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GUYS IM SO SORRY I SUCK AT POSTING 🙏🙏🙏

IVE BEEN SO BUSY!!! I was supposed to post on SUNDAY but ive been traveling sm!!!! I just went to the BEYONCE CONCRT IN H TOWNNNNNNN ( it was soul changing)!

This week im on vacation again so I may or may not post but AFTER THIS WEEK IMA FEED YALL

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ladiesss more post are coming!!! I HAVE BEEN WORKING ON MY THEMEMEMEMEMME!!!! Im going on a trip tmmrww so A new post probs tmmrw night 💋

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How to Have a Love Life (from someone who actually has one)

Step 1. Set Your Standards

Because if you don’t, the universe will send you men who text “wanna hang?” at 11:52 p.m.

Know what you want, even if it’s irrational. Tall, plays piano, Catholic guilt, looks good in black. Whatever. You’re allowed.

No chemistry? No deal. A good résumé means nothing if you feel nothing. You're trying to find love, you should feel something. A spark, a shiver, or a silly smile when he texts.

He should be a bit obsessed. Not restraining order obsessed, but “sent you a poem at midnight” obsessed.

“Busy” is a myth. If he wants to, he will. If he doesn’t, he won’t. There’s no mystery.

Step 2. Prepare Yourself

Not in a “fix yourself” way. In a “become so hot and self-possessed he can’t think straight” way.

Update your social media. Post hot pics, read pretentious books, quote Sappho. Let them suffer.

Romanticise your routines. The skincare, the gym, the getting ready playlist, it’s part of the charm.

Don’t try to be chill. Be passionate, a little dramatic, slightly impossible to forget. (we hate nonchalant here.)

Have a life. Not to impress him. To survive him. Join a class, go dancing, make art. Text your friends more than you text him. You need something to come home to if it falls apart.

Step 3. How to Actually Meet Guys

Yes, unfortunately, you do have to leave the house (or at least open your DMs).

Be online strategically. The story with the books, the wine glass, the dangerous neckline? Essential.

Go places alone. Cafés, galleries, vintage bookstores. Hot people live in those.

Talk first. Say something weird. Say something dry. Say anything at all. Most guys are just relieved. He won't think you're weird, and if he does, that's useful data. You don't want someone who's scared of a girl with opinions and a personality.

Mutual friends? Ask. Being set up is underrated. Just make sure it’s not someone who still says “epic.”

Step 4. Surviving the Talking Stage

Also known as: limbo, hell, emotional roulette.

Keep texting fun. You’re not here to conduct an interview.

Match his energy, then go slightly colder. Mystery keeps the plot alive.

Don’t over-invest. He’s cute, not a life plan. Don't build an entire narrative off a playlist and three emojis.

Pull back if needed. You’re not being “too much.” You’re being someone who doesn’t beg.

Step 5. Dating 101

Congratulations. You’ve made it to the main event. Don’t panic now.

Look stunning, obviously. Even if you’re just getting coffee. Especially then.

Ask good questions. The goal is connection and psychological evaluation.

Stay unpredictable. Be kind, funny, engaging, but also allow for some silent moments. It shouldn't feel awkward.

Know when to walk away. If it’s not fun, not flirty, and not fulfilling, you can go.

Step 6. Debrief & Detox

Even CIA operatives get to talk to someone after a mission.

Tell your friends everything. Especially the ridiculous parts. Especially the unhinged texts. Your group chat is sacred.

Let them reality-check you. They love you. They see the red flags when you’re busy romanticising the beige.

Don’t skip the closure. Even if the ending was awkward or slow-fade. Name it, process it, laugh about it. Then leave it.

Step 7. If It Works Out

Not every story ends in disaster. Sometimes it actually gets good.

Stay a little delusional. You still get to romanticise it all. That’s half the fun.

Keep your identity. Don’t fold into each other like laundry. Stay weird. Keep your rituals. Be your own person with someone.

