#self-identity

[dollbotthing]

they call me flirty and they call me girly but what i really am is READ MORE

[dabiconcordia]

I held a Jewel in my fingers

I held a Jewel in my fingers -- And went to sleep -- The day was warm, and winds were prosy -- I said "'Twill keep" --

I woke -- and chid my honest fingers, The Gem was gone -- And now, an Amethyst remembrance Is all I own -- by Emily Dickinson

[omegaphilosophia]

The Philosophy of Personality

The philosophy of personality explores the nature, origin, and development of individual identity and selfhood. It involves questions about the essence of what makes someone who they are, how personality is formed, the relationship between personality and free will, and how external and internal factors shape personal characteristics.

Here’s an overview of key concepts and perspectives:

1. Nature of Personality

Personality refers to the unique patterns of thoughts, feelings, behaviors, and experiences that define an individual. Philosophers examine whether personality is something inherent (fixed by nature) or whether it evolves over time (shaped by nurture and experience).

Essentialism vs. Existentialism:

Essentialism posits that personality is rooted in an essential nature that is relatively stable over time. This is often linked to the idea of a fixed "soul" or "self" that defines identity.

Existentialism, on the other hand, argues that personality is fluid, shaped by personal choices and life experiences. For existentialists like Jean-Paul Sartre, human beings are not born with a pre-defined personality but create themselves through actions and decisions. Sartre famously claimed, "Existence precedes essence," meaning that who we are is the result of our lived experiences, not an inherent nature.

2. Personality and Identity

Self-Identity: Philosophers such as John Locke have explored the link between personality and personal identity, especially how continuity of consciousness relates to being the same person over time. Locke's memory theory of identity suggests that we are the same person to the extent that we remember our past actions and experiences.

Psychological Continuity: Theories of psychological continuity focus on how personality and mental states over time create a coherent sense of self. If a person experiences radical changes in personality or memory loss, philosophers question whether they remain the same person.

3. Determinism vs. Free Will in Personality

Determinism: Determinists argue that personality is shaped by a combination of genetics, environment, and social conditioning. According to this view, free will plays little to no role in shaping personality because external factors like upbringing, culture, and biology predetermine how we think, feel, and act.

Free Will: Opposing this, many existentialists and humanistic philosophers believe that individuals have the power to transcend their circumstances and freely shape their personalities. Sartre argued that people are "condemned to be free," meaning that they must take responsibility for their actions and the personality traits they develop.

4. Personality and Moral Responsibility

Character and Virtue Ethics: Philosophers like Aristotle emphasized the role of character in shaping ethical behavior. According to Aristotle, personality traits like courage, temperance, and wisdom can be cultivated through practice and habit, leading to a virtuous life. In this view, personality is not just a collection of traits but something tied to one's moral development.

Moral Luck: A challenge in the philosophy of personality is the idea of moral luck—the notion that aspects of one’s personality may be shaped by circumstances outside of their control, yet they are still held morally accountable for their actions. For example, someone born with a naturally aggressive disposition may find it harder to behave ethically, raising questions about responsibility and fairness.

5. Personality and the Unconscious

The role of the unconscious mind in shaping personality has been a major topic of discussion, especially in the works of Sigmund Freud and Carl Jung. Freud proposed that unconscious desires and conflicts shape much of our personality, and many of our behaviors are driven by unconscious motives rather than rational choices.

Jung expanded on Freud’s ideas by introducing the collective unconscious, which he argued contains archetypes that influence individual personalities. These archetypes are universal symbols and themes that shape human experience and personality development.

6. Personality and Social Context

Sociological and Cultural Influences: Many contemporary philosophers and social theorists emphasize that personality is not developed in isolation but in interaction with society and culture. Social constructivism suggests that much of our personality is shaped by societal norms, values, and roles. According to this view, personality traits are often expressions of the expectations and constraints placed on individuals by their social environment.

Gender and Personality: Feminist philosophers like Judith Butler argue that gender, as a central aspect of personality, is a social performance rather than an inherent trait. In this sense, personality is something individuals enact within the framework of societal norms.

