#pro m-spec monos

[glitchedstars]

honestly I don't think we'll ever have a DNI Like sure we'll have a DNI on specific posts - but for our whole blog? no way Like if I coin a term, who am I to say that some people aren't allowed to use it? That would just be rude of me! But I make a post specifically about how m-spec monos are amazing or endo positivity (edit: or anything else that's relevant to mention here that we forgot)? I don't want exclusionists touching that post So yeah- not quite sure where I was going with this but uh yeah that kinda I suppose!

[polygamousfistingchaos]

m-spec mono discourse is so funny sometimes cause they hyperfocus on m-spec lesbians. Irl and online I've seen so many bi girls get bashed for calling themselves gay, but bi guys never get shit for it. 😭

People call a group of LGBTQ people "gays" all the time. You can't tell me you've never said "Hey gays" to your queer friend group. It's so normal??

Let people label themselves how they want. A 14 yo calling themself a pan lesbian isn't causing hate crimes. Our labels don't need to make sense to bigots or straight people or *you* to be valid.

Yes, TERFs will definitely make fun of our community for these labels. But they will always do that no matter what.

Identity is complicated and confusing and paradoxical and fluid. You may be able to confidently use one or two labels and call it a day, but that's not the case for everyone. Stop shoving each other in boxes, stop the infighting.

[007isproendo]

Pinned intro

Hey. We are a former anti-endo that became pro-endo. We are still learning about m-spec mono and contradictory labels. Feel free to correct us if we say any bullshits. We are anti radqueers and anti-pro/com/darkshipper/fic.

We are a C-DID system, but we do not feel like we are that disordered ourselves. We are traumaendo, with a lot more of traumagenic origins than endogenic ones but they are still here. We have little to no empathy for people we are not close to. We don't use tonetags and we don't want them to be used on us. We will use tone clarificators and that is what we ask you to use on us.

Under the cut, you will see information about us. (Headmates who will use this account the most will have a separate introduction).

System introduction:

We are only "out" on Tumbrl and Discord. We won't give any other social of ours.

System name: The M16 System Collective names: بوماني, James, Муудсан, Собака and 007 Collective titles: It who is rotten, The rotting God, بوماني who bites and Муудсан/He who is an agent Collective pronouns: it/he/rot/dog/paw/h3/they/spy/Q/hi

Nationality/origins: Slavic, Mongolian, Egyptian Genders: intersex, transmasc, (noviaeus)[https://pin.it/51DxwF2RD], (rotboy)[https://www.tumblr.com/lovesse/723358810895433728/gifts-from-the-angels-above-me-%E3%85%A4?source=share], (dog intersex)[https://pin.it/2Lw3KHCop] Sexuality: Achillean, demi-romantic Terms: non human, dog + masc ones preferred

Disorders: auADHD, (NPD-ish)[https://pin.it/5AiPi2rq0], hypersexal, photophobic Plural terms: we don't care, just don't use parts, personalities or pwDID Genic labels:

Traumagenic ones;

(Apagenic)[https://pluralpedia.org/w/Apagenic], (cultgenic)[https://pluralpedia.org/w/Cultgenic], ,(edugenic)[https://pluralpedia.org/w/Edugenic], (mentagenic)[https://pluralpedia.org/w/Mentagenic],

Endogenic ones:

(Luckgenic)[https://pluralpedia.org/w/Luckgenic], (autigenic)[https://pluralpedia.org/w/Autigenic]

Not sharing body age, just if you are 19+ don't DM us and everyone keep all interaction SFW.

