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hmhproduction · 11 months
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commission Emotes has done, Thank you🥰 Open comms Custom static emotes for Discord, Twitch, YouTube, and Kick streaming
DM if you have any questions
https://twitter.com/hmh_production
https://www.fiverr.com/hmh_production
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isaguart · 2 years
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heyooo guys! here i show you some emotes i´ve draw before (one for personal use and the other for an art commission) i hope you like it, im thinking about doing more bc its too fun!!
ALSO i have good prices for custom emotes, please check this out on FIVERR :3 i have some packages you may like
https://es.fiverr.com/isagu_art/a-detailed-lineart-for-you
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emeralddesignz · 2 years
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Fiverr Service Page: https://www.fiverr.com/emeralddesignz/setup-a-professional-custom-discord-server-with-any-theme
Sign Up To Fiverr This Link (10% off to new users!!): http://www.fiverr.com/s2/c3a772cf0d
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marxhmallow · 10 months
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Kawaii Custom Twitch Emotes
Cute Unicorn Clan Ninja random custom made emotes for Twitch and Discord
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ijvnyxcy · 11 months
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i draw custom discord/twitch emotes on Fiverr feel free to check out my other fiverr gigs^^
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worstcompanylive · 1 year
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We have emotes now!
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Artist Ducksick! Find Ducksick on Fiverr!
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ruvikdraws · 4 months
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a proper commission post now that the emergency is over but i still need to live, hehe you can see some of my newest art above and the price sheet alongside with TAT (depending on how many orders i have, it may delay a little bit, but i'll let you know in that case!) i offer character art, visual novel sprites, character sketches colored or not, chibi, they're not listed above but i can do item drawings each for $10 too. i once did a twitch emote for $15 too, if that's what you're interested! currently not doing animations. Can ✅ OC, fanart, ship/couple art (yume/self-ship and OC x canon included), nudity or slightly suggestive art, small injuries, animals, backgrounds Cannot ❌ Realism, gore, NSFW other than the ones I stated above.
details are all okay especially on characters. i don't mind drawing armors or even mecha stuff, i can try furry too but it's not something i'm super good at. animal crossing style chibi furries are good! please note that i can't use paypal! ;w; i have a few alternative ways like buy me a coffee, etsy, vgen, fiverr and we didn't ever have any problems with payments before though!! more details on carrd
dm or comment for questions, for orders you can dm me or email me! reblogs are appreciated <3 thank you all for reblogging the previous one too, it's a big help!
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jewels-writes · 2 years
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how i think genshin characters would react to seeing you cry
Featured characters: Kazuha, Diluc, Kaeya, Venti, Zhongli, Tartaglia, Itto, Gorou, Albedo
(If you want your own custom story with any character from any fandom, please support me on fiverr https://www.fiverr.com/share/vP6NwZ)
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Kazuha
Kazuha and you had been traveling together for a while now, and you had seen their fair share of battles and hardships. But today was different. you had received some terrible news from your home world, and it was too much for you to bear.
Kazuha noticed that you were acting strangely all day. You were quieter than usual and seemed lost in thought. As you were setting up camp for the night, you suddenly burst into tears.
Kazuha was taken aback. He had never seen you cry before. He didn't know what to do or say. He just stood there, watching as you cried uncontrollably.
After a few minutes, you looked up at Kazuha with tear-stained eyes. "I'm sorry," you said between sobs. "I don't know what's come over me."
Kazuha knelt down next to you and placed a comforting hand on your shoulder. "There's no need to apologize," he said softly. "We all have our moments of weakness."
you looked at Kazuha with gratitude in your eyes. "Thank you," you said.
Kazuha could see that you were still struggling to keep your emotions in check. He decided to do something to lift your spirits. He got up and went over to his pack, rummaging around until he found what he was looking for. He returned to you and held out a small, intricately carved flute.
"I was saving this for a special occasion," he said, "but I think this qualifies."
you looked at the flute in wonder. "What is it?" you asked.
"It's a Hulusi," Kazuha replied. "It's an instrument I learned to play when I was younger. It has a very soothing sound. Perhaps it will help calm your mind."
