out a mole. Everyone from that event has since been unbanned. If you are still banned, its for a reason. Claims of us 'banning just because we can' are false. I could take a screenshot of our ban list and give a reason for every single one."

*Sips cup*

Yeah, I think we can move on from this one.

And now, the quote I've been so desperately wanting to address...

"Gip, because I know you’re in here, kindly stop sucking Ghost’s dick and get your own opinions, it would do everyone good. That goes for all of his little zombie followers. If your lives revolve around people on an online messaging app screwing around, re-evaluate your life choices."

Wow, where do I start with this one?

Blatant misgendering, bordeline going against their own rules when it comes to naming people on the server- I have 20 followers! And even then, you're still going to drop a version of my username? Just like that? Mmmmm...

I have my own opinions, thanks. I don't need a circlejerk discord to make me feel better about my own shitty fucking existence, cuz I have the balls to outright admit I'm a petty asshole with no fucking life. And my opinion is that people like Sophie, people like Cambrian and Lunastas and Guardian- all of them are fucking right. They have all proven they do their goddamn research, they actually give back to the communities they inhabit, and most of all, they aren't leeching off of people just by fucking existing, as hard as it is for you guys to believe.

(Also, if you're gonna insult someone, get it fucking right lmfao. Ghost is the goddamn host, Sophie is not Ghost. Two different people. Also, I'm fucking Asexual, so um, projecting much?)

Wow. As of writing this, they literally just got worse!

Well. You see, while I personally choose to censor Discord usernames to close loopholes like this, it's actually not the same as if you sent a Tumblr handle. What you're seeing in those screenshots are not identifiers, they are server nicknames. Which are specific to THAT SERVER ONLY. Unlike places like Tumblr and Twitter, where seeing your name automatically means someone can find you, on Discord it's actually not possible (that I know of) to doxx someone through a server nickname alone. So no, actually, Sophie didn't leave your username out there, only a server nickname, and the two are not the same. So yes, actually. Because Discord is it's own site with it's own way of handling usernames, it is perfectly acceptable what Sophie did (although not perfectly ideal), because nobody is going to be able to use those names alone to doxx and/or harass.

And finally, the final update as of writing this post... the almighty @ everyone ping...

Damn. I don't even have to AP English IV this shit, they already did it for me!

To sum it all up, phew... I guess I'm a target now! Which I'm honestly pretty damn fine with! But just know, I don't fuckin hold back. I will be a bitch for the sake of being a bitch, because I don't care how petty I am. I don't care about what people think of me, or whatever the fuck you could ever do to me.

I care about defending people from the likes of you.

So go on. Give me your best shot, then. You have the balls to call me out in front of your entire Discord server?

Challenge accepted, motherfucker.

Challenge accepted, motherfucker.

Challenge accepted.

Let's get 'em, bitches!

[syscultureis]

Sys culture is being terrified of being posted on r/syscringe (or r/DIDcringe) for doing anything remotely not by the textbook

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[artsyaech]

~welcome to the sunflower field~

[image ID: a field of hundreds of sunflowers. in the distance you can see what appears to be a hill. over the field is a sunset with clouds in the sky END ID]

my names are

aech

froggie

kaos

mayhem

ocean

kandi

and i'm just one out of hundreds of xenogender coining blogs. my old blog got deleted on accident (because i'm a dumdum) but i'm the original artsyaech, trust me. i have tons of pronoun sets but here are some you can call me by:

hán/háni/háns

xae/xaer/xaerself

art/arts/artself

xeph/xephs/xephself

frog/frogs/frogself

quoi/quois/quoiself

zix/zix/zixself

boop/boops/boopself

sol/sols/solself

star/stars/starself

🌻/🌻s/🌻self [emoji ID: sunflower emoji]

i'm a white icelander with scottish ancestry, so i'm as white as can be lol. i'm xenogender and genderfluid as well as objectum, aspec and abrosexual. i'm autistic, have adhd, depression and anxiety (diagnosed) as well as questioning if i have anything more.

i am otherkin. i’m an alien so please refrain from using humane terms to describe me

special interests atm: gorillaz, the sims, postal, mcr and mlp (if you request anything related to these things, i will 100% make it)

my bestie is @hip-albatross (go send him some love, void is amazing)

(help with image IDs would be very much appreciated)

tagging system

[PT: tagging system]

search for #aech’s terms if you just wanna see my gendies and other terms

#aech rambles is just for my little ramblings

#aech’s asks is for my asks

#aech reblogs is for reblogs (some of my older reblogs don’t have that tag, fyi)

#aech helps with neos or themed pronouns for pronoun/name help :)

#aech gives tips for alterhuman self-care tips

accessibility tags

#needs id is for posts that don’t have image ID (that i might add later)

#has id is for posts that have image ID (sometimes, i will add this myself)

what i will do:

xenogenders

aldernic terms

objectum terms

themed names and pronouns

what i will not do:

coining anything potentially problematic

coining anything on my blacklist

term searching

flag combos

flag requests: open!

name and pronoun requests: open!