Just a short DNI list:

Radqueers, along with transIDs supporters Transmeds People who don't translate typing quirks People who demonize disorders Fake-claimers Ableists Com/pro/darkshipper/fic. Basic DNIs criteria ig

[anti--transid]

I am wrapping my wings protectively, lovingly and gently around every ex radqueer, every ex radqueer who was groomed into being pro-contact, every ex radqueer who was told that 'nobody would love them' for being m-spec lesbian, m-spec gay, m-spec mono or anything else, every ex radqueer who was convinced they were transage for being agere, every ex radqueer who only recently got out, even if it was just a day or two ago, I see and adore you all <3 /p /gen

- Evergreen, she/her, system caregiver

[vocalux]

SlothQueer - ( 🦥🌈 / 🌈🦥 / 🦥🌳 )SlothQueer is a Queer Stance related to being too lazy to enter into discussions or caring about how others will label themselves !

SlothQueer ;;

Pro-xeno(gender)(ids)(sonas)

Pro-para(anti-contact)

Pro-ship

Pro-trans(id)

Pro-alterhumans

Pro-MUD coining

Pro-self-diagnosis(with study, obviously)

Pro-contraditory labels(m-spec mono, for exemple)

Pro-neopronouns

Respect all ethnicities, races, labels, women, etc

Just let people live they life

Don't like, block/don't see n continue living

Thinks people shouldn't hide themselves, no matter how they identify

And we FUCKING HATE MATH/hj

Anti-nazi

Anti-harass

Anti-bigotry of any kind

Anti-anti-xeno

Anti-using label to spread hate

Anti-bad faith identities/labes made to spread hate, exclude or mock othersㅤ

ㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤㅤ• • •

SlothQueer people often shy away from discussions, pretend to agree with other people's opinions, or don't say anything just to avoid having to get into an argument !

ㅤ• • •

There probably already exists a label like this, but I wanted to make my own.. /⁠ᐠ⁠｡⁠ꞈ⁠｡⁠ᐟ⁠\

and sorry if you're confused, I'm terrible with these things

@blankqueer Reposted ✅

[urfavisantiradqueer]

Welcome to my blog! If you've seen other "your fav is *blank*" blogs, then you probably know what this is about!

But for those who may not know, you can submit a character and I'll put them overtop of these (link) former radqueer and anti radqueer flags!

Please start all submissions with "*character name* is anti/former radqueer!" so that I know that its a request!

I, mod Clover, am the host of the Leafy Library system, and I also run @anti--transid and @zombifiedfemme!

Mod uses it/he/fern/clover and other xenopronouns, I am intersex, cottagecorething, transmascfem, caligoaroace and lesbian.

I am a medium support needs autistic person, I also have DID, DPD and a few other unlisted things, please don't use tonetags on me as it makes me feel babied, however if asked, I will use tonetags for who ever I'm talking to!

This blog is pro m-spec monos, good faith identities and aspec identities.

[Pt: This blog is pro m-spec monos, good faith identities and aspec identities. /end pt]

Requests are closed!

[Pt: requests are closed! /end pt]

RULES INCLUDE:

If it is a 'niche' character, I require that you send me a transparent png of that character so that I can fufill your request!

I will not do MCYT youtubers due to personal discomfort.

Genshin, cookie run and total drama characters are currently prioritized due to hyperfixating on those three medias!

[queeerrmogaigremlin]

ID: Image 1: a rectangular flag made up of 13 horizontal stripes. The stripes from top to bottom are lavender, light pink, pink, red-ish pink, purplish pink, purple, white, dark purple, purple-ish blue, dark blue, teal, turquoise, light green. Image 2: a rectangular flag made up of 9 horizontal stripes. The stripes from top to bottom are lavender, pink, magenta, purple, white, dark purple, blue, teal, light green. End ID

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Alt cisgenderqueer flag: someone who is both cis and genderqueer, or cis in a genderqueer way

Requested by no-one, for xe

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Please dni if you are pro-ship, an nsfw blog, or support trans-id.

Please dni if you don't support m-spec monos, lesboys, or non-traumagenic systems

[ieatkids0666]

You make such good content, such a shame you support ableism (pro-endo) and invasion of queer spaces 🥲🥲🥲🥲

With the endo bit I recommend looking at this page . Not so sure what you mean by "invasion of queer spaces" but I'm guessing you mean lesboy/gaybian/mspec mono/Turigirl

Lesboy means a lesbian who likes the word "boy" I given more examples of lesboy in my "Gailesboy" post

Turigirl means a turian who likes the word "girl" examples be the same as lesboy but with turian and the word girl.

