#ikigai💕

[honeytonedhottie]

resources⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🗒️💕

to save for later and come back to, just sharing some resources that i use a lot and hopefully it could be helpful to u as well…💬🎀

FROM YOUTUBE ;

victoria's secret angel makeup routine (for black girls)

six easy hairstyles for school

inner work essentials

this resource has been rly rly helpful for me on my healing journey and its rly rich and in depth about how to go about ur inner work so i highly highly recommend it to anyone (QUICK PSA : a lot of these videos are about masculinity so if ur a girl like me its still a rly helpful resource and u could still use it, but if ur a boy it could help u too)…💬🎀

victoria's secret model workouts

FROM TUMBLR ;

you need to fix ur attention span

how to embrace being alone

how to be a whole new student this year

PDF beauty books

PDF BOOKS ;

How to Own Your Own Mind

Body Language Handbook: How to Read Everyone’s Hidden Thoughts and Intentions

How to Analyze People - Dark Secrets to Analyze and Influence Anyone Using Body Language

The Laws of Human Nature

Emily Post’s Etiquette, 18th Edition

The Amy Vanderbilt Complete Book of Etiquette: 50th Anniversary Edition

Secrets of the Millionaire Mind: Mastering the Inner Game of Wealth

The Million Dollar Mind

Stop Acting Rich: ...And Start Living Like A Real Millionaire

Thinking, Fast and Slow

Golden Rules

Ikigai: the Japanese secret to a long and happy life

Persuasion Tactics: Covert Psychology Strategies to Influence, Persuade, & Get Your Way (Without Manipulation)

Declutter Your Mind: How to Stop Worrying, Relieve Anxiety, and Eliminate Negative Thinking

Rewire Your Anxious Brain: How to Use the Neuroscience of Fear to End Anxiety, Panic, and Worry

Love Me, Don’t Leave Me: Overcoming Fear of Abandonment and Building Lasting, Loving Relationships

Boundaries: When To Say Yes, How to Say No

Give and Take: A Revolutionary Approach to Success

Do the Work!

[nothoughtsonlytrance]

Okay…I know this is a really random concept and I dunno if this hasn’t been thought of before, but what if the phandom collectively made a fangame for Dan and Phil to play on their channel as a gift to them! (I know, sounds like a long stretch lol😅) what do you guys think about this! (This came to me while I was making some of my music and it just gave off the vibes of something that would be in a Dan and Phil fangame lol 😂)

For anyone wondering, this is the song I was making when I came up the idea. It’s called Ikigai, which is a Japanese concept referring to something that gives a person a sense of purpose or a reason for living. 💕😊

[gwyns]

✨️Let's spread some love and appreciation!✨️

If you got this, it means someone loves your blog! ❤️

Tag 5 mutuals and say what you like about them, their art, fanfiction, positivity, sense of humor... Whatever it is that you find amazing about them!

you're so sweet anon!!! thank you for sending this <3

@nestastits your opinions are always so correct and i love seeing them on my dash 💖

@lady-nestas FELLOW BRIAR OBSESSER!!!! ugh i love how we love briar. we're fr her fanclub. also you have amazing taste in shipping her and tamlin

@toolsofmyenemy I LOOOOOVE YOUR POSTS. i'm always so happy when i see you on my dash!!! another super correct opinion haver <3

@oristian your theories give me life honestly. it's always so fun when i go through your blog to catch up on anything i may have missed!! 💕

@yugen-ikigai you're literally so so SO sweet and i think about the lovely conversations we've had all the time 💖✨ also i'm (im)patiently waiting for that book you said i'd like to release 👀

and of course, i want to send some overall appreciation to all of my mutuals and followers! you're all so loved and cherished and valued not only in the fandom, but in life as a whole. please don't ever forget that 💗💗💗

[hiei-is-my-love-language]

Slowly but surely commissioning artwork for each chapter 🥹

This one by the lovely @kapane-luyeshu 💕

[veephoenix]

Writings' playlists | 🎶

Find below a list of songs that have inspired some of my works or that I tend to listen to while writing certain scenes/chapters :) Be aware that my music taste is all over the place ✌🏼

ೃ⁀➷ The Inevitability of Love at Second Sight

Given that this fic covers a timespan of nearly thirty years (starting with Noah and Lia being kids), there are some songs that are very chapter/scene specific. For instance, I used to listen to "Feeling a Moment" quite often when I was writing the lake scenes with Noah and Lia, "Sweet Disposition" for their first kiss 💕 and "I'd Come For You" when Lia is in the hospital and she finally wakes up and finds Noah waiting for her 💔 I have a lot of specific songs for certain scenes from Zutto, but I can't say yet, otherwise I'll be spoiling the story 👀

