#toxicthoughts

[roquesox]

sup, TumblRoques!

so. . .this needs to be addressed right now: something i love doing in the mornings is scroll through the explore page of instagram. today i saw a post of a couple on the beach where the chick jumps into the guy's arms, wraps her arms and legs around him and they kiss - freaking adorable, right? that's what i thought.

so. . .i go to the comments to be like 'dawww! #goals', but when i get there i see only 3 things:

1) people commenting on how the guy seemed barely able to hold the girl coz she's bigger and he's on the skinner end of the spectrum

2) people going overboard complimenting the girl for being thicc and not conforming to the skinny standards put on women

and 3) people branding themselves as 'heroes' for saying maybe the focus should be on the fact that the guy is "too small" instead of only focusing on the girl's body

. . .what the actual fuck!? seriously, why does it have to be about who's body is 'wrong' at all!? why can't the focus just be on two people being happy together!?

i know people who don't persue relationships just because of their body insecurities and wondering how they would look with someone based on other people's opinions! ffs, i'm struggling to not be one of those people!!

can we just collectively get out of this mindset? it's just a meat suit! it's never gonna meet some universal standard of perfection and, even if it does, physical appearance should not be a defining factor in relationships! and before someone comes at me being like "what if someone is super unhealthy", that is caused by a mindset issue, which is serious and needs attending to and not what i'm talking about here.

seriously, looks change & not everyone has the same build; get over it and stop comparing every meat suit you see to what it could be! same goes for how you look at your own body - just take care of yourself and focus on being beautiful on the inside, coz really. . .that's what matters in the long run.

[mayari-phblog]

I miss you. I miss us. I miss those moments where you're here beside me, whispering softly on my ears how much you love being with me. I miss those petty fights and recociliations and broken promises we always make.

But no matter how anguished I am for missing you, I won't ever try to reconnect with you---even if this overwhelming feeling is killing me on some days, especially when I am awake at 3 A. M. in the morning and there's nobody I could tell how messed up I feel. Even if you're only a phone call away, I'll never dial your number on my phone again.

Never will I ever do anything to see you again. I won't beg for you to come back again. I'll never... ever... want to settle with someone toxic ever again.

[savemefromtoxic]

❓ Why? - Do you keep looking back to the past, when there is no-one waiting there for you, that will give you the love you need? ~ Rick dC // @RecoverFromToxic #why #lookingback #overthink #toxicthoughts #overthinking #noone #waiting #needlove #givelove #getlove #by #rickdc https://www.instagram.com/p/CqPHeT_Lt7P/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[ziarising]

#poem #lettinggo #toxicthoughts #memories #shequotes #shewrites #writerscommunity #writersofengland #writersofinsta #igwriters #poetsofinstagram #poetrycommunity #igpoem #ocean #land #turningback #selfcare #selfquotes #lettinggo #toxicpeople #negativeenergy https://www.instagram.com/p/Cj8znHrs6Rm/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[monarchiicheetah]

The Other Side

Would you cut of your foot and say “I’ll just use the other?”

Would you walk away from your best friend and say “I’ll just find another?”

Would you pull the sun from the sky and destroy all light

In favor of the frostbitten endless night?

Would you leave your home and never return,

because for one bridge to appear another must burn?

Would you relinquish the East to only walk the West,

and see the world half empty, forever forgoing the rest?

So why on social media do we all say

“Show us only the good, throw the bad away.”

To be human we must have both

Yin and yang, despair and hope

We are balanced and equal, and if we try

To take one side away, the other too will die

[innerconnoisseurexpert]

Каждый раз ругаешь се��я когда что то идёт не так? Каждый раз все больше убеждаешься что они все правы и ты на самом деле неудачник/ца, на самом деле глуп/а? Может деле не в них? Может деле в том что ты так о себе думаешь и постоянно ищешь этому подтверждение? Твой внешний мир полностью зависит от твоего внутреннего мира. Как только поднимаешь самооценку, как только начинаешь уважать своё мнение, свои решения, свой выбор, то вместе с этим меняется и мнение людей о тебе(то есть ты начинаешь видеть все по другому) да или нет? #lifecoaching #psychology #skills #loveyourself #britishpsychologysociety #mindgames #toxicthoughts #wednesday #motivation #therapy #kesha_psychology #инстаграм #терапия #психолог #мысли #лайки (at Planet Earth) https://www.instagram.com/p/CQv212ajlkI/?utm_medium=tumblr

