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I think it would really benefit people to internalize that mental illnesses are often chronic and not acute. Some of us will never be able to jump the hurdle of managing illness, much less sustaining a sense of normalcy. Many of us will never "recover," will never manage symptoms, will never even come close to appearing normal - and this is for any condition, even the ones labeled as "simple" disorders or "easy-to-manage" disorders.
It isn't a failure if you cannot manage your symptoms. It isn't a moral failure, and you aren't an awful person. You are human. There's only so much you can do before recognizing that you cannot lift the world. Give yourself the space to be ill because, functionally, you are.
#mental health#mental health advocacy#like... anxiety and depression are often concieved of as simple and easy to manage...#...but that isn't the case for so many of us. anxiety and depression just have a lot more research invested into them...#...and while i wish this were the case for literally every other condition it does alter people's perception of you to some extent...#...so while this is NOT solely about anxiety or depression it includes us...#...my anxiety and depression and PTSD have *destroyed* my life. this is chronic and will probably be life-long...#...and that isn't my fault. i've done the fucking work but guess what? that doesn't account for the fact that I Am Just ILL#the least we can do for each other is to be compassionate#be compassionate to those who cannot heal. be compassionate to the people who can't manage their lives. this world is scary enough#recognize that management of symptoms is something not all of us can do - even IF their condition is labeled as 'easy to manage'#i allowed myself to feel angry that i can't heal 'normally' and that was unfair as fuck toward myself#and i NEED people to internalize this so that MAYBE this could help somebody else who is where i was#i NEED them to understand that it's okay that they are where they are - sometimes shit just doesn't turn out how you expect or want#don't beat yourself over you being a person. you are struggling enough. you deserve to rest. just rest please#and just... give yourself space
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This is 74 year old Canadian Israeli Peace activist Vivian Silver.
Silver dedicated her life to promoting peace. she co-founded Women Wage Peace, an interfaith grassroots organization, and was a board member of the human rights organization "Bzelem". she volunteered in "On the Way to Recovery," accompanying cancer patients from the Gaza Strip to hospitals in Israel. she was co-CEO at Ajik - an Arab-Jewish organization working since 2000 to support Bedouin society in the Negev and promote shared life for Arabs and Jews throughout the country.
When asked about her aspirations for the future of her grandchildren, she said, "May they have Arab friends, Palestinians. May they not be afraid."
On October 4th 2023, Silver helped to organize a peace rally in Jerusalem which attracted 1,500 Israeli and Palestinian women.
The last connection with her was on the morning of october 7th, when she hid in a closet and texted her son. she wrote "well, the terrorists are in my house". he wrote "i'm on your side". "i feel you" she answered.
She was believed to be kidnapped, but today, 38 days later, her body was identified.
May this kind soul rest in peace. The mind can't comprehend that this was her fate. Thank you for everything you did. May we will get to witness something of your aspirations come true in our lifetime.
#israel#palestine#hamas is isis#october 7th#hamas massacre#the world is unfair#darkness sometimes wins#kills the light#hamas attack#current events#news#vivian silver#free palestine#free gaza#free gaza from hamas#bzelem
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I can only take so much, but lately, they have replaced my reflection. And realize I'm just as bad as them.
#messyr#doodle#vent art#idk what im feeling but im just really tired- pessimistic and agitated lately#overthinking stuff about growth as a person LMAO. Envy that builds inferiority then dissolves into insecurity ew#ive yet to accept the truth that it will never get better- so i can only be there for others until i watch them go.#And I walk back to the same cage where I grew- bc the cage is all I know. I'd watch from afar and wait- wait for what? Idk#Genuinely happy and proud to those who worked hard for that success-- an ugly thought whispers to me thinking why cant I have the same#well- people w the same situations as me- knows how unfair life is so we work twice as hard. but sometimes... It's-- not enough.#And to an unfortunate fate- it'll never be enough. and it feels as if you amount to nothing.#I've been stuck for so long- I'm convinced enough that I cannot be helped. Still I cling onto the tiniest spark of hope.#bpd#abuse mention
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have elijah haters ever stopped to consider that he’s a single mom who works two jobs? who loves her kids and never stops?