M-spec mono can be BC of abrosexuality or  split attraction model (SAM) for example being biromantic and homosexual (or the other way around) also from being a system these only a few there more

Gaybian can be from a mulitgender person being abrosexuality, being mulitgender and liking men in a Achillean and likeing woman in a sapphic way, being genderfluid and is attracted to men and women, whoever they are only attracted to men as a man and are only attracted to women as a woman, being mulitgender and haveing  split attraction model (SAM) and also being a system

I recommend doing research /lh

[willo-carver]

Welcome to the Willo Carver's Shop!

This is a blog for the creation of thoughtforms / willomates. A build-a-willo workshop, if you will! My own spin on headmate packs.

Unlike most of these blogs I've seen, this blog is anti-radqueer.

For anyone unfamiliar, here's the pluralpedia page for willobased plurality! Catharigenic plurals are also welcome here, as are other similar experiences (with one exception; see DNI/BYF)

Requests are OPEN!

Promo is always appreciated :)

About me, Request Guide, and BYF/DNI below the cut!

About Me

I'd like to stay mostly anonymous on this blog, but here's some basic information:

I'm keeping my name private, but you can call me Carver here! I'm 18, queer, phys disabled, a traumagenic DID system, a willogenic plural, and a few other things. Use any pronouns excluding 'they' for me!

I'm autistic, and as a result my speech can sometimes be disorganized or confusing. Please don't be afraid to ask for clarification! Somewhat related; do not use tone indicators for me, they aren't helpful and generally make me distrust what you're saying (100% a me problem).

I refer to my (and generally all, but if you don't like it lmk and I won't) Willomates as Willos, and collectively call them a Willo Tree.

How to Request

I can work off of something simple—a few words, a basic idea, an aesthetic—but then you may end up with a Willo that doesn't fully fit what you want/need. Of course, you could simply not create them, but I know some people can't fully decide that for themselves.

What I do is essentially carving out a Willo (the vast majority of the time they'll be added to my own Willo Tree, just bc that makes it so much more genuine) from whatever information you give me, and then I'll give you a detailed rundown so that you can easily create them yourself (or, if they just pop up, cool!)

I won't do factives or introjects from media

I encourage you to give me details, as many as possible! Eventually, I may make a form and list it here.

Generally, I'll include personality, identity, appearance (via a Picrew and a description), and role(s).

Anyone is welcome to use any of the Willos posted here as inspiration, or create them directly. I try to thoroughly tag each post to make finding them easier!

BYF / DNI

I have complicated opinions on syscourse. To put it plainly, I believe that traumagenic systems (those who have or had a CDD) are different from other forms of plurality, and that while there is overlap in the experiences, those differences should be respected. Both can full under the plural umbrella, but I personally use the word system exclusively for traumagenic experiences. I'm saying this as someone with DID who also has willomates! I fully believe it is possible to have both experiences, and don't care at all where your opinion lies. Even if you disagree with me on any of these points, you may interact—but do NOT bring up syscourse to me.

Those who are affiliated with "tulpamancy" are not welcome here. I don't have the right as a white westerner to decide if it's cultural appropriation, but I'd like to stick to the safe side and listen to the voices I've seen speaking out against it.

This blog is anti-radqueer. Those with paraphilias, BIID, etc. are welcome here, but I believe that the radqueer community itself and the majority of the labels it contains are harmful. Radqueers will be blocked on sight.

This blog is pro m-spec monos and other "contradictory" queer identities. I'm a gaybian, myself.

Hate will be deleted/blocked, and not engaged with. Don't bother.