[sociopins]

Get Out of Your Head: Stopping the Spiral of Toxic Thoughts Jennie Allen #JennieAllen #toxic #toxicthoughts #head #getout #selfimprovement (at Dallas, Texas) https://www.instagram.com/p/CILvRLOHoIq/?igshid=1fchtxvjns0n7

[elizabethoboro]

We need to stop having relationships based on who we think they are or what potentials we see in them, especially with negative & toxic relationships. Leave a 💯 if you agree. #toxicthoughts #toxicpeople #toxicrelationships #toxic #toxicenvironment #negativeenergy #negativepeople #negativespace #winoverdepression #overcomedepression #prioritizeyourself #priority #priorities #aloneisbetter #💯 #💯💯💯 #💯💯 #leaveacomment #selfesteem #selfesteemboost https://www.instagram.com/p/CEJg-2mFhFe/?igshid=9igvx0fzzkbz

[jonjon41girl]

If you want to build your life around words of Truth, then now is the time. Give those toxic thoughts away and embrace the words of truth. What will your life look like in five or then years if the words of Truth were shaping your life? #inspiration #toxicthoughts #wordsoftruth #connecttotruth #shapeyourlifearoundtruth #truthisjesus #jesusspeakswordsoflife #newlife #createyourlifearoundtruth https://www.instagram.com/p/CC2L3K2l_vm/?igshid=1gibna2onpt5n

[riadhhamdi72-blog]

#toxicpeople #toxichabits #toxicthoughts . . @riadhhamdi_ https://www.instagram.com/p/B6wDhROps2V/?igshid=132eilbkuumew

[ziarising]

#walkingaway #sundaythoughts #sundayquotes #writerscommunity #writersquotes #igwriters #poetrycommunity #poetryquotes #thisisgood #healing #toxicsituations #toxicenergy #toxicrelationships #toxicthoughts #wiser #shequotes #growthmindset #shewrites #writersofengland #igpoets #igwriters #instaquotes #growthquotes #lifestylequotes #lifestylequotes #mindsetmotivation #motivación #motivationalquotes #simpler #womenempoweringwomen #peopleempoweringpeople https://www.instagram.com/p/CiFZ8i1q2Wz/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[the1nevergiveup-blog]

Like “Stand above negativity! Dare to conquer toxic thoughts!” #thenevergiveup_official #thenevergiveup_official #thenevergiveup_official Follow this👆 #nevergiveup #dailymotivation #toxicthoughts #millionaire_mentor #host #billionairesclub #makerich #makelifericher #doitforyourself #richestperson #believeinyourself #believe2success #madewithlove #somethingnew https://www.instagram.com/p/B4UtGf5gn1I/?igshid=1vwul40m6dfe8

[tahitianstarseed]

From Divine Grace-Nita Chhotalal #angelicmessages #nitachhotalal #divinegrace #angels #release #negativeenergy #fears #toxic #angelmessages #deepsoulconnections #opportunity #beautifulblessings #newchapter #toxicthoughts #spiritual #angeliceuphoria #july https://www.instagram.com/p/B0F_kozneSN/?igshid=111r7miiuyrhy

[kcloonanart]

Aftermath of my performance in the high desert of southern California entitled "Toxic Thoughts" #art #ca #california #desert #highdesert #artist #artistsofinstagram #performanceart #performance #abstract #writing #painting #kaylacloonan #kaylalcloonanstudio #socal #toxicthoughts #journal #mask #mirrors

[mikeboston]

Pollutey (Workaholic) 16”x20” Oil on canvas Getting caught up in self serving thought knots not only pollutes our minds, but the space around us. For sale at www.mikebostonart.com #mikeboston #oilpainting #patreonartist #climatechange #mythology #toxicthought #newcontemporary #plotagraph #losangelesartist #surrealism #darkart #motionart #psychedelicart #trippyart #gif #lowbrowpopsurrealists https://www.instagram.com/p/BxQM8eNlOWh/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=mjrq9p1hqfmc

[mymindfulnessliving]

(via How To Cut Down Negative Thoughts)