DNI and blacklist under cut

dni: anti-mogai, anti-xenogenders, anti-neopronouns, anti-polyamory, anti-sex work, anti-abortion, mspec lesbian exclusionists, mspec gay exclusionists, anti-feminist, republicans, TERFS, SWERFS, radfems, transcum, transmeds, truscum, nazis, sexists, homophobes, misogynists, trump supporters, transphobes, queerphobes, racists, ableists, saneists, xenophobes, anti-BLM, pro-cop, superstraights, flop accounts, troll accounts, kink/NSFW (that includes H3nt41 and 3cch1), anti-agere, “MAP/p*dosexual”, “r*pesexual”, “racefluid”, “dreamsexual” (pertaining to the dsmp), “zoosexual”, “n*crosexuals” zoophiles, gold star lesbians, “transracials” RCTA, ECTA, people who support subs like r/DIDCringe or r/FakeDisorderCringe, xenoid/xenoidentities and their supporters, autism speaks supporters, light it up blue supporters, people who sexualize agere, proshippers, transid/transx, against researched self- diagnosis, demonize any mental disorder, against alterhumans, ‘consang’, think fiction doesn’t affect reality, pro-incest, pro-sh, jk rowling fans/apologists, pro-ano/thinspo

blacklist (general): gore, real violence, real death, MAPs, l*licon, sh*tacon, s/a, s/h, su*cide, eating disorders, s*xual topics/imagery, addiction, pregnacy and childbirth, hospitals and hospital imagery

blacklist (media/people): FNF, DSMP, harry potter and other j.k. rowling media, countryhumans, hetalia, black butler, killing stalking, hisoka from hxh, yarichin bitch club, boku no pico, helluva boss / hazbin hotel, kalvin garrah, shane dawson, trisha paytas, jschlatt, sia

reminder that in some cases the media on the blacklist is not inherently problematic, i’m just uncomfortable with it.

[plegg-culture-is]

plegg culture is finding out about plurality through videos of people reacting to r/DIDcringe and being like "haha yeah that's cringe... they do be sounding extra relatable though... haha jk...... but what if...... nah i must be faking even before i knew that shit"

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[daggersandarrows]

sometimes i kind of wonder how many people have fakeclaimed us bc we're like. such prime material for r/didcringe or whatever the fuck they call it. incomplete amnesia. 6/9 are fictives. believe in the existence of nontraumagenic systems. i'm frontstuck all the time. people probably hate us

[fictiveheavy-systim]

DNI LIST ( ꈍᴗꈍ).｡*♡

Here's our full DNI! We block those who fall under this criteria when we find them (either before they find us or whenever they disregard our boundaries). Some of these are big things, and some are personal things that we're uncomfortable seeing. Thank you in advance for reading through this and respecting our boundaries.

System List ;

Non-traumagenic systems and those who support/interact with them (including demo systems and western tulpas), those who use the terms 'sysmed' or 'traumascum', those who don't believe in system accountability, those who believe persecutors are bad people, those who use the term 'malicitor' (not including those who reclaim it for themselves), anti-fictives, believe in system hopping, believe that systems must have the end goal of final fusion, believe introjects can pick their source, blame introjects for their sources

-philes ;

Pedophiles, DDLG and variants, ageplay, sexual age regression, zoophiles, pro-contact, neutral-contact, trans-age, trans-species, paraphiles (not including those who are in therapy), pro-shippers, anti-antis, MAPs, NOMAPs, radqueer, or anyone neutral or in support of these things, or interact with people who are

Ableist ;

Thinspo/pro-ED/pro-ana, support Autism Speaks or NEXTAUTISM, support eugenics, trans-abled (excluding those with BIID), trans-autism, trans-adhd, believe in narcissistic abuse, romanticize mental illness, romanticize self-harm, demonize mental illnesses, infantilize mental illnesses, fakeclaimer, reality-checker, support subreddits such as r/fakedisordercringe or r/didcringe, believe roleplaying disorders you do not have is acceptable, believe autism has a cure

Anti-queer ;