Let yourself be happy. Not suspicious. Not waiting for it to crash. Just happy. Let it feel real. You don't have to apologise for being loved. You don't have to brace for impact. allow yourself to enjoy.

Still debrief with your friends. Even in love. Especially in love. They were there before, and they’ll be there after—if it ever comes to that.

And if none of this works? Post a blurry photo in your favourite outfit, listen to Norman Fucking Rockwell, and disappear for 48 hours.

lots of love (literally) to all of you and if anyone has a question or request feel free to submit it here -> <3

also, my insta hehehe

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Heyyy girlsss... SHESSSSS BACKKKKKKKKKKKKK

FINALS WEEK IS OVER AND I AM OFFICIALLY ON SUMMER BREAKKKK ⸜(｡˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡

Sooo todays topic are just some Habits that I want to start to incorporate weekly! Im currently trying to update my Tumblr theme so bare with me so I can get my account all pretty!!!

Like I said, Im gonna start posting on Fridays and Sundays:) If there are any topics you guys want me to go over please do send a question!!

ANWAYYYSSSS LETS BEGIN₊˚⊹ ᰔ

DAY 10: Habitsᥫ᭡ᥫ᭡

1. Drink a Glass of Water In the Morning 💦

- Drinking water is so importantttt, I want to starting drinking some in the morning to help set the tone for the rest of the day!

2. Stop Skipping Meals 🍚

- I normally only each lunch , even if that, and I want to start eating more. You need 3 meals a day to have enough energy to function! A celcius and a cookie as a meal wont cut it!

3. Complementing Others 😘

- I love getting complements, so complementing others will no only help brighten others day but mine as well!

4. SLEEP!SLEEP!SLEEP! 💤

- I always end up staying awake till 1:30 am watching tiktok, playing roblox or facetiming friends. Although this stuff is fun, it can be done at a time when my body doesnt need sleep.

5.LASTLY, I want to smile more :) ☺️

- I always have a bored look on my face, smiling will help not only boost my happiness but make me look better, because who doesnt look good smiling!!!

ANYWAY, sorry for the short post! A longer One will be coming Sundayyy!!! Again bare with me, If my acc looks ugly for a good 5 days😅, im testing new stuff out trying to fix my theme.

xoxo, gabrielleᡣ𐭩˚

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SO FUCKING TRUE

one of the most powerful skills you can develop in this life is learning how to make up your own mind.

and yeah, it is a skill. it doesn't come naturally because as soon as we're born – women in particular – the set-in-stone ways of the world, of our parents and guardians, of our teachers, of our culture, get thrown onto us as absolute truths.

as we grow, we are constantly pressured to accept mob mentalities, to act accordingly to our peers, and, in general, to not stir the pot.

social media plays a big part in worsening this, by forcing everyone into the mindset of having an opinion on everything, to constantly defend our positions and ideologies to strangers, to engage in whatever is the trending conversation at any moment.

i am here to tell you that these are purely habits, and as every habit, it can be broken.

you deserve privacy. you deserve to be your own safe space, a place where you can reflect without pressure, where you can exercise self-criticism in peace, where you can decide what and who is best for you, without needing to make public statements about it, without feeling like you owe anyone an explanation. 🌿

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srry yall no post this week, I have finals in 2 weeks so ive been locked tf in 😭 I GOT YALL ON FRIDAY THOO

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FACTSSSS

✨ this mindset ✨

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REAL

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Day 9 : How to Let Go of Others Opinions⋆. 𐙚 ˚

Hey girlies welcome back to my bloggg!

Today were talking the Unbothered mindset! I feel like ive always been a pushover & im always wondering "What she thinking of me" or "How would she react".

So today is How to Give Not One. Singular. Dirty Down. Flat. Flying. Fuck. 😘

The video above helped inspire this and it was one of the videos I watched a while ago that helped me realize that ITS my life at the end of the day, and others opinions on me DO. NOT. MATTER.

so lets begin....