Kazuha sat down next to you and began to play. The sweet, mournful notes of the Hulusi filled the air, and you listened, transfixed. Slowly but surely, your tears stopped, and your breathing returned to normal.
"Thank you," you said again, this time with a small smile on your face.
Kazuha smiled back. "It was nothing," he said. "I'm just glad I could help."
As the two of you settled down for the night, the Hulusi continued to play, its music a soothing balm for your troubled soul.
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Diluc
You had always prided yourself on being strong and self-sufficient, but sometimes even the strongest of us have our breaking points. And today was one of those days for you. You had just received some terrible news, news that shook you to your core, and you couldn't hold back the tears any longer.
Diluc noticed immediately when he saw you, your eyes red and puffy, tears streaming down your face. He rushed over to you, concern etched on his face, and gently wrapped his arms around you. You couldn't help but bury your face into his chest, letting out all your pent-up emotions as he held you close.
"It's okay, I'm here," he whispered soothingly, rubbing your back as you cried.
After a while, your sobs subsided, but you were still shaking with emotion. Diluc led you to a nearby bench and sat down with you, holding your hand tightly.
"Do you want to talk about it?" he asked softly.
You shook your head, not yet ready to discuss the painful news that had rocked your world. Diluc didn't press, understanding that sometimes you just needed someone to be there for you.
Instead, he focused on taking care of you. He pulled out a handkerchief from his pocket and gently wiped away your tears, his touch gentle and comforting. He then handed you a water bottle, encouraging you to take a sip.
As you sipped on the water, Diluc pulled out his phone and began playing some calming music, hoping to ease your troubled mind. He also grabbed a blanket from his backpack and draped it over your shoulders, hoping to keep you warm and comforted.
"Thank you," you whispered, grateful for his care and concern.
Diluc smiled softly, "Of course. I'll always be here for you, no matter what."
You leaned your head against his shoulder, feeling a sense of comfort in his presence. With Diluc by your side, you knew you could get through anything.
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Kaeya
You had been having a tough week. The stress of work and personal issues had been piling up, and you finally reached your breaking point. You found yourself crying in the privacy of your own apartment, overwhelmed with emotion. That's when Kaeya knocked on your door, having stopped by to check up on you.
He had always been a supportive friend, and his concern was palpable as he saw you crying. "What's wrong?" he asked softly, his voice laced with genuine care.
You wiped your tears away and tried to compose yourself, but the emotions were still too raw. "I don't know," you said shakily. "Everything just feels like it's falling apart."
Kaeya pulled you into a comforting embrace, letting you cry into his shoulder. "It's okay," he whispered, rubbing your back in soothing circles. "You don't have to be strong all the time. It's okay to let it out."
He led you to your couch, sitting you down and offering you a glass of water. He stayed by your side, his presence calming and reassuring. You felt safe and cared for in his presence.
As you began to calm down, Kaeya suggested taking a break from everything and going for a walk. The fresh air and change of scenery could do wonders for your mental health. You agreed, grateful for the distraction.
During the walk, Kaeya listened intently as you shared your worries and fears. He offered comfort and advice, his words gentle and supportive. He made you feel heard and understood, and the weight on your shoulders felt lighter.
When you returned to your apartment, Kaeya cooked dinner for the two of you. You sat at the table, enjoying the meal and the easy conversation. It felt like a weight had been lifted off your shoulders, and you were grateful for Kaeya's presence in your life.
As the night drew to a close, Kaeya hugged you tightly. "You're going to be okay," he said firmly. "And I'm here for you whenever you need me."
You smiled through your remaining tears, feeling grateful for his friendship and support. You knew that with Kaeya by your side, you could get through anything.
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Venti
You are walking through the streets of Mondstadt when you suddenly bump into someone. You look up and see that it's Venti, the bard of the wind.
"Oops, sorry about that," Venti says with a smile. "Are you okay?"
You nod, but as soon as he turns to walk away, tears start streaming down your face. You try to wipe them away discreetly, but Venti notices and turns back to you.