Anti-queer, terf, radfem, trumeds/truscum/transmeds, nonbinary exclus, intersex exclus, pan exclus, bi exclus, against gender nonconformity, against pronoun nonconformity, "super-[label]"s, those who are against the split attraction model, "drop the T", aspec exclus, anti-mogai, anti-xenogenders, anti-neopronouns (including anti-nounself and anti-emojiself), anti-microlabels, anti-neurogenders, call queer relationships "sin" (including in fandom spaces), support the Don't Say Gay bill in Florida, "gender critical", "a is for ally"s, purposefully misgender people without their consent

Racist/Xenophobic/Antisemitic ;

Anti-BLM, ALM, white lives matter, blue lives matter, pro-cop, anti-acab, believe in reverse racism, believe in white oppression, trans race (not including adoptees), islamophobic, believe in black-washing, anti-stop asian hate, believe poc cannot cosplay white characters, Nazi/Neo-Nazi/Nazi sympathizer, holocaust denier, believe alters in white systems can be a poc

Miscellaneous ;

Support NFTs, cryptbro, SWERF, classist, anti-selfdx, anti-furries, anti-scalies, believe in cringe culture, anti-harm reduction, send or endorse anon hate, believe in Christian oppression, blogs with the sole purpose of bullying/harassing others, those who bring religion into unwanted spaces, support missionaries, believe in art style theft, anti-property is theft, know us IRL

DNI for comfort reasons ;

NSFW/18+/Minors DNI blogs, singlets under the age of 13, blogs with Harry Potter, TBATF, Your Boyfriend, Yandere Sim, or Aphmau content (not including blogs that have had those things in the past due to requests), anyone who tags NSFW fandom content under the main tags for that fandom, roleplay blogs, Christianity-centered blogs, blank blogs (default avatar, default name, default desc, default header- anything that makes you look like a bot. Bots obviously won't read this, this is more an announcement to people with those blogs that I block em). Endo neutral systems listen up: all I ask is that if you interact with endos do not reblog our posts. Otherwise, feel free to interact.

Thank you for reading!!

I especially appreciate it with how long this one is (๑•﹏•)

[oneiroicollective]

eyo

i was wondering if you have a dni?

Yep!! It was on my Rentry before I rethemed, and I never got around to making a new one so:

[ID: An image with a white background and black text. The text reads as follows: Proshippers, transmed, r/didcringe or whatever you call yourselves now, anti mspec, transx DNI. End ID.]

[sophieinwonderland]

Debunking r/DIDcringe "debunking" Endogenic Claims

Cool!

I expect a well thought-out post citing lots of sources to prove their points!

No. There are many studies showing DID is heavily correlated with severe and repeated childhood trauma.

It's theorized this correlation is because DID is caused by trauma, but this hasn't been shown. A causal relationship, even if likely, is difficult to establish as it would technically require children to be traumatized to test.

Luckily, this particular nuance isn't actually a point of debate. Nobody on either side is arguing that DID can't be caused by trauma. I think most people on both sides are in agreement that the relationship is a causal one. (Even if I'm going to be pedantic about how that hasn't been proven.)

But just because a causal relationship may exist doesn't mean that's the only possible cause. To think this risks falling prey to the Fallacy of the Single Cause or Causal Oversimplification.

If you were to run an experiment where you hit people on the arm with a hammer, you can successfully prove being hit with a hammer is a cause of broken bones. But it would be fallacious to conclude that hammers are the only possible cause of broken bones.

Whether you can have DID without trauma is an extremely complex question and theories very often fall prey to the above fallacy.

I will say my personally feelings are that DID is virtually always caused by trauma, but people should be open to the potential for other causes to exist in rare cases.

I wouldn't use the word "prove". What I will say is that multiple experts in the field have acknowledged the existence or at least the possibility of plurality/multiplicity without trauma or a disorder.

It is true that there was one paper that suggested a continuum of multiplicity that ranged from what it called" identity disturbance" to dissociative identity disorder. Although it's worth noting that this same paper referred to DID as a severe form of identity disturbance and places them on a continuum together.

And the claim here that other sources are unreliable is just absurd.

Non-disordered plurality has been acknowledged in the World Health Organization's ICD-11's Boundary with Normality, stating that multiple "distinct identity states" may be present without a disorder.

Likewise, the creators of the Theory of Structural Dissociation have said it's possible hypnosis and mediumship may involve "dissociative parts of the personality" that possess "self-consciousness."

Additionally, the book Transgender Mental Health by Eric Yarbrough has explicitly said you can be plural without a disorder or trauma.

This book was reviewed and published by The American Psychiatric Association.

