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Understanding and Supporting Friends with Mental Health Challenges

When you see a storm brewing, you usually want to take cover and avoid being caught in it. Watching someone struggle with depression and anxiety, or other mental health issues, is like watching the storm brewing.  When someone you care about is struggling with their mental health, it’s natural to want to help. But many people feel unsure about what to say or how to act. The truth is, you don’t need to have all the answers—you need to show up with compassion, patience, and an open mind. Here are some ways you can support a friend, partner, family member, or colleague who’s going through a tough time mentally.

1. Listen Without Trying to “Fix” It

It’s easy to fall into a pattern of trying to fix the issues of others, but one of the most powerful things you can do is simply listen. I am a perfect example of a fixer.  It’s sad because I learned years ago as a therapist that I couldn’t fix anyone who sat in front of me, but it’s harder when it’s family or friends. 

The first helpful action is to let them talk without jumping in with solutions or advice. Mental health challenges often aren’t problems that can be fixed overnight, and trying to offer a quick fix can unintentionally make someone feel misunderstood or dismissed. They need time to identify the problems and issues, decide on options to manage them, and develop a plan moving forward.

It’s easy to tell them what you think they should do. Instead, try saying:

“I’m here for you.”

“That sounds really hard—do you want to talk about it?”

“I don’t have all the answers, but I care and I’m listening.”

These simple phrases can go a long way in helping someone feel heard and supported. They may need to process information to understand how to help themselves.  Giving them the space to just say things out loud can help them find a better path. With help and support, people can find what works for them.

2. Be Patient

Mental health journeys aren’t the same for everyone. Depending on the issue, journeys can take months or years to find the best options for treatment.  There are good days and bad days, and sometimes it stretches to months and years.  There will be ups and downs, and definitely times when you will want to give up. Your loved one might cancel plans, be less responsive, or seem distant. Try not to take it personally. They are struggling, and no matter what they say, they need your support, even from a distance. Being patient means accepting where they are, without pressure or judgment. Celebrate small victories, and gently remind them that you’re there, even when they’re quiet.

3. Educate Yourself

If you’re not familiar with what they’re experiencing—whether it’s anxiety, depression, PTSD, bipolar disorder, or something else—take the time to learn. There are countless reputable resources online that can help you understand symptoms, treatment options, and what daily life might feel like for them. This not only helps you understand more deeply but also shows that you care enough to learn.

If you need support, there are local and online groups that will put you in touch with others going through similar events. Don’t underestimate the stress that you will be under when you are trying to help, so make sure you get help and support if you need it. 

4. Encourage Professional Help—Gently

Even if you are trying and doing your best to help, you can’t replace the role of a mental health professional.  Sometimes your loved one may need more support than you can give, and that is not a reflection on you. It’s just reality. If they’re open to it, gently encourage them to talk to a therapist, counselor, or doctor. Make the argument that if they had the flu or high blood pressure, they would go to the doctor.

Avoid making it sound like they’re broken or need to be “fixed.” Instead, you might say:

“Have you ever thought about talking to someone? I’d be happy to help you find someone if you want.”

If they’re not ready, don’t push. Just keep the door open for future conversations.

5. Support Them in Practical Ways

Mental health struggles can make everyday tasks feel overwhelming. Offering practical support can be incredibly meaningful. You might:

Offer to go with them to a doctor’s appointment.

Bring over a meal or help with groceries.

Check in regularly with a text or call.

Invite them out for a walk or coffee—even if they decline, the offer matters.

Small gestures can remind them that they’re not alone. Just be careful.  The idea is to be supportive, not to make them dependent on you.  It can be a fine line.

6. Take Care of Yourself, Too

Supporting someone with mental health struggles can be emotionally draining. It’s okay to set boundaries and protect your own well-being. You can’t pour from an empty cup. Make sure you’re also getting support if you need it—whether from friends, a therapist, or support groups for loved ones of people with mental illness. Make good financial and emotional decisions, and set good boundaries.  They need support, but don’t sacrifice your happiness to try to help them. It won’t help them, or you.

Final Thoughts

You don’t need to be perfect or have all the right words to make a difference. Just showing up consistently, listening with kindness, and offering support in thoughtful ways can mean the world to someone who’s struggling. Mental health challenges can feel incredibly lonely, but knowing someone cares, and isn’t going anywhere, can be a lifeline. You can help someone find happiness, but don’t lose your happiness in the process.  It can be part of being happy, for life.

Source: Understanding and Supporting Friends with Mental Health Challenges

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Btw if you're a person who is in school or at work, you are not a NEET. NEET literally stands for "not (in) education, employment, (or) training" which means kids on here who call themselves "NEETS" who still go to school? No tf you're not. Me being a NEET isn't a funny lil word trend, it's my actual life due to mental and physical disabilities, health issues, and complete lack of a support system that will ever help me return to both education and work.

You don't WANT to be a NEET, it happens TO YOU

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03–01–2024, Wednesday

my chem exam went better than expected today! tomorrow's english, i hope I'll do great 🤞🏻

2 hour lecture

english

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27 april 2025

okay so i cleaned my desk cuz it’s been an absolute mess since a few weeks and putting things back genuinely makes me feel less anxious 🙏��� so yay

woke up to construction noises again and terrible cramps :( so yeah but anyways

i made last week revision plan where i’ll be doing pyq’s along with revising the syllabus- obviously not covering the entire syllabus for revision now but just the super super important parts of it so yay

i’ll be revising the entirety of physics today - 11+12- mainly formulas and the well known problems so yay, i’ll do the pyq’s once i finish revising

6 days for neet is surreal. goodluck to all of you <3

have a nice day my loves 🌸

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It always so weird when a non-mentally ill blog follows me

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"i feel like a wandering corpse most days"

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My clones would eat me after I was dead like cats do when their owners fucking die lmfao

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18.02.2025 || Day 25,26/100

I did not have a good week, and while I tell myself progress isn't linear sometimes I really think I wasn't made for this. Well not like I have many choices right now so we persist. Will try to do better tomorrow as percentage went down to 70% in my most recent test and like obviously with amount of hours I put in this time, sigh.

Hope everyone's having a nice day!

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14–01–2024, Sunday

hii i'm back!!

started equilibrium in chem

2 hour lecture

bio prac notes

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The deadly cycle of being the cutest girl 🪽💖

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