༯ Ikigai - Kids in Love by Mayday Parade - Live & Learn by The Cardigans - No Freedom by Dido - Sweet Disposition by The Temper Trap - Ordinary Love by U2 - Renegades by X Ambassadors - 10 Feet Down by NF (Feat. Ruelle) - Fly by Sleeping with Sirens - Edge of Seventeen by Stevie Nicks - Right Girl by The Maine - Walking Disaster by Sum 41 - Pieces by Sum 41 - Feeling a Moment by Feeder - Don't Cry by Guns N' Roses

༯ Koi No Yokan - January Rain by PVRIS - Just Pretend by Bad Omens - If You Only Knew by Shinedown - Periscope by Papa Roach (Feat. Skylar Grey) - Bones by Young Guns - La Di Die by Nessa Barrett (Feat. Jxden) - You and I by PVRIS - Drown (Acoustic) by Bring Me The Horizon - Save a Place by 1969 - Hurts Like Hell by Fleurie - Have We Lost by Flyleaf - Let You Down by NF - I'd Come For You by Nickelback

༯ Zutto - Hysteria by Def Leppard - Feel Like Home by Papa Roach - Not Afraid Anymore by Halsey - Déjà Vu by Sleeping With Sirens - I'd Do Anything for Love by Meat Loaf - Separate by PVRIS - Affection by Cigarettes After Sex - Take Me Dancing by The Maine - Where the Streets Have No Name by U2

ೃ⁀➷ The Unmaking of a Warrior

I mostly listen to samurai meditation music from Youtube, but these are a few songs that I found myself playing on repeat while writing certain scenes for this fic:

- Samurai/Devotion - For Honor Soundtrack - Bushido by Derek Fiechter - Bushido Beats - Dear God by Lawless - Trojan Horses by Agnes Obel - The Death of Peace of Mind (Nightcore) by Bad Omens - Rain by Sleep Token - The Summoning by Sleep Token - Endless War by Within Temptation - And the World was Gone by Snow Ghosts

ೃ⁀➷ Into the Abyss of Bad Habits

This entire fic is so smutty that I listen to a lot of rock from the past century. Is it just me or are those songs perfect for wild dirty sex?

- Baby Said by Måneskin - Welcome to the Jungle by Guns N' Roses - Bad Habits by Ed Sheeran (Feat. Bring Me the Horizon) - Blood in the Cut by K. Flay - Bad Decisions by Bad Omens - Beautiful is Boring by Bones UK - Going to Hell by The Pretty Reckless - Babydoll by Ari Abdul - Cry Baby by The Neighbourhood - Gasoline by Måneskin - Shameless by Camila Cabello - You Shook Me All Night Long by AC/DC - Pour Some Sugar on Me by Def Leppard - Passion Rules the Game by Scorpions - Cherry Pie by Warrant - Bad Reputation by Joan Jett - Rotten by The Naked and The Famous

ೃ⁀➷ The Sweetness of Love & Pain

This fic is entirely inspired by TDOPM album by Bad Omens. As I progress on the writing, I'll update this section.

[admiringlove]

diff anon but literally ur writing used to be rlly diff back in the day, and shorter too!! esp i remember u loved akaashi sm and ur first longfic was for him 🥹 but if we’re bffr i always always always loved the one abt the sky more than ikigai!!!! idk smth abt that other one was sm more realistic and insane that i would reread it many times! anyway, much love 💕

STOP HOW DO YOU GUYS HAVE SUCH GOOD MEMORY I’M SO FLATTERED AND EMBARRASSED I’M LITERALLY BLUSHING RN 😭🙏🏻

oh oh the one you’re talking about is called “the sky is the same” and lowkey it is one of my favorites from that time too! tysm for saying those nice things bro that made my day ☹️☹️☹️

[romacharm]

just wanted to tell you I just finished your wonderful wonderful walking with you! it’s 4am so I might not be reading fully focused but I’ll reread it soon, and I’m glad I got to read it! your writing is so lovely and I’m also fond of your characterization and just how the characters (esp your OCs! the whole band!) come to life. I’ll be sure to check out your IKIGAI playlist as well! thank you for writing this fic 💕

omg hiii anon!!! thank you so much i'm so glad you enjoyed the fic!! thank you so much for leaving such a lovely message <3

i had soooo much fun writing the band, so it means a lot to me that you liked the characters! they're all so dear to me 🥺 thank you for checking out the ikigai playlist! i'm kind of a music nerd, so i love the chords progressions that you see more in j-rock and j-pop than in western music. i listened to that playlist so many times while writing lol.

thank you again for leaving such a lovely message!! my heart is so full 💕

[hiei-is-my-love-language]

Rare non-YYH reblog for the super talented artist who’s helping me bring the Ikigai lovers to life!! 💕

I am holding an art raffle on my Twitter! 🌸

You need a Twitter account to join but if you're interested go check it out! There's extra prizes if I hit my next milestones during the duration of the raffle so there might be more than one winner!