Notably, there is also no one saying the opposite. There is no academic paper arguing that you can't be plural without a disorder or trauma, or that you need trauma to have multiple "distinct personality states" or anything of the sort. If you look at academic papers, the range is from neutral (this needs to be studied more) to pro (this is a real phenomenon.)

I'm not going to go too far into the appropriation claims beyond saying that Tibetan Buddhism is an open religion, the Dalai Lama has encouraged people of other faiths to use Tibetan Buddhist meditations, and there's no evidence sprul-pa (the practice tulpamancy was based on) was a closed practice.

The appropriation narrative was invented by and pushed by sysmeds, and isn't actually a concern within Buddhist communities. If you want to see this in action, here's a comparison of r/Systemscringe and r/Buddhism opinions on tulpamancy.

The fact that cringe subreddits are way more concerned about the so-called appropriation than actual Buddhist subreddits should be a good indication that this was always more about using Buddhists as a talking point to silence one of the most studied endogenic communities.

As for the whole "DID isn't plural" thing, this is just semantics.

Some DID systems view themselves as parts, others as people. Psychiatrists would say that the whole body makes the person. But there are philosophies that suggest that the ability for dissociated parts to each have their own self-consciousness and agency makes them a person.

When discussing plurality, I personally use the term "agent." It bypasses a lot of these silly semantic arguments over what is or isn't a person. Because whether we're talking about multiple people, dissociated parts, or even spirits, what we're discussing is an experience of multiple agents with their own self-consciousness and and agency.

That's essentially what plurality is.

Multiplicity is an experience of being multiple. Again, the World Health Organization's ICD-11 says you can experiences multiple distinct personality states without a disorder. You do NOT need DID or OSDD to experience multiplicity.

If there's a single peer-reviewed academic source anywhere that claims you it's impossible to be plural without DID or OSDD, you're welcome to provide it.

Additionally, I've been unable to find any studies showing a significant correlation between OSDD-1 without amnesia (what's inaccurately called OSDD-1b) and trauma. It's often presumed to exist, but the evidence isn't there.

As you stated earlier, dissociative amnesia is heavily linked to trauma. If dissociative amnesia is a criteria of DID, then naturally that link would exist there as well. So then, if the multiplicity is caused by trauma, we would need to conduct studies into people with OSDD who have no amnesia to confirm that.

From what I've found, no study of this sort has been conducted.

Finally, this asserts that all multiplicity comes from these disorders. A claim that they fail to support in any way. Because they CAN'T support it.

Because again, all the research studying plurality have affirmed that you can be plural without a dissociative disorder.

Well, That Concludes Another Anti-Endo "Debunking" Post With No Sources!

Wait. That's not entirely true! They do link to this one:

Except it doesn't confirm any of their points, and seems to mostly be added to prevent the automod from removing their post. Like they said, most of this was "from memory."

Meaning they're just regurgitating things they've heard online from unknown sources.

[69constellationsinatrenchcoat]

oh boy. you got posted to r/systemscringe..... under the Good Content Creator flair

the only thing worse than being posted to SC is being AGREED WITH on there

WAIT WHAT BROOO COULD I HAVE A LINK PLS If you're talking about this post, that was not mine. I know the system who posted it, but won't be linking their tumblr here for their privacy. I have DMed them though.

OP's sys and our sys have two similar posts :)

[gipzisays209]

Be careful with this Discord owner. They're saying they're ready to make changes and all they ever wanted was healthy debates between both sides. They say things got a little out of hand regarding usernames, but they'll reign it in and you should totally go debate with them over there.

Does that sound right, though? This person created a server where they share system posts to mock and fakeclaim them collectively. They go so far as to pretend to be like the people they mock in order to invade their spaces to find more "cringe".

So according to them, the plan all along was this?

Create a fun server where they laugh at systems and fakeclaim

Eventually those systems find the server, join it and see how terrible the server is (slurs included for good measure)

The systems start posting about their server and they want to retaliate and get the server banned

And that way finally everyone can get together and have a mature nuanced discussion about… let's see… ah yes, a mature nuanced discussion about if those systems deserve any respect or if they're dangerous lying fakes

You have to see this for the bullshit that it is. Nobody in their right mind who wants to encourage healthy debates does any of this.

I do not believe this Discord server owner or its members have good intentions. I do not believe they want genuine discussions. I do not believe that it's just a matter of which academic sources they rely on. I do not believe you should accept invitations to debate them on their server. And if you do, you should expect the worst from them.

This is someone who thinks fakeclaiming is funny. Even if they go back on their rules about uncensoring usernames, they created a server where mocking systems, fakeclaiming systems, lying to get access to their spaces, and deciding who is a real system or not is acceptable. It's not just acceptable - it is the entire point.