"Hey, what's wrong?" he asks, concern etched on his face.
You shake your head, not wanting to burden him with your problems, but the tears keep coming. Venti places a comforting hand on your shoulder and guides you to a nearby bench.
"It's okay, you don't have to tell me if you don't want to," he says softly. "But I'm here if you need to talk."
You take a deep breath and try to calm down, but the tears won't stop. Venti doesn't push you to talk and instead sits beside you, offering you a tissue and a comforting presence.
After a few minutes, you start to open up to him, telling him about the struggles and difficulties you've been facing lately. Venti listens attentively, offering words of comfort and encouragement.
"It's okay to cry and let it all out," he says. "But remember that you're strong and capable, and you can get through this."
After you finish talking, Venti takes you to his favorite spot in Mondstadt, a peaceful meadow with a breathtaking view. He brings out his lyre and starts playing a soothing melody, and you feel yourself relaxing and letting go of your worries.
As the sun sets and the stars come out, Venti sets up a small picnic and brings out some of Mondstadt's famous apple cider. You talk about more lighthearted things, and Venti's contagious laughter lifts your spirits even more.
Eventually, it's time to go, but Venti offers to walk you home. As you say your goodbyes, he gives you a warm hug and whispers, "Remember, you're never alone. I'm always here for you."
As you walk back to your home, you feel lighter and more hopeful than before. You realize that sometimes, all it takes is someone to listen and offer a shoulder to cry on, and Venti was there for you when you needed it the most.
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Zhongli
You have been feeling down lately, and your good friend Zhongli suggests taking a walk with you through the streets of Liyue to lift your spirits. As you walk and chat, you suddenly find yourself overcome with emotion and tears begin to stream down your face.
Zhongli immediately notices and comes to your side, asking if you're okay. You try to hold back your tears, but they keep falling. You feel embarrassed, but Zhongli is kind and patient, giving you a reassuring smile and placing a gentle hand on your back.
"Would you like to talk about what's been troubling you?" he asks softly, his voice soothing and calming.
You nod, feeling grateful for his concern. You open up about the struggles you've been facing, the stress and pressure that have been weighing on you. Zhongli listens attentively, his eyes focused on you and his expression empathetic.
"I understand how challenging things can be at times," he says, his voice gentle. "But you don't have to face them alone. I am here for you, and I will do whatever I can to support you."
With those words, you feel a sense of comfort and relief wash over you. Zhongli's words and presence are a balm to your soul, and you realize how lucky you are to have him as a friend.
As the two of you continue your walk, Zhongli offers words of wisdom and encouragement, helping to ease your worries and fears. He even takes you to a quiet teahouse where he orders your favorite tea and pastries, hoping to lift your spirits even more.
As you sit together, enjoying the warm tea and delicious treats, you feel yourself relaxing in Zhongli's company. He makes you feel safe and cared for, and you know that with him by your side, you can face whatever challenges lie ahead.
After your tea, Zhongli walks you back to your home, making sure you're okay before saying goodbye. You thank him for everything he's done for you, feeling grateful and blessed to have such a wonderful friend.
As you watch him walk away, you realize that your tears have stopped and that you feel much better. You know that there will still be challenges ahead, but with Zhongli's support and guidance, you feel more equipped to face them.
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Tartaglia
You've had a long and tiring day, and when you finally get home, you let out all of the pent-up emotions you've been holding back. You start crying uncontrollably, unable to even breathe properly. You feel like you're drowning in your own tears.
Just then, there's a knock on the door. You try to stop crying and wipe away your tears, but it's too late. As you open the door, you see Tartaglia standing there with a concerned look on his face.
"Hey, are you okay?" he asks, stepping inside as soon as you open the door.
You try to answer, but you're still crying too hard to speak. Tartaglia just stands there for a moment, unsure of what to do. But then he takes a deep breath and steps closer to you, placing his hand on your shoulder.
"It's okay," he says softly. "Let it out. I'm here for you."
Tartaglia sits down beside you on the couch and pulls you into a gentle hug, letting you cry on his shoulder. He doesn't say anything, just holds you tightly and strokes your hair.