[thepolymathsblog]

🧡💛💚Bright October vibes☀️❤ #ikigai💕 #positivevibesonly🌈 #mobilephotography #samsungnote10lite #lightroomedits #adobelightroom #basicediting #mobilephotographyindia #dailyattempts #brightandsunny #beautifuldays #octobervibes #warm #beautiful #aesthetic #peaceful #calming #positive 💓 #happiness💕 #simplepleasures❤️ #instagood #bloggersofinstagram #goa💚 #beautifulgoa😍 #randomphotography #bekind😇 #staysafe😷 #stayhappy😊 #keeploving💖 #keepgoing💕 https://www.instagram.com/p/CVNFWwHDEG7/?utm_medium=tumblr

[inasotta]

DAY 1 of 2022💕 Our Ikigai, May the coming 365 days be filled with your overflowing happiness and laughter. We are blessed and excited to see you grow and watch you learn everyday. We love you beyond words anak. You are God's gift and our answered prayer💕 #theSotvintas #letterstoAmelí #Amelísfirstnewyear https://www.instagram.com/p/CYLxLUMp7JQAAvT5DZMgpUdpK43CyMIJR_Svls0/?utm_medium=tumblr

[biggirlcertified]

Betta choose the right one or go pick the kiddies 🆙 - Int’l Players Club (I Choose You) UGK FT. @Outkast 💙✨ Hey Family! HAPPY NEW YEAR 🥳🎆 I hope you all had a safe and smashing weekend! I gave a try at one of my fav girlies on insta 💕 @iamkaylabeauty starry eyed makeup lewk she recently posted & I’m obsessed 🤩 I mean it didn’t come out exactly like hers but I gave it my own variation that required a lot less rhinestones 😅 I ended up loving it all the same in the end. I also was going for more of a natural glam lewk if that makes sense….All the drama is there ✨ but it took minimal effort 🤗 keeping it easy for beginners. No I’m not a professional makeup artist but I do really enjoy recreating looks that I find inspiration from them to share with you all! I’ve been studying up on life and purpose and those things and I recently discoverer this is definitely a significant part of my #ikigai in this lifetime 🥰 🫶🏿so I’ll be making this a series on my page 👉🏿 just check on the INSPO✨ tab if your needing some inspiration for your next lewk as well. Peace & Blessings B🐝 🏷️ #beesbeautyroom #bestylez216 #vasycopine #biggirlcertified #starryeyed #newyearsmakeuplook #braidedhairstylesforblackwomen #braidedupdo #clevelandhairstylist #prettywheniwakeup #makeupinspo #trndsttr #stillmightslideonaopp 🧿#clevelandhairdoctor #healthyhairspecialist #nolash #nolashes #nolashmakeuplook #nolashesmakeup #nolashlook #badbitchatbreakfast #ichooseyou #plusbeauty #influencher #influencer #explorepage #iamkaylabeauty (at Cleveland, Ohio) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cm7wYSquTpd/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[rec-me-bts]

PEOPLE I'D LIKE TO GET TO KNOW BETTER

tagged by @btsmosphere thank you 💕

LAST SONG → shine on me by clngr

FAV COLOUR → red and pastel pink… but it rlly depends on the object in question

CURRENTLY WATCHING → how transposons work

SPICY/SWEET/SAVOURY → sweet and savoury. can’t do spice. at all.

RELATIONSHIP STATUS → idk how to approach him

CURRENT OBSESSION → i’m guessing obsession in kpop world and i’m obsessed w enhypen for a while now, they’re too good; also obsessed w ikigai, started reading it recently.

idk lots ppl on btstumblr anymore so anyone who sees this is free to participate 🩵

NINE PEOPLE I'D LIKE TO GET TO KNOW BETTER

tagged by @sabiekay @taegularities & @oddinary4bts 💜💜

LAST SONG -> The Wishing Tree by Megan Dixon Hood (the harmonieees😍)

FAV COLOUR -> Purple! But the colour I wear most is green

CURRENTLY WATCHING -> hear me out🤣there's this show called Saving Lives at Sea about British lifeboat rescues and I think I'm the only person in the world to be obsessed with it🤣but there's a new series! other than that I'm just rewatching stuff like Merlin and Buffy

SPICY/SWEET/SAVOURY -> savoury probs, but sweet is very close. I'm addicted to chocolate but literally allergic to capsaicin so I can't do spice😔

RELATIONSHIP STATUS -> Long term relationship <3

CURRENT OBSESSION -> Supercharged (obviously, I had to be obsessed to get that monster of a fic finished haha), Skz - especially @written-in-flowers' new fic👀 and Spike from btvs sjhgfkjhfg help me

tagging umm (sorry if you've been tagged already!) @casuallyimagining @written-in-flowers @bangtanintotheroom @moni-logues @voiceswithoutlips @ressjeon @mlkydrms @rec-me-bts 💜

[miluna3]

EL IKIGAI

Según los japoneses, todo el mundo tiene un ikigai, un motivo para existir. Algunos lo han encontrado y son conscientes de su ikigai, otros lo llevan dentro, pero todavía lo están buscando. Este es uno de los secretos para una vida larga, joven y feliz como la que llevan los habitantes de Okinawa, la isla con la población más longeva del mundo.

