#pro good faith

[tgirlmouse]

i don't feel nearly as ashamed or hesitant to talk about my queer tgirl attraction to men as my tguy brothers would feel talking about their attraction to women

obligatory "if you're a trans guy and your attraction to women is het, that's real and okay! your trans experience isn't a monolith and other trans people being different doesn't make you different or wrong"

like, think about it: hardly anyone bats an eye when a tgirl uses grindr or calls herself a faggot, but as soon as a man calls himself a lesbian, everyone gets on his ass. anything for an excuse to shit on lesbians, i guess. it makes me angry that nobody sees this hypocrisy or these ties back to the lesbian separatism that infected the community post-70s. it's not gone, it never went away

this isn't exactly profound news to anyone who gives a shit about lesbian history. just something i find interesting

[gloaming-sometimes]

dear lesboy (and tbh any other nuanced identity) exclusionists who think your vein of thought is the majority in queer spaces id like to inform you that today at lunch with my (entirely queer) friend group the topic drifted to me being a butch lesbian and one friend goes "wait i thought you were a guy?" and i said "i am" and another friend interjected "dudes can be lesbians too" and that was that. no further probing about my identity, nohing about how im "invalidating transmen and lesbians", or whatever. everyone just accepted that thats how i identify and i dont owe an explanation for it and moved on. i promise u its not that deep 👍

[our-gay-experience]

are mspec gays allowed here? :o

of course!!! all queer identities are welcome here we love and support mspec gays!!!

[superstarxkindergarten]

LAMB THEMED ID PACK !

Requested by: @ Anonymous

NAMES: Mary, Lamb, Wool( y / ie / ey), Lambchop, Herd, Agnes, Shep, Shepherd, Oenwen, Oen, Owen, Úna

PRONOUNS: lamb / lambs, baa / baas, flock / flocks, wool / wools, sheep / sheeps, fleece / fleeces, sheer / sheers, fluff / fluffs, grass / grasses, hoove / hooves, herd / herds

GENDERS: Lambgender, Sheepgender, Lambcute, Lambanimic

[starfilled-galaxy]

(id in alt text)

[vampitsm]

[FLAG ID: Two identical rectangular flags that are next to each other with 6 equally shaped stripes going from top to bottom. The colors in order are duqqa brown, brown bramble, hot hibiscus, jaffa orange, purple opulence, and schiava blue. / END ID]

BLACK LESBOY

[PT: Black Lesboy / END PT]

A flag for lesboys who are black!

Made by me, requested by anon.

Pinterest Archive Post

[PT: Black Lesboy. A flag for lesboys who are black. Made by me, requested by anon. Linked is a post to the Pinterest post of this flag. / END PT]

[theplushiepoke]

So anyways who wants to reclaim this with me :333333

[striibitch2]

collie : shin

ficto self shipper

was striibitch but got nuked

occasional nsfw, sometimes adults r chill usually not

only other minors or 18-19 year olds dm me pls

im disabled and talk abt it a lot

i have no DNI but:

i will block people who frequently post about zoophilia/their attraction to animals (irl not fictional) due to it triggering me

i'll probably block adults who dm me espc if they're being sexual to me

i will block antis

i have a huge crush on dirk strider & he is my boyfriend!!!!!! ^_^ i am a fictophile

i have a myriad of anxiety conditions that affect how i interact w people, if i act weird just remember that.

ZIONISTS FUCK OFF AND FALL OFF A BRIDGE!!!!!!

[tgirlmouse]

i'm gonna start asking turigirl deniers what they suggest i call myself

i'm a trans girl, and my attraction to men is queer in nature

so, what do you suggest i say if not "a girl who is gay for men"? you can't suggest anything that wouldn't invalidate my identity as a trans girl. am i a mistaken man or a straight girl?

i don't have the luxury or privilege of a heteronormative relationship. i never will. most cishet men will see me as a man transitioning into a girl; a woman who used to be a man. the current state society is in, that isn't going to change anytime soon. i cannot date them; i am not the straight girl of their dreams

you know she has a dick, right? she used to be a boy. dating her makes you gay.

what's the point, then? why would i choose to leave a community that has so warmly welcomed and embraced my uncracked egg self into a cold, unaccepting world, pining for men who will never want me and never see me as the girl they want? you thinking that me realising i'm a girl suddenly makes me want to abandon the gay community and find a straight boy to whisk me away is a ridiculous expectation and really speaks on how you view tfems and trans people as a whole. transness is not the walk in a park you think it is

exclu love to claim that me dating gay men is invalidating my gender, that they don't see me as a girl if they're attracted to me. gay men have embraced, validated and accepted my gender transition moreso than straight men ever fucking have or will. to most gay men i've met, i'm a trans girl. girlfag. a born-again woman. that's fucking awesome

to straight men, i'm a girl with a dick. used to be a man. tranny. still a man. a threat to their sexuality

so, are you going to misgender me or deny my tfem experience? take your pick. i'll wait

[gloaming-sometimes]

promoting my new server!!

[name in progress] is an inclusive, queer only, 15+ server by and for queers with niche and/or nuanced identities!

>> as of the time of opening up this server to the public the server is unnamed and holding a poll for members to vote on a name for the next week (ends april 14th 2024)!!!!

we offer...

- a non-toxic environment

- a simplistic werewolf themed layout

- explicitly inclusive of ALL good faith queer identities

- a leveling system with perks for high level members and boosters (rewards include personal channels, unique roles, and ability to request new server emojis!)

- an accessible server, image descriptions and captions are mandatory, no fonts or non-standard symbols, etc.

- channels for orientations, genders, other queer topics, and several general topic channels!

permanent invite link: https://discord.gg/Azf4BjE3Rx

[pawfuu]

transpanracialatypess

label for when you don't experience your transness "normally" due to being transpanracial (trans all races of colour!)

intended for irish systems but not exclusive

[vampitsm]

[FLAG ID: Two identical rectangular flags next to each other with even lines. The colors in order are Shani Purple, Deep Space Rodeo, Panorama, Old Rose, Hihada Brown, and Bock. / END ID]

BLACK TURIGIRL

[PT: Black Turigirl / END PT]

A flag for black turigirls!

I've previously made a Black Lesboy (<- linked) flag as a request.

Requested by anon.

Pinterest Archive Post

[PT: (link) Pinterest Archive Post / END PT]

[hussyknee]

I'm really not a villain enjoyer. I love anti-heroes and anti-villains. But I can't see fictional evil separate from real evil. As in not that enjoying dark fiction means you condone it, but that all fiction holds up some kind of mirror to the world as it is. Killing innocent people doesn't make you an iconic lesbian girlboss it just makes you part of the mundane and stultifying black rot of the universe.

"But characters struggling with honour and goodness and the egoism of being good are so boring." Cool well some of us actually struggle with that stuff on the daily because being a good person is complicated and harder than being an edgelord.

Sure you can use fiction to explore the darkness of human nature and learn empathy, but the world doesn't actually suffer from a deficit of empathy for powerful and privileged people who do heinous stuff. You could literally kill a thousand babies in broad daylight and they'll find a way to blame your childhood trauma for it as long as you're white, cisgender, abled and attractive, and you'll be their poor little meow meow by the end of the week. Don't act like you're advocating for Quasimodo when you're just making Elon Musk hot, smart and gay.