girl i want a bf who's also obsessed with the same things as me 🥺 the last guy i was talking to was making fun of me and shi- calling me childish like ??? fuck off dude 😭😭
yeah males are so… incompetent and stupid nowadays 😬 my best advice rn is to not even THINK of looking for a bf/a relationship rn, they’ll always come to YOU. that’s how i started dating my man, i fr had my whole life and future planned out until he came out of nowhere in my life and pursued me. the man should always be chasing you, not you chasing them. and i still hate men LMAOOO like i have this mindset where you always treat them like a loaded gun just bc they’re all “nice” and “lovely” when in reality they’re all trash and they’ll betray you in the most brutal ways. i’m not even exaggerating at all. relationships aren’t sadly the fairy tale that i’ve dreamed about when i was in high school, cuz most men don’t even understand how to love and only tolerance. i’d also like to say, stay toxic <33 my man loves me more every damn day and i ALWAYS make his pockets hurt.
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no because you guys don’t understand how important it is to me that even after everything, after pen accepts his engagement, after they have their first time together and pen is looking at colin like he’s hung the stars and is her prince charming, colin is still thinking she doesn’t love him the way he loves her. he thinks she’s going through it during their engagement party because he’s overwhelmed her with his feelings. he tells her that it’s okay if she’s changed her mind and she doesn’t feel the same way anymore. about him. about their engagement. that if she just got swept up in the moment in the carriage it’s okay. he’s okay with it, he understands, he’s willing to go through that heartache he just wants her to be okay. like oh my god.
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so a crisis happened this morning, and my cousin who i’m very close to had a health scare that seemed pretty serious. i abruptly announced that i was going on hiatus from here. i thought for sure i’d be offline for the rest of the week because of the situation. it turned out to be a false alarm! everything appears to be okay, things should be going back to their regularly scheduled programming, unless life throws another curveball at me 🤫
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he named a bee after her!!! no other sherlock/watson duo can compare
HE NAMED A BEE AFTER HER!! Could it have been any more perfect, or more meaningful a gesture ... ugh. I love them, and the scene was perfect.
I am so fond of this series, and whenever reruns are on TV I have to sit down and watch. Other recent adaptations - except the Japanese series Miss Sherlock, which I also liked - don't do anything. The bros just add frenetic editing and jacked up music. This creative team really said, what if we reimagine them ... and one of many things I love about the result is how Sherlock held Joan in such high regard, right from the start. So much to love about their characterization and how their friendship and professional partnership developed, and how the longer form, 20+ episode series format could really be a positive for a story like this one.
(I know they lost steam in latter seasons, but still. I could write a whole essay. :)
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We haven't learned. We haven't learned shit at all.
My country's wealth is directly linked to the exploitation and colonization of other peoples. We call the violent acts commited in Indonesia after ww2 "police actions" as if it wasn't horrific crimes against people who were (justifiably) tired of being occupied and abused by foreign invaders and colonizing dickhats.
Sure, we "lost" the Dutch East Indies. We are not actively colonizing anymore. And yet, we still haven't learned a thing. That "VOC mentality" was never gone, it's still there. It's that mentality of thinking business above everything else, money makes right, who cares how horrifically you abuse people, who cares about the massacre of the Banda islands when you now have all the yummy nutmeg to use and sell. It's not something to be admired, it's something we have to address and resolve, but we're not. We're not doing that, but we have to if we ever want justice of any kind.
We're ruled by dickheads who think that saying "from the river to the sea" is a hatecrime that should be condemned. "Yeah sure, you would've probably said the same thing about the utterance of "Republik Indonesia" less than 100 years ago, no?" is what I say to that. We have not successfully freed ourselves of this damn colonizer mindset!
The only reason the Netherlands ever stopped the "police actions" is because we were threatened with sanctions. Post WW2, it was stop the "police actions" (read: many war crimes) or lose the money from the Marshall Plan needed to rebuild your ruined country. The choice was easy enough.
But noooooo, we can't sanction Israel to get them to, ya know, STOP BOMBING HOSPITALS, SCHOOLS AND CIVILIANS IN GENERAL!!! They're our friends! Fuck no. I know why those asshats ain't sanctioning Israel (at least one of the reasons): they'd lose access to fucking Pegasus; spyware surpreme. Wanna spy on some journalists? Perhaps the opposition? Scary activists? Pegasus is THE spyware for you! Infect ppl's phones and suck up All Teh Data wihout them knowing. Suspected detection of the stuff somehow? Self-destruct, boom. Fantastic stuff if you're into violating ppl's privacy. I don't see this talked about a lot, but Israel is Scary in the cyberwarfare department. And they sell this expertise.
I support Palestine. I hope to see it freed someday. Hopefully soon
To Israel(is): decolonize ur shit. I know, it's hard, it's painful, you'll have to question and unlearn a lot of things. Heck, it may give you an existential and/or moral crisis for a bit. I still get one about nutmeg sometimes. But just like desinfecting a wound, it is ultimately beneficial.
PALESTINIAN PEOPLE DESERVE LIFE AS MUCH AS ANY OTHER PEOPLE
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List five things that make you happy, then put this in the askbox for the last 10 people who liked or reblogged something from you! Get to know your mutuals and followers <3
Since last time I did big things like my family and friends, now I’m gonna do the little things that bring me joy.
1. How excited my dogs are to see me at the end of the day
2. The spark my best friend gets when she’s ranting to me about her newest hyperfixation
3. The smells that come from the kitchen whenever anyone in my family is cooking or baking
4. Long, warm hugs with the people I love
5. Rainy days, I love the sounds and the smells that come with rain
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