10 LEYES DEL IKIGAI

1. Mantente siempre activo, nunca te retires.

Quien abandona las cosas que ama y sabe hacer, pierde el sentido de su vida. Por eso, incluso después de haber terminado la vida laboral «oficial», es importante seguir haciendo cosas de valor, avanzando, aportando belleza o utilidad a los demás, ayudando y dando forma a nuestro pequeño mundo.

2. Tómatelo con calma.

Las prisas son inversamente proporcionales a la calidad de vida. Como dice un viejo proverbio: «Caminando despacio se llega lejos». Cuando dejamos atrás las urgencias, el tiempo y la vida adquieren un nuevo significado.

3. No comas hasta llenarte.

También en la alimentación para una vida larga, «menos es más». Según la ley del 80%, para preser\rar la salud mucho tiempo, en lugar de atiborrarse hay que comer un poco menos del hambre que tenemos.

4. Rodéate de buenos amigos.

Son el mejor elixir para disolver las preocupaciones con una buena charla, contar y escuchar anécdotas que aligeren la existencia, pedir consejo, divertirnos juntos, compartir, soñar... En suma, vivir.

5. Ponte en forma para tu próximo cumpleaños.

El agua se mueve, fluye fresca y no se estanca. Del mismo modo, tu vehículo para la vida necesita un poco de mantenimiento diario para que pueda durar muchos años. Además, el ejercicio segrega las hormonas de la felicidad.

6. Sonríe.

Una actitud afable hace amigos y relaja a la propia persona. Está bien darse cuenta de las cosas que están mal, pero no hay que olvidar el privilegio de estar aquí y ahora en este mundo lleno de posibilidades.

7. Reconecta con la naturaleza.

Aunque la mayoría de seres humanos vivan en ciudades, estamos hechos para fundirnos con la naturaleza. Necesitamos regularmente volver a ella para cargar las pilas del alma.

8. Da las gracias.

A tus antepasados, a la naturaleza que te provee aire y alimento, a tus compañeros de vida, a todo lo que ilumina tu día a día y te hace sentir dichoso de estar vivo. Dedica un momento del día a dar las gracias y aumentarás tu caudal de felicidad.

9. Vive el momento.

Deja de lamentarte por el pasado y de temer el futuro. Todo lo que tienes es el día de hoy. Dale el mejor uso posible para que merezca ser recordado.

10. Sigue tu ikigai.

Dentro de ti hay una pasión, un talento único que da sentido a tus días y te empuja a dar lo mejor de ti mismo hasta el final. Si no lo has encontrado aún, como decía Viktor Frankl, tu próxima misión será encontrarlo.💕

[mellowcoffeebread-blog]

Birds , no weekends ,no working days, they know their #ikigai 💕🎉🙂💫🤘🍁 https://www.instagram.com/p/CafMJQSvBeirTFN1aYYQiFLv3veeEBsV-c9acI0/?utm_medium=tumblr

[thepolymathsblog]

❤Love thy nature! Happy Valentines day!❤ #keeploving💖 also, the feed needed some red😁.. #aesthetics #dailyattempts #ikigai💕 #areasonforbeing #flowers #redlove #valentineday #mobilephotography_nature #adobelightroom #basicediting #basicandbeautiful #flowerstagram #lightroomedits #moodyedits #instagood #igersgoa #bloggersofgoa #bloggersofinstagram #dailymotivation #likesforlikesalways #followforfollowback #instagramgrowth #simplepleasures❤️ #photographysimplified #bekind😇 #staysafe😷 #stayhappy😊 #keepgoing💕 https://www.instagram.com/p/CZ9faRMDvJ5/?utm_medium=tumblr

[thepolymathsblog]

Oh, the feels in this picture..❤⛅️🍁😇💖 #ikigai💕 #areasonforbeing #dailyattempts #mobilephotography #samsungnote10lite #adobelightroom #photooftheday #instagood #nature #basicediting #lightroomedits #leaves🍁 #wilderness #goa💚 #positivevibesonly🌈 #happiness😍 #mobilephotography_nature #moodstagram #peaceful #calmingvibes #aesthetic #naturephotography #peaceofmind✌ #likesforlikesalways #followforfollowback #bekind😇 #staysafe😷 #stayhappy😊 #keeploving💖 #keepgoing💕 https://www.instagram.com/p/CZ8y_Ykjph4/?utm_medium=tumblr