After a few minutes, your sobs start to quiet down, and Tartaglia gently pulls away from the hug. He hands you a box of tissues and watches as you blow your nose and wipe away your tears.
"Do you want to talk about what's been bothering you?" he asks softly.
You nod, still sniffling a little bit. Tartaglia listens patiently as you tell him about everything that's been weighing on your mind lately, from work stress to personal problems. He doesn't interrupt, just nods and offers the occasional word of encouragement.
After you finish, Tartaglia takes your hand and squeezes it gently. "I'm sorry you're going through all of this," he says. "But you're strong, and you can get through it. And if you ever need someone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on, I'm here for you."
You smile weakly at him, feeling grateful for his support. "Thank you," you say. "I really appreciate it."
Tartaglia stays with you for a little while longer, making you some tea and helping you relax. He even puts on your favorite show and sits with you, laughing at all the funny parts and letting you rest your head on his shoulder.
By the time he leaves, you feel a lot better than you did before. You know that you're not alone, and that you have someone to turn to when things get tough. And you know that Tartaglia will always be there for you, no matter what.
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Itto
You and Itto had become close friends over the past few months since you had first met. He was always there to support you and make you laugh, but today you were feeling particularly down. You had just received some bad news and couldn't hold back your tears. You sat on a bench in the courtyard of the palace, your head in your hands, crying silently.
Itto had been walking by when he saw you, and he immediately knew something was wrong. He approached you quietly, taking a seat beside you on the bench. "What's wrong?" he asked softly, placing a hand on your back.
You looked up at him, tears streaming down your face. "It's just... it's just a lot," you managed to choke out before breaking down into sobs again.
Itto didn't say anything, instead he wrapped his arms around you and pulled you close. He held you tightly, letting you cry until you were ready to speak again.
Once your sobs had subsided, Itto pulled away slightly and wiped away your tears with his thumbs. "You can tell me anything," he said gently.
You took a deep breath and explained what had happened, and Itto listened attentively, nodding understandingly.
"I'm so sorry," he said, squeezing your hand. "That's really tough."
You leaned your head on his shoulder, feeling comforted by his presence. "Thank you," you whispered.
Itto didn't say anything else, but he didn't need to. He continued to hold you, running his hand soothingly over your back. Eventually, you felt calmer and pulled away from him slightly.
"I feel a bit better," you said, giving him a small smile.
Itto smiled back at you. "Good. Do you want to do something to take your mind off things?"
You nodded, grateful for the distraction. Itto took you to one of his favorite spots in the palace gardens, where you spent the rest of the afternoon talking, laughing, and forgetting your worries.
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Gorou
You had been feeling overwhelmed and stressed lately, with various tasks piling up and deadlines approaching. As a result, you found yourself crying uncontrollably in the middle of the bustling streets of Inazuma. People were walking past you, but you didn't care. You just wanted to let it all out.
Suddenly, you felt a gentle hand on your shoulder. You looked up to see Gorou looking at you with a concerned expression.
"Are you okay?" he asked, his voice soft and calming.
You shook your head, still crying. Gorou pulled you into a hug and rubbed soothing circles on your back. He held you for a while, letting you cry and release all your pent-up emotions.
Once you had calmed down a bit, Gorou took your hand and led you to a nearby tea shop. He ordered two cups of hot tea and some snacks, then sat across from you at a small table.
"I'm here for you," he said, his eyes warm and reassuring. "You don't have to go through this alone."
You nodded, grateful for his kindness. Gorou then proceeded to ask you about your problems, and you found yourself opening up to him about everything that had been bothering you.
As you spoke, Gorou listened attentively, offering words of comfort and encouragement. He told you stories of his own struggles and how he had overcome them, inspiring you to keep going.
After a while, you felt a lot better. Gorou's kindness and understanding had lifted a weight off your shoulders. He even gave you some advice on how to handle your workload and suggested some techniques to reduce stress.
"Thank you so much," you said, feeling a genuine smile on your face for the first time in days. "You're such a great friend."