7. Personality and the Self

Concept of the Self: Philosophers debate whether there is a "core" self behind personality traits or whether the self is an illusion, constructed through interactions with the world. Some argue for a unified self, where personality is an expression of a consistent internal essence. Others, such as David Hume, believed that the self is a bundle of perceptions with no fixed identity, constantly in flux.

Narrative Identity: Some philosophers, like Paul Ricoeur, suggest that individuals create their identities through the stories they tell about themselves. Personality, in this view, is tied to the personal narrative that individuals construct over time, making sense of their past experiences and future goals.

The philosophy of personality addresses fundamental questions about identity, free will, morality, and the interplay between nature and nurture. It explores how much of who we are is determined by genetics, culture, or unconscious factors, and to what extent we have the power to shape our own personalities.

[thepersonalquotes]

Our daily habits – honorable and dishonorable, noble and ignoble, vital and vile – are revelatory. Our sense of self is fashioned partially by what we employ to crank us up in order to charge through every day, or stated otherwise, what vices we partake of and what substances we are addicted to using.

Kilroy J. Oldster, Dead Toad Scrolls

[sillyrabbot]

hi life?? hi tumblr???… there was another me?? i thought i was special

[womenusingwords]

Discovering Nicola

The details…. Title: Discovering Nicola Author: Clare Ashton Publisher: independently published Publication date: May 1, 2025 Available formats: ebook, paperback�� File size: 2.6 MB Print length: 491 pages Genre: contemporary romance  Themes: falling in love, women loving women, friendships, family, parenting, motherhood, childbirth, pregnancy, mother-daughter relationships, exes,…

[weaversweek]

"The fear" and "Grace Kelly"

Twice more unto the breach, with a pair of singles both popular and quality. It's the #FearOfMu21c project, where we’re crowdsourcing the greatest singles of the 21st century. This index post has all the entries.

"The fear" - Lily Allen

Daughter of Keith, sister of Alfie, Lily Allen might have been the most talented of them all. In a short hitmaking career (nine hits from 2006 to 2010, and a six-week revival in 2013), Lily showed she understood the young person's condition. The precarious life, take little pleasures when we can. Not so much a life of hedonism, but a life betrayed by the generations above.

"The fear" is a state-of-society capsule from 2009, written by Greg Kurstin and Lily Allen. "Life's about film stars and less about mothers. It's all about fast cars and cussing each other."

If the generation above had any sort of introspection, they'd ask themselves, "why do our children feel like this? Could we have done better?" But no, for the boomers and 50s kids, it's all "me me me me me", and they're still at it.

Grace Kelly - Mika

An ode to his insecurity, Mika puts on all sorts of different faces in an effort to impress someone. By the end of the song, he's learned that someone else has insecurities, and to have a little confidence in himself.

Written by Dan Warner, John Merchant, Jodi Marr, and Mika, this was the breakthrough single from early 2007, a slight return for vaudeville into the top five. The parent album, "Life in Cartoon Motion", was eye-poppingly bright, but the anglophone markets didn't like it when he went serious a few years later.

Mika has remained popular in France and Italy, where pop stars are allowed to have quality. He's done casting shows for major broadcasters, and a song competition in Turin.

[the-bunnybot]

at the end of the day im just fatigued because im me. no matter what i do i am still just me and the idea of me makes me tired.

[tam--lin]

r/Murderbot mods really said "if you can't use it/its for a fictional character, get over yourself".

[themeaningoflifepodcast]

ep.2 - Unmasking Your 'Should' Assumptions: The Meaning of Life Podcast

The Meaning of Life Podcast emphasizes the importance of self-questioning as a primary step in understanding one's purpose. Host Matthew encourages listeners to examine their internal narratives and ingrained beliefs, suggesting these "stories" and habits often dictate actions and limit self-awareness. 

This episode further explores questioning external "should" assumptions imposed by society, urging individuals to discern if these truly align with their personal values and desires for a fulfilling life. It offers practical starting points for identifying assumptions and highlights the historical significance of challenging established beliefs for personal discovery. Ultimately, the podcast advocates for the value of uncovering one's own truth through introspective inquiry. 

