#em tag.

[evakant]

Francesca, i love you but girl, you’re going to give yourself carpel tunnel; you’re going to give yourself boop-related repetitive strain injury

(seriously tho even tho i love all the booping please make sure you’re not gunna hurt yourself with too much booping!!)

the only part of me in danger would be my thumb because booping is faster and more practical on mobile after the first "boop back" BUT i am switching back and forth between right thumb and left index finger so if this was you trying to make me stop......

get booped <3

[egoludes]

Tonight's look reminds me of your divorced Andy--he's going out more, happy and having fun.

OH GOD STOP, why is this the realest, most heartwarming thing?

fresh start!andy who realizes that, somewhere in the years of marriage and routine, he'd settled for a wardrobe of muted colors. navy suits, stark black sweats, the most pigment in his closet comes from the occasional pair of socks and while he hadn't minded that much before, it feels misplaced now. like parts of him he doesn't want to forget, but don't quite fit where they are either.

he mentions it absentmindedly when you're curled together before bed. it's a throwaway comment, really - musings that rumble in the ear pressed to his chest about some suit he'd noticed on the way home. but it's enough to pique your interest.

enough to keep your eyes peeled, too; not for anything in particular, sure, but anything you think he might like.

eventually, you find this black, orange, and white polo - nothing outrageous in the grand scheme of things, but a big departure from his usual style. you say as much when you hand it over; tell him he doesn't have to wear it. you'd just thought it'd look nice ---- you won't be offended if it never sees the light of day, scout's honor.

but andy is nothing, if not a man of his word. so, when he tells you against your mouth that he loves it -- thank you, honey -- he means it.

he wears it when he takes you out the very next day.

[nebuleeart]

HAPPY PRIDE!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[kottkrig]

People liking your personal OCs is still such a crazy feeling, I've been doing this for years and ppl asking about them still fills my entire heart with warmth and idk how to handle it

You enjoy this fictional guy I made up for fun?? Whose only content is random artwork or writing made by me and a handful of other artists at most? They have no show/book/game with a large fandom, it's just one person with an art blog?? I love u

[furiouskettle]

I LOVE THEMMMMMMM theyre so goofy

[dilfosaur]

i miss* my neopets!!!

*i saw them this morning and did not feed them

(bwal and fonts are missing for migraine reasons and NOT favoritism)

[solarockk]

all better now

kind of a sequel to this

[thebibliosphere]

Whenever I talk about the medical neglect and ableism I've encountered as a victim of the healthcare system, there's always some cockwaffle who feels entitled to come into my inbox and make the argument of "not all doctors" while talking about how "people like them" (because it's always someone in a field of medicine who does this) are doing their best and it's really hard because so many people fake being ill to get on welfare (Yikes), but like, yeah, obviously #not all doctors, because if all doctors were negligent, bullying scum bags, I'd be dead.

But here's the thing: while I truly believe that the majority of doctors are doing their best in a system stacked against them and their patients, their presence does not negate the mass harm caused by the bad ones. And there are far more bad ones than you realize.

Fuck, John Oliver literally did a segment on this last week:

Yes, the truly bad, malicious doctors are in the minority. Most are just horrifically burned out and fighting a losing battle against a system, killing both them and their patients through a lack of funding and resources and profound overwork.

But the malicious ones do exist, and they will go out of their way to harm patients who don't kowtow to them.

I almost lost my life because when I was in my early twenties, I told a doctor I didn't think she was listening to me, and I disagreed with her assessment of my mental health (she was not a mental health doctor, and I was there for heart palpitations and chronic pain). She retaliated by putting "non-compliant" in my file.

There was also a fun little "doesn't show respect" note too that lives rent-free in my head because I know I wasn't rude. I was polite. I just didn't agree with her, and my refusal to accept her off-handed comment that "you probably have bipolar or BPD" (again, I was there for heart palpitations and chronic pain) meant I was "refusing care."

I wasn't. I just refused to be slapped with a mood/personality disorder when I was there because I kept fucking fainting when I stood up.

(Spoiler alert: it was dysautonomia)

That "non-compliant" marker followed me around for years. It followed me across an ocean and effectively ensured that any doctor I saw was going to treat me like absolute dogshit because no one wants to help Difficult Patients. It wasn't until I was so undeniably ill, literally on the brink of death, that anyone helped me.

I'm alive because of a good doctor. And all the good ones that came after him because of him.

So, I know they exist. You don't have to tell me that.

But I really fucking need you to acknowledge the bad ones and that you're part of a system with a long, long history of abusing minorities and vulnerable people. I need you to acknowledge that because it's the only way we're going to survive this godforsaken nightmare and make things better.

So yeah, #notalldoctors, but if you feel the need to say that because someone talking about being literally left to die by the medical system hurts your feelings, I'm going to have to ask you to take a step back and ask yourself if you're going into medicine for the right reasons.

Namely: do you want to help people, even the "difficult" ones?

Even the ones who might disagree with you?

Even if they're on welfare?

Even if they'll never get "better" in a way that means "cured"?

Just a thought. But hey, what do I know. I'm just someone who experienced hemolytic anemia because doctors kept telling me I was anxious and needed to exercise more 🤷‍♀️.

[friedri-ce]

shoutout to all nonbinary nonverbal knights who tend to be possessed by unknown entities, gotta be my favorite gender

[uncharted-constellations]

It’s been a minute, (both post wise and design wise) so decided to update the fam + a couple additions compared to last time

[evakant]

*boops you rhythmically to the tune of happy birthday* 🥳 🐾 🎂 🐾🎉

thank you em!!!! (boops thanks in morse code) 🧡🐾🐾

[egoludes]

Between the press tours for this movie and The Gray Man, we're going to be well fed! 👏🏻

I DONT THINK IM GONNA MAKE IT EM IM ALREADY DEAD

[pinkadillydoo]

wanted a new phone wallpaper and then remembered i can draw. so :3

[bunnyjesters]

dunning kruger effect

the next one

[1alchemistart]

the they

[tatatasoma]

it do be like that sometimes