Gorou smiled back, his eyes crinkling at the corners. "Anytime," he said. "Remember, you can always count on me."
As you finished your tea and snacks, Gorou continued to chat with you, making you laugh and forget about your problems for a while. You left the tea shop feeling grateful for his presence in your life, knowing that he would always be there to support you.
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Albedo
You had just received some distressing news and found yourself overwhelmed with emotions. You had managed to make it to Albedo's lab, where you knew you could find some solace in the quiet and serene surroundings.
As you entered the lab, you immediately felt the calm and peaceful atmosphere that Albedo always seemed to emanate. However, before you could even take a few steps forward, you broke down into tears. You tried to compose yourself, but the tears kept flowing, and you couldn't hold back the sobs that racked your body.
Albedo immediately noticed your distress and quickly walked over to you, concern etched on his face. "What's wrong?" he asked softly, his voice laced with worry.
You struggled to speak through the tears, but eventually, you managed to explain what had happened. Albedo listened patiently, his hand resting gently on your shoulder as he tried to comfort you.
Once you had finished, he took a step back, looking at you thoughtfully. "I'm sorry that you're going through this," he said sincerely, "But please know that I'm here for you, and you can always talk to me about anything."
Albedo then guided you to a comfortable armchair and offered you a glass of water. He took a seat beside you and listened as you continued to pour your heart out to him. He offered words of comfort and encouragement, reassuring you that things would get better, and that you were not alone.
As you talked, you began to feel a sense of relief, and the tears slowly started to subside. Albedo's presence had a soothing effect on you, and you found yourself feeling more relaxed and at ease.
After a while, Albedo suggested that you rest for a while, and he helped you to lie down on a nearby couch. He tucked a blanket around you, making sure that you were warm and comfortable.
He then sat down beside you and started to talk softly, telling you stories about his travels and adventures. His voice was soothing, and the gentle lilt of his words helped to calm your mind.
As he talked, you felt yourself drifting off to sleep, the exhaustion of the day finally catching up with you. Albedo noticed your breathing becoming slow and even and knew that you had fallen asleep.
He stayed by your side for a while, watching over you as you slept, and making sure that you were warm and comfortable. Eventually, he got up quietly and left the room, knowing that you were in a peaceful slumber.
When you woke up, you felt more refreshed and at peace than you had in a long time. You knew that you could always count on Albedo's calming presence, and that he would always be there for you whenever you needed him.
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hanaranjada · 1 month
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Hey guys~ I decided to open emotes and badges commissions! This can be for twitch, discord or any other streaming service! 💜
If you or any friend are interested you can check my packages and prices on my carrd or thorugh fiverr!
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Given the contents of this ask I feel the need to say TW for Eating disorders, but I'm sticking to as vague terms as I can while getting the necessary stuff across
I need help writing a fat character who struggles with an eating disorder, specifically bullimia. Both of these experiences (being fat especially) are quite unknown to be so if you could point me in the direction of someone who'd be willing to talk with me at more length that'd be appreciated. I've not gone into much detail cause I think it's a bit too much of a touchy subject to just throw to a stranger without warning, my apologies
Struggling to Write Overweight Character
You'll need to consider hiring a sensitivity reader (or two), and here's why:
1 - Any time you're going to portray a situation that requires a trigger warning, but which you have no personal experience with, there's a huge risk that an uneducated/non-vetted portrayal can be offensive and downright harmful. Sensitivity readers will help you avoid that in a professional capacity.
2 - It's generally accepted now that we compensate people for their emotional labor, and hiring a sensitivity reader (rather than asking someone to help you for free) ensures you're getting quality advice in a professional capacity. You can find sensitivity readers via a Google search. Specific places to look: Salt & Sage Books, Writing Diversely, Firefly Creative Writing, and Fiverr... though there are many other options.
If you want to portray a topic that requires a trigger warning, without personal experience with that topic, and you're unable or unwilling to hire a sensitivity reader, you can certainly try to find someone willing to talk to you for free. However, regardless of whether you're paying for advice or not, you need to do extensive research on your topics ahead of time. Because this isn't about someone else telling you how to write this portrayal, or what you should and shouldn't write. This is about someone looking at your actual writing--or a summary of what you plan to write--and telling you "yes" or "no," usually along with a why.
