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The deeper you heal, the higher you raise the bar on who has access to you. And, it's not out of arrogance, it's about protecting the peaceful, calm, drama-free life you've worked so hard to elevate. This new chapter requires you to be less accessible to any type of toxicity.

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Dear Headache, Kill me, if u really want to, But please Don't Hammer my head so hard that it seems like its gonna break into million pieces, Please Dont screw up my eyes soo deep that I couldn't even see both light and darkness, Dont make sound and light my biggest enemies, Dont make nausea occupy my entire being and make every aroma, my poision gas. Please Don't !!!

Kill me at once If u really want to

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"Are you okay?" no, i miss my favorite person

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Remember if flowers can find a way through concrete, you too can find a path out of darkness.

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Dating someone who is patient and makes you feel safe so you can communicate your feelings, needs and insecurities and work through them together with love and understanding >>>

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Maturity is understanding you won't always get the answers or apologies for the shit that hurt your heart...but you heal anyway.

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Removing your presence from any place you don't feel loved, appreciated, or respected is top tier self-care.

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You deserve to be surrounded by the souls who bring out your soft side — not your survival side.

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I think when you’re evolving from being a people pleaser into someone with more boundaries it can feel so strange, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings for once, because you’re so used to only thinking about others first.

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your soulmate is someone who is committed to fixing things together, & doesn’t see breaking up as an option. they’re willing to have uncomfortable conversations, & are always dedicated to finding solutions that make you both feel loved, reassured, & respected in the relationship.

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You deserve a calm love with someone who sees you, hears you, understands you, appreciates you, supports you, and gives you unquestionable loyalty. Someone who loves you with all their heart, never takes you for granted, and treats you like magic even after they've experienced it

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Crazy how peaceful life becomes when you learn to pause before reacting because you know not everything needs a reaction and a lot of what you want to say doesn't need to be said.

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may you attract a loyal partner who is as loving, deep, passionate, sexual, soulful and spiritual as you. someone who is intimate, open, and vulnerable with you in every sense. someone who is so perfectly aligned and compatible with you – it’s like you both manifested each other.

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Heal so when someone who cares about you tells you about their problems with you, you don't become defensive because they're not afraid of difficult conversations and are willing to communicate and fix things together to save the relationship instead of giving up.

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Normalize being ok with letting people think what they want about you. The idea that we're going to be liked, validated, or accepted by everyone is an illusion. Our peace, mental health and happiness is more important than other people's perceptions, opinions, or approval of us.

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The older we get, the more we realize who our real friends are. It's not always about who has known us the longest, it's about who makes us feel seen, heard, understood, appreciated, supported, and loved.

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Normalize not forcing connections with people. If someone doesn't see the value in having you by their side, don’t try to convince them. Don't waste your energy trying to force something that isn't meant to be.