#the originals#elijah mikaelson#like yeah sometimes he can be a bit unfair with his siblings#but that’s bc he’s took on the role of surrogate father at a very young age and has put on himself to make tough decisions#he judges them harshly bc he wants them ALL to be better#and yeah sometimes he’s being a hypocrite but yknow what?#deep down he’s aware of that and he fucking hates himself#he’s a mess!!#let him be messy!!#you try to raise the first ever vampires for a thousand years!!#you’d probably fail at it too
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dnf valencians dancing boleros (with george as a llauradora/fallera)
ty @suenitos for doing the dteam worldwide event it was so fun and lovely 💕
extra: sapnap muixaranguer
thisis the dance dnf are doing! There's a few different boleros, some are made to dance in theaters, while this one is for processions and parades
and sapnap he's based on my fave: Muixerangues!
These are towers of people also done in the same type of processions, at most they're 6 people high but there are different structures and shapes
Example: There's a short one in which babies are brought up for a few seconds to bring them closer to virgin mary and bless them with good health
#dteamworldwide collab#sapnap is my fave on how he looks and the one that was the quickest#life is unfair sometimes#anyway you should all search muixaranga it's so cool#eras.ask#my art
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lets put them in the freezer
#I JUST FUCKING NOTICED THERES A GREEN DOT OUTTA NOWHERE THAT APPEARS SOMETIMES IM GONNA KMS I FORGOT#TO ERASE IT.#LIFE IS SO UNFAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#bkdk#mha#bnha#bakudeku#bnha fanart#boku no hero academia#dkbk#mha fanart#dekubaku#izukatsu#bkdk fanart#bakudeku fanart#my hero academia#izkt#decchan#ktdk#katsudeku#izuku midoriya#katsuki bakugou#my autism academia...#poof art
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Inosuke & Genya: IM GONNA BEAT YOU
Tanjirou: I hope you do! Let’s do our best.
Inosuke & Genya: 😳… SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!
#ME: I CANT HANDLE THIS WHAT THE FUCK#ITS UNFAIR ITS UNFAIR ITS UNFAIR ITS UNFAIR#THEY ARE TANJIROU’S BOYFRIENDS#AAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH#gentan#inotan#kny#inogentan#I have inogentan brain rot FOR REALLLLLL OMFL#Genya and Inosuke aren’t the same but they kinda are sometimes and this is it
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lately, i've seen more people in the online autistic community acknowledging the struggles of people with higher support needs, which is of course an important development. but for some, that seems to come with the implicit assumption that low needs autistics "have it easy" or experience no stigma at all, which is just wrong??? people with low support needs are still disabled by their autism and still face discrimination because of it. sure, they are impaired to a lesser degree than those with higher support needs, but that doesn't mean you can just erase their struggles, y'know?
#sometimes i see posts that are like 'its unfair to say that autistic people have it easy and arent really disabled...' and go yes! exactly!#but then they'll continue like '...because not all autistic people have low support needs'#and i'm like. okay nevermind you dont understand this at all#i have comparatively mild autism (was diagnosed with aspergers back when that was still a thing)#and my autism has still significantly impacted and impaired my life#i think its important to acknowledge the huge range of experiences in the autistic community#and that many others have struggled much more than me#but that doesnt mean its all easy breezy for me and other lsn autistics yknow?#(i guess i would technically be considered medium support needs or something but that's because of my chronic illness not my autism)#i wish people would just. like. listen to other peoples experiences before just assuming that they know everything about their lives#ofc a huge part of this is also some lsn autistics distancing themselves from hsn people and pretending that they're not actually disabled#but not every lsn autistic is like that. and even the ones that are are usually (consciously or unconsciously) downplaying their symptoms#autism#actually autistic#actuallyautistic#this isn't really about the post i just reblogged btw it just reminded me of it#because some of the notes on it went in that direction
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I was curious—do you have a personal design for full demon Charlie? I know a lot of people (myself included) believe that the form we saw at the end of Season 1 isn’t her true full form, and I’ve seen a lot of fan artists and writers creating their own interpretations of full demon Charlie, often making her more goat-like. Since you're my favorite Chaggie artist, I wanted to ask if you have your own version of her or if you plan on creating one someday. No pressure btw! Love your work! 💕💕