And, when you want to portray a sensitive topic that you have no personal experience with, it's always worth asking yourself the following questions:
1 - Since I don't have experience with this sensitive situation I want to portray, and since an inaccurate portrayal could be offensive or even harmful, why do I think I'm the best person to write this portrayal?
2 - Does a character or story already exist that tackles this portrayal from an own voices perspective? If so, what do I feel my non-own voices portrayal can add to the dialogue surrounding this topic?
3 - Am I willing and able to do the extensive research necessary to create the least problematic portrayal I'm capable of creating, on my own, before seeking vetting and advice from someone with that experience?
Best wishes on your writing journey!
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ishtea · 3 months
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my first ever emotes by Akeno Arata on fiverr~
they are in fact immaculate and without flaw :3
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c-j-daems-poetry · 3 months
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Hey ya'll, just started my fiverr a couple days ago and my requests are currently open! I am taking requests for things such as poems, world lore and short stories (yes this includes fanfics). Hit me up over on my fiverr!
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mischefous · 11 months
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all my socials | Carrd.co
commissions | Fiverr [O P E N !]
all my OC's | Refsheet.net
species guide 'Greffonic' | DeviantArt Group
shop | Redbubble | Society6
support | Ko-Fi
WARNINGS FOR MY CONTENT! don't like? block and move on.
Whump (but not in a sexual way- BLEGH) (hurt/comfort, wounds, blood, sickness/illness, emotional whump, angst)
candy gore
FURRY ART
slightly suggestive art. Although I don't do full-on NSFW, I do like to draw my characters in tasteful poses with some pretty clothes
What fandoms am I in?
The Legend of Zelda
Linked Universe (tloz AU created by Jojo56830)
Furry Fandom
What do I do?
Digital & Traditional art
2D & 3D animation (for 3D I use SFM (Source filmmaker))
Writing (Fanfictions - I haven't posted anything yet tho) I go by 'GreffonicsHideout' on AO3
LU Whump Art requests are currently closed
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ishouldroll · 5 months
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Dangerous Dangers premieres April 22, 2024. For more information, visit ishouldroll.com.
Dan Spitaliere as Jesse Westcott. Tiff Compton as Ravanor Vraga. Amanda Cotter as Clouseau. Alanya Campbell as Solace-Within-Clay. Lea Lawson as Athena Hellier. Kaya Renwick as everyone and everything else.
Music is "Emotional Cinematic_Medium 1" by Grand_Project on Pixabay. Used under the Pixabay Content Licence.
III logo by JD Kelly. ISR logo by JD Kelly. Dangerous Dangers logo by Kaya Renwick, featuring artwork by OhEmGeeSVG/Etsy. Jesse, Athena, Clous, and Vraga portraits by GregArt/Fiverr. Rachni screenshot by Bioware/EA with alterations by Tiff Compton. Space backgrounds from Unsplash (Guille Pozzi) and Pixabay (dawnydawny, Felix Mittermeier, Geralt, Hans, Pexels, and WikiImages).
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tellywoodtrash · 1 year
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// trigger warning for abuse and panic attacks //
hello TT. I'm so sorry for oversharing but i literally don't know what to do right know.
I'm 18 and my parents are abusive in an physical, mental, emotional, and every other sense.
I'm going to college this year and for years i thought that if i could just move away for college, i would be able to heal away from them. i would finally be free.
but they didn't let me apply to any out-of-state colleges. so now I'm stuck with them till idek how long. i wish i could just rent a tiny appartment or something but i don't have the money. and i can't live in any in state hostels either because they don't accept students who live in the same state.
as a result, my depression and anxiety has gotten so much worse. im having multiple panic attacks a day and i don't know what to do.
i don't know how i will survive anymore torture from them. i don't see a way out for myself. what should I do?