Please be safe. I would not trust their words if I were you. Their actions speak loud enough as it is.

Believe me. As much as I'd love to go no holds barred and drop all defenses, I know the vast majority of people in that server are still the same people. Even if the owner stays on the halfway decent path, the mods and the members of that server most likely are not.

All that this has done has prove that the owner themself is worth listening to, at the very least. I have no intentions of going in there on my main (sorry, guys! You won't get me this easily!), and while would happily talk to the owner one-on-one through Tumblr (no, not Discord), I still don't view the server as anywhere near safe.

The server itself is an absolute dumpster fire, and I'd highly recommend everyone take the proper precautions when dealing with them, if they ever choose to (and godspeed to you, if you do). But from my interactions, the server owner themself is the only person in that server (so far) worth trying to talk out a solution with.

Is this a total teardown of all defenses? Uh, fuck no. While I do believe this is a very important step in the right direction, the server itself is still an absolute mosh pit. But the owner, despite creating that hellhole, has shown they're willing to listen. And I'd like to remain optimistic and say a few other people there share the same mentality.

I see no reason why one can't both harbor caution and optimism at the same time.

Is it stupid? Probably. Is it naïve? Most definitely. But I'm still choosing to remain cautiously optimistic, given recent events.

[syscultureis]

Plural and typing quirk culture is seeing other systems bully alters and systems with typing quirks and saying it ableist to have typing quirks and know we feel like your faking and only seeing r/didcringe &/fdc when you look up to see if it is…. sorry is we went on a ramble

Typing quirks are fun, as someone with dyslexia I just need translations for most of them tho 😅

[perfectly-inhuman]

About: The blog description is what you get. I'm P03/Stoat/G0lly, I'm at least 1,000 years old, and I never fuckin' learned how to read. I have a small hoard of pronouns, but He/it are my main ones. I love my source and I love all things about not being a human. Being a robot is fun. I also draw. Before you follow: - Body is 17, no NSFW interactions please - We're a system, not a roleplay blog. Do not follow/interact - General DNI criteria - fakeclaimers - People who support r/didcringe or similar things - endos/tulpas - syscourse blogs - people who use the term "traumascum" or "sysmed" - people who sexualize agere / petre - kink / nsfw blogs

[d0gt33th-and-m0ss]

ABOUT: Leshy fictive from Inscryption, very nonhuman, over 1000 years old. He/him pronouns, interested in neos. Flavor of nonhuman: Nature spirit, canine

BEFORE YOU FOLLOW:

This blog is primarily about my experiences as a nonhuman alter, and I post a lot about it / reblog a lot about it. However, otherkin/therian/furry (We are one) are more than welcome to interact if they are respectful, just keep this fact in mind.

The body is 17. I'd prefer no NSFW interactions. You will be blocked immediately without discussion.

This is a sideblog, I follow and like from the blog @/suntraitor.

DO NOT FOLLOW:

General DNI criteria (Proship, Terf/Transmed, NSFW/Kink/18+, etc)

Endos/Tulpa

People that use the term "Traumascum"

Syscourse / Primarily syscourse blogs

Fakeclaimers, people that support r/fakedisorder or r/DIDcringe or similar things.

Anyone who sexualizes agere / petre.

That is all. Thank you for reading this.

[thattreeistoobig]

In complicated feelings time about who knows about Us and who doesn't. I want to go back and join a syscord with other traumagenic systems who Get It (because in all honesty when I'm around endo systems I feel like I just can't relate to them at all and I just want to be able to talk about disordered plurality without "there's nothing wrong with you or how you are!!" like we usually get, because there is something wrong with us and it's called dissociative identity disorder) because we're having a lot more problems lately with system stuff again.

However, our previous forays have been filled with stressful af syscourse and rules which feel alienating to us (make sure you always state who is fronting so everyone knows who they're speaking to, have a system name which isn't just a collective name but has to be like the (x) system, don't discuss """irredeemable media"""", no rules which require image descriptions which sucks when your visual processing is shit, such extensive lists of triggers to avoid that it's just impossible to avoid them and then you get a warning because you forgot to tag one of 200+ triggers you're supposed to keep in your head at all times) and random fakeclaiming and screenshots turning up on r/didcringe, and we've always just left pretty quickly because it's not fun for us. And I think, from the stories I've heard, it's only gotten worse over the past like four or five years.

So I'm good without doing that to myself again. But god I wish there could be just somewhere we could simply be without having to deal with the stresses of like every fucking syscord I've been in even the ones who claim are "sooooo chill"