[e-li-o]

🧟‍♂️; basic info

Elio*, Salem*, Mike/Michael, David, Christian* (*= pref name)

programmed DID, autism, aspd, bpd, anxiety, depression, ptsd, etc. ramcoa survivor

INTJ-T

polydactyly (Yes, I had 11 fingers. No, you cannot look at it)

white + indigenous

afab + intersex, agender, multigender, genderfluid, queer, ambiamorous, biromantic

any pronouns (they/it/she pref)

Your local sad goth girl

will not engage in syscourse

pls ask me about my experiences with my disorders + ramcoa and such!

🧟‍♂️; extra + dni

please interact; other systems, anyone with interests in music/games/books, silent hill fans, resident evil fans, supernatural fans, breaking bad fans, etc

0 tolerance for; fake claiming, ableism, homophobia, syscourse, slurs, racism, etc.

dni + boundaries; system discourse (all), ableists, pro-ship discourse, rad-queer, anti-agere / petre, sia + autism speaks defenders, endos, terfs, maps, harmful pro-contact paraphilics, and basic dnis!

not listed dni and boundaries include anti inclusive (m-spec monos, aro/ace, lesboys + turigirls, we respect them on this blog), ramcoa deniers, and dream fans.

blinkies credit; @mogesque

userbox credit; @thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra @lgbtq-userboxes @disrealities @burntoutuserboxes @adoraboy-moved @sysboxes

[littllast]

[id: two flags of seven stripes, where the stripe in the middle is twice as wide as the others. the first flag, from top to bottom, has the following stripe colors: almond, khaki, pale brown, arsenic gray, azure blue, dark blue and light gray with a blue tint. the second flag, from top to bottom, has the following stripe colors: silver blue, pale blue, blue-green, prussian blue, azure blue, dark blue and light gray with a blue tint. below is a blue banner with a gray base. the banner says "not dni, but don't follow: anti pro(com)fic, pro-contact individuals with paraphilic disorders, terf/teff/tarf/etc, swerf, truscum, anti m-spec "mono", anti enbyhet, anti queerhet, anti cistrans anti radinclus support queercnfn and their admins, anti neopronouns, anti xenogenders and xenoids. end id]

sininboy (sininguy, sininman) | siningirl (sininwoman)

[id: sininboy (sininguy, sininman) and siningirl (sininwoman). In both words, the “sin” part is colored purple, the “i” part is blue, and the “n” part is red. end id]

— flags for someone who identifies as a boy (guy, man) / girl (woman), but has a singular in nature gender

[snowystarfragments]

Hello! Hey! Hi there!

This is a sideblog of @pastelwolfy about therian an otherkin stuff. The only reason I'm mentioning my main is because that's the account I'll be responding to comments an stuff on.

Here's the important info about me:

-I am a minor (will not specify further)

-i am transmasc (pronouns they/he/purr/star/kirb, etc)

-my kintypes are:

-husky

-grey wolf

-white rabbit

-arctic fox

-angel

-dragon

I take moodboard requests themed around a kintype! Check if requests are open or closed in my description, but I don't get too many an they're usually open.

I don't have a DNI for this blog but I will block if you make me uncomfortable.

BYF:

-I am pro-xenogenders and pro-neopronouns.

-I am pro-endo.

-I am anti-transx.

-I am anti-radqueer

-I am pro transspecies as a non-rq/tranx term, as that's what it was to begin with

-I am pro-self diagnosis.

-I am pro-kink and everything, do whatever you want, but please keep it away from me as, again, I am a minor.

-I am neutral leaning pro-lesboy/turigirl but I need to do more research

-I am pro-m-spec mono identities I think. Again more research needs to be done to solidify this.

-I may be missing something on this list and will edit if needed

(Userbox by @semidomesticated-dragon )

[sadowife]

A small PSA ； Do not follow Scythe if you are anti m-spec monos！ The Sea is very much pro good - faith & you will be blocked if you are an anti ^.^ 🎀

[anti--transid]

. . ★ redone DNI/BYF list ★ . .