Frequently Asked Questions:

Why should we bother questioning ourselves? 

The episode suggests that after asking big questions about the universe, the next logical step is to turn that question inward to understand our purpose. We spend a lot of time looking outside for answers, but the starting point for understanding why we're here might begin within our own heads. Questioning yourself isn't about self-blame but about honest curiosity about who you are, what you believe, and why you do what you do.

What are these "stories we tell ourselves"?

These are the narratives we create about why we are the way we are, what we're good at, and what we deserve. These stories can be picked up from family, friends, or even media. While sometimes helpful, they can also hold us back from truly understanding ourselves and what we're looking for in life.

How can questioning help when I feel stuck?

When feeling stuck in areas like work or relationships, it's important to ask yourself why you feel that way, rather than just blaming external circumstances. This involves digging into your own role in the situation, including your expectations and what you're telling yourself about what you deserve or are capable of. Questioning can help peel back layers of assumptions and habits to get closer to what truly matters to you, such as your values, what makes you feel alive, what you're good at, and what you enjoy.

What are "should" assumptions?

These are assumptions we've picked up from society, the people around us, and the world we live in about what we should want, like what success looks like, what happiness is, or what a good life means. These "shoulds" are not always right for you and might be someone else's idea of what's important.

Why is it important to challenge these "should" assumptions?

We often don't realize we're living by these ingrained assumptions. Just because others are doing something doesn't mean you have to. Challenging these assumptions is about asking if something is really what you want or just what you've been told you should want. It's about being true to yourself and creating a life that aligns with your own values and your own definition of success.

How do I even start identifying my assumptions?

Pay close attention to moments of discomfort or frustration when you feel a little off or like something isn't quite right. Ask yourself: "What am I expecting here? What am I assuming is supposed to happen?". These expectations are often rooted in hidden assumptions.

Isn't questioning everything exhausting?

While you can't question every single thing all the time, the point isn't to create chaos but to create space for your truth, not just everyone else's. It's about finding the things that actually matter to you.

What's the key takeaway message of this episode?

Your truth is worth discovering. Don't be afraid to explore your unique perspective, unique set of values, and unique purpose, even amidst the noise of other people's opinions and expectations.

What's a practical tip for questioning assumptions?

Start small by choosing one area of your life where you feel stuck or unfulfilled (job, relationship, hobbies, etc.). Then, ask yourself: "What assumptions am I making here? What am I expecting? And is that really true for me?". This small step can reveal new possibilities.

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[epicstoriestime]

The Spiritual Ego: Awakening Beyond the Illusion of Separation

In the stillness of awakening, the illusion of separation fades into the vastness of unity. The Spiritual Ego: Awakening Beyond the Illusion of Separation Awakening is often likened to standing alone in a room full of revelers, where everyone else is intoxicated, and you are the only sober one. The urge to leave becomes overwhelming—a desperate need to escape the dissonance, the profound…

[dollbotthing]

the only real duality is awh you’re so small and stop calling me small

[womenusingwords]

Tempting Olivia

The details…. Title: Tempting Olivia Author: Clare Ashton Publisher: Breezy Tree Publication date: March 1, 2024 Available formats: ebook, paperback File size: 4688 KB Print length: 377pagws Genre: contemporary romance Themes: falling in love, women loving women, friendships, family, parenting, motherhood, exes, divorce, acting, lawyers, self-discovery, self-identity, and personal…

[met4lwhore]

yall are pro mental illness until they hallucinate

yall are pro mental illness until they dissociate

yall are pro mental illness until they self-isolate

yall are pro mental illness until they're paranoid

yall are pro mental illness until they split

yall are pro mental illness until it's too Scary for your comparatively neurotypical brain to handle

[sheltiechicago]

OMO MI

Introducing Dola Posh

Dola delves into the complexities of self-identity and postpartum depression, seamlessly blending strength and vulnerability.