#female seperatism

[mikasasrippedtoenail]

Do not let men gaslight you into thinking that the reason women live longer than men is because we are cowards, prudes, rule followers etc. The female biology is an intricate expression of the evolution's magnum opus. We outlive men because of our far better immune systems. We mould lives within our wombs and nurture love. We live longer because the world would collapse without us.

[sandwichsugarbong]

Radfems/TERFs always seem to think that whenever someone uses terms like 'a person with a uterus,' that person is almost always exclusively talking about cis women and is trying to erase them somehow. They always seem to think it's about cis women. What they don't realize is that these terms aren't used to try to erase women or reduce them to whatever. Blah, blah. It's used to refer to ANYONE WHO HAS A UTERUS, not just cis women exclusively. That includes trans men who haven't had a hysterectomy or AFAB enbies who also haven't had a hysterectomy. And it excludes any transmasc/AFAB enby/cis women who don't have a uterus due to various reasons. Not every single thing is about cis women; they're not the center of the universe.

On a side note, if you say shit like 'Wombyn' unironically, you have no business claiming that saying 'a person with a uterus' reduces women to their biological organs, because you're doing exactly that; you're putting 'womb' to define women, basically reducing them to their biological organs.

Radical feminists never fail to be hypocritical and contradict themselves.

[rad-polls]

Asked by the same anon from yesterday's last poll

[vexingwoman]

The rise in attention to the South Korean 4B movement these last couple days is so thrilling. I see so many women talking about it on tiktok, entire comment sections flooding with “4B movement now” whenever a woman complains about her shitty moid of a partner, coupled with detailed chroniclings of the ever-decaying state of the male loneliness epidemic.

[butch-reidentified]

what he says: "there's a male loneliness epidemic"

what I hear: "there's a 'increasing numbers of women and girls setting boundaries and making it harder for me to find a victim companion' epidemic"

[un-mothered]

A lot of women need to stop confiding in their male partners about past trauma or SA because some of these men get off on that and will try to exploit it to be your savior, or use it as ammo to hurt you emotionally.

[redditreceipts]

there should be an extension to every social media site that automatically blocks every male so you never have to read their comments, see their posts or be reminded or their existence while using the platform

[wordwovencackle]

My mom's got cancer (her treatment will ensure the tumours more or less remain in stasis - she's stable and okay) and she meets many women in the similar positions.

She met a woman. Bit older than herself and with a more aggressive type of cancer. They chatted and she told my mom about her husband and two adult sons who do nothing for her.

She still does all the domestic labour and grocery shopping. She still has to cook. If she comes home from her cancer treatment and is too ill and tired to cook, she ends up eating leftover bread. They won't even heat soup for her.

And she talked to my mom, all worried. Because her doctor told her to eat healthier, and she doesn't know how to manage that on top of everything else.

And this is such a common story. In practice, those marriage vows are for the wives only.

[autismhotpot]

I DONt KNOW WHO NEEDS TO FUCKINg HEAR THIS

BUT JOAN OF ARC HAS NEVER BEEN AND NEVER WILL BE NON-BINARY

SHES THE OPTIMUS PRIME OF THE FEMALE CLASS, DONT YOU FUCKING DARE TAKE AWAY OUR ONE AND ONLY TRUE PROPHET

[mikasasrippedtoenail]

Having sex with men is a biohazard, pass it on.

[kittycomrad]

I might have said some questionable things online but at least I didn't believe men crying about their "abusive" partners and didn't fall for their darvo tactics.

Most m*n you see online, besides having victim complex and trying to take away the voices of female victims, don't actually face abuse but rather complain about how it's great injustice that their exes didn't coddle them enough. A m*n would be calling his ex "abusive and manipulative" only for some dumb libfem to add fuel to the fire n call a woman she doesn't know "narcissistic and controlling gf". And then you find out that the "AbUsive" gf had been groomed, raped and exploited for years before she finally snapped. I don't know about y'all but I would never believe when my oppressors would claim to be victimized. I don't believe m*n, good luck to y'all tho.

[vexingwoman]

[lesbionia]

The preservation of male sexual access to women is at the heart of racist and sexist movements, presently and throughout history. I am critical of anything that encourages women to "evaluate" or dissolve their sexual boundaries and anything that forces women to be accessible to males.

[normalfem]

Declining birthrates is a beautiful thing. I love birth control and abortion and separatism 💙

[un-mothered]

Woman: glances at female friend stoicly

Man: She's sooo jealous, sooo mad, hates her sooo much

Men propagate the idea that all women hate each other because if women are "competing" with each other for men who ain't shit, they aren't collaborating, cooperating and building community with fellow women to give themselves a safety net from men.

Is it any coincidence that this same idea of women being jealous of other women is pushed by passport bros and older men seeking much younger women? Two situations in which predatory men are trying to gain access to vulnerable women?

If they can convince women that other women are jealous and hateful of them, they can isolate those women and prop themselves up as the "prize".

[shadycomputerpolice]

If you are straight, how do you cope with a desire for relationships?

My seperatist beliefs aside, the idea that humans will all find romantic love as long as we are open to it is delusional fairytale thinking. Even if all men and all women were good people, time, location, language, physical attraction and compatibility would still be barriers to finding love.

Think about it, the number of people we meet physically and virtually is limited

Of those people we meet, how many of them will we have meaningful interactions with?

Of those we have meaningful interactions with, how many will we like?

Of those we like, how many will like us back?

Of those that like us back, how many will we love?

Of those we love, how many will love us back?

Of those that love us, how many of them are we compatible with enough to develop a relationship with?

The above scenario would still apply in the heterosexual utopia that reformist hope to achieve.

Now in our current reality, we know most men are trash: if they are not rapist, porn watching scum, they make excuses for their rapist, porn watching scum brethen. As a heterosexual woman with basic self respect that people call "high standards", the number of potentially romantic partners is very low already, then add the natural elimination that happens even in the ideal situation then do the calculation.

As a straight seperatist, I "deal" with my desire for love and companionship by simply understanding that humans cannot control whether they find love. Before I accepted that men are a global menace and men are trash not just the ones I had the misfortune of interacting with, I had accepted that finding true love is about luck, pure dumb luck. The only thing you can do is to be a good person, live your life and have a robust social life to meet people who might like and hopefully they like you back and you both are compatible enough to form a loving relationship.

Romance should not be a life goal for anybody because you have no control over your ability to find love.

Listen as adults, we all need to understand and accept, there is a price to pay for the life we want. Living a life of freedom and self respect has a cost and living a life with "romance" has a cost. Whatever decision you make, you have to be willing to pay the price.