[pt: . . ★ redone DNI/BYF list ★ . . /end pt]

Hard blocked, no exceptions

[pt: Hard blocked, no exceptions /end pt]

- Radqueers

- Pro-contact for harmful paras

- Dont believe that Teleiophilia exists

- Oculoid supporters

- Believe that Transspecies and Transracial are radqueer terms (they aren't, transspecies is a alterhuman term and transracial is an adoptee term)

- Anti m-spec lesbian/gay/mono, she/her gays, he/him lesbians, transman lesbians, transgirl gays, turigirls, lesboys

- Sophieinwonderland supporters/followers

I will softblock you

[pt: I will soft block you /end pt]

- Believe that queer is a slur

- Low support needs autistics who talk over medium/high support needs autistics and uses the term 'going nonverbal'

- Inaccessible blog/uses a tq without translation/doesnt trigger tag/doesnt tag flashing lights

- Dont believe in insys dating (L + Ratio + I have 3 insys partners and they're all hotter than you)

Before you follow

[pt: Before you follow /end pt]

- I am a m-spec lesbigay who is pro m-spec

- I am medium support needs autistic

- I have AvPD/DPD/DID and ADHD

- Don't use tonetags on me unless I specifically tell you to use them on me.

- I am anti-contact, pro-therapy, pro-recovery and anti-radpara.

- I don't use tonetags unless asked to, mainly because I struggle with remembering to add them.

- I am very blunt due to autism.

- I am shipcourse unaligned but I lean towards anti, I just don't like engaging in that discourse because both sides suck.

- Do not drag me into petty drama, I will either laugh at you or just block you.

- I am a former radqueer who was traumatized by them, I will call it a cult because thats what it is.

[redheadbigshoes]

Bro they’re blog says they’re pro m-spec mono, which I guess means supporting male spectrum only sexualities like, of course you are. That’s why you’re going to add sexualities and identities that don’t belong in lesbianism to lesbianism

This all sounds like “I’m vegan but I eat meat” 😭

[fujisakitanaka]

PINNED POST ☆ﾟ.*･｡ﾟ

Welcome to my blog

I'm a non-human alter from @wind-chime-system, and my role is Gatekeeper.

ABOUT ME...

Name: Amanara

Species: Water fairy

Pronouns: she/her, bun/buns

Gender: Girl, but in a vague and not binary way

Sexuality: Multi, aroflux, demisexual

BEFORE YOU FOLLOW...

Possibly due to BPD, I have strong attachments to Chihiro Fujisaki, Sangonomiya Kokomi and Kanzaki Yukiko. I don't really "think I'm them", but they do influence a strong part of my interests and aesthetics and etc.

I also have persecutory delusions and DMS. Please be patient if I ever post something about it (I likely won't).

My body in the headspace is AMAB, but my system's body is AFAB. I don't speak about trans issues as a transfeminine person, since I don't live that reality, but I do speak about it from a non-binary point of view, since that is the persona we created for the body + most of our alters are enby. I can also speak about some of my experiences online with transphobia.

DO NOT FOLLOW IF...

You fit this basic DNI criteria; You support mspec lesbians; You're a pro-shipper; You don't support polyfragmented systems;

ABOUT HEADCANNONS...

Not the only ones I have, but these do come up often in my blog

Chihiro Fujisaki - Trans girl; Unlabeled sexuality, but mostly attracted to men; Arospec and Acespec;

Ships: Gundham, Makoto, Kokichi

Kokomi Sangonomiya - Trans girl; Lesbian; Acespec; Has vitiligo;

Ships: Kujou Sara, Beidou

(also a strong appreciator of the Vishap Kokomi theory)

Kanzaki Yukiko - Non-binary; Bisexual; Asexual; Polyamory;

Ships: Sugino, Maehara, Isogai

Adrien Agreste - Trans girl; M-spec; Not exactly poly but not mono either

Ships: Marinette (trans boy), Kagami, Luka. As a polycule or separately.