𐙚MINDSET:

Always remember: YOUR THE MOVIE, everyone is just extras. Just imagine, if someone is talking abt you or you find yourself wondering abt other ppl. They are just background noise in the film of your life.

Rejection = Redirection: If someone doesn't like you- Good. It creates space for people who enjoy your energy.

𐙚Daily Habits:

Morning Affirmations:

I recommend this video ! Find a few to listen to and say them every morning.

2. Romanticize your life:

Like I said, you are the main character in your life. Do what makes you happy! The main actor doesn't rely on their co-stars to do the film. Sure the film could be more detailed but the MC is the star of the show. Treat your life the same.

3. Curation of your Feed:

With everything happening with social media. Its hard to get lost in trends. People always wondering how to become more popular or fit in! Dont follow people who make you get FOMO. Its really just a tatic for people to gain money. Follow & support people who make you feel confident, heard, and understood.

𐙚BEHAVIOR: (How To Move)

Don't explain yourself. Your “no” is enough. Your vibe is enough. Being mysterious > being available.

Respond, don’t react. You hear the drama, see the shade… and you still sip your drink like nothing happened. That’s power.

Treat everyone the same. Whether it’s a popular kid or someone “below” you — being unbothered means you don’t care enough to play games. You’re kind, polite, unfazed.

Final tip: Think of your energy like a Chanel bag — expensive, rare, not everyone gets to touch it. Don’t cheapen your energy trying to prove your worth.

You’re that girl. Walk like it. Think like it. Be it. 💋

Anyway, I hope this helped you in anyway that it could!

written with love , xoxo,gabrielle ᡣ𐭩˚

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SHEEEEESSS BACKKKKKKK

WSGG YALL,

im sorry for like abandoning this blog 😅 Ive just been so busy an dtired lately. Ive been so like unproductive and stress out. Im done school in 3 weeks so ive reallly been LOCKING TF IN!!

But i am going to start posting again start tmmrw 🤩!!! ive decided that Im gonna post every Friday & Sunday 😘😘😘

This schedule should be better bc its on weeknds!!

SO ANYWAY YEAAA!!!

IF U GUYS HAVE ANY PROMTS/ THIGNS U WANT ME TO POST ABOUT

send your girl a question or comment😚

with the return of , xoxo,gabrielle ᡣ𐭩˚

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FINALS WEEK IS KILLING ME

like why do I have 3 tests on the same day 🤩

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Day 8: Affirmations 🗣

Heyyy yall, Im back from spring break!!! I went to Arizona for a fews days but now im back and betterrr 😝. Im gonna try to start posting more consistently now :)

Todays Topic is Affrimationssssss

So These will Be the Affirmations I will say Every Morning☀️ and Night 🌙. I feel like I always bring negative thoughts into my life hence bringing negative actions!

ᥫ᭡ Good things are coming to cherish me.

ᥫ᭡ I continue to attract opportunities to benefit my life.

ᥫ᭡ Im glowing Inside and Out

ᥫ᭡ My Mind ,Body, & Soul are perfect and don't rely on others approval.

ᥫ᭡ I am Worthy of anything and everything I want.

ᥫ᭡ My energy is irresistible to many.

ᥫ᭡ There is no one I would rather be in love with but myself.

ᥫ᭡ I am surrounded and will always surround myself with things and people who bring me joy.

ᥫ᭡ My body, Energy, and Mind is desired.

ᥫ᭡ My happiness is mine, Nothing else will affect my life but me.

So im only going to do 10 rn to not get overwhelmed but yea 😜 If anyone has any manifestion tips pls do share:)

Anyway, my school is becoming less hectic so Im gonna start trying to post here & on Pinterest at least 2x a week !!!!

with love, xoxo,gabrielle ᡣ𐭩˚

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yall im alive, im on spring break rn so no new post until sunday 🥥 ☀️

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