Dearest baby friend,
First offf, sending you biggest and tightest hugs. You are being very brave reaching out to me through your pain.
Crappy parents are just a shitty lottery result, and the worst bit is, you cannot change them. What you can change however, is how you react to them. It will take a lot of work, but train yourself to not hear the shitty things they say to you. It's extreeeemely difficult to grow out of wanting your parents' approval (esp. for us desis) but that's what you've got to do. By now you must have realised that no matter what you do, there's no pleasing them. So fuck it. Do what you think is right (PRUDENTLY, within reason; try not to rock the boat too much) and fuck their opinion. It's just white noise. Stop allowing them to affect your mood. Free yourself from them emotionally, and you'll see a lot of their power over you is diminished.
Is there anyone in the extended family you could reach out to? An aunt/uncle/grandparent etc? Maybe just work on forming a bond with someone like that, an adult whom you can trust to have your wellbeing at heart. Worst situation, you can move out to their place. But that's just in case of emergencies.
Now that you're starting college, I assume you'll have a little more freedom than you did in school, time wise. Try and use that to spend as much time away from your parents, whether it be in the college library, or with friends, etc. Come back home at reasonable times, and then just say you're exhausted and go be in your own space. Try and build a life outside of home and treat this just as a place to come rest your head at night.
Most importantly, you need to start creating an action plan to become financially independent as soon as feasibly possible. The sooner you have your own money, the quicker you can break your parents' control over you. You can move out to PGs or working women's hostels, or whatever. There are a buncha places that will pay you for small online tasks, like fiverr and upwork and stuff. All you need is your computer and an internet connection. If you have skills like graphic design and video editing etc, even better. Do some research into those. Depending on your college major, your professors might be able to help you get some small stuff within the college as well, as a research assistant or something of the sort. If/when you find a professor you form a good bond with, tell them you're interested in participating in projects or whatever, and that they should keep you in mind. These professors will also be able to give you good recommendation letters and connections when you graduate and are looking to move into the job market.
Since you don't have much disposable income rn, I realise it might not be feasible to suggest therapy to you; but please know there are online options that take like, a 1000 - 2000 bucks per session (look up The Mind Clan.) If that's not possible, I'd like you to try doing some self therapeutic reading that might be helpful. Research books written by professionals in the field (for eg Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life by Dr. Susan Forward; and Childhood Disrupted: How Your Biography Becomes Your Biology, and How You Can Heal by Donna Jackson Nakazawa) and absorb their messages and do the exercises if any, to help yourself understand how this relationship has affected both your mental and physical health, identify patterns that you may have built up as defense mechanisms to cope, and how to move forward with healing.
Please know, that you WILL eventually make it out of this situation. Maybe not now, maybe not in the current foreseeable future; but eventually you WILL become financially and emotionally independent from your parents and will be able to do as you wish. It's just about hanging in there a little longer. Use this time to prepare yourself to be self sufficient in the real world, and freedom shall come sooner than later.
Please take care of yourself in the meantime. I love you lots and am rooting for you.
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Astrology Observations #22
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🥭I’ve noticed that those with a Venus-Jupiter conjunction in the 11th house just always have opportunities fall into their lap. Or they get opportunities through their friends. Very very lucky people.
🥭I feel like Libra placements struggle with setting boundaries. (As someone with several libra placements, I personally struggle with this too sometimes😩😩)
🥭Men who have Pisces and Libra placements come off as really nonchalant.
🥭Those who have their sun in the 12th house, tend to not really care about their birthday and just want the day to be over.
🥭Pisces/12h placements usually are susceptible to some sort of addiction. Not necessarily really serious ones, but it’s usually some sort of tame substance or alcohol.
🥭People who have Pisces and Libra placements tend to be conventionally attractive.
🥭Having benefics in the 5th house of your solar return chart can indicate getting into a relationship.
🥭Having your Moon square Pluto can indicate having really unstable and volatile emotions.
🥭Having your Sun square Chiron can indicate having an unsupportive father.
🥭A Moon-Chiron conjunction in the 3rd house can indicate a lot of emotional wounds regarding your siblings and cousins.
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