Nope! I'm waiting for canon to show it. I dont want my expectations to affect my genuine reaction of it
#asks#sometimes people's receptions can be unfair just because canon doesn't match the headcanon they've been so attached to#i dont wanna do that
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Toda la fuerza del mundo ❤️🩹
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me trying to explain the berserk trio:
ok so you know that famous internet question: "the man or the bear?" well. casca would choose the bear cus she is a woman who has suffered her own share of experiences with men and understands the true gravity of such a question. guts would also choose the bear, cus according to him fighting a random man would be considered "too easy" and he needs "a real challenge". griffith would choose the bear cus he misunderstood the question and he is a feral bisexual twink with oddly specific needs. in this essay i will-
#day 1208463 without berserk. i have lost smell in my left ear and eyesight in my right. something wicked grows inside of me but i still#dont have a name for it. the bars of the enclosure sometimes move about and coil around my arms like snakes. i crave nutella.#SOMEBODY GET GRIFFITH A SERVICE TOP BEAR OR SO HELP ME GODD#why should the world be terrorised cause nobody stepped up to wreck his absolute shit?? its just so fucking unfair#also casca talking straight up fact as always💯💯#guts gets 2 bears to fight just cause he's been a good boy lately <33#berserk#griffith#guts#casca#casca berserk#griffith berserk#guts berserk#berserk shitpost#griffguts#gutsca#im just tagging whatever at this point sorry#anyways#somebody come shoot me ive had enough#my posts
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A highly feverish Yuma and Makoto 🌡️ (39.05 c)
This was an art trade I received from BBQchap0 on twitter ✨
Small Rambling below
original and copy, same body, same mind, same frail immune system (they often get sick at the same time)
The 2 worlds greatest minds are going to have to take some time off working today. They’ve unfortunately both been afflicted by a sudden spiking fever and can hardly move. As they lay in bed, fatigued, aching, and sweating through their clothes, they could only struggle to try to help themselves.
This is such an attractive piece. I think I’m in love...
I could go on about this but, I'm literally about to combust 😳💦
In shorter words:
This is the most lovely art trade I have ever gotten and one of the most gorgeous pieces of art I've ever gotten in my entire life.
I cannot praise it enough, this belongs in a legit art gallery... I'm so honored to have gotten something this pretty I could cry...
💕💦(┬┬﹏┬┬) 💦💕
HOW did they make these disheveled sick boys look so BEAUTIFUL??? I can legit FEEL their struggle, its too good I could die
What a vision…makoto's uninterested yet tired expression...yuma with the thermometer in his mouth as his clone weakly assists him...and those glorious skin flush tints of red and pink coupled with the beads of sweat and messy hair…
AND THOSE COLORS…
Yeah. I’m not normal 🫠
Its…perfection
#whumpcode#not mine#art made for me#rain code#rain code spoilers#yuma kokohead#makoto kagutsuchi#makoyuma#illness whump#fever whump#also no im not back i just wanted to share#I don’t often say this about an art piece#but this is DELICIOUS i want to devour this#now this is a 5 star meal right here#first time art makes me feel some kinda way o///o#its that powerful and I cannot AVERT MY GAZE FROM IT#I AM ATTRACTED TO THIS ARTWORK#NEVER IN MY LIFE HAVE I SEEN SUCH BEAUTY#TRULY A SPECTACLE OF THE AGES#I cannot get over it#i am very normal about this image#and the artist says they don’t mind trading w me again sometime#WITH QUALITY LIKE THIS SIGN ME TF UP#tho my art is scrap compared to this majesty#it almost feels unfair… 😅#i am not worthy of this kind of art help#this piece is incredible and should be seen by everyone
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ok, i’m sorry, i just. pause. yes eddie has been trying desperately to find a shannon replacement. but like. we know that it hasn’t been a revolving door of women, right. like. he has dated two people since shannon died, both of which have been pretty long-term relationships. he’s not like. leaving a trail of broken hearts in his wake… christopher’s life is not being shaken up by possible stepmother after possible stepmother. this issue is mostly happening in eddie’s head. he is struggling internally. we do know this. right?????
