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extrashortshorts · 3 months

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I Miss crocodile booby presence 😞

Don't worry

🩷Happy ViolentTits day🩷

#shrunked them #one piece #cross guild polycule #cross guild #yeah..#that's one way to say that you miss him #great one tho #2 of the 2 themed drawings #sir crocodile #buggy the clown #dracule mihawk #i keep forgetting to tag right

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andthebeanstalk · 1 year

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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

#hlep #original #mental health #my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need.#the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it #i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support #and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist.#the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28!#a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents.#they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of #huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the #longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong.#and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives.#you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead?#or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of.#no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow.#i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel #i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong.#just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop

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cowardlykrow · 2 months

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Stop light shenanigans

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legally-allowed-to-slime · 3 months

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slightly related, pearl and gem discussing gem’s morals

#gem saying “i have great morals” and immediately punching pearl was top tier comedic timing btw #docm77 #pearlescentmoon #geminitay #hermittwt #hermitblr #hermitcraft #hermitcraft smp #hermitcraft season 10 #hermitcraft s10 #hc10 #shinyduo #shiny duo #< ig #this one’s more to prove doc’s point tho

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crandairy-juice · 18 days

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i like to imagine they both are Extremely Gesticulating whenever theyre talking. vaguely inspired by some floralmarsupial davekat art i love

#homestuck #homestuck art #crandairy art #dave strider #karkat vantas #davekat #trying out another art style #some of these hands turned out great! the Other Ones tho…

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jeena-says-hi · 10 months

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Don’t mind me, just losing my mind over the emotional robot arm imagery

#I already love when characters get robot limbs #but THIS ONE HAS EMOTION TO IT #LIKE SOOO MUCHH #AHHH I LOVE IT #so much focus was on the arm #like Star Wars honestly missed out with Anakin #he’s got a robot arm but was almost never mentioned #there was that scene with Luke and Vader in return of the Jedi tho #that was great #funny #meme #funny meme #nimona #ballister x ambrosius #ballister boldheart #ambrosius goldenloin #goldenheart #over 1k

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artilite · 28 days

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some sort of siffering for @drabdoodler ;;; how is he moving... woah!!

would appreciate it if this wasn't used for pfps for the time being, thank you! <3 (this may change in the future haha)

#in stars and time #isat #isat siffrin #isat fanart #siffrin #siffrin fanart #in stars and time siffrin #artilite #artilite art #can you believe this is my FIRST EVER isat fanart.#i sure can't #it's been sitting in my drafts for forever #he's great fun to animate tho #drawn before i forced him thru the horrors....#i was so clueless...#that one hair bothers me but it's okay... (coping)

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ineed-to-sleep · 29 days

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Grabbed a couple templates and drew my touchstarved mc again heehee

Relationship chart template that I used is here <3

Intro and flower templates are from the official rss site

#touchstarved #touchstarved mc #touchstarved game #touchstarved template #that was a great style study tbh #stressed myself out tho jfjfjcjjc I mean the style study itself was already a challenge but then #I decided to redesign her outfit halfway through #and ended up having to redo almost the entire thing jdjfkckjc 🫠#I've had the wips for this sitting in my folders since last week #but I'm done w it I'm DONE I'm moving on #I've learned some good stuff tho. especially abt linework #oc.emma #also the chibi version of her is based on that image. yk the one #the little. mspaint drawing #of the little guy doing that pose #I need to find it again at some point #for now I'm gonna 💤 gnight <3 #sleepyscribble

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turtleblogatlast · 3 months

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Headcanon that all of the boys think someone else is Splinter’s favorite son.

Raph thinks it’s Leo, Leo thinks it’s Donnie, Donnie thinks it’s Mikey, and Mikey thinks it’s Raph.

They’re all bothered by this to different degrees and in different ways, some much less/more so than others, but they’re all wrong, Splinter does not have a favorite son, and never has. And when he tells them this, horrified they even thought otherwise and angry at himself for not being clearer with his love, it clears up some residual tension they didn’t even realize was there.

(Leo still thinks he’s the least favorite though.)

#rottmnt #rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles #rottmnt headcanons #this isn’t too serious lmao #splinter: I don’t have a favorite son #leo: makes sense. raph donnie and mikey are all equally great #leo: second place for me tho lol a step up from fourth hell yeah look at me go 😎#splinter: …#leo winning so many lair games because the real victory he wanted was one he’d never get rip

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ruushes · 3 months

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my son nox who has every disease

#shockingly the answer to ‘what would happen if i drank all the hag potions’ is ‘15 discrete curses’#tho realistically i guess they’d only get down one or two before someone started slapping bottles out of their hands #nox #my ocs #bg3 #re-replay of act 1 is going great I feel like I’ve made them worse every time

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sneakertin · 5 months

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this is an embarrassingly low effort thing but i just needed to get it out of my sistem. so

what book do you think they're reading?

#yes it is traced #i have nothing against other artists tracing. it's great go for it #but when i trace it feels like a sin even tho i know there's nothing wrong about it #i don't ever do it but this is a one time thing only #whyy am i even making excuses. don't listen to me #anyway #tin's art tag #doctor who #dw spoilers #doctor who spoilers #artists on tumblr #dw #dr who #fourteenth doctor #fifteenth doctor #dw fanart

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bunnygirllover45 · 4 months

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Some old seth drawings. Tbh I only like the first one. tw: screamer under the cut.

sethfield.

#yandere oc #yandere boy #yandere male #original art #original character #he's my most serious character #and is the one I meme the most #I literally made him a minecraft skin #sethfield is great tho

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welcometogrouchland · 4 months

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I understand that literature nerd Jason Todd is kind of overblown in fanon compared to it's actual presence in canon (a few issues during his pre (and post?)crisis Robin tenure that highlight it) BUT consider that I think it's hilarious if the unhinged gun toting criminal has strong opinions on poetry