#i’m sorry i just sometimes… the way people talk about this specific thing is like.#yes he was unfair to ana#he may or may not be unfair to marisol#yes this way of thinking is unfair to chris#but. um????????#HE HAS DATED 2 WOMEN IN THE LIKE 5 YEARS SINCE SHES DIED
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Girl help I wish to travel to different dimensions just to watch a movie/show I really like a little to the left
#years of dreaming on it#OR WHEN A SHOW IS CANCELLED LIKE FUCK YOU#give me me ending even if i have to rip it out if the multiverse hands#but sometimes i just wanna see more of characters interacting together just give me uncut 50 hours version of them#rn it's#deadpool and wolverine#and i wanna know#final space#ending already#and a better#supernatural#ending. and my cancelled gems like#infinity train#inside job#the midnight gospel#lego monkie kid#BUT FRAME MY FRAME FLYING BARK I MISS YOU SO MUCH BBY PLEASE COME HOME wb did a good job but my obsessed ass want eye candy lego animation#our flag means death#I WOULD GIVE MY BLOOD FOR THAT SEASON 3 THEY WERE SO STUPID AND UNFAIR TO CHANCEL IT#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#BELOVED BELOVED BELOVED come backkk mm and you can coexist#oh and let's not forget. what the world would look like if the trollhunters movie didn't SUCK ASS horrible movie -7383/10 DELETE#i can go on all day i have been done wrong by many cancelled shows😭#neh what's up with everyone doing multiverse🙄 don't they know i was making these stuff up since ehh before spiderverse came out forsure🙄🙄#/j#but I really didnit was like my go to plot for falling asleep i hade self insert lore and universal police and empty space and cool shit
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twitter takes on toshiro makes me cry... bro was subjected to microaggressions for 5 HOURS and raised in a high-context culture (where you Do Not say negative things outright), and ppl are still like "no he's just a bad person bc he's mean to my boy laios"
#dungeon meshi#nakamoto toshiro#like. he's not 100% in the right but he's also not 100% in the wrong!#sometimes people just have mismatched communication styles and it's unfair to pin all the blame on one side#(i guess part of why i'm so frustrated is because i'm asian and while i use an english name so that my name isn't butchered#some members of my family do have the experience of westerners getting their name wrong and refusing to try better#or like 'why don't you have an English name to make things easier' etc etc)#(to be fair i don't mind my English name and have used it my entire life/it's on my official docs since i was a baby. but also.#part of it *is* because it's just. more convenient to use an english name when they'll inevitably ask for one anyway y'know?)
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If I took a shot every time I come across a post or a tweet or a reply talking about how Adrien has the right to know that his father was also the enemy, I’d be poisoned 1000x over.
YES.
He does have the right to know!
But this knowledge will also simultaneously crush him and destroy him completely with the circumstances he is in now! Marinette has been put in a hard place once again and has chosen to keep him in the dark BECAUSE she wants him to be happy! It is in her character to make decisions that would keep the people she loves happy whether it’ll blow up in her face in the future or not!
Nathalie knew Gabriel was Monarque. Felix knew Gabriel was Monarque. Kagami knew Gabriel was Monarque. AND NEITHER OF THESE THREE HAVE BEEN VERY OPEN ABOUT THE TRUTH EITHER.
Marinette’s priority has always been to keep her loved ones safe and sound and she has lied in the past about things (especially regarding her identity) to keep them happy. You think she’s gonna turn around to Adrien and be like “Oh by the way, your father is the one who terrorised the city and the entire world whilst abusing the butterfly miraculous lol”?????
So easily????
To summarise. The decision she made is not an easy one and it is unfair too BUT we can see WHY she did it.
#miraculous ladybug#miraculous ladybug and chat noir#ml spoilers#ml recreation spoilers#ml recreation#ml conformation spoilers#ml conformation#sometimes lads we make terrible and unfair decisions in order to protect the ones we love and that is life#also no shitting on marinette on my posts or else my fist is going up your ass
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